Welcome to Commonwealth Senior Living at Front Royal, a premier senior living community nestled in the northern Shenandoah Valley. We're a well-established and leading choice for all levels of senior living, including independent and assisted living. We offer a variety of apartment styles, care options and services for our residents. Conveniently located close to Front Royal's historic and charming downtown, our community is near healthcare facilities, shopping, dining and the legendary Skyline Drive. We are proud to offer comprehensive services for residents in a caring and home-like atmosphere that ensures they maintain a quality lifestyle.

Comfort, Nature, and Connection at Commonwealth Senior Living at Front Royal

Our community boasts a variety of amenities to ensure our residents are comfortable, happy and healthy. With sweeping views of the mountains, our residents love the landscaped walks, sunroom and gazebo. Our full-time activities director coordinates daily activities, trips and social programs. Active residents take full advantage of our Health & Fitness Center. For those who prefer to relax, one of our sunrooms is the perfect spot to unwind. Residents also enjoy private or companion suites with a private bath and their pets are welcome too! We believe in personal and dignified care which is why team members are on-site 24 hours a day and we develop an individualized care plan for each resident. We understand that everyone has unique needs and we tailor services to our residents, such as medication management and assistance with activities of daily living such as bathing, dressing and grooming.

The attentive and experienced team provides compassionate care to residents who have all the comforts of home and maintenance-free living surrounded by friends and neighbors! Our residents quickly become like family. With a variety of living options, youll be sure to feel right at home. Explore Commonwealth Senior Living at Front Royal further and schedule

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Carolyn is one of our Sweet Memories residents who is an enormous amount of fun, but she can easily get stressed out, which causes meltdowns. We in activities have learned the Serenity room is a great resource in helping Carolyn relax.

One day, Carolyn was crying and shouting, very upset.  I offered to take Carolyn to the Serenity room. She very willingly agreed and asked me not to leave her, she continued to cry. That's when I got an idea, it's something I'll often do with my kids at home just for fun.

I asked Carolyn if she liked thunderstorms. She replied, "yes". So, I went to my 'calm' app on my phone which offers a variety of relaxing, nature sounds. I played the thunderstorm sounds and asked if she wanted to hear a story.  One of my favorite books is "Thundercake" by Patricia Polacco. I found an audio version with pictures on you tube and played her the story.

So, with thunder and rain in the background, and the sweet story about Thundercake, Carolyn quickly focused in on the sounds and the story, and stopped crying. She began laughing at 'ole peck hen' and the 'ole kick cow'. She laid her head on my shoulder and was completely relaxed and back to her normal laughing, smiling self. It was a great success, and a very sweet moment that I'll treasure.

The Serenity room is our go to for Carolyn when she is having a bad day, it has never failed in calming her down.

We are blessed to have these serenity rooms in most of our communities. They are a quiet space with a sound machine, dim lighting, tactile elements, essential oil diffuser and a screen with nature scenes to help residents recenter with the help of a caregiver or on their own. If you're caring for a loved one with dementia or Alzheimer's disease and would like tips for creating a similar space at home, email us at AsktheExperts@commonwealthsl.com.

As part of our award-winning Sweet Memories program, our caregivers undergo in-depth training about programs and techniques which help to reestablish relationships between residents and their loved ones. One of those techniques are life kits. These kits contain meaningful items from each residents' past and help to trigger positive emotions and are put together during the move-in process.

The son of a resident became discouraged because his father had forgotten who he was. With each visit, his father became more and more distant. The son and I explored his father's life kit and found index cards with drink recipes, shot glasses, and pictures of him working his way through college as a bartender. Using these memories as a foundation, we created an activity bag for the son that included bottles filled with non-alcoholic mixtures. Each time the son visited his father would mix and serve him drinks.

After a few months of visits, the son came back to my office beaming and smiling. He said that the disease allowed him to get to know his dad in a different light. They had become friends because the son could embrace where his father was in the disease process. He entered his world instead of expecting the father to enter his world.

As caregivers, we must all approach Alzheimer's and dementia as a mystery. The clues change quickly as we try to solve where our loved ones are today but having a complete perspective of all the aspects of our residents' lives help build new bridges for communication.

My life kit included examples of my happy place. A picture of a child to represent my granddaughter, the sunglasses to remind me of our first trip to the zoo. I included sea shells because my favorite part of the beach is shelling. I put a couple of CDs of my favorite musical artist and included the lyrics to help the caregiver sing-a-long. I added poker chips for my midnight runs to the casino and the snow globe that reminded me of my wedding day. What would go in yours?

Nestled in the charming area of Chesterfield, Commonwealth Senior Living at Chesterfield provides a peaceful and inviting atmosphere for our residents. Our community is designed to offer the perfect balance of local convenience with personalized support and meaningful engagement.

Life here is lived with intention. Whether you are looking for engaging social opportunities or a quiet place to relax, our community focuses on what matters most to you. From the very first visit, you will notice a dedicated team committed to fostering a true sense of belonging, respect, and connection.

A Neighborhood Full of Opportunity

Our location in Chesterfield keeps residents connected to the local culture and natural beauty of the area. We are surrounded by spots that make it easy to enjoy a morning outing or an afternoon in the fresh air with loved ones.

Pocahontas State Park

Just a short drive away, this expansive park offers beautiful scenery and accessible paths. It is an ideal destination for a picnic or a gentle stroll among the trees and lakes.

Chesterfield Towne Center

Chesterfield Towne Center provides a variety of shopping and dining options. It is a popular destination for our residents to enjoy a meal out, browse the latest styles, or simply spend time in a lively community setting.

Rockwood Park

As one of the oldest parks in the county, Rockwood provides a gorgeous setting for outdoor relaxation. Its well-kept trails and garden areas are perfect for residents who enjoy staying active in nature.

Historical and Cultural Sites

Chesterfield is rich with history. Residents and their families often explore the local museums and historic landmarks that provide a deep connection to the heritage of the Richmond region.

Excellence in Every Detail

Our commitment to high standards is reflected in our personalized approach to care and the vibrant lifestyle we offer. These honors serve as a reminder of our promise to provide a meaningful and supportive environment for every resident we serve.

We're honored to have been recognized by U.S. News for Best Memory Care and by Virginia Living Magazine as a Top Retirement Community in 2022.

Engaging Signature Programs

• Silver University - Silver University is a lifelong learning program designed to celebrate curiosity and engage our residents in meaningful educational experiences. Led by expert instructors and guest speakers, residents explore topics from art and music to history, culture, and science through interactive classes, discussions, and outings. This Signature Program sparks imagination, strengthens cognitive engagement, encourages social connection, inspires creativity, and supports overall well-being. Residents have the opportunity to ask questions, share their knowledge, and explore new ideas in a dynamic and engaging environment. 
• Travel the World - This unique resident program takes our CSL residents on new and exciting adventures discovering our world. Each year hosts a new theme such as Road Trip USA or Dream Vacation Destinations. During the year, each month takes us to a different locale to experience the sights, sounds, tastes and culture of our destination. 
• Family Night - At Commonwealth Senior Living, we know family is everything. Family Night is an opportunity for families, residents, and associates to spend time together and get to know one another in a relaxed setting. It's a time for the caregiving team to build relationships with you and your loved one as a part of our family.
• Program of Fine Arts - Nearly everyone, at some point in their lives, has participated in the fine arts. They may be a musician or a lover of music, a dancer or a ballet enthusiast. Maybe they come alive as a writer or as an avid reader of classic literature. Through the Program of Fine Arts, we engage or re-engage those who have a long history of creative pursuits, by offering a fine arts program that includes; creative writing, art, dance, theatre, music and literature.

Through our TSOLife calendar, residents have access to a wide range of programs tailored to their interests. From group excursions to creative classes on-site, there is always a way to stay social and active.

Personalized Care That Evolves With You

We recognize that every person has a different story. Our team works hand-in-hand with families to ensure that support is always aligned with a resident's current lifestyle.

Individualized Support Plans

Our Resident Care Director coordinates directly with families to develop plans that provide exactly the right amount of assistance while promoting autonomy.

Sweet Memories™ Memory Care

Our award winning Memory Care program, Sweet Memories, supports individuals living with Alzheimer’s and other forms of dementia. Through structured routines, purposeful engagement, and familiar daily experiences, residents are supported with dignity and compassion.

Programs such as our Expressions Signature Program and thoughtfully designed Life Stations help encourage connection, creativity, and engagement.

Transparent Financial Options

Choosing senior living is an important decision, and financial planning plays a key role in that process. Our team is here to provide clear information and helpful resources so families can make informed choices with confidence.

We work closely with families to review options, compare costs, and identify solutions that make the transition to senior living as smooth as possible.

Our Promise to Veterans

We hold deep gratitude for those who have served. To show our appreciation, we arrange and cover moving expenses up to $2,000 for Veterans. Our goal is to reduce the stress of moving and ensure our heroes feel welcomed from day one.

Financial Partnerships

We partner with ElderLife Financial Services to offer flexible options for families. With quick decisions and funding, these services can help bridge financial gaps or cover initial move-in costs, providing peace of mind during the transition.

Families interested in understanding how senior living compares to current expenses may also use our Cost Calculator, which offers a helpful and straightforward comparison tool.

Discover Life at Commonwealth Senior Living at Chesterfield

If you are exploring senior living options for yourself or a loved one, we invite you to experience our community firsthand.

A visit offers the opportunity to meet our dedicated team, explore our spaces, and see the daily life that makes our community so special. From engaging Signature Programs to personalized care, everything we do is designed to support residents in living full and meaningful lives.

Schedule a visit today and see what makes Commonwealth Senior Living at Chesterfield a place so many are proud to call home.

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Commonwealth Senior Living at Gloucester House is surrounded by a natural wooded area with peaceful views, but is close to Riverside Walter Reed Hospital and a large number of medical offices. Riverside Wellness Center is also nearby, offering pool access and wellness activities for residents who want to join the center. The neighborhood also boasts small specialty shops, family-run restaurants and larger retail stores.

Listen as our residents and family members explain why they chose Commonwealth Senior Living at Gloucester to care for their loved ones and what makes it feel like home. We're proud to be recognized by U.S. News and World Report as Best Memory Care in Gloucester, Virginia for 2023.

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Choosing a senior living community is one of the most meaningful decisions a family can make. It is about more than care and convenience. It is about finding a place where each day is purposeful, friendships flourish, and residents feel truly at home. At Commonwealth Senior Living at Hampton, we create a lifestyle that is engaging, inspiring, and deeply meaningful.

Our commitment is simple. We provide compassionate, person-centered care in a supportive environment where every resident feels valued, supported, and empowered.

A Community Surrounded by Natural Beauty and History

Hampton, Virginia, is a welcoming coastal city known for its rich history, scenic shoreline, and strong sense of community. With deep roots in American history and a relaxed coastal atmosphere, Hampton offers a unique blend of heritage and natural beauty.

Commonwealth Senior Living at Hampton is perfectly positioned near some of the area’s most cherished destinations, including Buckroe Beach and the Grandview Nature Preserve. These nearby landmarks offer peaceful views, fresh coastal air, and opportunities to stay connected with nature. From gentle waterfront strolls to enjoying the changing seasons, Hampton provides a calming and inspiring backdrop for senior living.

Living at Commonwealth Senior Living at Hampton means residents enjoy the charm of coastal Virginia along with access to the cultural, recreational, and natural experiences that make Hampton such a special place to call home.

An Engaging Lifestyle Inside and Beyond Our Community 

Senior living should expand horizons and create opportunities for connection, exploration, and joy. At Commonwealth Senior Living at Hampton, residents enjoy a lifestyle shaped by freedom of choice, meaningful connection, and daily opportunities for engagement. Outings to nearby beaches, nature preserves, and community attractions allow residents to stay connected to the beautiful Hampton area. These experiences encourage exploration, social connection, and enjoyment of the coastal lifestyle.

Within our community, daily life is vibrant and engaging. Our residents take part in enriching Signature Programs, social gatherings, creative outings, and wellness-focused programs that support both physical and emotional well-being. Each program is thoughtfully designed to foster connection, purpose, and enjoyment.

Dining is another highlight of the day. Through our Dining Signature Programs, residents explore new flavors, enjoy chef-prepared meals, and celebrate seasonal favorites. 

We are also proud to be a pet friendly community, recognizing the comfort, companionship, and happiness pets bring to everyday life. Welcoming pets helps create the warm, home-like environment that defines life at Commonwealth Senior Living. 

Personalized Care and Support at Commonwealth Senior Living at Hampton

We recognize that every resident’s journey is unique. Our experienced team works closely with residents and families to create customized care plans that support independence while providing the right level of assistance. Key features of our approach include: 

Customized Care Plans

Our Resident Care Directors work one-on-one with residents and their families to conduct a comprehensive care assessment, which helps us design a personalized plan that provides the right level of support

Sweet Memories™ Neighborhood

Our award-winning Memory Care program offers engaging activities such as Life Stations, Expressions Signature Program, and more to help residents with memory loss maintain their independence and connection.

Engaging Activities

From group outings to social events, our calendar is filled with opportunities for residents to stay active and involved.

The Benefits of Gender-Specific Memory Care

At Commonwealth Senior Living at Hampton, our Sweet Memories™ Memory Care program recognizes that each resident is unique. One approach we offer is gender-specific Memory Care, which provides specialized environments tailored to the social, emotional, and physical needs of men and women.

These thoughtfully designed neighborhoods help reduce anxiety, increase engagement, and enhance comfort. Residents enjoy a calmer, more comfortable pace, with programs carefully tailored to their individual preferences and abilities.

Key benefits of gender-specific Memory Care include:

• Reduced Anxiety and Enhanced Well-Being: By creating gender-focused environments, we minimize the stress of co-ed social dynamics. The result is a peaceful, reassuring atmosphere that promotes emotional comfort, reduces behavioral challenges, and allows residents to thrive.
• Enhanced Privacy and Dignity: Gender-specific units provide residents with greater privacy and allow our caregivers to deliver personal support with sensitivity and respect. Residents feel comfortable and secure during personal care, maintaining dignity every step of the way.
• Shared Understanding and Connection: Residents thrive in communities with peers who share similar life experiences and behavioral patterns. This sense of shared understanding fosters strong social bonds, reduces feelings of isolation, and enhances overall well-being.

By offering gender-specific memory care, Commonwealth Senior Living at Hampton ensures residents receive personalized, compassionate support in an environment that feels familiar, safe, and engaging, helping them thrive each day.

Affordability and Financial Options

We know that financial considerations play an important role in choosing senior living. Our team is committed to supporting families with clear information and thoughtful guidance so they feel confident and informed throughout the decision-making process.

Commonwealth Senior Living at Hampton can help families explore cost comparisons, available resources, and planning tools that make the transition to senior living more manageable. Our goal is to ensure financial questions never stand in the way of receiving quality care.

Veterans Benefits

We understand that transitioning to senior living can feel overwhelming. The act of moving is often physically demanding and emotionally stressful for Veterans and their loved ones. As part of our Promise to Veterans, we arrange and cover moving expenses up to $2,000.

This is more than a financial incentive. It is a tangible way we stand beside those who once stood for us. By coordinating and easing the moving process, we help reduce stress and ensure Veterans feel supported, respected, and deeply honored from the very beginning of their new chapter.

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Financial Partnerships

Our partners at ElderLife Financial Services provide fast financing solutions for those transitioning to senior living. With same-day decisions and funding within 48 hours, ElderLife helps individuals cover move-in fees, supplement monthly expenses, or bridge financial gaps.

A Place to Thrive

Life at Commonwealth Senior Living at Hampton is about ease, connection, and confidence. Residents enjoy the freedom of maintenance-free living, the reassurance of on-site support, and the comfort of a community designed to feel welcoming and familiar.

Here, each day offers opportunities to connect, relax, and enjoy life at a pace that feels just right, all within a coastal community that truly feels like home.

Schedule a visit today and experience the warmth, care, and engaging lifestyle that define life at Commonwealth Senior Living at Hampton.

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Nestled in a quiet residential neighborhood of Virginia Beach, Commonwealth Senior Living at Kings Grant House offers a warm, home-like atmosphere with modern upgrades and decor. Conveniently located near Sentara Virginia Beach General Hospital, King's Grant Shopping Center, and a variety of restaurants, our residents enjoy easy access to healthcare, shopping, and dining. 

A Community That Feels Like Home

Life at Commonwealth Senior Living at King's Grant House is designed for comfort, engagement, and well-being. Our residents enjoy:

• A thriving outdoor garden where they can relax or participate in gardening activities. 
• Chef-prepared meals in inviting dining areas, featuring fresh herbs and vegetables from our Babylon Microfarm, bringing farm-to-table dining right to the community. 
• A variety of social and recreational activities coordinated by a full-time Resident Programs Director. 
• Personalized care and support from our 24-hour team, ensuring every resident's unique needs are met. 

Care Tailored to You at Commonwealth Senior Living at King's Grant House

At Commonwealth Senior Living at King's Grant House, our team crafts personalized care plans based on each resident’s needs, preferences, and routines. From daily assistance to specialized memory care, we offer round-the-clock support with dignity and compassion.

Experience the Difference

Whether your family is looking for Assisted Living or Memory Care, our community offers a balance of comfort, engagement, and modern amenities that make it special place to call home. Schedule your visit today and see firsthand why families trust Commonwealth Senior Living at King's Grant House for compassionate care and a vibrant community lifestyle. 

Tucked just beyond the lively Short Pump area, Commonwealth Senior Living at the West End offers a welcoming sense of calm in the heart of suburban Richmond. Our community blends the convenience of a vibrant location with the tranquility of a peaceful retreat, creating an environment where residents feel supported, engaged, and truly at home.

Here, life moves at a comfortable pace. Support is always close by, independence is encouraged, and each day is shaped around what matters most to our residents. From the moment you step inside, you’ll feel the difference of a close‑knit community built on care, connection, and respect.

A Neighborhood You’ll Love Coming Home To

Our community places residents close to everything that makes Richmond special. Local parks, shops, and coffee spots are just minutes away, offering easy opportunities to enjoy the outdoors or connect with the surrounding community.

Whether residents prefer quiet mornings, familiar routines, or occasional outings, our location provides the flexibility to enjoy life on their own terms, with all the comforts of home nearby.

Deep Run Park and Recreation Center

Located right next to the community, Deep Run Park offers paved walking trails, beautiful green space, ponds, and serene areas for relaxing outdoors or enjoying fresh air with family and friends.

Short Pump Town Center

Just minutes away, this popular open‑air shopping destination features a wide variety of shops, restaurants, cafés, and entertainment. It’s a favorite spot for lunch outings, shopping trips, and seasonal events.

Henrico County Parks

In addition to Deep Run Park, residents are close to other scenic parks like Twin Hickory Park, Tuckahoe Creek Park, and Echo Lake Park. These parks offer peaceful walking paths and relaxing surroundings.

Cultural and City Attractions

With Richmond nearby, residents and families can easily explore museums, gardens, historic sites, and seasonal festivals that add variety and enrichment to daily life.

Recognized for Excellence in Senior Living

We’re proud to be recognized for the quality of care and support we provide. Commonwealth Senior Living at the West End has been named a Top Retirement Community by Virginia Living Magazine and was honored by U.S. News & World Report as Best Memory Care in Richmond. These distinctions reflect our commitment to thoughtful care, engaging experiences, and a strong sense of community.

A Lifestyle That Supports Connection and Choice

Life at our community is designed to promote both ease and engagement. Residents enjoy welcoming common spaces, opportunities for social connection, and thoughtfully planned activities that encourage participation and enjoyment.

Each day offers moments to connect, relax, and experience joy, whether through shared conversations, structured programs, or time spent with family.

Personalized Care That Adapts With You

Every resident’s journey is unique, and our approach to care reflects that. Our experienced team works closely with residents and families to create personalized care plans that evolve as needs change.

Key elements of our care approach include:

Individualized Care Plans

Our Resident Care Directors work directly with families to assess needs and develop customized plans that balance independence with attentive support.

Sweet Memories™ Memory Care

Our award‑winning Memory Care program provides a structured and supported environment for residents living with Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia. Through purposeful engagement, such as our Life Stations and Expressions Signature Programs, and consistent routines, residents are supported with dignity and compassion.

A Calendar Full of Connection and Fun

Our TSOLife calendar offers a variety of ways for residents to stay active, social, and engaged, from group outings to on‑site events.

Affordability and Financial Options

We understand that financial considerations are an important part of choosing the right senior living community. Our team is dedicated to providing clear information, thoughtful guidance, and supportive resources to help families feel confident throughout the decision‑making process.

At Commonwealth Senior Living at the West End, we work closely with families to explore cost comparisons, available resources, and planning tools designed to make the transition to senior living more manageable. Our goal is to ensure that financial concerns never become a barrier to receiving high‑quality care.

Support for Veterans

We recognize that the move to senior living is a significant life transition for Veterans and their loved ones. Through Our Promise to Veterans, we proudly arrange and cover moving expenses up to $2,000 to help ease the process and provide peace of mind.

This commitment extends beyond financial support. It reflects our deep respect and gratitude for those who have served. By helping coordinate the move and reducing uncertainty, we aim to ensure Veterans feel supported, valued, and welcomed as they begin this next chapter.

Financial Partnerships

Through our partnership with ElderLife Financial Services, families have access to convenient and flexible financing options. With same‑day decisions and funding available within 48 hours, ElderLife can help cover move‑in costs, supplement monthly expenses, or bridge temporary financial gaps with added confidence.

Interested in seeing how senior living compares to your current expenses? Try our Cost Calculator for a clear and helpful overview.

Experience Life at Commonwealth Senior Living at the West End

If you or someone you love is exploring senior living options, we invite you to experience a Day in the Life at our welcoming community. This immersive visit offers a firsthand look at our vibrant lifestyle, thoughtful amenities, and the exceptional care provided by our dedicated team. During your visit, you’ll have the opportunity to tour our beautifully updated spaces, connect with our friendly associates, and see the activities that bring residents together each day. Discover why so many families choose Commonwealth Senior Living at the West End for compassionate care and a community that truly feels like home.

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Welcome to Commonwealth Senior Living at Radford, a premier senior living community situated just across the New River from Radford Univeristy in a lively commerical area. With close proximity to Carilion New River Valley Community Hospital and numerous specialty medical offices, our residents benefit from easy access to excellent healthcare services. Meanwhile, the nearby shopping amenities and diverse dining options add to the convenience of everyday living, ensuring everything you or your loved one needs is just a quick car ride away. 

Personalized Living Options at Commonwealth Senior Living at Radford

We offer a variety of living arrangements designed to meet the unique needs of our residents: 

• Independent Living Apartments: Enjoy an additional level of independence with our thoughtfully designed apartments, perfect for those seeking a blend of freedom and comfort. 
• Assisted Living Suites: For residents who need some extra support, our Assisted Living suits provide personalized care in a warm and inviting setting. 
• Secured Sweet Memories™ Neighborhood: Our specialized Memory Care area is dedicated to those experiencing memory loss, Alzheimer's Disease, or dementia, ensuring a safe and secure enviornment with the right level of assistance. 

A Safe, Secure, and Family-Like Atmosphere

Our single-story community is designed with safety, ease, and comfort in mind. At Commonwealth Senior Living at Radford, residents quickly become part of our family, enjoying a secure and welcoming environment where care and community come together seamlessly. Every aspect of our community is dedicated to ensuring that our residents feel right at home.

Experience the Commonwealth Difference 

If you or a loved one are considering senior living options in Radford, discover how our comprehensive services, personalized care, and engaging community can enhance your quality of life. At Commonwealth Senior Living at Radford, we invite you to experience a community that truly feels like home.
 

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Commonwealth Senior Living at South Boston is a welcoming, warm community that feels like home to our residents. Our team of specially trained caregivers is on site and ready to provide support and assistance at any time of day or night, providing peace of mind for our residents and their families. From helping our residents with activities of daily living like getting dressed or taking a shower, we're here to make life easier and more enjoyable! 

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Ellen, one of our residents, said "They've all been great to me. If I need help, they're there. I am thankful to be here, this is where I wanted to come." Learn what more of our families are saying about our community here. 

During the day, we enjoy a variety of activities like Sip and Paint Parties, spa days, Bible study, and Family Night. Each month, we also visit a new location with our Travel the World signature program to experience the sights, sounds, tastes, and culture of the destination. And when the sun is out, you can find our Garden Club working on their green thumbs in our courtyard.  

Our community is also conveniently located near Windmill Farm Bake Shop when we're in the mood for a tasty treat like donuts and Reece's Farm Fresh Produce where we're able to enjoy their fresh fruits and vegetables, especially strawberries, and of course, their ice cream! Take a look at what else we have planned this month here. 

In addition to these local activities, Halifax Heart Center, Pulmonary Associates of Southside Virginia, Sentara Halifax Regional Hospital, Novant Medical Group, Forefront Dermatology, and Halifax Urology Associates are also nearby if our residents need any assistance outside of our community. We're proud to have been recognized by U.S. News and World Report for Best Memory Care for 2023.

We invite you to come visit our team and spend a day at our community to experience the lifestyle each of our residents enjoy. 

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At Commonwealth Senior Living at the Ballentine, we're proud to continue a rich tradition of serving seniors that dates back to 1896. Nestled in the heart of Norfolk, Virginia, our community is ideally situated near top healthcare facilities such as Sentara Urgent Care and Sentara Norfolk General Hospital, ensuring peace of mind for families. Additionally, our residents enjoy easy access to shopping at the MacArthur Center, a variety of dining options, and attractions like the Norfolk Botanical Garden and Nauticus, providing both convenience and entertainment just a short distance away. Whether your family is interested in Assisted Living or Memory Care, our community combines a rich history with modern comforts and thoughtful amenities, creating a warm and welcoming place to call home. 

Engaging Activities and a Strong Sense of Community

At the Ballentine, we believe life should be filled with meaningful moments and joyful connections. Our dedicated Resident Programs team creates a full calendar of engaging activities, events, and outings designed to bring residents together. From group fitness classes and music programs to social gatherings and themed events, there's always something happening to keep residents active, engaged, and connected. Residents often form lasting friendships and look forward to each new day with excitement. Family members are also encouraged to join in on special events, further strengthening the bonds within our community.

A Beautiful Outdoor Courtyard for Relaxation and Connection

One of our community's most beloved features is the expansive, beautifully landscaped courtyard. This serene outdoor space provides plenty of room for strolls, quiet relaxation, and family visits. Residents also take pride in maintaining a vibrant garden, nurturing flowers and vegetables alongside our team. 

Amenities Designed for Comfort and Convenience at Commonwealth Senior Living at the Ballentine

We've designed our community with thoughtful amenities that enhance daily life, including, 

• In-House Hair Salon: Look and feel your best with convenient on-site salon services. 
• Rehab and Wellness Center: Access therapy services to maintain strength, mobility, and independence. 
• Library: Enjoy a quiet space to read, relax, or participate in book clubs and discussions.  

Personalized Care in a Welcoming Environment

Our team members are on-site 24 hours a day to provide personalized assistance, medication management, and weekly housekeeping and linen services. 

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Are you ready to experience Commonwealth Senior Living at the Ballentine? Schedule a visit today to see firsthand how our supportive environment, award-winning Resident Programs, and welcoming atmosphere can be the perfect fit for you or your loved one's needs. 

Welcome to Commonwealth Senior Living at Williamsburg, an all-inclusive senior living community managed by Commonwealth Senior Living. Our community is perfect for adults ages 55+ who want to enjoy the freedom of living in a private apartment, coupled with the convenience of having professional housekeepers for cleaning and general upkeep and a maintenance staff available for requests. With a great location in Williamsburg, we offer a carefree lifestyle without additional financial pressure. There are flexible lease terms with no large deposits and no buy-in fees, making life at Commonwealth Senior Living at Williamsburg fun and affordable.

Flexible Living at Commonwealth Senior Living at Williamsburg

Whether you're downsizing or simply ready for a maintenance-free lifestyle, Commonwealth Senior Living at Williamsburg provides the flexibility and freedom you deserve. Our month-to-month lease structure allows residents to live without long-term commitments or upfront fees, giving families peace of mind and residents the freedom to focus on enjoying life.

Our 24-hour, on-site concierge, long-tenured staff, and award-winning chef set us apart from other senior living communities. Offering Independent Living apartments, assisted living apartments, and an award-winning memory care neighborhood, residents can truly age in place. With a full-time Resident Programs Director and amenities including a library, game room with pool table, hair salon, dining room, fitness center, housekeeping, linen services, scheduled transportation services, and more, we cater to our residents because you've earned it!

Amenities & Recognition at Commonwealth Senior Living at Williamsburg

Our residents enjoy access to thoughtfully designed amenities and enriching programming every day. From engaging group activities and wellness classes to chef-prepared meals using fresh, local ingredients, our team is committed to delivering an exceptional experience. It’s no surprise that Commonwealth Senior Living at Williamsburg was named Best Independent Living and Best Memory Care by U.S. News & World Report in 2023.

With a variety of floor plans, you'll be sure to find a home that reflects your personal preferences and tastes. We encourage you to explore our community further and join us for a rewarding and carefree retirement. We're happy to have been recognized by U.S. News and World Report as Best Independent Living and Best Memory Care in Williamsburg, Virginia for 2023!

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We are proud to be a part of the historical community of Danville, Virginia, and continue the long heritage of improving the lives of seniors and their families at this gorgeous location. Along with many families in the area who have lived there for generations, all our community leaders are local to Danville.

Comfort, Convenience, and Personalized Senior Living

Today, residents at Commonwealth Senior Living at Stratford House enjoy the privacy and dignity of their own space with the peace of mind of knowing all maintenance and chores like housekeeping, cooking, upkeep, and linens will be taken care of by our team. Our residents also engage with our signature programs such as MyndVR and farm-to-table dining. The Ruby B. Archie Public Library is right around the corner and their team joins us regularly for our CW Book Club. Another one of our residents' favorite locations to visit is the Danville Symphony Orchestra. Our community loves to sing, dance, get pampered in our salon, visit the Danville Museum of Fine Arts and History, and of course, get lots of love during visits from Hearts of Gold Therapy Dogs of Virginia.  

In addition to these local cultural activities, the community is conveniently located in the center of Sovah Health - Danville, Danville Neurology Associates, Stratford Rehabilitation Center, and Mt. Vernon United Methodist Church. Any assistance our residents need outside of our community is right around the corner. 

Why Families Trust Commonwealth Senior Living at Stratford House

One of our family members said, "Stratford House is a special place...We were out for dinner and when we returned, the staff kept engaging with my aunt to see how her dinner went and almost everyone I met knew I was coming to town. I feel so good to know my aunt is in the very capable hands of truly loving and invested caregivers." Improving the lives of seniors and their families is central to everything we do at Commonwealth Senior Living at Stratford House. Understanding who our residents are and their history allows us to provide person-centered care in ways that are both positive and meaningful to the residents, their families, and our team. We are grateful to be able to do so at this beautiful community. We're proud to be recognized by U.S. News and World Report as the Best Memory Care in Danville, Virginia for 2023.  

We invite you to come explore our community and experience the lifestyle our residents enjoy. Reach out to our team to schedule your tour today. 

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Commonwealth Senior Living is proud to serve our residents and their families in Abingdon, Virginia. Our community offers both Assisted Living with three different floorplan options, and Memory Care, with two different floorplan options. Offering both levels of care allows our residents to age in place. This means that while an individual's care needs may change, their home, hobbies, and interests don't have to.

Personalized Care at Commonwealth Senior Living at Abingdon

At Commonwealth Senior Living at Abingdon, every resident benefits from a customized care plan designed around their individual needs and routines. Our team works closely with residents and families to ensure that services like medication management, mobility assistance, and personal care are delivered with compassion and dignity. This personalized approach allows us to build genuine connections that support each resident’s independence and happiness.

Our residents enjoy the peace of mind and comfort of dignified, respectful help with daily activities and a host of services and amenities such as meals and snacks served in our dining room, housekeeping, linen services, transportation, and more. They also engage with our Programming Team daily through our award-winning signature programs such as farm-to-table dining and our Special Touch program. Check out our Assisted Living activity calendar here. 

Within a few miles' radius, our residents are able to enjoy a variety of local restaurants and ice cream shops, the Heritage Apple Orchard, the Southwest Virginia Cultural Center & Marketplace, the William King Museum, the Barter Theatre, and the Abingdon Farmers Market. In addition to these local cultural activities, the community is conveniently located near HMG Primary Care at Abingdon, Abingdon Family Health Care, Gastroenterology Associates, and Abingdon Physician Partners. 

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Local Charm and Community at Commonwealth Senior Living at Abingdon

Our community’s location gives residents the perfect balance of peaceful surroundings and access to cultural experiences. Whether enjoying a trip to Barter Theatre or picking fresh fruit at the Heritage Apple Orchard, residents at Commonwealth Senior Living at Abingdon benefit from a rich and active lifestyle. These outings foster social connection, support mental wellness, and bring joy to everyday living.

Jack, one of our residents, says "The reason I like Commonwealth so well is because I am so well treated, as are all of the other residents here. You feel welcome."

Improving the lives of seniors and their families is central to everything we do at Commonwealth Senior Living. Understanding who our residents are and their history allows us to provide person-centered care in ways that are both positive and meaningful to the residents, their families, and our team. We are grateful to have our residents' loved ones recognize our ability to do so at Commonwealth Senior Living at Abingdon as we strive to welcome residents "home." Based on feedback from our families and residents, we are also proud to be recognized as Best Memory Care by U.S. News & World Report for 2022.

We invite you to visit our community and explore the lifestyle our residents enjoy each day! Reach out to our team to schedule your tour today. 

Choosing a senior living community is a meaningful decision shaped by trust, comfort, and connection. It’s about finding a place where each day feels familiar yet fulfilling, where support is present without overshadowing independence, and where residents feel genuinely known. At Commonwealth Senior Living at Willow Grove, we’ve thoughtfully created a community where residents can stay engaged and feel truly at home.

Our philosophy is rooted in understanding each individual. By honoring personal routines, preferences, and life stories, we provide person‑centered care that supports independence, encourages engagement, and nurtures a strong sense of belonging for both residents and their families. 

A Peaceful Suburban Setting With Thoughtful Design

Tucked within Montgomery County, just north of Philadelphia, Commonwealth Senior Living at Willow Grove is surrounded by tree‑lined streets, neighborhood charm, and convenient access to shopping, dining, and trusted medical care. Inside the community, residents enjoy beautifully appointed suites, landscaped outdoor spaces, and serene views of our on‑site pond and gardens.

One of the most cherished gathering spots is our lakefront gazebo, where residents can enjoy a quiet morning with a book, share conversation with friends, or take part in activities surrounded by nature. Whether indoors or outdoors, every space is designed to feel warm, welcoming, and comfortable.

Parks, Nature, and Outdoor Enjoyment

• Pennypack Creek Trail – A nearby favorite for scenic walks, fresh air, and peaceful time along the creek, offering paved and natural paths suitable for a range of comfort levels.
• Masons Mill Park – A tranquil park with walking trails, open green space, and picnic areas, ideal for relaxed outings with family or friends. 
• Crestmont Park – A well‑maintained local park offering open space and walking paths in a quiet neighborhood setting.

Shopping and Dining

• Willow Grove Park Mall – A popular destination with over 120 stores, restaurants like The Cheesecake Factory and Yard House, and easy accessibility for visitors of all ages.

Culture, History, and Enrichment

• Morris Arboretum & Gardens of the University of Pennsylvania – A short drive away, this historic garden offers beautiful seasonal landscapes, walking paths, and peaceful outdoor experiences. 
• Local Community Events and Markets – Willow Grove regularly hosts seasonal markets, craft fairs, and community events that residents and families enjoy attending together.

Access to Trusted Healthcare and Community Resources

For additional peace of mind, Commonwealth Senior Living at Willow Grove is conveniently located near respected medical providers, including Jefferson Abington Medical Center, Rothman Orthopedics, AMS Cardiology, and other specialty practices. Families appreciate knowing that external support and care are easily accessible when needed.

Care That Reflects Each Individual

Every resident’s journey is unique, and our care approach reflects that understanding. Our experienced team partners closely with residents and families to develop personalized care plans that evolve alongside changing needs.

What makes our care special:

Individualized Care Plans

Our Resident Care Directors take time to understand each resident through comprehensive assessments and ongoing conversations with families, ensuring support feels natural and respectful.

Sweet Memories™ Memory Care

Our award‑winning Memory Care program provides structured routines, meaningful engagement, and personalized support to help residents living with memory loss remain connected and supported.

Engaging Programs

From group outings to social events, our calendar is filled with opportunities for residents to stay active and involved.

Making Senior Living Financially Accessible

Choosing senior living involves important financial considerations, and families deserve clarity every step of the way. Our team is committed to providing straightforward information, personalized guidance, and practical tools that help families move forward with confidence.

At Commonwealth Senior Living at Willow Grove, we partner with families to review costs, identify helpful resources, and explore planning options that support a smooth and informed transition. Our priority is simple: to ensure finances never stand in the way of exceptional care and peace of mind.

Honoring Those Who Have Served

We recognize that transitioning into senior living represents a meaningful next chapter for Veterans and their families. Through Our Promise to Veterans, we proudly coordinate and cover moving expenses of up to $2,000 to help make this transition more comfortable and supported.

This commitment is not just about easing costs. It is our way of showing gratitude and respect to those who have served. By helping manage the logistics of the move, we aim to provide reassurance, simplicity, and a heartfelt welcome from the very beginning.

Trusted Financial Support Partners

To further support families, we partner with ElderLife Financial Services, a trusted provider of flexible financing solutions designed for senior living transitions. With same‑day approvals and funding available within 48 hours, ElderLife can assist with move‑in costs, monthly expenses, or temporary financial needs, offering added confidence during the planning process.

Interested in seeing how senior living compares to your current expenses? Our Cost Calculator offers a clear and helpful comparison.

Recognized for Excellence and Trusted by Families

We’re honored to have been recognized by U.S. News & World Report as Best Memory Care and by memorycare.com as Best Memory Care in Doylestown and Philadelphia. 

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A Community Where You Can Truly Belong

Life at Commonwealth Senior Living at Willow Grove is thoughtfully designed to feel steady, supportive, and full of meaningful connection. Here, residents enjoy the ease of maintenance‑free living, the reassurance of attentive on‑site care, and an inviting atmosphere that feels welcoming from day one. Each day brings a natural balance of relaxation, engagement, and shared moments, all supported by a team that’s always close at hand.

We invite you to see it for yourself. Schedule a visit and discover how Commonwealth Senior Living at Willow Grove brings comfort, care, and community together to create a place that truly feels like home.

Schedule your visit today and see what makes life at Commonwealth Senior Living at Willow Grove truly special.

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At Commonwealth Senior Living at Georgian Manor, our residents can relax with the peace of mind that comes with the 24-hour support we offer as well as the comfort of dignified, respectful help with daily activities. But that's only the beginning. With a variety of lifestyle programs and activities offered each day, there's always something to do and people to share the fun with. Mary, one of our residents says, "We are a big, happy family here!" Based on sentiments like these, we are honored to be recognized as both Best Assisted Living and Best Memory Care by U.S. News & World Report for 2022.  Today, we'd like to walk you through a day in the life of our residents. 

After breakfast, we move into a gentle yoga session led by our Program Director. On other days, we might take a morning stroll around the courtyard or work on our balance and flexibility during our morning exercises. We also enjoy several pet visits each month which is especially exciting for Geneva and Vernon. Geneva says, "I always loved Golden Retrievers so much, I want to keep this one!"

In our Sweet Memories Neighborhood, we start off our lunch time with our Special Touch program. This program provides our residents with a warm towel scented with citrus, utilized for its awakening and refreshing qualities, as well as for stimulating appetites. In the evening, the towels are scented with lavender to sooth residents and prepare them to relax and promote a restful night's sleep. You can even try this at home! 

During the afternoon, we enjoy wide variety of activities throughout the month. We have History Happenings, where we learn about the month's Travel the World theme, celebrate monthly birthday parties, or take trips to Great Bridge Battlefield & Waterways History Foundation before dinner.

Betty says, "I love when we go out on the town. My favorite thing so far is our picnics in the park. Sitting by the water and watching the boat traffic is relaxing. Of course, lunch was good too!"

If you thought our weekdays were exciting, let us tell you all about our weekends! On quiet days, we spend Saturday nights at the movies and have Sunday afternoon church services. Jane says, "This place is fun! I am always ready for a card game, bingo, or especially getting on the bus to have lunch and ride around town. I have lots of friends here!"

And within just a few miles of our community, she can enjoy a bus ride to the Elizabeth River, Roosevelt Memorial Park, Towne Place at Greenbrier shopping mall, Oak Grove Lake Park, and a variety of wonderful restaurants.  

In addition to these activities, Commonwealth Senior Living at Georgian Manor is conveniently located near Chesapeake Regional Medical Center, Battlefield Medical Associates, Sentara Family Medicine Physicians, and Atwood Family Medical Center.  Any assistance our residents need outside of our community is right around the corner. 

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We're proud to have been recognized by U.S. News and World Report as Best Memory Care and Best Assisted Living in Chesapeake, Virginia for 2021 and by memorycare.com Best Memory Care in Norfolk, Chesapeake, Newport News, and Hampton, Virginia for 2022.

We invite you to come visit our team and spend a day at our community to experience the lifestyle each of our residents enjoy. 

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At Commonwealth Senior Living at Farnham, our residents enjoy privacy, dignity, and maintenance-free living. With a simple step outside their suite doors, they are enveloped into a vibrant community filled with friendly neighbors. Our residents participate in a variety of programs, enjoy exceptional dining, helpful services, gracious amenities, and more. Today, we'd like to walk you through a day in the life of our residents. 

Morning Moments and Mindful Living at Commonwealth Senior Living at Farnham

In the morning, our residents wake up to the smell of freshly brewed coffee and tea that accompanies the delicious breakfast made by our Dining Services team. After breakfast, we enjoy a variety of peaceful activities like morning devotionals, yoga, or stepping into the fresh air and sunshine in our courtyard. 

We spice it up in the afternoon by trying Dining Delights recipes from our monthly Travel the World program theme. We've tried everything you can imagine from Zabatidi, an Egyptian Salatit, to Elote, a Mexican street corn from the Grand Canyon. We continue the fun after lunch using our Eversound headphones to play bingo and bring even more engagement to our activities, or sometimes by playing our very own game shows like Wheel of Fortune, Jeopardy, or Farnham's Got Talent. 

Weekends are just as exciting as our weekdays at Commonwealth Senior Living at Farnham. We may spend time at Calvary United Methodist Church, Ebenezer Baptist Church, the Amish Farm Stand, or the Morattico Waterfront Museum, or enjoy the outdoors at Belle Isle Park or the Rappahannock River Valley National Wildlife Refuge. Chesapeake Medical Group, Dameron Family Health and Wellness, Richard Dunn MD Family Practice, VCU Health Tappahannock Hospital, and Rappahannock General Hospital are also in the area for any assistance our residents need outside our community. 

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Community Connection and Care at Commonwealth Senior Living at Farnham

Mark, one of our residents' loved ones, said, "One important element that Commonwealth Senior Living has that you don't always find is the level of love. True love and compassion. The kind that will go to whatever distance is necessary to take care of their residents and I love that we have that here."

We are grateful for each and every one of our residents and associates. Improving the lives of seniors and their families is central to everything we do at Commonwealth Senior Living, so understanding who our residents are and their stories allows us to provide them with meaningful, person-centered care and peace of mind for their families. You can read more of what families are saying here. Based on feedback from our families and residents, we are also proud to be recognized as Best Memory Care by U.S. News & World Report for 2022 and Best Independent Living in Farnham, Virginia, for 2023.

But don't just take it from us. Make an appointment to see our beautiful community for yourself. 

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Choosing a senior living community is one of the most meaningful decisions a family can make. It is about more than care and convenience. It is about finding a place where each day is purposeful, friendships flourish, and residents feel truly at home. At Commonwealth Senior Living at Cedar Bluff, we create a lifestyle that is engaging, inspiring, and deeply meaningful.

Our commitment is simple. We provide compassionate, person-centered care in a supportive environment where every resident feels valued, supported, and empowered.

A Community Surrounded by Natural Beauty and History

Cedar Bluff, Virginia, is a town that combines scenic beauty, rich history, and warm Southern hospitality. Nestled in the Appalachian Mountains, the town is named for the striking cedar-covered bluffs along the Clinch River, a natural landmark that has inspired generations. 

In the 19th century, the town grew with coal, timber, and the arrival of the Norfolk and Western Railway, becoming a key center of trade and transportation. Today, the historic district, preserved homes, and scenic landscapes tell the story of a resilient town that honors its heritage while looking toward the future. Cedar Bluff is a town of vibrant community life, hosting festivals, music events, and cultural celebrations that bring neighbors together and strengthen community bonds.

Living at Commonwealth Senior Living at Cedar Bluff means residents enjoy the charm of a small town, beautiful mountain views, and access to the natural and cultural treasures that make this area special.

An Engaging Lifestyle Inside and Beyond Our Community 

Senior living should expand horizons and create opportunities for connection, exploration, and joy. At Commonwealth Senior Living at Cedar Bluff, residents enjoy scenic outings to local favorites like Cedar Bluff Overlook Park while staying connected to the charm of the surrounding community.

Within our community, daily life is vibrant and engaging. Residents enjoy interactive games like Bunco and darts, creative projects through our Program of Fine Arts Signature Program, energizing fitness sessions, and devotional gatherings that support spiritual well-being. Evenings often bring residents together for relaxing movie nights filled with popcorn and laughter.

Dining is another highlight of the day. Through our Dining Signature Programs, residents explore new flavors, enjoy chef-prepared meals, and celebrate seasonal favorites like fresh strawberry shortcake. 

We are also proud to be a pet friendly community, recognizing the comfort, companionship, and happiness pets bring to everyday life. Welcoming pets helps create the warm, home-like environment that defines life at Commonwealth Senior Living.

Personalized Care and Support at Commonwealth Senior Living at Cedar Bluff

We understand that every resident is unique. Our dedicated team works closely with families to develop customized care plans that address specific needs, from assistance with activities of daily living to comprehensive Memory Care for those experiencing Alzheimer's Disease or another form of dementia. Key features of our approach include: 

• Customized Care Plans: Our Resident Care Directors work one-on-one with residents and their families to conduct a comprehensive care assessment, which helps us design a personalized plan that provides the right level of support
• Sweet Memories™: Our award-winning Memory Care program offers engaging activities such as Life Stations, Expressions Signature Program, and more to help residents with memory loss maintain their independence and connection.
• Engaging Activities: From group outings to social events, our calendar is filled with opportunities for residents to stay active and involved.

Affordability and Financial Options

We know that cost is an important consideration for families, and our goal is to empower families with knowledge and options so financial considerations never stand in the way of quality care.. Commonwealth Senior Living at Cedar Bluff provides guidance on multiple ways to make care more affordable:

Veterans Benefits

We understand that transitioning to senior living can feel overwhelming. The act of moving is often physically demanding and emotionally stressful for Veterans and their loved ones. As part of our Promise to Veterans, we arrange and cover moving expenses up to $2,000.

This is more than a financial incentive. It is a tangible way we stand beside those who once stood for us. By coordinating and easing the moving process, we help reduce stress and ensure Veterans feel supported, respected, and deeply honored from the very beginning of their new chapter.

Want a clear comparison between your current living costs and senior living? Try our Cost Calculator.

Black Lung Benefits

For individuals who worked in the coal industry, Black Lung benefits may also provide valuable assistance. The Federal Black Lung Program, administered by the Division of Coal Mine Workers’ Compensation, provides compensation to coal miners who are totally disabled by pneumoconiosis resulting from coal mine employment, as well as benefits to surviving family members when a miner’s death is related to the disease. Eligible miners may also receive medical coverage for treatment related to pneumoconiosis and other associated lung conditions.

Financial Partnerships

Our partners at ElderLife Financial Services provide fast financing solutions for those transitioning to senior living. With same-day decisions and funding within 48 hours, ElderLife helps individuals cover move-in fees, supplement monthly expenses, or bridge financial gaps.

Recognized for Excellence

We are proud to have been recognized by U.S. News & World Report as Best Independent Living in Cedar Bluff, Virginia for 2023. This recognition reflects our dedication to compassionate care, enriching programs, and a welcoming environment.

A Place to Thrive

Life at Commonwealth Senior Living at Cedar Bluff is about gaining opportunity, companionship, and confidence. Residents wake up to mountain views, engaging activities, and caring associates who treat each person with dignity and respect.

Here, every day is an opportunity to live fully, connect meaningfully, and embrace the next chapter with joy.

Schedule a visit today and experience the warmth, care, and vibrant lifestyle that make Commonwealth Senior Living at Cedar Bluff feel like home.

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Set in the heart of the New River Valley, just minutes from downtown Christiansburg and the scenic Huckleberry Trail, Commonwealth Senior Living at Christiansburg offers an atmosphere that blends scenic surroundings with a strong sense of community. Life here is shaped by connection, engagement, and a rhythm that feels both steady and fulfilling.

Here, residents savor chef-prepared meals, friendly and familiar faces, and a lifestyle that supports independence while keeping reassurance close at hand. From the moment you step inside, you are welcomed into a place where relationships grow naturally and each day offers something meaningful.

A Neighborhood Filled With Everyday Possibilities

Life at our community means being close to everything that makes the New River Valley such a special place to call home. Whether it’s dining out, enjoying the outdoors, attending local services, or running errands, residents have easy access to it all just minutes away.

Local Dining Favorites

Residents can enjoy nearby restaurants like Avellinos Italian Restaurant, Gardner's Grill, or Kabuki Japanese Steakhouse & Sushi Bar, perfect for a relaxed meal out with family or friends.

Places of Worship and Community Connection

For those seeking spiritual fellowship and community engagement, local congregations like Belmont Christian Church and Hope Valley Church provide inviting settings for worship, connection, and support.

Shopping and Everyday Convenience

Residents are just minutes from popular shopping destinations like Target and Uptown Christiansburg Mall, making it easy to pick up everyday essentials or enjoy casual shopping trips close to home. 

Local Recreation and Entertainment

Residents and visiting families can enjoy time together at nearby Virginia Tech events or take in the natural beauty of the Ellett Valley Recreational Area or the Huckleberry Trail, both peaceful destinations for walking, fresh air, and scenic views.

Convenient Access to Trusted Medical Care

Peace of mind is an important part of daily life, and our location offers quick access to respected healthcare providers, including:

• LewisGale Physicians Primary Care
• Carilion New River Valley Medical Center
• Invision Eye Care Center

Having trusted medical support nearby helps residents and families feel confident knowing care is always within reach.

Recognized for Excellence in Senior Living

We are proud to be recognized by U.S. News & World Report as Best Assisted Living (2025 and 2026) and Best Memory Care (2025). These honors reflect our ongoing commitment to compassionate care, meaningful engagement, and a strong sense of community.

Personalized Care That Grows With You

We are proud to offer a full continuum of care that allows residents to age in place with confidence, consistency, and lasting connection. Care is always close by when needed, helping residents remain in a familiar environment even as their needs change over time.

Our living options include:

• Beautiful 2 and 3 bedroom patio homes featuring spacious floor plans, private garages, and more
• Assisted Living that provides personalized assistance with daily routines while encouraging independence and meaningful engagement
• Award-winning Memory Care for individuals living with Alzheimer’s disease or other forms of dementia

Individualized Care Plans

Our Resident Care Director works closely with residents and families to create personalized care plans that balance independence with the right level of assistance. These plans are regularly reviewed and adjusted as needs change.

A Calendar Full of Engagement

Our community offers a full calendar of programs designed to encourage connection, movement, creativity, and enjoyment. From group gatherings to special events and outings, there is always something meaningful taking place.

Financial Guidance and Support

We understand that planning for senior living involves important financial considerations. Our team provides clear information, helpful resources, and personalized support so families can make informed decisions with confidence.

We work closely with families to explore cost comparisons, available benefits, and planning tools that help simplify the transition into senior living.

Support for Veterans

Through Our Promise to Veterans Signature Program, we offer moving assistance up to $2,000, honoring those who have served with respect and gratitude.

Financial Partnerships

Through our partnership with ElderLife Financial, families can access flexible funding options, quick decisions, and short-term financial support when needed.

Experience Life at Commonwealth Senior Living at Christiansburg

We invite you to experience a Day in the Life at our community and see firsthand what makes it so special. During your visit, you will explore our inviting spaces, connect with our dedicated team, and experience the energy, engagement, and relationships that define daily life here.

From the moment you walk through our doors, you will notice the difference in the way residents live, connect, and thrive. Discover why so many families choose Commonwealth Senior Living at Christiansburg for its thoughtful approach to care, engaging lifestyle, and a welcoming environment that truly feels like home in the New River Valley.

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Commonwealth Senior Living at the Eastern Shore has been the area's premier choice for retirement living for over 50 years. Our residents live comfortably in the historic village of Onancock in their choice of a studio or one-bedroom suites. They enjoy three levels of care - independent living, assisted living, and memory care - within the same beautiful community so that even if your care needs may change, your address doesn't have to.

Personal Stories from Commonwealth Senior Living at the Eastern Shore

Our residents enjoy the privacy and the comfort of their own space with the peace of mind of knowing that all maintenance and chores will be taken care of by our team. Housekeeping, cooking, upkeep, linens - we've got it all covered.

Kathy, one of our residents' family members, says "We feel like we have our life back. That we can go across the bay and spend the day or the night and not have to worry. I can come and visit and be her daughter again."

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Commonwealth Senior Living at Hillsville is serenely nestled in a scenic rural setting where our residents can have peace of mind that goes along with dignified, respectful help with daily activities like getting dressed, safely taking medications, or enjoying a delicious meal. Each day, our community enjoys a variety of award-winning programs, exceptional dining, and gracious amenities. There is always something to do at this vibrant community and people to share those experiences with. Today we would like to take you through a few examples of our residents' favorite parts of the day.  

A Vibrant Daily Life Filled with Meaningful Moments

During the week, we typically start our days off with morning Bingo following our strength, balance, or flexibility exercises. We then enjoy an activity like eating popcorn while playing pop trivia or trying fun new recipes from our Dining Services Director like "Backyard Bug Snacks." We enjoy regular happy hours, engaging programming coordinating with our monthly Travel the World theme, and marvel over watching our farm-to-table greens grow in our Babylon Micro Farm. However, we enjoy being able to harvest those vegetables to make salad appetizers for our community even more! No matter the topic, our residents always have a say in making their experiences meaningful, meeting for their Resident Council and Food Council each month. See what else is coming up this month here. 

Our weekends are just as exciting as our weekdays in our community. We love taking shopping trips to Big Lots, going on Sunday strolls around the community, visiting ice cream trucks, singing along to our favorite gospel songs, or getting a bite to eat at our local Pizza Hut. The possibilities are endless. 

In addition to these local activities, Hillsville Health and Rehabilitation Center, Carilion Clinic Outpatient Therapy, and Twin County Regional Healthcare are also in the area for any assistance our residents need outside our community. 

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Willie, one of our residents, said "You come in here, and you're not a stranger." Listen as our family members and residents share what made them decide it was time to consider senior living and how they chose Commonwealth Senior Living at Hillsville. You can also read what more families have to say here. 

At Commonwealth Senior Living at Cedar Manor, we believe it's the listening ear that is offered to residents and their families, the love and care we pour into each and every resident, and our associates' desire to serve seniors that provides the lifestyle our residents deserve. Our residents are able to relax with the peace of mind that comes with 24-hour support as well as the comfort of dignified, respectful help with daily activities like getting dressed or taking a bath. But that's only the beginning. 

We start our days with daily exercise and stretching with exciting programs like Moovin' and Groovin, yoga ball exercises, or group chair exercises. Afterwards, we may enjoy a little friendly competition during balloon volleyball or cornhole. On top of all the fun we have, our residents also get together for more serious topics during their monthly Resident Counsel meetings. We value our residents opinions and these meetings are a time for our residents to make suggestions or voice any concerns they may have, vote on activities they would like to take part in, or bring up anything else they'd like to discuss. Over the weekends, we relax with happy hour, church services, or our weekly front porch chats. Check out what else is going on in our community this month here. 

Additionally, right outside the community, our residents can enjoy the outdoors at Bells Mill Park or Great Bridge Lock Park along the beautiful Elizabeth River. Followed by shopping at Dominion Commons, Great Bridge Shopping Center, or Glenwood Square and a bite to eat at Plaza Azteca, Skrimp Shack, or Winston's Raw Bar & Grill. In addition to these local activities, our community is conveniently located near Chesapeake Center for Complete Dentistry, Chesapeake Regional Medical Center, Neurology Consultants of Tidewater, and Bon Secour Maryview Hospital. Any assistance our residents need outside of our community is right around the corner. 

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One of our residents said "The people are so friendly here. We get hugs and a lot of love and attention. I couldn't be happier with the care I have. I just love living at Commonwealth Cedar Manor." Improving the lives of seniors and their families is central to everything we do at Commonwealth Senior Living. Understanding who our residents are and their history allows us to provide person-centered care in ways that are both positive and meaningful to our residents, their families, and our team. We're grateful to be able to do so at this beautiful community. Take a look at what other families are saying here.We're proud to have been recognized by U.S. News and World Report as Best Memory Care in Chesapeake, Virginia for 2021 , Best Assisted Living for 2023, and by memorycare.com as Best Memory Care in Norfolk, Virginia for 2022.

We invite you to meet our team, residents, and families on a visit to learn what makes our community so unique. 

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Commonwealth Senior Living at Churchland House is a warm, welcoming environment that feels like home. Our loving team takes care of the housekeeping, maintenance, cooking and linen services to make sure our residents have the quiet dignity of their own suites without any of the worries. But life at our community goes much further than that. 

Each morning our residents wake up to a homemade breakfast lovingly made by our Dining Services team. After breakfast, we begin our day with gentle chair yoga, morning greetings and devotions, or by participating in one of our many clubs like our Garden Club. 

In the afternoons, we continue the fun with games like Finish the Phrase, Word within a Word, and of course, Bingo! We also enjoy afternoon adventures within a few miles to Amedeo's Bakery or for a ride on the ferry. 

As our adventures for the day are wrapping up, our Sweet Memories Neighborhood begins dinner with our Special Touch program. This program provides our residents with a warm towel scented with lavender to sooth and prepare them to relax and promote a restful night's sleep. We also start off our lunch time with a citrus scented towel which is used for its awakening and refreshing qualities, as well as for stimulating appetites. You can even try this at home! 

After our weeks come to a close, we continue the excitement through the weekend. Sometimes we spend the evening at Happy Hour, reminiscing during courtyard conversations, or at one of the many amazing local restaurants. Other times, we enjoy a relaxing weekend of movies, Saturday Stretches, and Sunday Strolls. In addition to these activities, Commonwealth Senior Living at Churchland House is conveniently located near Bon Secour Health Center at Harbour View, Sentara Belle Harbour, and Bon Secour Maryview Medical Center for any assistance our residents need outside of our community.

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Improving the lives of seniors and their families is central to everything we do at Commonwealth Senior Living. Understanding who our residents are and their history allows us to provide person-centered care in ways that are both positive and meaningful to the residents, their families, and our team. We are grateful to have our residents' loved ones recognize our ability to do so at Commonwealth Senior Living at Churchland House as we strive to welcome residents "home." Selena says, "The residents that are here - it's about them. This is their home. We are here for them, and we love them, and we are supposed to make them feel special every day." Read more of what families are saying here.

We'd love to invite you to come see our beautiful community for yourself.

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Commonwealth Senior Living at East Paris is nestled in the heart of Grand Rapids, Michigan, and provides a safe and secure environment where our residents can enjoy all the comforts of home along with the support they need to maintain their independence. Our community offers a range of living options including Independent Living, Assisted Living, and Memory Care to meet your family's needs. This means residents can minimize moves as their needs change over time.

Engaging Programs and Convenient Access to Local Attractions

Our Resident Programs team keeps the community busy with plenty of activities, games, and outings! We are proud of their dedication to delivering our Signature Programs to residents. As part of the Commonwealth Difference, these programs give our associates opportunities to connect with residents and keep them engaged. For those who prefer a more laid-back lifestyle, we have cozy common spaces to relax and read a book or catch up with friends.

Residents and families looking to spend time together outside of our community can enjoy plants and outdoor sculptures at Frederik Meijer Gardens and Sculpture Park, learn more about President Gerald Ford at the Gerald Ford Presidential Museum, or spend some time at the John Ball Zoo.

In addition to these fun activities nearby, our community is conveniently located near Advance Dental, Spectrum Health Blodgett Hospital, and Trinity Health Grand Rapids Hospital for any medical assistance unavailable in our community.

Personalized Care at Commonwealth Senior Living at East Paris

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One of our residents says, "From the housekeepers to the Executive Director, everybody is here to help you. And they make you feel welcomed home."

At Commonwealth Senior Living at East Paris, we strive to provide the best experience for our residents every day. Our compassionate team is committed to delivering the highest quality of care for all our residents and we are grateful for the opportunity to do so. Read what else our families are saying here.

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At Commonwealth Senior Living at New Baltimore, we want our residents to feel at home, and go above and beyond to make sure they feel comfortable and welcomed from the moment they arrive. We take time to get to know each individual so we can personalize their care plan and ensure a smooth transition to our community.

We are proud to serve delicious meals made with locally sourced ingredients thanks to our signature Farm-to-Table dining program. Depending on the time of year, main dinner entrees range from BBQ brisket to maple-glazed salmon. At least once a month, our Dining Services team highlights their culinary skills during Dining Delights presentations for our residents and families.

Our Resident Programs team organizes activities that cater to each of our residents' unique interests. They are also responsible for bringing our Signature Programs to life as part of the Commonwealth Difference. Whether it's arts and crafts, educational seminars, or social events, there's something to suit everyone's preferences.  

Right outside the community, residents and their families can enjoy Brandenburg Park and Walter and Mary Burke Park along Anchor Bay, or have a meal at Fin's Eatery and Spirits.

We are conveniently located near McLaren Macomb, Gentle Dental, and New Baltimore Optometry for medical services we currently don't offer inside our community.

Maryann, one of our residents, explains, "I was pleased with how friendly everybody was and I felt comfortable from the very beginning." We are beyond grateful to provide this peace of mind to our residents and their loved ones. Take a look at what others are saying about our community here.

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We invite you to come visit us and experience the excellence we provide firsthand. Come and see what it's like to live in our vibrant community and find out how we can support you and your family.

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Finding the right senior living community is about more than choosing a place to live. It’s about discovering an environment where life continues to feel purposeful, supported, and fulfilling. At Commonwealth Senior Living at Salisbury, we focus on creating meaningful days built around individual needs, personal interests, and genuine relationships. Our goal is simple: to help residents live fully while feeling supported every step of the way.

We believe care is most impactful when it’s personal. By taking time to truly understand each resident, we’re able to offer thoughtful support that respects independence while adapting naturally as needs change. Here, residents and families feel welcomed, informed, and confident in their choice.

A Community That Grows With You

At Commonwealth Senior Living at Salisbury, residents have the opportunity to remain in one familiar community as their lifestyle and care needs may change. We offer Independent Living, Assisted Living, and Memory Care within the same welcoming setting, allowing our residents to continue living among familiar faces and trusted associates over time.

This approach helps maintain emotional well‑being, supports strong connections, and brings peace of mind to families. It also minimizes disruption, allowing residents to continue enjoying daily life with continuity and confidence.

A Peaceful Location With Everyday Convenience

Located near Tuckahoe State Park and just minutes from historic downtown Salisbury, our community offers a setting that blends natural beauty with everyday convenience. This provides a balance of privacy and social connection, allowing residents to enjoy peaceful surroundings while staying connected to the broader Salisbury area.

Whether taking a stroll through the courtyard, enjoying a chef-prepared meal, or relaxing in a cottage surrounded by trees, residents experience a sense of calm and intentional design throughout the community. 

Parks, Nature, and Outdoor Enjoyment

• Pemberton Historical Park - Located just minutes from the community, this scenic park offers wooded walking trails, open green spaces, and a glimpse into Salisbury’s rich history, making it a favorite spot for peaceful strolls and relaxed afternoons.
• Tuckahoe State Park - A short drive away, Tuckahoe State Park features gently maintained paths, waterfront views, and natural beauty throughout the seasons, providing an ideal setting for fresh air and time outdoors.
• Salisbury Riverwalk - This scenic area near downtown Salisbury offers river views and walkable paths that invite residents and families to enjoy nature in an  accessible setting.

Shopping and Dining

• Historic Downtown Salisbury - Downtown Salisbury offers a charming mix of locally owned restaurants, cafés, boutiques, and gathering places. Favorites include Brick Row Market, Bury Tavern, and waterfront dining options along the river, all great options for outings with family and friends.
• The Centre at Salisbury - A convenient shopping and dining destination featuring national retailers, restaurants, and casual eateries, providing accessibility and variety for residents and visiting loved ones.

Culture, History, and Enrichment

• Charles H. Chipman Cultural Center - This Cultural Center honors African American heritage through thoughtfully curated exhibits, educational displays, and cultural programming. The Center offers meaningful opportunities to learn, reflect, and engage with the stories that helped shape Salisbury and the surrounding region.
• Museum of Eastern Shore Culture - Located in downtown Salisbury, this museum highlights regional art, history, and traditions through rotating exhibits and educational programming. 
• Community Events and Festivals - Salisbury regularly hosts art walks, seasonal festivals, farmers markets, and live performances that residents and families enjoy attending together, offering ongoing opportunities for enrichment and connection.

Access to Trusted Healthcare and Community Resources

Commonwealth Senior Living at Salisbury is conveniently located near a wide range of reputable medical services, including TidalHealth Peninsula Regional Medical Center, Chesapeake Health Care, Delmarva Dental Services, and other local care providers. Families appreciate the proximity of dependable healthcare resources that support ongoing wellness and peace of mind.

Engaging Days That Encourage Connection and Purpose

Daily life at Commonwealth Senior Living at Salisbury is enriched through engaging programs and shared experiences. From group outings and social gatherings to wellness activities and special events, our thoughtfully planned calendar offers meaningful opportunities for residents to stay active and involved in ways that feel enjoyable and purposeful.

Engaging Signature Programs

• Silver University - Silver University is a lifelong learning program designed to celebrate curiosity and engage our residents in meaningful educational experiences. Led by expert instructors and guest speakers, residents explore topics from art and music to history, culture, and science through interactive classes, discussions, and outings. This Signature Program sparks imagination, strengthens cognitive engagement, encourages social connection, inspires creativity, and supports overall well-being. Residents have the opportunity to ask questions, share their knowledge, and explore new ideas in a dynamic and engaging environment. 
• Travel the World - This unique resident program takes our CSL residents on new and exciting adventures discovering our world. Each year hosts a new theme such as Road Trip USA or Dream Vacation Destinations. During the year, each month takes us to a different locale to experience the sights, sounds, tastes and culture of our destination. 
• Family Night - At Commonwealth Senior Living, we know family is everything. Family Night is an opportunity for families, residents, and associates to spend time together and get to know one another in a relaxed setting. It's a time for the caregiving team to build relationships with you and your loved one as a part of our family.
• Program of Fine Arts - Nearly everyone, at some point in their lives, has participated in the fine arts. They may be a musician or a lover of music, a dancer or a ballet enthusiast. Maybe they come alive as a writer or as an avid reader of classic literature. Through the Program of Fine Arts, we engage or re-engage those who have a long history of creative pursuits, by offering a fine arts program that includes; creative writing, art, dance, theatre, music and literature.

Dining That Brings People Together

Dining is another central part of our community. Through our Farm‑to‑Table and Today from the Bay Dining Signature Programs, our residents enjoy freshly prepared meals made with high‑quality ingredients, fresh, sustainable seafood, and seasonal flavors. 

Making Commonwealth Senior Living at Salisbury Financially Accessible

Making a decision about senior living comes with important financial questions, and families deserve transparency and support throughout the process. Our team is dedicated to offering clear information, personalized conversations, and helpful resources designed to make planning feel manageable and well‑understood.

At Commonwealth Senior Living at Salisbury, we work closely with families to review pricing, explore available resources, and discuss planning options that align with individual circumstances. Our goal is to remove uncertainty from the process so families can focus on what matters most: choosing exceptional care with confidence and peace of mind.

Honoring Those Who Have Served

We understand that moving into senior living marks a significant milestone for Veterans and their families. Through Our Promise to Veterans, we proudly assist by coordinating and covering up to $2,000 in moving expenses to help ease the transition and provide meaningful support from the start.

This initiative reflects our sincere gratitude to those who have served. By helping with the details of the move, we aim to simplify the process and offer a warm, respectful welcome into our community.

Trusted Financial Support Partners

To provide added flexibility, we partner with ElderLife Financial Services, a respected provider of short‑term financing solutions for senior living. With convenient funding options and quick approvals, ElderLife can assist with move‑in expenses, monthly costs, or temporary financial gaps during the transition.

Families interested in understanding how senior living compares to current household expenses may also use our Cost Calculator, which offers a helpful and straightforward comparison tool.

Recognized for Excellence and Trusted by Families

We’re honored to have been recognized by Caring.com as Best Senior Living for 2026.  

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A Community Where You Can Truly Belong

Life at Commonwealth Senior Living at Salisbury offers a sense of ease, reliability, and belonging. With attentive care available on site, thoughtfully designed living spaces, and a vibrant community atmosphere, residents experience a lifestyle that feels both supported and engaging. Every day is guided by respect, connection, and a team that is always close by.

We welcome you to explore our community and learn how Commonwealth Senior Living at Salisbury supports residents and families with care you can trust and an environment that feels like home.

Schedule your visit today and see what makes life at Commonwealth Senior Living at Salisbury truly special.

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At Commonwealth Senior Living at Grand Rapids, we are more than just a place to live. We provide a unique opportunity for our residents to connect and build relationships while enjoying an active, healthy lifestyle.

Personalized Support and Activities 

As part of our commitment to providing exceptional care, we offer personalized care plans for each resident. We understand every person has unique needs and preferences, so we work closely with families to create a personalized care plan that meets their specific needs. Our trained and compassionate associates are available 24/7 to help with daily activities such as grooming, medication management, and mobility support.

We are proud to offer a wide range of activities and amenities, carefully curated to ensure our residents remain active, healthy, and engaged. Whether it's fitness classes, social events, or educational programs there's something to cater to everyone's interests. Our Resident Programs team plays a vital role in the Commonwealth Difference, as they bring our Signature Programs to life in our community.

Exploring Beyond Commonwealth Senior Living at Grand Rapids

Outside of our community, residents can enjoy shopping at the Tanger Outlets nearby or some outdoor time at Prairie Wolf Park. Our Resident Programs team also works with members of the Grand Rapids community to take our residents on fun group outings!

Residents don't have to travel far for medical services not offered in our community. We are close to Corewell Health, University of Michigan Health-West, and Polished Dental Care. 

"You want to have friends, and this is one way for a senior citizen to find friends," says one of the residents. We believe one of the most valuable aspects of senior living is the ability to stay connected. From birthday parties to outdoor barbecues, our team works hard to ensure the time spent at Commonwealth Senior Living at Grand Rapids is both enjoyable and rewarding.

We strive to create an atmosphere of warmth and comfort for our residents. Whether you are looking for Independent Living, Assisted Living, or Memory Care, we are here to provide the highest quality of support and care. Contact us to learn more about our senior living options!

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At Commonwealth Senior Living at Leigh Hall, we take pride in our commitment to providing exceptional care and support to our residents and their families. Our grand three-level building offers Assisted Living and Memory Care. From our cozy community spaces to each resident's private space, we prioritize safety while fostering independence.

Our team of skilled caregivers takes time to understand everyone's unique needs so they can provide the best possible personalized care. They conduct an assessment to determine the level of assistance residents may in need with their daily activities, such as bathing, dressing, and medication management. We are conveniently located near and offer transportation to Sentara Leigh Hospital, Chesapeake Regional Medical Center, and Virginia Ophthalmology Associates.

Our goal is to ensure residents not only receive the support they need but also stay connected and engaged with our community. That's why we offer a variety of events and activities designed to foster meaningful relationships between residents, families, and our associates. Our community features beautiful outdoor spaces and indoor common areas where residents can socialize, participate in activities, or simply relax.

We also prioritize offering a range of activities and programs specifically tailored toward our Sweet Memories residents. Activities like Silver Sneakers walking club, Dancing with Dana, and regular outings keep our residents engaged and thriving! Check out our full Sweet Memories activities calendar here.

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We encourage families to actively participate in their loved one's care. Regular visits and active engagement in our monthly Family Nights provide an invaluable opportunity to stay connected and well-informed about their experience in their new home. If you're looking for some activities nearby, we recommend visiting the Virginia Zoo, indulging in a meal at Aberdeen Barn Steakhouse, or exploring shopping options at Norfolk Premium Outlets. Read what our families are saying about us here.

"I felt like I was at home right away," says one of family members. At Commonwealth Senior Living at Leigh Hall, we are dedicated to enhancing the lives of seniors, their families, and each other. Our approach revolves around understanding the unique backgrounds and histories of our residents, enabling us to deliver personalized care that positively impacts their lives.

We'd love to invite you to come see our beautiful community for yourself.

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Commonwealth Senior Living at Haddam is nestled in the picturesque Connecticut River Valley. Our community offers Independent Living, Assisted Living, and Memory Care in a beautiful, home-like environment. Boasting an abundance of natural light, each suite creates a warm and inviting space that complements the elegant New England style. We're committed to providing our expertise and unwavering support to families in search of senior living.

Personalized Services at Commonwealth Senior Living at Haddam

We prioritize personalizing care and activities to meet the unique needs and desires of each resident. This ensures they have every opportunity to create a lifestyle and daily routine that not only fulfills needs but exceeds families' expectations. Our associates are available 24/7, providing peace of mind for you and your loved ones. From lending a hand with bathing and dressing to providing transportation to nearby appointments, we are here to offer compassionate assistance with the utmost respect and care. We are conveniently located near Middlesex Hospital, Westchester Eye Doctor, and East Haddam Dental Associates for medical services not offered in our community.

Our Resident Programs team keeps the community busy with plenty of engaging events, exciting activities, and enjoyable outings. Our goal is to create a warm and welcoming atmosphere where residents, associates, and family members can connect on a meaningful level. Families looking for things to do nearby can take a tour of Gillette Castle State Park or the Florence Griswold Museum, enjoy a meal at Gelston House, or cruise down the Connecticut River.

Dining and Lifestyle at Commonwealth Senior Living at Haddam

Our goal is to offer meals that are not only nutritious but also delicious. We invite families to join us in our private dining spaces for Farm-to-Table dining, where locally sourced ingredients take center stage. We understand everyone's dietary needs and preferences vary greatly. That's why our talented Dining Services team is trained to cater to special diets and food restrictions.

The dedicated and experienced team at Commonwealth Senior Living at Haddam is committed to offering compassionate care to residents, ensuring they enjoy the comforts of home and a maintenance-free lifestyle, all within a supportive community of friends and neighbors. Our residents quickly feel welcomed home and part of the Pineapple family. Join us for a visit today!

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Our goal is for residents to enjoy the holidays in our communities as usual. We strongly encourage families to embrace opportunities to create new traditions and memories in their new home. Leigh Morehead, Executive Director at Commonwealth Senior Living at Georgian Manor, says, "We encourage families to join us for Family Nights, special outings, and holiday-themed activities all in an environment of holiday festivities and love."  

Getting Into the Holiday Spirit

One way our communities celebrate the holiday season is by decorating common areas with festive decorations. This adds to the overall atmosphere and can bring back memories of past holidays for residents. Cameron Dusman, Resident Programs Director at Commonwealth Senior Living at Radford, explains, "Most of our residents celebrate Christmas, so we go big on the Christmas decorations at our community! At the end of November, we put up multiple Christmas trees, one for each of the common areas around the community."

In addition to adding seasonal decorations, our Resident Programs teams host several special events and activities during the holidays. These may include holiday concerts, group cookie-baking, or even a visit from Santa Claus. Cameron says, "We look forward to hosting many holiday programs including holiday decorating, crafting ornaments and wreaths, baking and cooking favorite holiday recipes, and Travel the World programs themed to holiday destinations." These events can help bring residents together and create a sense of community. Leigh describes her most memorable holiday celebration at CSL, "The Georgian Manor choir practiced several traditional Christmas songs and hymns for months leading up to December to give a performance at the holiday party. They sang their hearts out and there wasn't an empty chair in the room. My heart was so full of pride for them as they came together to sing out as one."

Our communities' Dining Services teams join the festivities by planning special holiday menus for residents to enjoy. This allows them to experience traditional holiday meals without the stress of cooking and cleaning up afterward. Chef Eric Payne at Commonwealth Senior Living at Cedar Manor shared his favorite holiday recipe, Friendship Cake.

Encouraging Families to Celebrate Together

Families are always welcome to visit our communities anytime. Our hope is for family members to be just as comfortable and at home as our residents. Cameron says, "This year our November Friends and Family Night will be on Thanksgiving Day, and families are invited to join us for a traditional holiday meal. Throughout November and December, family members visiting from out of state for a few days will join us for holiday programs and activities. In December we also host a holiday card workshop to assist residents with sending cards to their loved ones."

Preparing for the Winter Weather

Being prepared in advance is the best way to avoid hazards from winter weather. Our team of Maintenance Directors begins work before the season begins. Alex Torres, Maintenance Director at Commonwealth Senior Living at Churchland House, says, "We prepare our community for the winter by ensuring all our heat pumps and fan coil units are fully functional so we can provide the best heat for our residents and associates. We make sure our generator is working properly by checking the battery and having the unit on standby." These steps ensure a safe and cozy enviornment all season long. 

Embracing the Spirit of the Season

At Commonwealth Senior Living, our communities embrace the holiday spirit by creating a warm and welcoming enviornment for residents and their families. Our goal is to create special moments for our residents, making them feel surrounded by friends who care. With our team handling decorations, meals, and holidays meals, our residents can simply enjoy the joy and magic of this time of year. 

Interested in learning more about our holiday celebrations? Contact the Commonwealth Senior Living community near you and start a new holiday tradition with us. 

Choosing the right senior living community is a deeply personal decision, one that shapes daily experiences, relationships, and peace of mind for both residents and families. At Commonwealth Senior Living at Kilmarnock, we believe that exceptional care begins with truly understanding each individual. By learning each resident’s story, preferences, and goals, our team provides support that feels natural, respectful, and genuinely personalized. From the moment families walk through our doors, they feel the warmth, familiarity, and reassurance that define life here.

A Lifestyle Inspired by Coastal Living

Tucked away near the scenic Rappahannock River, our community captures the peaceful spirit and slower pace of life that defines Virginia’s Northern Neck. Here, residents enjoy the best of both worlds: a serene environment and proximity to the unique coastal culture of Kilmarnock, Virginia.

Whether spending time with neighbors, enjoying a quiet moment, or participating in a favorite Signature Program, our residents have the freedom to shape each day in ways that feel meaningful to them.

Parks, Water, and Coastal Beauty

• The Rappahannock River: Just minutes away, the river provides a stunning backdrop for scenic drives and outings, offering the beauty of waterfront living that the Northern Neck is famous for.
• Hughlett Point Natural Area Preserve: A short trip allows residents and families to explore coastal wetlands, quiet beaches, and diverse wildlife, perfect for those who appreciate Virginia's natural serenity.
• Belle Isle State Park: Located nearby in Lancaster County, this park offers accessible trails and beautiful picnic spots along the waterfront, making it a favorite destination for family visits.

Local Shopping and Small-Town Culture

• Historic Downtown Kilmarnock: Just moments away, downtown Kilmarnock offers a delightful selection of locally owned shops, charming cafés, and antique stores. It’s a favorite destination for afternoon outings and treats with visiting loved ones.
• Northern Neck Dining: From fresh local seafood to cozy cafés, the area offers a variety of dining options that make outings with loved ones special and convenient.
• Culture and History: As a hub of Virginia history, the area surrounding Kilmarnock is rich with museums, historic sites, and community events that celebrate the unique heritage of the Chesapeake Bay region.

Personalized Care Designed for You

Every resident's journey is unique, and our approach to care reflects that understanding. Our experienced team works closely with residents and families to create customized care plans that balance independence with the right level of support.

Key elements of our personalized care approach include:

Tailored Care Plans

Our Resident Care Director works closely with residents and families to create a care plan based on personal preferences, routines, and goals.

Assisted Living and Award-Winning Memory Care

From daily support to specialized Memory Care, our team provides attentive service in a setting that promotes dignity and confidence.

A Vibrant Social Calendar

A full calendar of programs and activities encourages residents to stay active and connected, building friendships and a strong sense of community.

Signature Programs That Inspire

Our unique Signature Programs are designed to stimulate the mind, body, and spirit, ensuring that every day offers an opportunity to stay active, engaged, and connected to one another.

• Silver University: Our lifelong learning initiative celebrates the joy of discovery. Residents participate in classes covering everything from regional history to the arts, fostering cognitive health and lively discussion.
• Travel the World: We bring the globe to our community. Each month, residents explore the cuisine, music, and traditions of a different country, fostering a sense of adventure and shared discovery without ever leaving home.
• Family Night: We believe community extends to the whole family. These monthly gatherings allow residents, associates, and loved ones to bond over great food and entertainment, strengthening the ties that make our community feel like home.
• Program of Fine Arts: We encourage residents to reconnect with their creativity. Through music, painting, theatre, and literature, we help our residents rediscover old passions or find brand-new ones.

Financial Guidance and Veteran Support

We recognize that the transition to senior living involves careful financial planning. Our team is dedicated to providing the transparency and resources families need to move forward with peace of mind.

• Our Promise to Veterans: We are deeply honored to serve those who served. Our Signature Program for Veterans assists with the transition by coordinating and covering up to $2,000 in moving expenses.
• Trusted Partners: We partner with ElderLife Financial to offer families flexible short-term financing options to manage move-in costs or bridge financial gaps.
• Planning Tools: Families can also use our Cost Calculator to compare current living expenses with senior living costs.

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At Commonwealth Senior Living at Kilmarnock, our residents experience connection, engagement, and a true sense of belonging. With personalized care, enriching Signature Programs, and the charm of coastal Virginia, each day offers something to look forward to.

You deserve a lifestyle that feels effortless, enriching, and supportive. Schedule your visit today and see how our community helps you thrive each day.

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Dear Residents, Families, and Associates:

During the past few weeks, we have had a few new cases of COVID-19 at a few of our communities. In these cases, community specific letters have been distributed with the applicable information. Currently none of our communities have any restrictive phasing in place.

As you are probably aware, effective May 11, 2023, the Health and Human Services Secretary of the United States determined that the nationwide public health emergency (PHE) related to COVID 19 was over. As a result of this, there is no longer a regular update of COVID transmission status by county, nor a requirement for us to use that information to adjust masking requirements in our communities. This will hopefully be our last companywide communication related to COVID. We will continue to communicate with each community as appropriate.

Since the beginning of the pandemic, we have been focused on following national, state, and local guidelines, while also trying to balance safety/infection control along with the impact of isolation on our residents. We continue to ask that all residents, families, and associates increase their diligence at following the best practice protocols to prevent the spread of COVID and other illnesses. Practice good hand hygiene, wear masks at all times in the community, and don't enter the community, or interact with others if you don't feel well.

• Masks will no longer be required unless the CSL community is in active Phase Red (with multiple cases of positive residents).
• Individuals who have been exposed to COVID-19 by close contact, but do not have symptoms, are requested to mask when in the community for a period of 10 days.
• We also encourage anyone who desires to continue to wear a mask to do so, and will have masks available.

We continue to encourage all associates, residents and/or families to receive get and stay "Up to Date", and work with our community teams to determine the best way to access the COVID-19 vaccine and boosters. While we will continue to follow all our infection control protocols, we do anticipate the likelihood of having some additional cases of COVID-19 that will occur.

If you have specific questions, please reach out to your individual community Executive Director and/or leadership teams. If you have additional questions, we have a toll free CSL hotline. Messages left on this line will be responded to the next business day by an appropriate member of our home office or regional support team. That number is (866) 504-1053.

Sincerely,

Earl Parker

Company Update: May 5, 2023, 3:00PM

Dear Residents, Families, and Associates:

Happy Cinco de Mayo! During the past few weeks we have had several new cases of COVID-19 at a few of our communities. In these cases, community specific letters have been distributed with the applicable information. Our company COVID leadership team has been carefully reviewing the trends in both positive cases and the impacts on our residents and associates.

Since the beginning of the pandemic, we have been focused on following national, state, and local guidelines, while also trying to balance safety/infection control along with the impact of isolation on our residents. We continue to ask that all residents, families, and associates increase their diligence at following the best practice protocols to prevent the spread of COVID and other illnesses. Practice good hand hygiene, wear masks at all times in the community, and don't enter the community, or interact with others if you don't feel well.

• We will no longer be screening residents, visitors, or associates when they enter the community. We will remind everyone that no one should enter the community if you are having symptoms of COVID or any other communicable disease.
• Masks will no longer be required unless the CSL community is in active Phase Red (with multiple cases of positive residents) or the county that the CSL community is in has been designated by the CDC as having a High COVID-19 Community Level. (CSL will provide weekly updates as to any communities affected by this.)
• ? Individuals who have been exposed to COVID-19 by close contact, but do not have symptoms, are requested to mask when in the community for a period of 10 days.
• ? We also encourage anyone who desires to continue to wear a mask to do so, and will have masks available.

We continue to encourage all associates, residents and/or families to receive get and stay "Up to Date", and work with our community teams to determine the best way to access the COVID-19 vaccine and boosters. While we will continue to follow all our infection control protocols, we do anticipate the likelihood of having some additional cases of COVID-19 that will occur.

Moving forward, Red Phase will only be implemented as directed by the Department of Health or other agency, or by the CSL COVID Response Team. We certainly hope that we can avoid and/or limit the Red Phase situations as much as possible. Red Phase does allow for scheduled visitation, in designated areas, for all residents who are not actively quarantining, either for a positive COVID diagnosis or for exposure.

The new Phase/Community Level schedule for communities is below. Please understand that this is the current projection and subject to change.

For the Week of May 5, 2023, all CSL communities are scheduled to be in Phase Green and non-High Community COVID.

If you have specific questions, please reach out to your individual community Executive Director and/or leadership teams. If you have additional questions, we have a toll free CSL hotline. Messages left on this line will be responded to the next business day by an appropriate member of our home office or regional support team. That number is (866) 504-1053.

Sincerely,

Earl Parker

Company Update: April 8, 2023, 3:00PM

Dear Residents, Families, and Associates:

During the past few weeks we have had several new cases of COVID-19 at a few of our communities. In these cases, community specific letters have been distributed with the applicable information. Our company COVID leadership team has been carefully reviewing the trends in both positive cases and the impacts on our residents and associates.

Since the beginning of the pandemic, we have been focused on following national, state, and local guidelines, while also trying to balance safety/infection control along with the impact of isolation on our residents. We continue to ask that all residents, families, and associates increase their diligence at following the best practice protocols to prevent the spread of COVID and other illnesses. Practice good hand hygiene, wear masks at all times in the community, and don't enter the community, or interact with others if you don't feel well.

• We will no longer be screening residents, visitors, or associates when they enter the community. We will remind everyone that no one should enter the community if you are having symptoms of COVID or any other communicable disease.
• Masks will no longer be required unless the CSL community is in active Phase Red (with multiple cases of positive residents) or the county that the CSL community is in has been designated by the CDC as having a High COVID-19 Community Level. (CSL will provide weekly updates as to any communities affected by this.)
• ? Individuals who have been exposed to COVID-19 by close contact, but do not have symptoms, are requested to mask when in the community for a period of 10 days.
• ? We also encourage anyone who desires to continue to wear a mask to do so, and will have masks available.

We continue to encourage all associates, residents and/or families to receive get and stay "Up to Date", and work with our community teams to determine the best way to access the COVID-19 vaccine and boosters. While we will continue to follow all our infection control protocols, we do anticipate the likelihood of having some additional cases of COVID-19 that will occur.

Moving forward, Red Phase will only be implemented as directed by the Department of Health or other agency, or by the CSL COVID Response Team. We certainly hope that we can avoid and/or limit the Red Phase situations as much as possible. Red Phase does allow for scheduled visitation, in designated areas, for all residents who are not actively quarantining, either for a positive COVID diagnosis or for exposure.

The new Phase/Community Level schedule for communities is below. Please understand that this is the current projection and subject to change.

For the Week of April 8, 2023, all CSL communities are scheduled to be in Phase Green and non-High Community COVID.

If you have specific questions, please reach out to your individual community Executive Director and/or leadership teams. If you have additional questions, we have a toll free CSL hotline. Messages left on this line will be responded to the next business day by an appropriate member of our home office or regional support team. That number is (866) 504-1053.

Sincerely,

Earl Parker

Company Update: March 10, 2023 3:00PM

Dear Residents, Families, and Associates:

This week marks three years that we have been dealing with COVID-19. March 13, 2020 is when I wrote my first resident, family, associate letter, announcing our need to close down much of our community activities in an effort to keep our residents and associates safe. It has certainly been a journey, and one that I am glad to say continues to minimize its impact. During the past few weeks we have had several new cases of COVID-19 at a few of our communities. In these cases, community specific letters have been distributed with the applicable information. Our company COVID leadership team has been carefully reviewing the trends in both positive cases and the impacts on our residents and associates.

Since the beginning of the pandemic, we have been focused on following national, state, and local guidelines, while also trying to balance safety/infection control along with the impact of isolation on our residents. We continue to ask that all residents, families, and associates increase their diligence at following the best practice protocols to prevent the spread of COVID and other illnesses. Practice good hand hygiene, wear masks at all times in the community, and don't enter the community, or interact with others if you don't feel well.

• We will no longer be screening residents, visitors, or associates when they enter the community. We will remind everyone that no one should enter the community if you are having symptoms of COVID or any other communicable disease.
• Masks will no longer be required unless the CSL community is in active Phase Red (with multiple cases of positive residents) or the county that the CSL community is in has been designated by the CDC as having a High COVID-19 Community Level. (CSL will provide weekly updates as to any communities affected by this.)
• ? Individuals who have been exposed to COVID-19 by close contact, but do not have symptoms, are requested to mask when in the community for a period of 10 days.
• ? We also encourage anyone who desires to continue to wear a mask to do so, and will have masks available.

We continue to encourage all associates, residents and/or families to receive get and stay "Up to Date", and work with our community teams to determine the best way to access the COVID-19 vaccine and boosters. While we will continue to follow all our infection control protocols, we do anticipate the likelihood of having some additional cases of COVID-19 that will occur.

Moving forward, Red Phase will only be implemented as directed by the Department of Health or other agency, or by the CSL COVID Response Team. We certainly hope that we can avoid and/or limit the Red Phase situations as much as possible. Red Phase does allow for scheduled visitation, in designated areas, for all residents who are not actively quarantining, either for a positive COVID diagnosis or for exposure.

The new Phase/Community Level schedule for communities is below. Please understand that this is the current projection and subject to change.

For the Week of March 10, 2023, all CSL communities are scheduled to be in Phase Green and non-High Community COVID.

If you have specific questions, please reach out to your individual community Executive Director and/or leadership teams. If you have additional questions, we have a toll free CSL hotline. Messages left on this line will be responded to the next business day by an appropriate member of our home office or regional support team. That number is (866) 504-1053.

Sincerely,

Earl Parker

Chief Executive Officer

Company Update: February 23, 2023 3:00PM

Dear Residents, Families, and Associates,

During the past week we have had several new cases of COVID-19 at a few of our communities. In these cases, community specific letters have been distributed with the applicable information. Our company COVID leadership team has been carefully reviewing the trends in both positive cases and the impacts on our residents and associates.

As we are going into the week of Thanksgiving, I wanted to share my personal thanks with each of you for your continued support and trust in us an organization. We take our responsibilities very seriously, and we appreciate your ongoing support.

Since the beginning of the pandemic, we have been focused on following national, state, and local guidelines, while also trying to balance safety/infection control along with the impact of isolation on our residents. We continue to ask that all residents, families, and associates increase their diligence at following the best practice protocols to prevent the spread of COVID and other illnesses. Practice good hand hygiene, wear masks at all times in the community, and don't enter the community, or interact with others if you don't feel well.

Based on updated CDC guidance, (updates were made referencing the availability of highly effective vaccines and boosters, effective treatment options, immunity in our population, and decrease in severity of illness) and information we have received from specific state and local agencies, we have made substantial changes to our COVID-19 Policies and Procedures, that became effective Monday, October 17th.

• We will no longer be screening residents, visitors, or associates when they enter the community. We will remind everyone that no one should enter the community if you are having symptoms of COVID or any other communicable disease.
• Masks will no longer be required unless the CSL community is in active Phase Red (with multiple cases of positive residents) or the county that the CSL community is in has been designated by the CDC as having a High COVID-19 Community Level. (CSL will provide weekly updates as to any communities affected by this. As of 11/18/2022 there are no CSL communities affected by this.
• Individuals who have been exposed to COVID-19 by close contact, but do not have symptoms, are requested to mask when in the community for a period of 10 days.
• We also encourage anyone who desires to continue to wear a mask to do so, and will have masks available.

We continue to encourage all associates, residents and/or families to receive get and stay "Up to Date", and work with our community teams to determine the best way to access the COVID-19 vaccine and boosters.

While we will continue to follow all our infection control protocols, we do anticipate the likelihood of having some additional cases of COVID-19 that will occur.

Moving forward, Red Phase will only be implemented as directed by the Department of Health or other agency, or by the CSL COVID Response Team. We certainly hope that we can avoid and/or limit the Red Phase situations as much as possible. Red Phase does allow for scheduled visitation, in designated areas, for all residents who are not actively quarantining, either for a positive COVID diagnosis or for exposure.

The new Phase/Community Level schedule for communities is below. Please understand that this is the current projection and subject to change.

For the Week of February 27, 2023, all CSL communities are scheduled to be in Phase Green and non High Community COVID except the following:

• CSL at Radford- Red Phase
• CSL at Chesterfield- Red Phase

If you have specific questions, please reach out to your individual community Executive Director and/or leadership teams. If you have additional questions, we have a toll free CSL hotline. Messages left on this line will be responded to the next business day by an appropriate member of our home office or regional support team. That number is (866) 504-1053.

Sincerely,

Earl Parker

Chief Executive Officer

Company Update: February 10, 2023 3:00PM

Dear Residents, Families, and Associates,

During the past week we have had several new cases of COVID-19 at a few of our communities. In these cases, community specific letters have been distributed with the applicable information. Our company COVID leadership team has been carefully reviewing the trends in both positive cases and the impacts on our residents and associates.

As we are going into the week of Thanksgiving, I wanted to share my personal thanks with each of you for your continued support and trust in us an organization. We take our responsibilities very seriously, and we appreciate your ongoing support.

Since the beginning of the pandemic, we have been focused on following national, state, and local guidelines, while also trying to balance safety/infection control along with the impact of isolation on our residents. We continue to ask that all residents, families, and associates increase their diligence at following the best practice protocols to prevent the spread of COVID and other illnesses. Practice good hand hygiene, wear masks at all times in the community, and don't enter the community, or interact with others if you don't feel well.

Based on updated CDC guidance, (updates were made referencing the availability of highly effective vaccines and boosters, effective treatment options, immunity in our population, and decrease in severity of illness) and information we have received from specific state and local agencies, we have made substantial changes to our COVID-19 Policies and Procedures, that became effective Monday, October 17th.

• We will no longer be screening residents, visitors, or associates when they enter the community. We will remind everyone that no one should enter the community if you are having symptoms of COVID or any other communicable disease.
• Masks will no longer be required unless the CSL community is in active Phase Red (with multiple cases of positive residents) or the county that the CSL community is in has been designated by the CDC as having a High COVID-19 Community Level. (CSL will provide weekly updates as to any communities affected by this. As of 11/18/2022 there are no CSL communities affected by this.
• Individuals who have been exposed to COVID-19 by close contact, but do not have symptoms, are requested to mask when in the community for a period of 10 days.
• We also encourage anyone who desires to continue to wear a mask to do so, and will have masks available.

We continue to encourage all associates, residents and/or families to receive get and stay "Up to Date", and work with our community teams to determine the best way to access the COVID-19 vaccine and boosters.

While we will continue to follow all our infection control protocols, we do anticipate the likelihood of having some additional cases of COVID-19 that will occur.

Moving forward, Red Phase will only be implemented as directed by the Department of Health or other agency, or by the CSL COVID Response Team. We certainly hope that we can avoid and/or limit the Red Phase situations as much as possible. Red Phase does allow for scheduled visitation, in designated areas, for all residents who are not actively quarantining, either for a positive COVID diagnosis or for exposure.

The new Phase/Community Level schedule for communities is below. Please understand that this is the current projection and subject to change.

For the Week of February 13, 2023, all CSL communities are scheduled to be in Phase Green and non High Community COVID except the following:

• CSL at Cedar Bluff- Red Phase
• CSL at Hagerstown- Red Phase

If you have specific questions, please reach out to your individual community Executive Director and/or leadership teams. If you have additional questions, we have a toll free CSL hotline. Messages left on this line will be responded to the next business day by an appropriate member of our home office or regional support team. That number is (866) 504-1053.

Sincerely,

Earl Parker

Chief Executive Officer

Company Update: January 27, 2023 3:00PM

Dear Residents, Families, and Associates,

During the past week we have had several new cases of COVID-19 at a few of our communities. In these cases, community specific letters have been distributed with the applicable information. Our company COVID leadership team has been carefully reviewing the trends in both positive cases and the impacts on our residents and associates.

As we are going into the week of Thanksgiving, I wanted to share my personal thanks with each of you for your continued support and trust in us an organization. We take our responsibilities very seriously, and we appreciate your ongoing support.

Since the beginning of the pandemic, we have been focused on following national, state, and local guidelines, while also trying to balance safety/infection control along with the impact of isolation on our residents. We continue to ask that all residents, families, and associates increase their diligence at following the best practice protocols to prevent the spread of COVID and other illnesses. Practice good hand hygiene, wear masks at all times in the community, and don't enter the community, or interact with others if you don't feel well.

Based on updated CDC guidance, (updates were made referencing the availability of highly effective vaccines and boosters, effective treatment options, immunity in our population, and decrease in severity of illness) and information we have received from specific state and local agencies, we have made substantial changes to our COVID-19 Policies and Procedures, that became effective Monday, October 17th.

• We will no longer be screening residents, visitors, or associates when they enter the community. We will remind everyone that no one should enter the community if you are having symptoms of COVID or any other communicable disease.
• Masks will no longer be required unless the CSL community is in active Phase Red (with multiple cases of positive residents) or the county that the CSL community is in has been designated by the CDC as having a High COVID-19 Community Level. (CSL will provide weekly updates as to any communities affected by this. As of 11/18/2022 there are no CSL communities affected by this.
• Individuals who have been exposed to COVID-19 by close contact, but do not have symptoms, are requested to mask when in the community for a period of 10 days.
• We also encourage anyone who desires to continue to wear a mask to do so, and will have masks available.

We continue to encourage all associates, residents and/or families to receive get and stay "Up to Date", and work with our community teams to determine the best way to access the COVID-19 vaccine and boosters.

While we will continue to follow all our infection control protocols, we do anticipate the likelihood of having some additional cases of COVID-19 that will occur.

Moving forward, Red Phase will only be implemented as directed by the Department of Health or other agency, or by the CSL COVID Response Team. We certainly hope that we can avoid and/or limit the Red Phase situations as much as possible. Red Phase does allow for scheduled visitation, in designated areas, for all residents who are not actively quarantining, either for a positive COVID diagnosis or for exposure.

The new Phase/Community Level schedule for communities is below. Please understand that this is the current projection and subject to change.

For the Week of January 30, 2023, all CSL communities are scheduled to be in Phase Green and non High Community COVID except the following:

• Communities with Counties in High Transmission and Masking Required:
• CSL at Cedar Bluff

If you have specific questions, please reach out to your individual community Executive Director and/or leadership teams. If you have additional questions, we have a toll free CSL hotline. Messages left on this line will be responded to the next business day by an appropriate member of our home office or regional support team. That number is (866) 504-1053.

Sincerely,

Earl Parker

Chief Executive Officer

Company Update: January 13, 2023 3:00PM

Dear Residents, Families, and Associates,

During the past week we have had several new cases of COVID-19 at a few of our communities. In these cases, community specific letters have been distributed with the applicable information. Our company COVID leadership team has been carefully reviewing the trends in both positive cases and the impacts on our residents and associates.

As we are going into the week of Thanksgiving, I wanted to share my personal thanks with each of you for your continued support and trust in us an organization. We take our responsibilities very seriously, and we appreciate your ongoing support.

Since the beginning of the pandemic, we have been focused on following national, state, and local guidelines, while also trying to balance safety/infection control along with the impact of isolation on our residents. We continue to ask that all residents, families, and associates increase their diligence at following the best practice protocols to prevent the spread of COVID and other illnesses. Practice good hand hygiene, wear masks at all times in the community, and don't enter the community, or interact with others if you don't feel well.

Based on updated CDC guidance, (updates were made referencing the availability of highly effective vaccines and boosters, effective treatment options, immunity in our population, and decrease in severity of illness) and information we have received from specific state and local agencies, we have made substantial changes to our COVID-19 Policies and Procedures, that became effective Monday, October 17th.

• We will no longer be screening residents, visitors, or associates when they enter the community. We will remind everyone that no one should enter the community if you are having symptoms of COVID or any other communicable disease.
• Masks will no longer be required unless the CSL community is in active Phase Red (with multiple cases of positive residents) or the county that the CSL community is in has been designated by the CDC as having a High COVID-19 Community Level. (CSL will provide weekly updates as to any communities affected by this. As of 11/18/2022 there are no CSL communities affected by this.
• Individuals who have been exposed to COVID-19 by close contact, but do not have symptoms, are requested to mask when in the community for a period of 10 days.
• We also encourage anyone who desires to continue to wear a mask to do so, and will have masks available.

We continue to encourage all associates, residents and/or families to receive get and stay "Up to Date", and work with our community teams to determine the best way to access the COVID-19 vaccine and boosters.

While we will continue to follow all our infection control protocols, we do anticipate the likelihood of having some additional cases of COVID-19 that will occur.

Moving forward, Red Phase will only be implemented as directed by the Department of Health or other agency, or by the CSL COVID Response Team. We certainly hope that we can avoid and/or limit the Red Phase situations as much as possible. Red Phase does allow for scheduled visitation, in designated areas, for all residents who are not actively quarantining, either for a positive COVID diagnosis or for exposure.

The new Phase/Community Level schedule for communities is below. Please understand that this is the current projection and subject to change.

For the Week of January 16, 2023, all CSL communities are scheduled to be in Phase Green and non High Community COVID except the following:

• CSL at West End - Red Phase
• CMC at Chesapeake - Red Phase
• CSL at Gloucester House - County in High Transmission - masking required
• CSL at Salisbury - County in High Transmission - masking required
• CSL at Eastern Shore - County in High Transmission - masking required
• CSL at Hillsville - County in High Transmission - masking required
• CSL at Berryville - County in High Transmission - masking required
• CSL at South Boston - County in High Transmission - masking required
• CSL at West End - County in High Transmission - masking required
• CSL at Radford - County in High Transmission - masking required
• CSL at Chesterfield - County in High Transmission - masking required
• CSL at Abington - County in High Transmission - masking required
• CSL at Kilmarnock - County in High Transmission - masking required
• CSL at Cedar Bluff - County in High Transmission - masking required
• CSL at Stratford House - County in High Transmission - masking required
• CSL at Hampton - County in High Transmission - masking required
• CSL at Churchland House - County in High Transmission - masking required
• CSL at Front Royal - County in High Transmission - masking required

If you have specific questions, please reach out to your individual community Executive Director and/or leadership teams. If you have additional questions, we have a toll free CSL hotline. Messages left on this line will be responded to the next business day by an appropriate member of our home office or regional support team. That number is (866) 504-1053.

Sincerely,

Earl Parker

Chief Executive Officer

Company Update: December 30, 2022 3:00PM

Dear Residents, Families, and Associates,

During the past week we have had several new cases of COVID-19 at a few of our communities. In these cases, community specific letters have been distributed with the applicable information. Our company COVID leadership team has been carefully reviewing the trends in both positive cases and the impacts on our residents and associates.

As we are going into the week of Thanksgiving, I wanted to share my personal thanks with each of you for your continued support and trust in us an organization. We take our responsibilities very seriously, and we appreciate your ongoing support.

Since the beginning of the pandemic, we have been focused on following national, state, and local guidelines, while also trying to balance safety/infection control along with the impact of isolation on our residents. We continue to ask that all residents, families, and associates increase their diligence at following the best practice protocols to prevent the spread of COVID and other illnesses. Practice good hand hygiene, wear masks at all times in the community, and don't enter the community, or interact with others if you don't feel well.

Based on updated CDC guidance, (updates were made referencing the availability of highly effective vaccines and boosters, effective treatment options, immunity in our population, and decrease in severity of illness) and information we have received from specific state and local agencies, we have made substantial changes to our COVID-19 Policies and Procedures, that became effective Monday, October 17th.

• We will no longer be screening residents, visitors, or associates when they enter the community. We will remind everyone that no one should enter the community if you are having symptoms of COVID or any other communicable disease.
• Masks will no longer be required unless the CSL community is in active Phase Red (with multiple cases of positive residents) or the county that the CSL community is in has been designated by the CDC as having a High COVID-19 Community Level. (CSL will provide weekly updates as to any communities affected by this. As of 11/18/2022 there are no CSL communities affected by this.
• Individuals who have been exposed to COVID-19 by close contact, but do not have symptoms, are requested to mask when in the community for a period of 10 days.
• We also encourage anyone who desires to continue to wear a mask to do so, and will have masks available.

We continue to encourage all associates, residents and/or families to receive get and stay "Up to Date", and work with our community teams to determine the best way to access the COVID-19 vaccine and boosters.

While we will continue to follow all our infection control protocols, we do anticipate the likelihood of having some additional cases of COVID-19 that will occur.

Moving forward, Red Phase will only be implemented as directed by the Department of Health or other agency, or by the CSL COVID Response Team. We certainly hope that we can avoid and/or limit the Red Phase situations as much as possible. Red Phase does allow for scheduled visitation, in designated areas, for all residents who are not actively quarantining, either for a positive COVID diagnosis or for exposure.

The new Phase/Community Level schedule for communities is below. Please understand that this is the current projection and subject to change.

For the Week of December 16th, 2022, all CSL communities are scheduled to be in Phase Green and non High Community COVID except the following:

• CSL at Gloucester House - Red Phase
• CSL at Farnham- Red Phase in Memory Care and County in High Transmission- masking
• required
• CSL at Salisbury- County in High Transmission- masking required
• CSL at Eastern Shore- County in High Transmission- masking required
• CSL at Hillsville- County in High Transmission- masking required
• CSL at Berryville- County in High Transmission- masking required
• CSL at South Boston- County in High Transmission- masking required
• CSL at West End- County in High Transmission- masking required
• CSL at Radford- County in High Transmission- masking required

If you have specific questions, please reach out to your individual community Executive Director and/or leadership teams. If you have additional questions, we have a toll free CSL hotline. Messages left on this line will be responded to the next business day by an appropriate member of our home office or regional support team. That number is (866) 504-1053.

Company Update: December 16, 2022 3:00PM

Dear Residents, Families, and Associates,

During the past week we have had several new cases of COVID-19 at a few of our communities. In these cases, community specific letters have been distributed with the applicable information. Our company COVID leadership team has been carefully reviewing the trends in both positive cases and the impacts on our residents and associates.

As we are going into the week of Thanksgiving, I wanted to share my personal thanks with each of you for your continued support and trust in us an organization. We take our responsibilities very seriously, and we appreciate your ongoing support.

Since the beginning of the pandemic, we have been focused on following national, state, and local guidelines, while also trying to balance safety/infection control along with the impact of isolation on our residents. We continue to ask that all residents, families, and associates increase their diligence at following the best practice protocols to prevent the spread of COVID and other illnesses. Practice good hand hygiene, wear masks at all times in the community, and don't enter the community, or interact with others if you don't feel well.

Based on updated CDC guidance, (updates were made referencing the availability of highly effective vaccines and boosters, effective treatment options, immunity in our population, and decrease in severity of illness) and information we have received from specific state and local agencies, we have made substantial changes to our COVID-19 Policies and Procedures, that became effective Monday, October 17th.

• We will no longer be screening residents, visitors, or associates when they enter the community. We will remind everyone that no one should enter the community if you are having symptoms of COVID or any other communicable disease.
• Masks will no longer be required unless the CSL community is in active Phase Red (with multiple cases of positive residents) or the county that the CSL community is in has been designated by the CDC as having a High COVID-19 Community Level. (CSL will provide weekly updates as to any communities affected by this. As of 11/18/2022 there are no CSL communities affected by this.
• Individuals who have been exposed to COVID-19 by close contact, but do not have symptoms, are requested to mask when in the community for a period of 10 days.
• We also encourage anyone who desires to continue to wear a mask to do so, and will have masks available.

We continue to encourage all associates, residents and/or families to receive get and stay "Up to Date", and work with our community teams to determine the best way to access the COVID-19 vaccine and boosters.

While we will continue to follow all our infection control protocols, we do anticipate the likelihood of having some additional cases of COVID-19 that will occur.

Moving forward, Red Phase will only be implemented as directed by the Department of Health or other agency, or by the CSL COVID Response Team. We certainly hope that we can avoid and/or limit the Red Phase situations as much as possible. Red Phase does allow for scheduled visitation, in designated areas, for all residents who are not actively quarantining, either for a positive COVID diagnosis or for exposure.

The new Phase/Community Level schedule for communities is below. Please understand that this is the current projection and subject to change.

For the Week of December 16th, 2022, all CSL communities are scheduled to be in Phase Green and non High Community COVID except the following:

• CSL at Kilmarnock: Red Phase

If you have specific questions, please reach out to your individual community Executive Director and/or leadership teams. If you have additional questions, we have a toll free CSL hotline. Messages left on this line will be responded to the next business day by an appropriate member of our home office or regional support team. That number is (866) 504-1053.

Sincerely,

Earl Parker

Chief Executive Officer

Company Update: November 18, 2022 11:00AM

Dear Residents, Families, and Associates,

During the past week we have had several new cases of COVID-19 at a few of our communities. In these cases, community specific letters have been distributed with the applicable information. Our company COVID leadership team has been carefully reviewing the trends in both positive cases and the impacts on our residents and associates.

As we are going into the week of Thanksgiving, I wanted to share my personal thanks with each of you for your continued support and trust in us an organization. We take our responsibilities very seriously, and we appreciate your ongoing support.

Since the beginning of the pandemic, we have been focused on following national, state, and local guidelines, while also trying to balance safety/infection control along with the impact of isolation on our residents. We continue to ask that all residents, families, and associates increase their diligence at following the best practice protocols to prevent the spread of COVID and other illnesses. Practice good hand hygiene, wear masks at all times in the community, and don't enter the community, or interact with others if you don't feel well.

Based on updated CDC guidance, (updates were made referencing the availability of highly effective vaccines and boosters, effective treatment options, immunity in our population, and decrease in severity of illness) and information we have received from specific state and local agencies, we have made substantial changes to our COVID-19 Policies and Procedures, that became effective Monday, October 17th.

• We will no longer be screening residents, visitors, or associates when they enter the community. We will remind everyone that no one should enter the community if you are having symptoms of COVID or any other communicable disease.
• Masks will no longer be required unless the CSL community is in active Phase Red (with multiple cases of positive residents) or the county that the CSL community is in has been designated by the CDC as having a High COVID-19 Community Level. (CSL will provide weekly updates as to any communities affected by this. As of 11/18/2022 there are no CSL communities affected by this.
• Individuals who have been exposed to COVID-19 by close contact, but do not have symptoms, are requested to mask when in the community for a period of 10 days.
• We also encourage anyone who desires to continue to wear a mask to do so, and will have masks available.

We continue to encourage all associates, residents and/or families to receive get and stay "Up to Date", and work with our community teams to determine the best way to access the COVID-19 vaccine and boosters.

While we will continue to follow all our infection control protocols, we do anticipate the likelihood of having some additional cases of COVID-19 that will occur.

Moving forward, Red Phase will only be implemented as directed by the Department of Health or other agency, or by the CSL COVID Response Team. We certainly hope that we can avoid and/or limit the Red Phase situations as much as possible. Red Phase does allow for scheduled visitation, in designated areas, for all residents who are not actively quarantining, either for a positive COVID diagnosis or for exposure.

The new Phase/Community Level schedule for communities is below. Please understand that this is the current projection and subject to change.

For the Week of November 21st, 2022, all CSL communities are scheduled to be in Phase Green and non High Community COVID except the following:

• CSL at South Boston: Red Phase
• CSL at Front Royal: Currently Red Phase, planned to revert to Green Phase on Monday, 11/21

If you have specific questions, please reach out to your individual community Executive Director and/or leadership teams. If you have additional questions, we have a toll free CSL hotline. Messages left on this line will be responded to the next business day by an appropriate member of our home office or regional support team. That number is (866) 504-1053.

Sincerely,

Earl Parker

Chief Executive Officer

Company Update: November 4, 2022 5:00PM

Dear Residents, Families, and Associates,

During the past week we have had several new cases of COVID-19 at a few of our communities. In these cases, community specific letters have been distributed with the applicable information. Our company COVID leadership team has been carefully reviewing the trends in both positive cases and the impacts on our residents and associates.

Since the beginning of the pandemic, we have been focused on following national, state, and local guidelines, while also trying to balance safety/infection control along with the impact of isolation on our residents. We continue to ask that all residents, families, and associates increase their diligence at following the best practice protocols to prevent the spread of COVID and other illnesses. Practice good hand hygiene, wear masks at all times in the community, and don't enter the community, or interact with others if you don't feel well.

Based on updated CDC guidance, (updates were made referencing the availability of highly effective vaccines and boosters, effective treatment options, immunity in our population, and decrease in severity of illness) and information we have received from specific state and local agencies, we have made substantial changes to our COVID-19 Policies and Procedures, that became effective Monday, October 17th.

• We will no longer be screening residents, visitors, or associates when they enter the community. We will remind everyone that no one should enter the community if you are having symptoms of COVID or any other communicable disease.
• Masks will no longer be required unless the CSL community is in active Phase Red (with multiple cases of positive residents) or the county that the CSL community is in has been designated by the CDC as having a High COVID-19 Community Level. (CSL will provide weekly updates as to any communities affected by this. As of 11/4/2022 there are no CSL communities affected by this.
• Individuals who have been exposed to COVID-19 by close contact, but do not have symptoms, are requested to mask when in the community for a period of 10 days.
• We also encourage anyone who desires to continue to wear a mask to do so, and will have masks available.

We continue to encourage all associates, residents and/or families to receive get and stay "Up to Date", and work with our community teams to determine the best way to access the COVID-19 vaccine and boosters.

While we will continue to follow all our infection control protocols, we do anticipate the likelihood of having some additional cases of COVID-19 that will occur.

Moving forward, Red Phase will only be implemented as directed by the Department of Health or other agency, or by the CSL COVID Response Team. We certainly hope that we can avoid and/or limit the Red Phase situations as much as possible. Red Phase does allow for scheduled visitation, in designated areas, for all residents who are not actively quarantining, either for a positive COVID diagnosis or for exposure.

The new Phase/Community Level schedule for communities is below. Please understand that this is the current projection and subject to change.

For the Week of November 7th, 2022, all CSL communities are scheduled to be in Phase Green and non High Community COVID except the following:

• CSL at Cedar Manor - Red Phase, Memory Care only
• CSL at New Christiansburg- Red Phase
• CSL at Kilmarnock- Red Phase

If you have specific questions, please reach out to your individual community Executive Director and/or leadership teams. If you have additional questions, we have a toll free CSL hotline. Messages left on this line will be responded to the next business day by an appropriate member of our home office or regional support team. That number is (866) 504-1053.

Sincerely,

Earl Parker

Chief Executive Officer

Company Update - October 21, 2022 5:00PM

Dear Residents, Families, and Associates:

During the past week we have had several new cases of COVID-19 at a few of our communities. In these cases, community specific letters have been distributed with the applicable information. Our company COVID leadership team has been carefully reviewing the trends in both positive cases and the impacts on our residents and associates.

Since the beginning of the pandemic, we have been focused on following national, state, and local guidelines, while also trying to balance safety/infection control along with the impact of isolation on our residents. We continue to ask that all residents, families, and associates increase their diligence at following the best practice protocols to prevent the spread of COVID and other
illnesses.

Based on updated CDC guidance, (updates were made referencing the availability of highly effective vaccines and boosters, effective treatment options, immunity in our population, and decrease in severity of illness) and information we have received from specific state and local agencies, we have made substantial changes to our COVID-19 Policies and Procedures, that were effective Monday, October 17th.

We will no longer be screening residents, visitors, or associates when they enter the community. We will remind everyone that no one should enter the community if you are having symptoms of COVID or any other communicable disease.

Masks will no longer be required unless the CSL community is in active Phase Red (with multiple cases of positive residents) or the county that the CSL community is in has been designated by the CDC as having a High COVID-19 Community Level rating. As of today, October 21, 2022, none of the CSL communities are affected.

Individuals who have been exposed to COVID-19 by close contact, but do not have symptoms, are requested to mask when in the community for a period of 10 days.

We also encourage anyone who desires to continue to wear a mask to do so and will have masks available.

We continue to encourage all associates, residents and/or families to receive vaccinations and work with our community teams to determine the best way to access the COVID-19 vaccine and boosters.

While we will continue to follow all our infection control protocols, we do anticipate the likelihood of having some additional cases of COVID-19 that will occur.

Moving forward, Red Phase will only be implemented as directed by the Department of Health or other agency, or by the CSL COVID Response Team. We certainly hope that we can avoid and/or limit the Red Phase situations as much as possible. Red Phase does allow for scheduled visitation, in designated areas, for all residents who are not actively quarantining, either for a positive COVID diagnosis or for exposure.

The new Phase/Community Level schedule for communities is below. Please understand that this is the current projection and subject to change.

For the Week of October 24, 2022, all CSL communities are scheduled to be in Phase Green and non-High Community COVID except the following:

CSL at Abingdon - Red Phase
CSL at Kilmarnock - Red Phase
CSL at Fredericksburg - Red Phase

If you have specific questions, please reach out to your individual community Executive Director and/or leadership teams. If you have additional questions, we have a toll free CSL hotline. Messages left on this line will be responded to the next business day by an appropriate member of our home office or regional support team. That number is (866) 504-1053.

Sincerely,

Michelle Hamilton
Chief Operating Officer

Company Update - October 14, 2022 2:00PM

Dear Residents, Families, and Associates:

During the past week we have had several new cases of COVID-19 at a few of our communities. In these cases, community specific letters have been distributed with the applicable information. Our company COVID leadership team has been carefully reviewing the trends in both positive cases and the impacts on our residents and associates.

Since the beginning of the pandemic, we have been focused on following national, state, and local guidelines, while also trying to balance safety/infection control along with the impact of isolation on our residents. We continue to ask that all residents, families, and associates increase their diligence at following the best practice protocols to prevent the spread of COVID and other illnesses. Practice good hand hygiene, wear masks at all times in the community, and don't enter the community, or interact with others if you don't feel well.

Based on updated CDC guidance, (updates were made referencing the availability of highly effective vaccines and boosters, effective treatment options, immunity in our population, and decrease in severity of illness) and information we have received from specific state and local agencies, we have made substantial changes to our COVID-19 Policies and Procedures, that will become effective Monday, October 17th.

• We will no longer be screening residents, visitors, or associates when they enter the community. We will remind everyone that no one should enter the community if you are having symptoms of COVID or any other communicable disease.
• Masks will no longer be required unless the CSL community is in active Phase Red (with multiple cases of positive residents) or the county that the CSL community is in has been designated by the CDC as having a High COVID-19 Community Level. (CSL will provide weekly updates as to any communities affected by this. As of 10/14/2022 it only affects CSL at Hillsville, in Carroll County, VA.
• Individuals who have been exposed to COVID-19 by close contact, but do not have symptoms, are requested to mask when in the community for a period of 10 days.
• We also encourage anyone who desires to continue to wear a mask to do so, and will have masks available.

We continue to encourage all associates, residents and/or families to receive get and stay "Up to Date", and work with our community teams to determine the best way to access the COVID-19 vaccine and boosters.

While we will continue to follow all our infection control protocols, we do anticipate the likelihood of having some additional cases of COVID-19 that will occur.

Moving forward, Red Phase will only be implemented as directed by the Department of Health or other agency, or by the CSL COVID Response Team. We certainly hope that we can avoid and/or limit the Red Phase situations as much as possible. Red Phase does allow for scheduled visitation, in designated areas, for all residents who are not actively quarantining, either for a positive COVID diagnosis or for exposure.

The new Phase/Community Level schedule for communities is below. Please understand that this is the current projection and subject to change.

For the Week of October 17th, 2022, all CSL communities are scheduled to be in Phase Green and non High Community COVID except the following:

CSL at Hillsville - High Community COVID level for Carroll County- Masking Required

CSL at New Baltimore- Red Phase

If you have specific questions, please reach out to your individual community Executive Director and/or leadership teams. If you have additional questions, we have a toll free CSL hotline. Messages left on this line will be responded to the next business day by an appropriate member of our home office or regional support team. That number is (866) 504-1053.

Sincerely,

Earl Parker

Chief Executive Officer

Company Update - October 7, 2022 4:30PM

Dear Residents, Families, and Associates,

During the past two weeks we have had several new cases of COVID-19 at a few of our communities. In these cases, community specific letters have been distributed with the applicable information. Based on today's information, we have one community in partial Red Phase and two of our communities in Yellow Phase next week. Our company COVID leadership team has been carefully reviewing the trends in both positive cases and the impacts on our residents and associates.

Since the beginning of the pandemic, we have been focused on following national, state, and local guidelines, while also trying to balance safety/infection control along with the impact of isolation on our residents. We continue to ask that all residents, families, and associates increase their diligence at following the best practice protocols to prevent the spread of COVID and other illnesses. Practice good hand hygiene, wear masks at all times in the community, and don't enter the community, or interact with others if you don't feel well.

Based on updated CDC guidance, and information we are beginning to receive from specific state and local agencies, we anticipate significant changes to our overall COVID Response Plan next week. We intend to issue a communication to all Residents, Families, and Associates next Friday, October 14th, outlining these changes. We continue to encourage all associates, residents and/or families to receive get and stay "Up to Date", and work with our community teams to determine the best way to access the COVID-19 vaccine and boosters.

While we will continue to follow all our infection control protocols, we do anticipate the likelihood of having some additional cases of COVID-19 that will occur.

Our current phased reopening plan is a three-phase plan, Green, Yellow, and Red and it was updated recently. Green Phase will be for all communities that have not had three or more resident or associate cases of COVID-19 in the past 10 days, Yellow Phase will be for communities that have had three or more cases of positive associates and/or residents within ten days. Moving forward, Red Phase will only be implemented as directed by the Department of Health or other agency, or by the CSL COVID Response Team. We certainly hope that we can avoid and/or limit the Red Phase situations as much as possible. Red Phase does allow for scheduled visitation, in designated areas, for all residents who are not actively quarantining, either for a positive COVID diagnosis or for exposure.

The new schedule for communities "Re-Opening" is below. Please understand that this is the current projection, and it was developed based on several factors, including assumptions of pending tests. Changes in those assumptions and/or local/state guidance could impact/change these dates. Federal, State, and Local Health Department guidance will always supersede our internal planning document.

For the Week of October 10th, 2022, all CSL communities are scheduled to be in Phase Green
except the following:

• CSL at West End: Red Phase for Memory Care
• CSL at Stafford: Yellow Phase for Memory Care
• CSL at Cedar Bluff: Yellow Phase

If you have specific questions, please reach out to your individual community Executive Director and/or leadership teams. If you have additional questions, we have a toll free CSL hotline. Messages left on this line will be responded to the next business day by an appropriate member of our home office or regional support team. That number is (866) 504-1053.

Sincerely,

Earl Parker
Chief Executive Officer

Company Update - September 23rd 3:00PM

Dear Residents, Families, and Associates:

During the past two weeks we have had several new cases of COVID-19 at several of our communities. In these cases, community specific letters have been distributed with the applicable information. Based on today's information, two of our communities will be in Yellow Phase next week and two communities in Red Phase. Our company COVID leadership team has been carefully reviewing the trends in both positive cases and the impacts on our residents and associates. As a reminder, we will be providing updates on a bi-weekly basis, as opposed to weekly, moving forward. The next companywide letter will be on Friday, October 7, 2022. Individual communities will continue to provide local updates if there are any cases of COVID-19 and/or if there are any changes in community Phasing.

Since the beginning of the pandemic, we have been focused on following national, state, and local guidelines, while also trying to balance safety/infection control along with the impact of isolation on our residents. We continue to ask that all residents, families, and associates increase their diligence at following the best practice protocols to prevent the spread of COVID and other illnesses. Practice good hand hygiene, wear masks at all times in the community, and don't enter the community, or interact with others if you don't feel well. There have been some questions come up about the updated CDC general public guidance as well as indoor masking. CDC's updated guidance has been relative to general settings, not healthcare related settings, so our prior protocols remain in place.

Based on updated CDC guidance around quarantine, as well as the experience at our CSL communities over the last several months, CSL has made the decision to rescind our requirement for mandatory vaccination of all associates. We will continue to strongly encourage all associates to get vaccinated and to stay up to date on boosters, and we are likely to impose additional requirements related to testing and use of PPE for unvaccinated associates, but at this time we do not believe that it remains necessary to have mandated vaccination. We certainly also hope that any residents and/or families who have been uncertain, and chose not to receive the vaccine initially, will reconsider and work with our community teams to determine the best way to access the COVID-19 vaccine and boosters.

While we will continue to follow all our infection control protocols, we do anticipate the likelihood of having some additional cases of COVID-19 that will occur. We continue to require all nonvaccinated associates, private duty aides, etc. to undergo weekly COVID-19 testing.

Our current phased reopening plan is a three-phase plan, Green, Yellow, and Red and it was updated recently. Green Phase will be for all communities that have not had three or more resident or associate cases of COVID-19 in the past 10 days, Yellow Phase will be for communities that have had three or more cases of positive associates and/or residents within ten days. Moving forward, Red Phase will only be implemented as directed by the Department of Health or other agency, or by the CSL COVID Response Team. We certainly hope that we can avoid and/or limit the Red Phase situations as much as possible. Red Phase does allow for scheduled visitation, in designated areas, for all residents who are not actively quarantining, either for a positive COVID diagnosis or for exposure.

The new schedule for communities "Re-Opening" is below. Please understand that this is the current projection, and it was developed based on several factors, including assumptions of pending tests. Changes in those assumptions and/or local/state guidance could impact/change these dates. Federal, State, and Local Health Department guidance will always supersede our internal planning document.

For the Week of September 26, 2022, all CSL communities are scheduled to be in Phase Green except the following:
CSL at Front Royal - Yellow Phase
CSL at West End - Yellow Phase
CSL at Charlottesville - Red Phase Assisted Living, Yellow Independent Living
CSL at Grand Rapid - Red Phase Memory Care, Yellow Assisted Living

If you have specific questions, please reach out to your individual community Executive Director and/or leadership teams. If you have additional questions, we have a toll free CSL hotline. Messages left on this line will be responded to the next business day by an appropriate member of our home office or regional support team. That number is (866) 504-1053.

Sincerely,

Michelle Hamilton
Chief Operating Officer

Company Update - September 9th 2:00PM

Dear Residents, Families, and Associates:

During the past two weeks, we have had several new cases of COVID-19 at several of our communities. In these cases, community specific letters have been distributed with the applicable information. Based on today's information, two of our communities in Yellow Phase next week. Our company COVID leadership team has been carefully reviewing the trends in both positive cases and the impacts on our residents and associates. As a reminder, we will be providing updates on a bi-weekly basis, as opposed to weekly, moving forward. The next companywide letter will be on Friday, September 23rd, 2022. Individual communities will continue to provide local updates if there are any cases of COVID-19 and/or if there are any changes in community Phasing.

Since the beginning of the pandemic, we have been focused on following national, state, and local guidelines, while also trying to balance safety/infection control along with the impact of isolation on our residents. We continue to ask that all residents, families, and associates increase their diligence at following the best practice protocols to prevent the spread of COVID and other illnesses. Practice good hand hygiene, wear masks at all times in the community, and don't enter the community, or interact with others if you don't feel well. There have been some questions come up about the updated CDC general public guidance as well as indoor masking. CDC's updated guidance has been relative to general settings, not healthcare relates settings, so our prior protocols remain in place.

Based on updated CDC guidance around quarantine, as well as the experience at our CSL communities over the last several months, CSL has made the decision to rescind our requirement for mandatory vaccination of all associates. We will continue to strongly encourage all associates to get vaccinated and to stay up to date on boosters, and we are likely to impose additional requirements related to testing and use of PPE on unvaccinated associates, but at this time we do not believe that it remains necessary to have mandated vaccination. We certainly also hope that any residents and/or families who have been uncertain, and chose not to receive the vaccine initially, will reconsider and work with our community teams to determine the best way to access the COVID-19 vaccine and boosters.

While we will continue to follow all our infection control protocols, we do anticipate the likelihood of having some additional cases of COVID-19 that will occur. We continue to require all non-vaccinated associates, private duty aides, etc. to undergo weekly COVID-19 testing.

Our current phased reopening plan is a three-phase plan, Green, Yellow, and Red and it was updated recently. Green Phase will be for all communities that have not had three or more resident or associate cases of COVID-19 in the past 10 days, Yellow Phase will be for communities that have had three or more cases of positive associates and/or residents within ten days. Moving forward, Red Phase will only be implemented as directed by the Department of Health or other agency, or by the CSL COVID Response Team. We certainly hope that we can avoid and/or limit the Red Phase situations as much as possible. Red Phase does allow for scheduled visitation, in
designated areas, for all residents who are not actively quarantining, either for a positive COVID diagnosis or for exposure.

The new schedule for communities "Re-Opening" is below. Please understand that this is the current projection, and it was developed based on several factors, including assumptions of pending tests.

Changes in those assumptions and/or local/state guidance could impact/change these dates. Federal, State, and Local Health Department guidance will always supersede our internal planning document.

For the Week of September 12th, 2022, all CSL communities are scheduled to be in Phase Green except the following:

CSL at Front Royal - Yellow Phase
CSL at Eastern Shore - Yellow Phase, return to Green on 9/16

If you have specific questions, please reach out to your individual community Executive Director and/or leadership teams. If you have additional questions, we have a toll free CSL hotline. Messages left on this line will be responded to the next business day by an appropriate member of our home office or regional support team. That number is (866) 504-1053.

Sincerely,

Earl Parker
Chief Executive Officer

Company Update - August 26th 3:00PM

Dear Residents, Families, and Associates:

During the past two weeks we have had several new cases of COVID-19 at several of our communities. In these cases, community specific letters have been distributed with the applicable information. Based on today's information, we will have three of our communities in Red Phase and one of our communities in Yellow Phase next week. Our company COVID leadership team has been carefully reviewing the trends in both positive cases and the impacts on our residents and associates. As a reminder, we will be providing updates on a bi-weekly basis, as opposed to weekly, moving forward. The next companywide letter will be on Friday, September 9th, 2022. Individual communities will continue to provide local updates if there are any cases of COVID-19 and/or if there are any changes in community Phasing.

Since the beginning of the pandemic, we have been focused on following national, state, and local guidelines, while also trying to balance safety/infection control along with the impact of isolation on our residents. We continue to ask that all residents, families, and associates increase their diligence at following the best practice protocols to prevent the spread of COVID and other illnesses. Practice good hand hygiene, wear masks at all times in the community, and don't enter the community, or interact with others if you don't feel well. There have been some questions come up about the updated CDC general public guidance as well as indoor masking. CDC's updated guidance has been relative to general settings, not healthcare relates settings, so our prior protocols remain in place.

Based on updated CDC guidance around quarantine, as well as the experience at our CSL communities over the last several months, CSL has made the decision to rescind our requirement for mandatory vaccination of all associates. We will continue to strongly encourage all associates to get vaccinated and to stay up to date on boosters, and we are likely to impose additional requirements related to testing and use of PPE on unvaccinated associates, but at this time we do not believe that it remains necessary to have mandated vaccination. We certainly also hope that any residents and/or families who have been uncertain, and chose not to receive the vaccine initially, will reconsider and work with our community teams to determine the best way to access the COVID-19 vaccine and boosters.

While we will continue to follow all our infection control protocols, we do anticipate the likelihood of having some additional cases of COVID-19 that will occur. We continue to require all non-vaccinated associates, private duty aides, etc. to undergo weekly COVID-19 testing.

Our current phased reopening plan is a three-phase plan, Green, Yellow, and Red and it was updated recently. Green Phase will be for all communities that have not had three or more resident or associate cases of COVID-19 in the past 10 days, Yellow Phase will be for communities that have had three or more cases of positive associates and/or residents within ten days. Moving
forward, Red Phase will only be implemented as directed by the Department of Health or other agency, or by the CSL COVID Response Team. We certainly hope that we can avoid and/or limit the Red Phase situations as much as possible. Red Phase does allow for scheduled visitation, in designated areas, for all residents who are not actively quarantining, either for a positive COVID diagnosis or for exposure.

The new schedule for communities "Re-Opening" is below. Please understand that this is the current projection, and it was developed based on several factors, including assumptions of pending tests. Changes in those assumptions and/or local/state guidance could impact/change these dates. Federal, State, and Local Health Department guidance will always supersede our internal planning document.

For the Week of August 29th, 2022, all CSL communities are scheduled to be in Phase Green except the following:

CSL at Oak Ridge - Assisted Living Red Phase
CSL at Hagerstown - Red Phase
CSL at Chesterfield - Assisted Living Red Phase
CSL at Stratford - Yellow Phase, return to Green on 8/31

If you have specific questions, please reach out to your individual community Executive Director and/or leadership teams. If you have additional questions, we have a toll free CSL hotline. Messages left on this line will be responded to the next business day by an appropriate member of our home office or regional support team. That number is (866) 504-1053.

Sincerely,

Earl Parker
Chief Executive Officer

1. Aging's timeline has not paused: First and foremost, illnesses and conditions do not stop because of a pandemic. In fact, decreased doctor visits and interactions with peers and caregivers might mean conditions like high blood pressure, diabetes, and heart disease could be going unchecked. With less oversight of diet, exercise, and medication management, some seniors may experience more rapid progression of their conditions. At Commonwealth Senior Living, our team partners with residents' primary healthcare providers to deliver the support and daily oversight each resident needs and notifies these providers of any changes in order to reassess needs and adjust care plans quickly.
2. Access to nutritious meals and supplies is not a concern: One of the many concerns families have when thinking about their aging loved ones isolating at home is their access to fresh, healthy meals. Seniors with any ailments which would put them in a higher risk category for COVID-19 complications have been advised not to leave the home unless it is absolutely essential. Even for those who are able to get to the market, many basic items are often out of stock (meat, cleaning supplies, and paper products). This means that they are relying heavily on pantry items and frozen foods which often have higher sodium and preservative content and less nutrition. Conversely, Commonwealth Senior Living residents continue to enjoy award-winning, farm-to-table dining with a variety of options prepared daily as we have direct access to the suppliers in a way that individuals living at home do not.
3. Your emotional health matters too: The truth is that isolation and depression go hand in hand. As seniors (or any of us, for that matter!) continue in these weeks and months of isolation seeing very few people, the likelihood of developing depression increases. However, this does not have to be the case. While senior living communities are practicing social distancing per CDC guidelines, residents are continuing to enjoy activities with the recommended 6' distance as well to include exercise, games, and trivia. Our teams are constantly working to connect residents with their loved ones via Facetime, window visits, and even recently organized parades at several communities. These are connections and technology that individuals may not have access to at home.
4. There is no substitution for infection control: Commonwealth Senior Living has long had processes in practice to prevent or contain viruses like norovirus or influenza. Maintaining strict disinfectant policies and enhanced housekeeping protocols are nothing new for us. In addition to this, we also follow the CDC's rigid infection control guidelines in place at this time for senior living. These policies and procedures helped us prepare for the current climate. We are also testing all new residents as well as residents returning from hospital or rehab visits as an added safety precaution. These safety measures and oversight are far beyond what would be possible to create at home.
5. A team of experts protecting your safety: Finally, our residents enjoy a team of housekeepers working to ensure their home, our common areas are clean and sanitized on a daily basis. All associates are wearing masks, and we have plenty of personal protective equipment to keep everyone safe. With recent shortages of cleaning and protective gear for the average consumer, our residents' families rest assured that their loved ones will never worry about being without the supplies they need. Residents are monitored daily and treated to interactive games and one on one activities through our innovative, award-winning programming. All of these steps are taken to ensure both residents and associates remain healthy.

If you have been considering senior living for a loved one but have worried that this may not be the right time, consider the information above and reach out to the community nearest you to discuss your options.

Google Arts and Culture opened up the world's most respected museums to anyone with internet access. You can now spend hours studying works in Italy's Uffizi Gallery or the MoMa from the comfort of your couch. Musicians united virtually to continue their concerts online. The New York Philharmonic dedicated this piece to the brave healthcare workers across the globe battling COVID-19. Even the National Parks created virtual tours and videos to help the world explore this country's crown jewels safely.

At Commonwealth Senior Living, we wanted to ensure that families researching our communities would be able to explore our lifestyle while at the same time safeguarding the health of our residents. In April, we began offering virtual community experiences for families to get a sneak peak of what life could be like for their loved one at one of our communities. What does this mean? It means that families can call our community and schedule a time to connect via Facebook Messenger, Facetime, or Zoom to virtually explore our community and ask questions of and meet our dedicated and knowledgeable team. If families are not connected to Facebook, Zoom or an Apple device for Facetime, we can learn more about what families would like to see, record a video, and send it over via email or text.

In requesting a virtual community experience, think about what will be most important for you to see. Would you like to meet our Resident Care Director? Would your loved one be interested in seeing the garden? Is the view from the window of interest to you? Or perhaps, you would like to meet with one of our resident ambassadors and speak with them about their experience.

Understanding that for many families, the need for support in caring for a loved one has not paused just because we are under stay-at-home orders. Our hope is that making it easier to visit our communities virtually will help families feel comfortable with taking the next step to senior living.

Families across the country and around the world have discovered how to use technology to stay connected. At Commonwealth Senior Living, we are proud to be a part of that trend. If you or someone you know would like the opportunity to explore our lifestyle, please reach out to the community nearest you today. We are here for you.

We understand that moving a loved one to senior living is probably one of the most important and difficult decisions you will ever make. Our residents' connections to their friends and families are vital. At Commonwealth Senior Living, we are working to ensure that these connections are reinforced and celebrated through both virtual and in person visits.

Over the last few months, we have done everything in our power to ensure our residents and associates are safe. This has meant no deliveryman inside the building, no large group activities, no outside entertainment, and most impactful to our families . . . no visits with residents. The good news is that these precautions have protected our communities, but now that Virginia has begun reopening, we understand that it is time to loosen these restrictions. We're pleased to be taking the first step back to normal.

We know that many families have been waiting to bring their loved one into the lifestyle they deserve until they will be able to visit. We want you to know that this is now possible.

Commonwealth Senior Living has developed "phases" for our communities. These small steps will ensure that we are able to monitor the safety of our residents, associates, and families throughout each phase. We will continue screening, social distancing, and mandating masks throughout this process.

Phase One includes:

• Scheduled Outdoor Visits with family members, limited to 2 visitors at a time and limited to 30 minutes, with social distancing, screening and mask requirements.
• Reopening of community dining room for lunch meal and extended dining hours.
• Resuming small group activities within the community.
• Beauty Salon reopening with strict safety protocols.

Each community is creating their own, safe family visit space, and we will continue to notify families as we enter each phase. 

During our first reopening phase, we were able to successfully reunite families with in-person visits, and we are thrilled about moving forward with Phase 2 and what it means for our families and residents.

Phase 2 includes:

• Indoor or outdoor scheduled visits with friends and family with social distancing, screening, and mask requirements
• Small group dining with social distancing
• Increased group activities throughout the day, maintaining social distancing
• In-person community experiences for residents/families considering a move within 30 days
• Reopening of the beauty salon with more than one resident and social distancing maintained

We will continue to notify families as we enter each phase.

Still wondering what level of care your loved one will need? Go through the Roobrik Assessment to help get a better picture!

After Phase 2 re-introduced in-person family visits, we are excited to continue more activities for our residents and families moving into Phase 3.

Our residents' loved ones have said, "We enjoy your community so much!" and, "I'm so happy that they're enjoying the memories."

Phase 3 includes:

• Resuming a full schedule of activities including volunteers & scenic rides in the CSL van maintaining social distancing and mask wearing
• Resuming outside appointments, visits, shopping, etc for residents without quarantine
• In-person community experiences for residents/families considering a move within 60 days
• Friends and family may visit without scheduling in advance, limiting to 2 visitors at a time
• Continuing the beauty salon with more than one resident and social distancing maintained

We will continue to notify families as we enter each phase.

Still wondering what level of care your loved one will need? Go through the Roobrik Assessment to help get a better picture!

"I got the call from my sister in early September. Mom missed a mortgage payment and could not figure out where to send the check. Then it was discovered that her credit card was missing, and she didn't know when she had lost it, where it could be, or even what company to call and report it to. But she'd lost more than the card. She was losing words and losing weight. The strong woman who raised us was so thin that I could feel the ribs in her back the first night I saw her.

While we waited in the doctor's office, Mom chatted about the weather, her dog and the birds in the yard. Nervous energy and an unshakeable belief in positive thinking has kept her perpetually smiley and people-pleasing, even in the most difficult of life's situations. Her doctor began her second cognitive test, and seeing her struggle with questions like "what month is it?" and "where would you place the hands on this clock to read 1:50" felt like punches to the stomach.

As days went on, there were more tests. The running around drained her. Finally, her doctor went over her test results, indicated that her thyroid levels were off, and there was a chance that hyperthyroidism could be causing the dementia. Mom's optimism soared. This could be reversible. The MRI did not show damage yet. But at the end of the appointment, Mom asked, "When will we talk about the thyroid issue?"

Our situation is not unique. Over 5 million Americans are living with dementia right now. Many will be visiting them over the holidays regardless of COVID. If you will be visiting with family, keep an eye out for the following signs they may be struggling:

• An unkept home. Piles of laundry, dirty floors, visibly dusty surfaces and dishes in the sink may be a sign that the household chores have become too much.
• Unpaid bills. This is often an early sign that cognition may be slipping. Individuals who were once fastidious bookkeepers may have a hard time staying on top of multi-step tasks.
• Noticeable weight gain or loss. When individuals are forgetting to eat (or forgetting they've eaten), a change in weight may present itself. This is often the case for seniors living alone.
• Loss of interest in activities or hobbies they once enjoyed. When seniors are struggling with memory loss, they often retreat from the activities they used to relish. This may be a sign of depression or that they simply are no longer to able to maintain the quick decision making this activity requires. Rather than attempt and become frustrated, they decline.

These are just a few signs a loved one may need help. For a full guide on the 10 Signs a Loved One May Need Memory Care, reach out to the community nearest you.  If you are unsure what type of support your loved one needs, this complimentary assessment will provide options based on your unique situation:

Take the assessment

The greatest generation, once again, is paving the way for a healthier future for the rest of the country. For some of our residents, they were born around the time of the Spanish Flu and were among the first to help eradicate the Measles and Polio by receiving vaccines. Now they stand ready to be among the first to receive the COVID-19 vaccine in the hopes of eradication as we forge toward our new normal.

In clinical trials, both young adults and older adults tolerated the vaccines well. More than 70,000 people participated in the Phase 3 clinical trials for the Moderna and Pfizer vaccines. Developed from past research on the mRNA delivery system and the SARS and MERS viruses, it showed 94-95% effectiveness. It is a two-part vaccine with the second dose given 21-28 days after the first injection. It is important to get both doses of the vaccine as the second dose is needed to create immunity to the virus.

The implementation of the vaccine will lead our communities back toward the environment our residents and families have grown to love, one which includes regular visits with family, excursions out to town, and group programming. Our communities are partnering with Walgreens and CVS to conduct on site clinics in each of our communities with no out of pocket cost to residents or associates. We are strongly encouraging all residents and associates to agree to receive the vaccine.

Frequently Asked Questions:

What type of vaccine is the COVID-19 vaccine?

The COVID-19 vaccine is an intra-muscular injection. It is a two-part vaccine with the second dose given 21-28 days after the first injection. It is important to get both doses of the vaccine as the secondary dose assists with developing lasting immunity to the virus.

Is the Vaccine safe?

Yes. The COVID-19 vaccines have been tested in clinical trials and are deemed to be safe. In clinical trials both young adults ages 18-55 and older adults ages 65-85 tolerated the vaccines well. More than 70,000 people participated in the Phase 3 clinical trials for the Moderna and Pfizer vaccines.

The COVID-19 vaccines do not use live viruses. These vaccines use a carrier that delivers the characteristic information of the COVID -19 virus to your muscle cells prompting it to create the S-protein (spike protein) that prompts the immune system to build an immune response (short term) and memory(long-term) to that spike protein.

Are the COVID-19 vaccines effective?

Clinical trials have shown the COVID-19 vaccines are 94-95% effective.

Why was COVID-19 Vaccine developed so quickly?

Past research on the mRNA delivery system, combined with past research on the SARS and MERS viruses has assisted in the quick development of the COVID-19 vaccine.

What are the side-effects of the COVID-19 Vaccine?

Side effects include: Localized reactions - swelling, redness and pain at injection site. Other side effects include fatigue, headache, muscle pain, chills, joint pain, fever.

Where can I get the COVID-19 vaccine?

State run vaccine sites. (May be earliest option for community associates). Partnership vaccine clinics with CVS, Walgreens and other pharmacy providers. (CSL will coordinate for all residents and associates that choose this option.)

Check with your community, health department or pharmacy for more details.

Click here to read more about our response to COVID-19.

Beginning on January 12, we have now completed 21 successful vaccine clinics across our community with the remainder of our communities' scheduled in the coming weeks. With 94-95% effectiveness, the CDC (Centers for Disease Control and Prevention) says over 14 million individuals in the United States have received their first dose of the COVID-19 vaccine and over two million have received their final dose. We are proud to do our part in "crushing COVID" and continuing to protect our beloved residents and associates.

If you still have questions about the COVID-19 vaccine, Josh Allen, Clinical & Resident Care Leader at Commonwealth Senior Living and principal at Allen Flores Consulting Group, has weighed in to give you the most accurate answers to your questions. To read these frequently asked questions and answers, click the button below.

Now that all of our communities have successfully completed their first COVID-19 vaccine clinics, Commonwealth Senior Living is looking forward to beginning our second round of clinics with Walgreens and CVS on site with no out of pocket cost to residents or associates. It is important to get both doses of the vaccine as the second dose is needed to create over 90% immunity to the virus. We are strongly encouraging all residents and associates to agree to receive the vaccine, and this second round of clinics is the perfect time.

Over 26 million individuals in the United States have received their first dose of the COVID-19 vaccine and over six million have received their final dose. However, we know you still have questions regarding the vaccine and we want to make sure you have those answers. Josh Allen, Clinical & Resident Care Leader at Commonwealth Senior Living and principal at Allen Flores Consulting Group, has weighed in to give you the most accurate answers to your questions and debunk the myths about COVID-19.

1. Myth: The COVID-19 vaccine might give me the COVID-19 virus.
   Fact: The vaccines do not use live viruses. They use a carrier that delivers the characteristic information of the COVID-19 virus to your muscle cells, prompting them to create the S-protein that prompts the immune system to build response and memory to that protein.
2. Myth: If I've had COVID-19 before, I can't get it again.
   Fact: Although previously having the COVID-19 virus does improve your chances of not contracting the virus a second time within the first 90 days, you can contract it a second time. The COVID-19 vaccine, however, has been proven to be 94-95% effective.
3. Myth: If I already got my flu shot, I don't need to get the COVID-19 vaccine.
   Fact: You should also get the flu shot, as the COVID-19 vaccine does not eliminate risk of both.
4. Myth: The side effects of the COVID-19 vaccine are dangerous.
   Fact: Only a small percentage of individuals who have received the vaccine have reported side effects. The side effects that have occurred typically pass within 24 hours and can include symptoms such as swelling, redness and pain at the injection site, fatigue, headache, muscle pain, chills, joint pain and fever.
5. Myth: The vaccine was created quickly, so it can't be safe.
   Fact: Past research on the mRNA delivery system, combined with past research on the SARS and MERS viruses has assisted in the quick development of the COVID-19 vaccine.

Check in with your community, health department or pharmacy for more details about receiving the COVID-19 vaccine, and watch our virtual presentation here.

By the end of March 2021, all but one of our communities will have successfully completed three COVID-19 vaccine clinics. This means we will be confidently moving forward to a new "normal" with a two phased, post vaccination reopening plan including "Phase Green" and "Phase Red."

We believe these new phases will provide the opportunity to return to normal as much as possible while continuing to enhance our prevention best practices.

Learn more about our post vaccination phasing plan here.

As of Friday, March 26, all of our communities are in Phase Green. As we move forward toward our new normal, we are excited to welcome you back into our communities.

To visit a community or get in touch for additional information, contact the community nearest you.

Why did you join Commonwealth Senior Living?

Bob Raymond, Vice-President of Dining Services, was a big influence on my decision. Commonwealth Senior Living really sets the bar when it comes to food. Their Farm to Table, clean-label products initiatives, and others offer our residents the freshest options available anywhere. We also have a robust clean label policy which means if you can't find it in your pantry then we don't serve it. We are a scratch kitchen where we build meals using actual ingredients - not packaged dishes. You don't find that at other senior living providers or even a lot of restaurants.

What is your favorite thing about your job?

I was raised by my grandmother who recently passed away. Joining Commonwealth was like getting 60+ new grandparents. They are my family, and I love each and every one of them. It is such an honor to be a part of their lives, and it's my opportunity to give back to folks who deserve to enjoy themselves. They shouldn't have to worry about cleaning dishes or preparing good meals; that is my job. I really am blessed to work with our residents. Recently, I was serving a group of residents ice-cream and was joking with them that the only reason they like me is because I serve them ice-cream. They responded with: "We love you anyway, but the ice cream helps." That is the type of interaction with residents that I love. We really are one big family.

What is your favorite food?

I'm a huge foodie! I love a variety of different things, but I'm definitely a meat and potatoes type of guy which is perfect because so are our residents here at Radford. Creating meals for them that they enjoy puts a smile on my face. This is the most rewarding career I've ever had.

This year's winners are:

• West Region and Overall Associate of the Year: Tara Stancill, Registered Medication Associate, Commonwealth Senior Living at Christiansburg
• Central Region Associate of the Year: Candise Carter, Dining Services Associate, Commonwealth Senior Living at the West End
• East Region Associate of the Year: Carla Taylor, Resident Care Associate, Commonwealth Memory Care at Norfolk
• Executive Director of the Year: Amber Foster, Commonwealth Senior Living at Front Royal
• Resident Care Director of the Year: Mona Drummond, Commonwealth Senior Living at Georgian Manor
• Sales & Marketing Director of the Year: Jessica Culotta, Commonwealth Senior Living at Gloucester House
• Regional Support Associate of the Year: Danny Ruiz, East Regional Maintenance Director
• Home Office Associate of the Year: Angela Kennedy, Accounting

We would like to extend our appreciation and congratulations to each of these incredible individuals. Their passion and commitment for doing what is right has helped make us the premier senior living provider in Virginia! Thank you!

P.S. Are you curious about what's attached to their lapels? Throughout the night, guests shared what they appreciated about each other by clipping on clothes pins labeled with sayings like "helpful," "kind," or "hard worker."

That was when Danny Ruiz and John Dail stepped up and went that day to move everything the family needed. Hats off to Danny and John for dropping everything and helping a family become a part of our family at Commonwealth. It's a great example of why we believe we have the best team!

"I totally love working at Kings Grant. Being a part of the residents daily life and sharing my time with them is so rewarding. This picture is of me and Lucille Anderson. Everyday she makes me smile with a hug and a kiss on the cheek. She loves to play cards and go for walks outside. On one occasion, I was not having a super day, and as much as I tried to hide it, Lucille knew. She came to me, took my hand and we danced to the music. It was wonderful again.  These residents are so full of wisdom. I love to talk to them and share with them. I find it so interesting to hear about their life and what they have lived through. I feel so lucky to be a part of that."

It is truly a blessing to learn about our residents' lives, hear their stories, and share our lives with them as they do with us. For our caregivers, this is not a job. It is a calling. Thank you to all of those who came when they were called. We are grateful for you. Click the button below to learn more about career opportunities in caregiving.

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"As we all know, we become very close to our residents and families. We become part of their family. We celebrate birthdays, successes, anniversaries, and their day to day happiness. We learn as much as we can in a short amount of time to make the last years, months, or even days relaxing and comfortable. We, as professionals, not only watch our residents decline, but our families suffer too.  I love what I do and cannot imaging doing it anywhere else. Here is the reason why.

I have a resident who is transitioning rather quickly. I have not been in the building since last Thursday, and when I arrived the entire family was here. They are here to support each other and mom. Tearing up, telling good stories, listening to each others memories, and wondering how long this process will take. As I checked on them today, I took our Sweet Melodies iPod and head sets into the room. I was able to hook up the iPod and 4 sets of headphones for each family member and resident to listen to her playlist. The playlist had been compiled several months ago just for her. Music touches everyone in different ways, and I hoped as I entered the room this would be a positive experience in a difficult time. The family and the resident began to sing together as the music played. At a time of such sorrow, it was so peaceful and soothing to watch this family take comfort and joy in what may be the last activity they are able to participate in with their mom.   

Sweet Melodies is one of my favorite programs here at CMC. Today taught me how much music plays in each of our lives."

If you're interested in a meaningful career full of stories just like these, take a look at our open opportunities.

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Special thanks to our premier sponsors: Direct Supply, Essenensa & Innovatix, and ALSCO and everyone else who came out to support our associates. With the help of our supporters, Commonwealth Cares has been able to disburse $99,000 to 67 individuals so far this year.

A flood. A fire. A tornado. Death of a loved one. Long-term sickness. An accident. A tragedy. Homelessness. Commonwealth Senior Living recognizes that life can change in one minute, and one minute is all it takes to help change the life of a family in crisis. Commonwealth Cares, Inc. is dedicated to changing the lives of Commonwealth Senior Living associates who change the lives of seniors every day.

Through the support of donors and CSL associates, Commonwealth Cares provides grants that never need to be repaid in times of incredible hardship. Commonwealth Senior Living knows its associates live by a noble purpose: We improve the lives of seniors, their families, and each other. Commonwealth Cares is built on the same beliefs that our associates live by each and every day at Commonwealth Senior Living: We Listen, We Love, We Care, We Serve.

Click the button below if you know a Commonwealth Senior Living associate who needs help or would like to support this cause.

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"My grandmother had Vascular Dementia, and seeing what she and my family had to go through just to find someone who had a passion for what they did in terms of good personal and professional care inspired me. Recognizing this gap made me want to dedicate my life to giving my all to anyone in need of my professional care and love.

I became a CNA (Certified Nursing Assistant) when I was 17 and worked only with people who had Alzheimer's and Dementia.  For seven years I worked at The Memory Center of Virginia Beach.  After that, I decided to start looking to see what else I could do to make a difference in the lives of the elderly.

I accepted a job at Commonwealth Senior Living at Leigh Hall and began acting as an Activity Assistant.  Immediately I felt that 'this' is what I have been missing my entire career.  The Executive Director-in-Training saw the passion in my eyes from day one.  She began to train and teach me everything she knew.  Finally, I was doing the important and fun part of senior living!

Six months later I got the opportunity to transfer to Commonwealth Senior Living at King's Grant House to work as the Program Director.  Coming to King's Grant was the best decision I have ever made in my career. I was able to achieve this milestone with the support of my fellow associates, who I am also lucky to call a family."

If you're interested in improving the lives of seniors and their families, click the button below to explore our available career opportunities.

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This year, the Golf Classic was held on September 17th at the Kingsmill Resort in Williamsburg, VA, where we raised more than $100,000 for Commonwealth Cares.  More than 240 associates have received financial assistance from Commonwealth Cares since 2015, totaling over $380,000 in aid, out of $477,000 raised. One of those associates is Ernesha Francis, an associate at Commonwealth Senior Living in Williamsburg.  She said, "Earlier this year, I was homeless for an extended period of time. When I became an employee of Commonwealth Senior Living in June 2018, my Executive Director helped me apply for Commonwealth Cares. I was accepted and was able to get back on my feet.  Now, my newborn baby and I have a roof over our heads, thanks to all the incredible individuals who support this wonderful organization. Today, I'm blessed to be able to contribute financially to Commonwealth Cares so that others--like me--can feel secure in knowing that Commonwealth cares and Commonwealth Senior Living are there for them."

We would like to say, "Thank You" to our sponsors, especially our signature sponsors, Essensa & Innovatix and Remedi Senior Care.  Additional thanks are owed to BridgeTrust Title Group, Care Advantage, Compton Counts, Inc., DB3, Entercom Richmond, Fischer Group, Kramer + Marks, Love & Company, Masters Mechanical Corp., MSA, P.C., PC&A Business Environments, Senior Living Smart, T&N Printing, VCPI, ALSCO, BrightView Landscape Services, Brown and Brown Insurance, Guardian Pharmacy, CDW, Direct Supply, Draper Aden Associates, Fox Rehab, Ix Foundation, McGriff Insurance Services (BB&T Insurance), McGuire Woods LLP, OnShift, Procurement Partners, S&D Coffee, US Foods, McDonald Building Company, Morgan Lewis Bockius, Rich Products Corporation, Commonwealth Partnerships, O'Hagan Meyer, Triple "S" Termite & Pest Control Inc., Williams Mullen, USI Insurance, Q Master Billiards, State Cleaning Solutions, and The Virginian-Pilot.

As Richard Brewer, Founder and Chief Executive Officer explained, "Commonwealth Cares is an extension of our Purpose as a company to make a difference in the lives of our residents, our families, and each other every day."

For more information about Commonwealth Cares, visit www.commonwealthcares.net.

On October 10, 2018 CSL announced that it has entered into an agreement with Pinnacle Living to purchase Hermitage Eastern Shore in Onancock. CSL has committed to investing $3 million in capital improvements to the senior living community, converting the skilled nursing wing into memory care and adding independent living services.

The community, which will be known as Commonwealth Senior Living at the Eastern Shore, will have the area's first dedicated memory care neighborhood and be the only independent living provider on the shore. "We understand the importance of continuing the mission Pinnacle Living has so capably carried on for more than 50 years, and we are both excited and honored to have the opportunity to bring our passion and our expertise in caring for seniors to the Eastern Shore, " said CSL CEO, Richard Brewer. "While nursing home utilization has declined over the last 10 years, the need or more affordable options such as independent living, assisted living, and memory care has grown. We are making a significant commitment to ensure those needs are met."

"This decision came after many months of careful consideration and research into who would be a good partner to continue our mission of enriching life's journey," said Pinnacle Living President and CEO Christopher P. Henderson. "We are pleased with CSL's plan to further invest in the community, the additional services and its commitment to ensuring the community will remain a resource to seniors on the Eastern Shore for the long term."

All residents living in the community are expected to remain and will not see any increase in their base rate for at least 12 months. Those residents currently residing in nursing will be assessed in the coming weeks to ensure their needs can be met in assisted living. It is expected that those residents will see a reduction in their monthly fee once the transition to assisted living is complete. Skilled nursing services will continue to be available through local home health providers.

CSL and Pinnacle Living will work together during the transition from nursing to assisted living to determine staffing needs and any associates not retained will be offered a severance package from Pinnacle Living. It is expected there will be future opportunities to grow employment as renovations are completed and occupancy grows.

CSL will begin management of the community next month once the nursing beds are decertified. The transaction is expected to be complete before the end of the year with construction starting shortly thereafter.

For a listing of other communities nearby, visit our communities page: https://www.commonwealthsl.com/our-communities/.

Patty Hinson was named Commonwealth Senior Living's highest honor of Associate of the Year and was selected out of 2000+ caring associates. She has served the residents of Commonwealth Senior Living at Front Royal in the dining room and as a volunteer for the last 5 years. She truly loves our residents, comes in on her own time, and arrived to serve on Christmas morning "with bells on". Thank you, Patty, for all that you do!

Jennifer Mayhew of Commonwealth Senior Living at Charlottesville was named Business Office Manager of the Year for her "eagerness to help others". Amber Turner, our Regional Director of HR noted, "Jennifer managed a special payroll project, executed a huge amount of data entry from adding 10 new communities to the CSL Family, became a successful mentor, and was crucial in the development and implementation of developing the Business Office Manager training at the Center of Excellence. Also, in addition to all this she welcomed a baby girl in May."

Frank Carlon of Commonwealth Senior Living at Chesterfield was named Maintenance Director of the Year. His passion for enhancing the look and feel of the building and his commitment to doing everything possible to help residents feel at home is evident to all. Thank you, Frank, for your work ethic and love of our residents.

Dining Service Director of the Year was awarded to Chef Andre Smith of Commonwealth Senior Living at Gloucester House. His commitment to creating delicious and healthy meals for our residents as well as his 26 appearances on Virginia This Morning have made him a culinary leader who we all look up to.

Program Professional of the Year was awarded to Linda Gill-Smith of Commonwealth Senior Living at South Boston who was described as perhaps "the most compassionate and engaging associate we have". She was recognized for her passion and commitment to living our Core Values every day.

Three Resident Care Directors were recognized for the excellence in care. Sara Helsley of Front Royal who "gives her all at work while being a wonderful, single mother of three. She is strong, determined, and dedicated." Her Executive Director, Amber Foster is quoted as saying "She continues to make me proud each and every day and I know the community is in good hands if she has anything at all to do with it. Having her by my side as the nurse in charge for the past 3 years has been challenging at times for us both, but we have learned and supported each other along the way."

Carlette Dickerson of Farnham who "cares about people enough to be accessible and ready to go at all times. She does the right thing by always treating our associates and her peers with respect and dignity, even in the most trying of circumstances."

Lila Hall of Abingdon "is a calm, caring force in the community who comes early and stays late despite a 1.5 commute to work each way". Giovanni Montague-Sneed, SVP of Resident Care was quoted in saying, "Lila works tirelessly to do her best to treat all residents, their families, and their associates with respect, absorbing their worries and fears, and making sure they are happy to call her community home!"

Our CSL Sales Presidents Club inductees were chosen for their work as peer mentors who have in many times covered multiple communities and cumulatively welcomed 288 new families in our communities throughout 2019. Six Sales & Marketing Directors were honored as President's Club inductees: Earnie Taylor, Robin Shrader, Kristi Massey, Stephanie Johnston, Stephanie Horrell, and Christy Puckett. SVP of Sales and Marketing, Kristy Ruppe Craddock was quoted as saying, "They are leaders, innovators, and mentors with humbling drive and unlike any other sales professionals I have worked with before. We are so fortunate to get to learn from these amazingly dedicated professionals each day "

Sharon Jones, Executive Director of Commonwealth Senior Living at Chesterfield received our Evolution Award for persevering through diversity and spending "countless hours with families, community partners, and associates with the goal of improving the lives of seniors". A member of Senior Leadership is quoted as saying, "While she is firm, she is also incredibly loving and sentimental.  She is bold and fearless and leans into almost any challenge."

Stephanie Horrell, Sales and Marketing Director at Commonwealth Senior Living at Chesterfield was recognized with our Rising Star Award for welcoming more seniors into our community than we have ever served before, and for lending help to sister communities. SVP of Sales and Marketing, Kristy Ruppe Craddock was quoted as saying, "We called upon her and she was willing accepted the charge to be a peer mentor and offered to support neighboring West End and Monument Avenue through transition and growth when absent an SMD.  She fervently looks for ways to improve her craft, all the while holding steadfast to our Core Values and Noble Selling Purpose.  She is studious and passionate.  She doesn't need or require the spotlight or the attention, but boy does she deserve it!"

A "natural and servant leader, unrelenting in his pursuit of excellence", Reuben Canty, Executive Director of Commonwealth Senior Living at The West End was named Executive Director of the Year. A member of Senior Leadership is quoted as saying, "He is that leader that inspires me to stand a little taller, love a little harder and give more of myself to those I support."

Commonwealth Senior Living at Chesterfield was named Community of the Year for always "feeling good and enjoying excellent management in all departments".

Erika Gennari was recognized as Home Office Support Associate of the Year for her efforts in welcoming our 10 new communities while supporting the existing 22 in marketing strategy (advertising, PR, social media, and collateral). Kristy Ruppe Craddock, SVP was quoted as saying, "She does all of this with a passion for success and rock-solid commitment to our Core Values and Noble Selling Purpose. Erika is never the person to complain or demand authorship or recognition.  What's even more impressive, her positivity and eager spirit never falters. To best sum it up, she truly is the Oz of Sales & Marketing ."

Regional Support Associate of the Year was given to Ronda Duckworth, Regional Vice President of the Central region who is "always present, calm, and caring" in her guidance and coaching of community leaders. A member of Senior Leadership is quoted in saying, "Ronda is present and engaged with her team, with her counter parts and with any associate she encounters, she is present and in the moment.  In fact, she is so astute and an expert level listener, any interaction with Ronda leaves you feeling as though your conversation and time with her is the singular most important thing in her orbit at the moment."

Below are some of their stories from more than 100 years of combined experience about their love of their meaningful careers:

Sonja Dotson, Executive Director at CSL Cedar Bluff – “This is me and Helen. Helen was my next-door neighbor growing up and now lives here at CSL Cedar Bluff. She has no children, so when we had family night, she was sad that no one would be there to take a picture with her. I told her I would love to have a picture with her and she keeps a copy in a frame on her bedside table. She is my resident, but most importantly, my friend. Being a nurse is so much more than just taking care of people when they are sick. It’s providing them with joy. Being happy is the best medicine.”

Sarah Delano, Executive Director at CSL Stafford – “It’s hard to believe, but I’ve been a nurse for the past 23 years! I started out following my mother who was a nurse, carrying around her stethoscope & wearing her nurses cap as a small child. I was also always my dad’s shadow, & as a pastor, he would take us to all of the church events. One of my favorite memories & past times has been working with our seniors at church! I am so glad I was shown at a young age how to care for & serve others by my parents! The last 10 years of my nursing career have been with seniors specifically, and each day is a special gift! As I have seen with my own two grandmothers having Alzheimer’s, each moment counts, & being able to help families & share in their journey has been amazing. I could not ask for a more perfect job. I love to serve & love on our residents & their families!”

Nicole Garrettson, Resident Care Director at CSL Radford – “I have been a nurse since June, 2005 and have been with CSL since February, 2019. I started as a Resident Care Director at CSL Hillsville, then went to PRN to teach Direct Care and RMA classes, but quickly missed the role at CSL and landed back at CSL Radford. I absolutely love my role as I have found my heart desires to be with the elderly. I love the the teaching aspect this role entails as well. My favorite part of my day is seeing my residents excel when a new goal has been met, or a new transition has been overcome.”

Marvin Crump, Executive Director at CSL South Boston – “I have been a nurse for 11 amazing years. Nursing has always been my calling, however serving our seniors is my passion. I am inspired to work in senior living every day because I know that I improve the lives of seniors daily. I consider all my residents family; we laugh, cry, and always make time to have fun. My favorite part of my day is arriving at the community. I look forward to greeting my team, residents, and families.”

Kim Hurt, CSL Hampton Roads Regional Vice President – “I have been a nurse for 37 years. My passion has always been in senior care. Knowing that I make a difference each day gives me purpose.”

Kelly Comer, Resident Care Director at CSL South Boston – “I have been a nurse for over 21 years and have worked in different areas of healthcare. I’ve worked in the assisted living industry for a year and half. My reason for being a nurse would be helping people to feel better. I love being a nurse!”

Jody Snyder, Resident Care Director at CSL Bel Air – “I have been in my current role as Resident Care Director for 10 years. What inspires me is helping my associates and residents to have the best day possible. I feel so empowered giving peace of mind to our residents and families. My favorite part of my day is the morning when I am greeting my associates and giving the updates on their residents. I try to get them excited and wanting to make it a good day!”

Jennifer Kelley, Resident Care Director at CSL Kilmarnock – “I have been a nurse for almost 14 years. I am inspired to work in senior living everyday because I know I can make a difference every day. I can make someone smile. Other than coffee, I would have to say the best part of my day is greeting my residents at breakfast and talking to them!”

Amanda Lehto, Executive Director at CSL Gloucester House – “I have been a nurse for 21 years – the last 10 in senior living management. I was originally drawn to senior living due to my mother’s lifelong struggles with an autoimmune disease. I wanted a better environment for residents and pursued and obtained my Executive Director license to manage my own building. My favorite part of the day is when a family struggling with placing their loved one in senior living thanks me for doing what I do and expresses how much it has helped them and their family.”

Alicia Cosby, Resident Care Director at CSL Gloucester House – “I met Cathy, Chastity, Stacey, Fredrina, and other members of the team while working at CSL Gloucester House. We have become like sisters. I started as an LPN with medication management, then moved one to LPN supervisor and scheduler. Now becoming the Resident Care Director has been one of my best accomplishments, and I plan to go as far as I can with the company.”

Lary Hulsey, Allen Flores Consulting Group’s Nurse Support Manager, and Josh Allen, RN & Principal, Clinical & Resident Care Leader shared, “Happy National Nurses Week ‘Pineapple Heroes!’ Words can not express the heartfelt appreciation experienced by all of those that you have cared for and touched as you have endured the relentless pressure put upon you through this past year. Your never-ending dedication, personal sacrifices, tireless efforts, an comforting spirits provided the necessary strength to so many affected by this terrible pandemic. Hold your heads high and know that you are loved for what you do each and every day. You truly are ‘Pineapple Heroes.’” Thank you for all that you do!

We seek kind-hearted individuals to bring joy and offer support in the everyday lives of seniors in ever aspect of our communities. We invite you to apply to the opportunities that inspire you, so that you may not only build your career, but you may also make a difference in the lives of others. Click here to view opportunities at Commonwealth Senior Living.

Dawn Phillips, Activities Assistant at CSL Stratford House - "When I first applied to CSL Stratford House, it was for a job to make money. I had left a teaching career and was looking for something different where my talents could be used. My plan was to come into the Sweet Memories Neighborhood and teach the residents how to remember things they forgot. I wanted to be their lifeline in a time of COVID-19 when family could not be around. After working in Sweet Memories for one year on May 5, I have learned that just the reverse is true. The residents have taught me the things I had forgotten - how to be kind, eager to learn and share, how to be a part of group of friends who are strangers, and many, many other things. The residents have become my lifeline. I care so much for each of them as if they were my family. In a time of COVID-19, it is comforting to see so many people I care about smiling each day. That is why I come to work - to see the people I care about smiling and happy!"

Rhonda Hollie, Program Director at CSL Stratford House - "My answer is simple. I have been doing this job here at CSL Stratford House, serving these residents and their families for over 27 years. I enter the community each day knowing if I can bring a smile to a resident's face, joy to their day, provide the care that they need, listen to their stories and provide a quality life for them, that is WHY I enjoy my job and have been providing this for this community for so long. There are many memories over the many years that fill my heart with joy just knowing I helped provide love, care and a listening ear to serve them with my whole heart."Soltana Fox, Program Director at CSL Berryville - "How could I think of just one why? How could I narrow down the hundreds of stories I have heard, the hundreds of hugs I have gotten and the thousands of smiles I see each and every day? After thinking about it for a few days, I finally had an answer. I have been with CSL for almost 4 years, first at CSL Front Royal and this year transferred to CSL Berryville. Every day is a new day, a new smile, a new laugh, a new tear, a new memory. My why is that some days I am the only person that a resident come into contact with. I am that resident's daughter, granddaughter, sister and best friend. Sometimes I was even a husband. But to that person at that time, I was their somebody. Each day I am thankful and blessed to be able to spend my days with the residents - the people who I can laugh and cry with. They are my family. They are the reason, besides my husband and children, that I can get out of bed and enjoy my day. My husband once asked me if we won the lottery if I would quit my job, and I immediately said NO. It's not a job to me, it's one of the best parts of my day. My why? Why not? Why not spend a few minutes making someone happy? Why not sit and sing a few songs with someone? Why not hold the hand of someone who needs that extra special touch? Why not give that person a hug when you can tell they are having a bad day?"Hannah Hembree, Program Assistant at CSL Oak Ridge - "Why do I tumble out of bed, stumble into the kitchen and pour myself a cup of ambition? I do it because I know that at some point in the day, I'm going to get to make someone smile. There's no greater feeling than knowing that you've made someone's day brighter. Next to laughter, music is one of the best medicines out there to calm a worried mind and lift a spirit. I try to bring that into the lives of our residents every day. It gives me life to see a resident's face light up as they listen to music. I feel that music connects us, not only to the world around us, but to one another's souls. Could there be anything more rewarding than that? That is why I do what I do."Susan Bell, Program Director at CSL Front Royal - "When I was a little girl, I was blessed to have both sets of grandparents who were very active in my life. Both of my parents worked, so I spent my days with my grandmother, grandfather and their friends. Their friends became my friends. My other granddaddy taught me how to drive, how to "rob" bees, how to drive a tractor and many other things that would have terrified my parents at the time. I learned a lot and loved hearing their stories. As we just celebrated Memorial Day, I have been in awe of the World War II stories that some of my former residents have shared with me. From the glider pilot for Operation "Market Garden" to someone whostormed the beaches at Normandy and was the only one in his platoon to walk away from the experience, to those who served all over the world and those who supported them at home. Their stories touch me and I am so grateful to be part of their lives. One of the many high points in my career was facilitating a visit to the Udvar-Hazy Museum to see the Enola Gay with my residents who served in WWII in the Pacific. That was the most touching moment ever. Of course, each resident got their picture taken in front of it, and some just stood there with tears in their eyes as they took a moment to reflect. Creating moments like these on many different levels, is what keeps me coming back day after day. To this day, I am more at ease with older adults than I am with anyone else. I find it the greatest of privileges to spend my days creating joyful moments, events, lending an ear, working out with, loving and caring for older adults. This is the most rewarding job ever!"Elaine Abraham, Program Assistant at CMC Chesapeake - "My inspiration are my grandparents, especially my grandma Gavina. I love her dearly and I miss her so much. She is the reason why I am working in senior living. I feel that she is always with me when I am around seniors. I know that she is watching over me and so proud. There wasn't much time to spend with my grandparents. So, I realize that I should pay it forward and make a difference in someone's life. Our time is limited in this world. Everyday is a blessing. I am blessed that I have the opportunity to work in this environment."Savannah Reed, Activity Assistant at CMC Chesapeake - "I am still pretty new here at CMC Chesapeake, but I sure am loving this job so far! My 'why' tends to fluctuate depending on when I am asked but overall it is because I am very happy to have found a niche that I am comfortable in and can see the way I affect the resident's days. Being in this memory care community is different than assisted living because for some of the residents, when they see me, it may feel like the first time meeting me again. Although I know my name is not remembered by the residents most of the time, I understand that they trust me and realize I provide a happy environment for them. This is an incredible feeling for me! I always enjoy being able to see their moods and facial expressions improve during the day due to the activities that we are providing. Overall, I would say that my 'why' is to be able to improve the days of my residents. Any time I can make them feel loved and listened to is very rewarding for me."Kristi Mason, Program Director at CSL Abingdon - "I was raised with my grandparents, so being around seniors was my life. Over the last few weeks, I realized times goes too fast. I will give you a poem. 'Time is like a river. You cannot touch the same water twice, because the flow that has passed again. Enjoy every moment in life.' So my "why" is time - time with my residents, families, and coworkers that become family. I used my time to prepare fun memories and events for our residents each day. I'm all about time with our residents. I know more about their lives past and now, than anyone in the community because I get the time with them as my job. Time is special, crucial and needed always."Chantal Sigmon, Program Assistant at CSL Bel Air - "When we were asked why we do what we do, I couldn't figure out an exact reason. I knew a long time ago I chose the wrong career path. I was a 14 year old kid in a vocational high school that chose art over medicine and never got as far as I'd have liked. I have a degree in graphic design and now as an adult, I am pursuing a degree in psychology. I hope to combine these two loves into an art therapy program to help our residents express themselves when words fail."Mary Mathis, Program Director at CSL Bel Air - "I've worked in elder care in one capacity or another my whole adult life. It can be extremely challenging and very rewarding. 2020 has had its unique challenges and frustrations for everyone, but it was also my first year as a Program Director and probably one of my most rewarding years ever at a job. In a year where so many were isolating at home and working online, I consider myself lucky to be able to get up and out every day to see people who have become my own surrogate family. We have always said at Commonwealth we are each other's family, but never have I felt that as much as I have this past year. And for the first time in my working career, I came to realize that I needed these folks as much as they may have needed me."Shannon Sobieski, Program Director at CSL Cedar Manor - "Senior living is more than a career, it is a calling for me. Being the Program Director at CSL Cedar Manor gives me purpose and meaning in my life. My job makes me want to get up everyday and improve the lives of seniors. Since I was a little girl, I always had a special bond with my grandmother. Everyday when I come into work, I look at our residents and they remind me of the time I spent with my grandmother. Time is precious to me. Since I no longer have my grandparents, I look forward to building relationships with my residents. I strive to build strong relationships with families so they trust me and know their loved one is in good hands. I know my grandmother is looking down on me and proud of me for improving the lives of seniors."Jennifer Roberts, Program Director at CSL Chesterfield - "The question is 'why,' but there are so many reasons why I do this job. My grandfather passed away from dementia, encouraging me to want to understand the disease more. I wish I knew then what I know now thanks to all the training CSL offers. I could say my 'why' is my residents, paying bills, or just simply that I love what I do. But my main 'why' is the family members. I have reunited families with their loved one so they can transition in peace, knowing they have been forgiven. They are my family, and what do you do for family? You protect your own. I have been shown so much support and love from families - I have been in slide shows at memorials, invited to yearly family reunions, and even invited on family vacations! Reading the card below, you will understand 'why' it's about families!"Vickey Gibson, Activities Assistant at CSL Chesterfield - "I have been working with seniors for 11 years, and the question is 'why?' I say, 'why not?' Seniors are my passion. After taking care of my parents, I learned they need a lot of understanding, love and attention. If I can put a smile on their face, then I feel like I made a difference. I want my residents to know that I'm there to make sure they are always treated with dignity and respect. I always come to work with a positive attitude no matter what because one thing we all need to remember is, it's about the residents, not ourselves."Corrine Shelor, Program Director at CSL Christiansburg - "God, Self, Family, Work. What does this mean to me? God: God guides me to those who are in need. Self: Remembering I am important and that I matter. Family: They are my love and support system. Work: It not only gives me the ability to provide, but is one of the best jobs I've ever had. I get to see the smiling faces of residents every day and let them know they matter, are special, and that no matter how old we get, life is precious. So make the most of it and have fun!"Linda Fasnacht, Program Assistant at CSL Christiansburg - "The best reason why I love my job is the residents' smiles! It is suc a joy to see them smile because of the activities I do with them, or the crazy jokes I tell them, or just simply talking to them. I was supposed to retire from working in 2 years, but I love my job so much; I think I'll stick around for 7 years and retire at age 67. Each day I go home knowing I made these very special people smile. I can't ask for more joy in my life."Michelle Maxey, Concierge at CSL Christiansburg - "The residents are why I come to work every day. Five and a half years ago, when I first started, I thought to myself, "how am I ever going to remember all these names?" Now fast forward to today, I feel like I'm just as much a part of their family as they are to me."Kayla Colonna, Programming Assistant at CSL Eastern Shore - "My 'why' stems from when I was a teenager. I always enjoyed doing volunteer work and helping out wherever I could. I eventually became a part of an organization called REACH (Real Experiences Affecting Change). We did all sorts of volunteer work from painting churches, building wheel chair ramps, and helping out at the local homeless shelter. My all-time favorite part was hearing their stories, each and every person has a story to tell. There is a Bible verse that says 'You are the salt of the Earth.' Have you ever considered the many uses of salt? As being this salt, I help preserve life in my residents. I help to create a thirst in others to live. I desire to work with my residents to help melt away their hardness. In ancient times, salt was a valuable commodity and people were rewarded with it. It is rewarding today to be that salt. We as a programming team are the salt in our residents' lives."Laurie Redilla, Program Director at CSL Georgian Manor - "I grew up having my grandparents in the backyard. I saw my grandparents daily. It was a rare occasion if we did not have breakfast, lunch, or dinner together. My grandparents were with us when my parents were working, snow days from school, family celebrations, and holidays. In fact, our local school system always commented when my grandfather would come to pick us up from school. His reason was we had a "dental" appointment. the school secretary once said, "those kids must have the cleanest teeth in town." Really my Poppy wanted a lunch date and always said there was more learning to do outside of school doors. I really cannot remember a time when they were not with us. As a child I took this process for granted. It was natural and an amazing experience. As I started my own family and found myself in a new state and without family around, I realized the importance of seniors in our lives. My children didn't have the same relationship I had with their grandparents. They're close to my family, but it's not like being next door. Phone calls, facetimes, text messages, and note cards became their way of staying in touch. As they grew older and more independent, I changed career paths and started to work in senior living. I have never looked back! I love the opportunity to hear someone's story, tell a story of my own, play cards, take a walk, eat an ice cream cone, have a coffee, or just sit and hold someone's hand. Our seniors enrich our lives more than I can ever express. I thank God every day for the incredible journey He has led me down and for the incredible people I have met along the way. Life at Commonwealth Senior Living is good!"Susann Capone, Activities Director at CSL Georgian Manor - "I didn't know how to put into words how I feel about working with the seniors and how I feel like I am making a difference in their lives. Until one day, I was watching the maple tree seeds floating through the air and landing everyone. Some landed on the grass, some landed on the pavement, and as I watched, I realized the maple seeds were like my residents. The residents that are kept busy through activities, which would be the seeds that landed on the grass and soil, have a better chance to thrive and flourish. The seeds that land on the pavement don't have a good chance of thriving but withering away. That's what we do in Programming. We are like the gentle breeze that comes along and blows the seeds off the pavement onto the soil and gives them the chance."Nichole Hanson, Activities Assistant at CSL Georgian Manor - "Waking up each morning and getting ready for work is so easy when you love what you do. People ask all the time what I love about my job. I sit back and reflect on my days of reminiscing, hearing stories about the 'one true love' of the resident's life, the smiles and laughter they contribute to the community each day, and how they light up with visits from family and friends. I have great fulfillment in my day knowing I have helped enrich the lives of my residents. Each resident is special to me. They could remind me of my grandma, a friend's mom or dad, or an older neighbor I used to have. They make me a better person! If I made them smile, 'I did my job,' but they make me smile too! Thank you CSL for allowing me to be a part of a big family!"Jazmin Cuevas Perez, Activities Assistant at CSL Gloucester House - "I have fell in love with my job, with our residents, and how I can help their families. I am from Puerto Rico and my entire family is still there, so when I come to work, the residents make me feel like I am at home. I know that I am not alone anymore, and they need me as much as I need them. I am fortunate that I can be here with the residents to help them through this change, just as a family member would."James Ramsburg, Program Director at CSL Hagerstown - "I chose to work at CSL because caring for individuals with dementia is my calling. I feel as if I am making a difference in my community and in the lives of the residents that we serve. I feel as though I belong at CSL and I cannot imagine working anywhere else!"Jennifer Dickey, Activities Assistant at CSL Hagerstown - "Ralph Waldo Emerson left us a quote worthy to share in this moment; 'The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.' My initial 'why' comes from losing my grandfather to Alzheimer's. I watched the wrong facility and careless caregivers bring endless grief to my family. I want to make a difference in the lives of our greatest generation. I want to be that daughter, granddaughter, sister, or friend when my residents need one. I want to lift their spirits through love, laughter, and music. I want their lives to be better just because I am blessed enough to be a part of them, even if it's only for a moment."Sydney Keever, Program Director at CSL Hampton - "I enjoy making connections with our residents, making memories that we talk about the rest of the month, and turning any bad day to a good one. If I can make one resident smile or laugh, I know I had some part in making their day that much better. The residents are not only my friends, but have become a part of my family that I enjoy showing up to see every day."Ashley-Nicole Nnadi, Program Assistant at CSL Hampton - "What really ignited my passion for this field was my oldest brother. He has autism, and I always wonder what will happen to him once my parents are no longer able to take care of him. How will his care be? What will he do out of his routine? I always knew I wanted to work with older adults. I want to be the reason they get out of bed each morning. I am there to remind them that they have a purpose. Just like my oldest brother, this is my family! And I will treat them the same if not better! That is why I do what I do."Michelle Ofak, Program Director at CSL Harrisburg - "When I was 18 years old starting out as an aide, there was a woman who went to the casino with her daughter every Sunday. Every morning, when I would go to get her ready for the day, she would pop out of bed, look up at me with joy and ask, "Is it Sunday?" I would reluctantly have to tell her no, it isn't Sunday. She then would give me a look that could kill and pronounce that she wasn't getting out of bed. After days and days of the same routine, I changed my approach. Instead of telling her no, she isn't going to the casino, I would ask her "When you go to the casino, are you going to bring a rich man back for me?" She giggled and said she needs one first! As I would get her ready for the day, we would joke back and forth about who is going to get a rich man first. Then, comes Sunday. When I knocked on her door, mmagain she would pop up and ask "Is it Sunday?" I then had the joy of telling her, yes it's Sunday! I have never seen an 89 year old woman pop out of bed so quickly! She would move faster than I could. I get her dressed, curled her hair, grabbed her purse and she was on her way! The whole building would cheer as she went through the halls Sunday mornings, almost like a parade. I don't know who ended up being more excited for Sundays, her or me!"Evon Smith, Program Director at CSL Kilmarnock - "My why for working in the nursing field is my mom and dad. Growing up in a small community, I was taught to respect and help elders and that has followed me through life. My mom became sick and was put in the hospital and after several tests, she was diagnosed with cancer - that hit hard. I had been around sick people before, but this was my mom. When Mom came home, my family and I had to care for her. Later my dad had a stroke. That is when I realized I wanted to work in the nursing field. I went to school and got trained to be a Certified Nurse Aide. I worked in the nursing field for many years. I then realized I wanted to do more, and spend more time with seniors. This is when I started to work in activities. I have found working with my residents is enlightening. You can be having a not-so-good day, but seeing them can change your whole demeanor. I enjoy just sitting there and talking to them, and you can learn a lot. They have many stories to tell and good advice to give. I have become so close to some that when they are lost for words, I can fill in the blanks. At the end of the day, I walk out of the door to go home, but they stay because this is their home. This is why making their days here joyful is a blessing for me. They appreciate me for the little things that I do for them. I no longer have my parents and grandparents, but my residents fill that spot in my heart. This is why I love what I do."Breniah Hart, Activity Assistant at CSL Kilmarnock - "Having a big heart can be a blessing or a lesson. When it comes to my residents, it's nothing but blessings each and every day. Although, they do teach me many lessons that I'll carry with me for the rest of my life. When I was about 13 years old, I went to a church camp and we visited a nursing home. We handed out small gifts and sat and talked with the residents just to brighten their day. I was drawn to one lady in particular and her name was Agnes. She told me her life story and began to cry. My little 13 year old heart broke for her. I sat, listened, held her hand and I cried with her. Ever since that day, I've had a soft spot for my elders, whether it's my grandparents or yours, the little old lady in the grocery store, or my residents. I'll continue to listen, hold hands, and love until I can't anymore. My residents don't even know how many times they've made my days brighter. I need them just as much as they need me."DJ Cortijo, Program Assistant at CSL Kilmarnock - "I have worked in the healthcare industry for about 12 years now. My 'why' started off when I decided to volunteer at a local facility and within two weeks, they asked if I would like to work for them. I have always gravitated toward older people and always enjoyed their company and the things they told me about the past. As time progressed, I was afforded many opportunities and education, which I readily accepted. I went full-force into my learning to help me fully understand and enhance the residents' lives as much as I could. I try every day to let them know I am there for them - sometimes a gentle touch on the hand and a listening ear will make their day. I truly feel honored to be able to serve them and share my days with them. It is the most warming feeling to see their face light up and wish me a good morning and know that they miss me when I'm not there. I have many wonderful stories I'd love to share, but too many to list! But one in particular made me feel my worth. One of our much-loved residents was about to make his transition and his family had not arrived yet, and I wanted to make sure he wasn't alone. I used our earphones from our Sweet Melodies program to put on his ears and played his and his wife's favorite song, "Too Young" by Nat King Cole. He actually had a tear in his eye and passed listening to the song as I held his hand. When his family arrived, someone told them what had happened, and they thanked me and sent me a beautiful card. This was one of the many times I feel blessed to have been in this field. Thank you Commonwealth for allowing me to be part of such a wonderful journey!"Shakeya Gates, Program Assistant at CSL Kings Grant House - "My love for seniors grew stronger over the past 6-7 years when both my grandparents who helped raised me took a turn for the worst while battling cancer and COPD. I found myself becoming a caregiver for both - opening up my home to take in my grandfather and traveling back and forth to New York monthly to check in on my grandmother. It was definitely challenging, but the love I shared for my grandparents and seniors is like no other. I wouldn't have changed it for the world, as our roles in life switched. Facing day to day challenges of not knowing how I was going to provide for my family and be a caretaker weighed heavily on me. Luckily at the time, I was working part time at Commonwealth Senior Living and they allowed me to stay on board PRN. Just a few years ago, both my grandparents transitioned and passed on. It gave me peace knowing I was chosen to be there for both during those times. I missed them both dearly, so shortly after I decided it was time to get back to working again. I came back onboard fulltime and it was the love for them that motivated me to be there for other seniors in our community. I love waking up and coming to work knowing that I make a difference in their lives. From their everyday activities to their daily living. Each one of our residents has a different story. They say 'children keep you young, but your seniors keep you WISE.'"Angela Newberry, Resident Program Director at CSL Oak Ridge - "Why, to me, is the most important question of all. Why do we do the things we do, choose the paths we choose? For me, it all comes down to connections, relationships, and positively impacting people's lives. My life is better because of the connections I make. Connections show that you care and that you put forth the effort to make a difference in someone's life. I come to work every day to build connections and improve my relationships with my residents and my team. When you connect with someone, you can make their day by doing the simplest things, showing that you truly know them, care about them, and love them. This is how I can make a difference in someone's life. This is why I get out of bed every day, to make my small, but immensely rewarding difference in the world."Micah Spell, Activities Assistant at CSL South Boston - "It is my calling and it reflects the same image to everyone as soon as they meet me. My smile is visible in my eyes, even with my mask on. The residents touch my heart every single day. Ms. Pauline is the perfect example of why I chose this profession. When I see her walking I ask, "Ms. Pauline, can I hold your hand while we take a walk? Now let's sing a hymn." I know I make a difference in her life by the smile on her face, the same as all of our residents. Micah 6:8, "To do justly, to love mercifully and to walk humbly with God.'"Linda Gull-Smith, Program Director at CSL South Boston - "The residents are family and they know I am there for them. They give me just as much as I give them, if not more. Compassion, patience, and unconditional love. They love from the heart without looking at mistakes. Ms. Grace is the grandmother I never knew. She is normally the first person I see each day. If something is wrong, she finds me and tells me, "I know you can fix this." I know I bring smiles to her face as well as all of our residents. They have taught me to view life differently. Ms. Grace has taught me to slow down and smell the roses along the path of life. Love is the greatest give of all. I thank God for giving me one of my greatest gifts - my residents, my family."Basha Taylor, Activities Assistant at CSL the Ballentine - "Why I do the work I do in senior living is simple. I know how I would want to be treated as an older person, and want to still find value in all I do in life. My relationship with my grandmother has also played a role in my passion for making sure I create an atmosphere that is well enjoyed. The older I became, the more I realized everything she had been through and how she was able to overcome the society of her time. Our lives are filled with so much worry about the future - we have to stop and enjoy the present because it is truly a gift! To be able to work and speak with people who are actual parts of American history is amazing. To be in the presence of seniors who have been around to see America grow is astounding. I like to work each day to make sure the moments they have left are filled with happiness and laughter. And boy do we laugh every day!"Ebony Jackson, Program Director at CSL the Ballentine - "When Dorothy Barber moved into the community, she was nervous, upset and a little anxious. I met her and her sons, I believe, on the first day. She quickly grew attached to me and I to her. Whenever it came time to do her activities of daily life, she always had to be convinced. Dorothy and I formed an unexpected bond over the years. She went from Mrs. Barber to my adoptive grandma. She quickly became my best friend. On my days off, we would have nail and lunch dates. She wasn't physically able to come to my wedding, but she definitely made sure I gave her an invitation so that she could have it as a keepsake. Now that I have been promoted out to another community and we've been in a pandemic, I don't get to see her as often. But one thing is for sure, I love this woman to pieces. This beautiful little lady is my grandma and my why. Love you always and forever Grandma Dot!"Emilee Whay, Activities Assistant at CSL Williamsburg - "My why is to see the smiling faces of my residents. I enjoy coming into work and saying 'Good Morning!' My why is spending time listening to what my residents' needs are, and to find new ways to help them have a fun day."Eric Jaber, Program Director at CSL Willow Grove - "After being a IT Director for many years, I decided to go back to my roots as a musician and perform at weddings, restaurants and senior living communities. Before long, I grew tired of all the traveling, sometimes 2-3 performances each day in different locations. There was a community in Willow Grove, PA that kept having me back on a regular basis and I got to know the residents and associates. I knew their favorite songs and had lots of requests and engagement at every performance. When a position for Activities Assistant came up I applied and got the job. My experience as an IT Director helped me become an Assistant Director of Activities in a few short years. I found myself fascinated by the residents and their community life and started craving more training in dementia and resident care. I come to work everyday looking forward to a new adventure, a challenge, along with some smiles, laughter and music. I utilize my skills, some I didn't know I even had, to make the residents happy and keep them engaged. After working with machines for so many years I didn't think I'd work well in a people service industry, but as it turns out, I do."Sue Sidman, Programming Assistant at CSL Willow Grove - "Going to Palm Sunday Service - for many of our residents, it's always a special time. Without me, these residents would not have been able to go. My skills, knowledge and the love of my job created a special outing. Their families and friends were so thrilled to see their loves ones so happy. This is why I do what I do."

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“My reason is a personal one. I’ve been in and out of the medical field since high school – nursing, paramedic/fire fighter, medical offices, etc. In 1993, I had a child that ended up on full life support with nursing care at home, a breathing machine, feeding machine, the whole works. I had to train all of her nurses how to take care of her and went through MANY of them. The ones I let go didn’t have the compassion, caring, and “human touch/bedside manor” I wanted for my daughter. So I trained the ones that were competent in how I wanted my daughter to be cared for. I basically told them to care for her as if she were their child and that seemed to work for most. After years of weeding through thousands, I found a core staff of nurses I called family and life became our version of normal. I’ve always loved elderly people. Most just want to pass their life stories on to the younger generations in the hopes that someone will remember them fondly. I love listening to people’s life stories. They shed a little light on the events in their lives that made them who they are. And I believe in my heart that letting the elderly tell their stories is therapeutic in a way. So, after many years of not being in the medical field, I lost my daughter in 2020 to multiple infections that they medical staff could just not get under control. It was very hard for me this last year not having the one thing that I had grown accustomed to – caring for someone. So I answered the add for a caregiver at CSL at Bel Air and went for the interview. I was very surprised to find that the hiring manager was looking for a Business Office Manager and asked me if I would be interested in that position instead. I had many years as an Office Manager for different companies and asked more about it. After a lengthy explanation, I agreed to the BOM position and that’s how I became the newest member of the CSL at Bel Air team.”

“When I was in my 20’s, I had the most honorable pleasure of meeting a man who survived a concentration camp. He described life back then and showed me his number tattooed on his wrist. I think he just wanted to talk about it and felt I was a good listener. Since then, I wanted to someday work with seniors. A few years later, I was waiting in the dentist’s office. Beside me was an older gentleman. We struck up a small conversation that blossomed into a history lesson. He spoke about the beginning of the railroad system in Wilmington, NC. I realized I was listening to someone who saw first hand the onset of the Wilmington railroad. Once again, that feeling of wanting to work with seniors. It means that I get the honor of listening to these fine people talk about their history. I get to tell silly jokes and they smile and laugh. I have the pleasure of playing games or exercising with my residents. I can go on and on with what this means to me, but this picture shows some of my reasons.”

“I chose a career in senior living because I love being around the elderly. I enjoy conversating with them and listening to the exciting life stories they share with me. They are special to me and some can teach me things I never knew and some give good advice. I also love hearing the war stories from the veterans who served in the military.”

“I will be having my six year anniversary with CSL in November. Like everything in life, it’s had it’s ups and downs, but I can’t think of any other job that has been as rewarding as this one – to see all these residents and be a part of their lives every day. They bring a smile to my face and I hope I’m able to add just a little bit of kind words and a smile for them also as they touch my heart and add so much value to mine.”

“Why? Well, it’s a funny answer for me. I have always joked with my friends and family while raising my two boys, ‘When I grow up, I’m going to get my dream job working with seniors.’ Well, my boys grew into men, so I stepped outside my comfort zone of working in the construction industry for over 20 years and applied for an activity position. So I’m now working my dream job with seniors here at CSL at Churchland House.”

“The reason I chose this career is because of my mom. She worked with elderly people my entire childhood. She took care of people from doing their hair to providing one on one in home care. I always loved going with her to work so I could visit these precious people. I have a huge place in my heart for the elderly.”

“I was blessed to have been raised with all four grandparents. They helped instill in me a strong sense of understanding and compassion for their generation. Each, in their own way, taught me to appreciate the wisdom that is only gained with age and the acceptance of that which life hands you – especially when it was not at all what you had planned! My long career in all the stages and types of senior living has provided countless opportunities to learn from those that have come before and hopefully, helped shape me to perhaps provide a measure of guidance to those who come after me.”

“I chose senior living due to the amount of joy I get when coming in to see these residents happy and inspired. I feel as if being here for residents is something that can change the way you feel about your seniors and make you look at life in a different way. As working here at CSL, I have grown close to residents and established relationships with families and residents, is something I will never forget. It’s amazing to be able to work somewhere where you can make a difference in someone else’s life. I love it here at CSL!”

“After growing up with grandparents around and then watching my mom handle her Alzheimer’s for nine and a half years, I wanted to be able to give myself to others. I love living in their community, seeing life through their eyes, and being there to hold a door, offer a bottle of water, deliver a newspaper, and see their smiles when family comes to visit!”

“My grandmother was the matriarch of our family. She was a fantastic wife, mother, business owner, cook, the list goes on. She held our family together and brought out the best in us. When the time came that she needed more care than we could provide, she moved into independent living, then assisted living, and finally memory care. I saw the way the team there loved her and snuck her chocolate ice cream on her bad days. I saw the way they did her hair and laughed with her when she giggled. They provided what we could not. They become part of our family and attended her funeral when she passed, crying along with us. This was a gift we didn’t know we needed. I am tremendously proud to be a part of a team that provides this gift every day.”

“My grandmother was diagnosed with dementia in high school. She lived with us and passed away. It was so sad to see her decline, and so when I had the opportunity to go to college, I knew I wanted to serve seniors. Every day I feel blessed to work in an amazing field that allows us to serve others.”

“My grandparents have always been an active part of my life, attending every swim meet, softball game, graduation, wedding, and everything else in between. My father’s parents lived next door for most of my life. Being a part of a blended family, I’m blessed with more grandparents than most – 9 in total, all of which being some of the most caring people I’ve met. With so many grandparents in my life, they and their generation hold a special place in my heart. When I was young, my great grandmother passed away form dementia, and one of my grandfathers was recently diagnosed as well. I’ve always wanted to have a career where I’m able to help others, so I’m grateful to be a part of an amazing company who truly fulfils the mission of improving the lives of seniors each day and have the opportunity to share our residents’ stories.”

“Initially when I joined CSL, it was just a second job for me in the evenings in dining. As time went on, I realized it was a great place to work and grow as a person. I eventually became full time and found a passion in being a service for others. After four years, I felt it was time to try something new, so I left dining for nursing. My reason was I wanted to make an impact and make a difference long term. It was a big change, but I felt I had the right tools to thrive in nursing. It turns out it was the best decision I’ve made and it brings me joy to be a service every day. It’s the appreciation and knowing I’m making a difference that keeps me motivated. I switched to nursing in March of 2021, and that was the last day I worked in my life. Since then, it hasn’t been work for me, but a blessing to be a part of something so big and to touch so many hearts.”

“I began working in senior living in 2017 as an Activities Assistant here at CSL Willow Grove and loved being able to perform for the residents while also getting to know each and every one of them, their likes and dislikes. I began creating shows/cabaret nights of their favorite artists – Andrew Lloyd Webber, Barbara Streisand, and Judy Garland – to share their life stories along with their most famous hits. When I transitioned to the business office, I was able to celebrate with residents and associates with special events we hold at our community, including the luau where I dress up as the Pineapple Princess! It brings me joy to dance and celebrate life with our residents and associates. I cannot wait to bring smiles to their faces for our upcoming Sock Hop on Grease Day as a Pink Lady!”

“As a Native American, seniors are one of the most important groups of people in the community. They are our history, our story tellers, our faith keepers. Each of our elders are a treasure. My role helps me fulfil my cultural desire to protect those vital members of any community and I’m so blessed to be here.”

“I started out as the Concierge in 2019 and absolutely fell in love with the residents. Next thing you know, the Activities Assistant position opened, and I thought, I can do more with and for them. I love to plan outings for them. Making them happy makes me smile.”

“I started in senior living as a way to use my skills in something other than the hotel industry, which I enjoyed but with a young family, I didn’t like working every holiday, lots of nights, and weekends. I made senior living my career when I learned how much I enjoyed improving the lives of seniors and when I recognized how much of an impact we made on their lives and the lives of their families. A resident’s daughter told me we had ‘given her her mom back’ since she didn’t have to be the ‘parent’ anymore and could be the ‘child’ again. That hooked me.”

If you are a kind-hearted individual that wants to bring joy and improve the lives of seniors in our communities, we would love to hear from you. Come build a career and make a difference in the lives of others at the same time. Click here to view current opportunities at Commonwealth Senior Living.

At Commonwealth Senior Living, our mission is to improve the lives of seniors, their families, and each other. We prioritize our Core Values and invest in our people, ensuring they receive the necessary training to advance their careers. Our apprenticeship program allows associates to earn while they learn and aligns with our goal of growing a strong healthcare workforce.

To address the healthcare industry's skills gap, we partnered with Argentum and Hamilton-Ryker through the Healthcare Apprenticeships Expansion Program (HAEP). This program enables us to support our associates in building rewarding careers as caregivers, CNAs, LPNs, and RNs.

What is an apprenticeship?
Apprenticeships are structured learning programs designed to train individuals in a specific career. They provide a clear career path, combining on-the-job training and classroom (including online) learning for continuous advancement.

Who can become an apprentice?
Candidates must be at least 18 years old with a high school diploma or GED. Acceptance, continuation, and graduation from the program depend on factors like proficiency, ability to complete tasks, and physical capability.

How does the apprenticeship work?
Apprenticeships offer the unique advantage of earning while you learn. There are no student loans or hefty tuition bills to worry about. Your investment is your time, effort, and energy. As you progress through your training, there will be opportunities for salary increases. At Commonwealth Senior Living, our Caregiver and Healthcare apprentices receive on-the-job Direct Care Staff Training approved through the Department of Social Services for Assisted Living Facilities.

If you're interested in a career where you can directly impact the lives of seniors and their families, start your journey as a healthcare professional with our paid apprenticeship program today.

Commonwealth Senior Living will not discriminate against apprenticeship applicants or apprentices based on RACE, COLOR, RELIGION, NATIONAL ORIGIN, SEX (INCLUDING PREGNANCY AND GENDER IDENTITY), SEXUAL ORIENTATION, GENETIC INFORMATION, OR BECAUSE THEY ARE AN INDIVIDUAL WITH A DISABILITY OR A PERSON 40 YEARS OLD OR OLDER.

COMMONWEALTH SENIOR LIVING will take affirmative action to provide equal opportunity in apprenticeship and will operate the apprenticeship program as required under Title 29 of the Code of Federal Regulations, part 30.

Their dedicated team provides support and assistance from helping with activities of daily living, such as getting dressed, taking a bath, or enjoying a healthy meal, to simply sharing a smile. Residents enjoy privacy, dignity, and maintenance-free living whether it's in their independent living villas, assisted living suites, or our award-winning Sweet Memories Neighborhood.

Learn more about CSL at Salisbury here.

After asking each of our associates a series of questions revolving around credibility, respect, fairness, pride, and camaraderie at Commonwealth Senior Living, it was said that "This company is unique in that associates can start with no experience and no licenses to plateau in their growth like other companies do." This is referring to our Hire for Heart philosophy that supports individuals who wish to bring joy and offer support in the lives of seniors in every aspect of our communities but may not have experience working in healthcare prior to Commonwealth.

Another associate said, "The people we help make it unique. They are just literally full of life! Telling stories and getting to know so many wise personalities really make it a very special place." Understanding who our residents are and where they have come from is the foundation of our Sweet Memories program. Knowing each individual's history allows us to provide person-centered care in ways that are both positive and meaningful to the residents, their families, and our team.

Overall, we were able to improve the trust our associates have in Commonwealth Senior Living by 4% since 2021.

We believe this improvement was in part due to a few specific changes our Senior Leadership Team made:

• Added an extra holiday associates can use for any reason.
• Provided an extra week of vacation to community leaders who stayed with CSL through COVID-19.
• Incentivized vaccination and attendance through a contest with the grand prize of a new car.
• Processed significant unbudgeted compensation adjustments for our frontline caregivers in December to meet growing market changes.

If you're a dedicated, compassionate, and caring person who wants to make a difference in the lives of seniors and their families at Commonwealth Senior Living, view our available positions.

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If you'd like to explore a career in senior living, we'd love to hear from you. View our available career opportunities today. 

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If you're a kind-hearted individual that wants to bring joy and improve the lives of seniors and their families, we'd love to hear from you. Come build a career and make a difference in the lives of others at the same time.

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This award highlights the individual who knocked it out of the ballpark and went above and beyond in generating great content for their social media accounts.The Evolution Award celebrates individuals who stood out in a crowd in 2022 by bringing new life to our Signature Programs.The Team Evolution Award celebrates a team, either a community team or specific individuals who stood out in a crowd in 2022 by bringing new life to our Signature Programs.The Program Assistant of the Year award is also based on the same qualifiers as the Resident Programs Director of the Year such as involvement, leadership, longevity, and creativity.The Rising Star Award celebrates an individual who has differentiated themselves and proven their leadership, creativity, within the first 2 years of the Resident Programs Director role.Our Service Before Self award recognizes individuals who not only perform with high standards in their Resident Programs role but, who also go above and beyond that role everyday.Excellence in Memory Care award celebrates a team that shows cohesiveness, creativity, and engagement in their Sweet Memories neighborhood.The Resident Programs Director of the year possesses leadership qualities within their community, engagement and involvement at their communities, creativity in programming, collaboration with other departments, and longevity within their role.This year, we had the pleasure of awarding two of our Resident Programs Director's this award!

If you are interested in improving the lives of seniors and their families alongside this award-winning team, view our available positions today.

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This mindset of stopping what he's doing to check in on our residents, their families, and our associates, has driven Reuben to partner with and sit on the Advisory Board for the Henrico County School of Practical Nursing, partner with and sit on the Multidisciplinary Panel for Jewish Family Services, and led him to his latest achievement, sitting on the Board of VCU's Department of Gerontology Assisted Living Administration Advisory Board. Reuben says, "I am excited, as this has been a dream partnership of mine for some time now."

So, what exactly does the Advisory Board do and what is its function within the VCU Gerontology community? The board provides guidance and expertise on best practices to faculty of the VCU Gerontology Master of Gerontology Program specialty area in Assisted Living Administration regarding assisted living, memory care, skilled nursing, and home/community-based services. They provide support for student recruitment in order to grow this program, increase opportunities for students to become preceptors, and eventually secure Administrator in Training programs. The board contributes to the education of VCU students by providing informational interviews, guest lectures, shadowing opportunities, and community/workplace tours giving students real-world experiences.

We could not be more proud to have him on our team and celebrate this accomplishment alongside him. Congratulations, Reuben!

The Business Office Manager of the Year Award highlights an individual who made a significant contribution in 2022, keeping in mind our Core Values and Noble Selling Purpose for the betterment of the families we serve.The Community Excellence Award celebrates a community that stood out in 2022 by achieving and exceeding metrics, bringing new life to their Signature Programs, and remaining vigilant in delivering our Noble Selling Purpose to our residents and families.

The Dining Services Director of the Year is awarded to an individual who made a noteworthy contribution in 2022. Bob Raymond, Vice President of Dinning and Procurement, says, "Zoe Hall is an extraordinary Director of Dining Services at Commonwealth Senior Living at Farnham. Since joining CSL in 2013, Zoe knows every resident by name, and makes every resident feel at home!"The Evolution Award recognizes someone who overcame incredible odds and showed perseverance in their performance. Kim Hurt, Regional Vice President, says, "Never one to quit, Sarah had a year that was marked by personal losses as well as professional challenges. She dug in, started to make tough decisions, and worked hard to turn her challenges into opportunities. Sarah is determined to push through adversity and vows it will always make her stronger!"

The Risky Business Awards are presented to communities that achieve at least an 80% satisfaction rating on their Risk Management Inspections. This is not a small feat as the inspections are thorough and cover a wide range of categories to help mitigate risk. Commonwealth Senior Living at Cedar Bluff, for the second year in a row, had a satisfaction rating of 93.1%!Our Executive Director of the Year Award recognizes an individual who made a lasting impact in 2022. Amber Foster, Regional Vice President, says, "Gabriella is a great listener and truly invests in each of her associates and gets to know them on a personal level. She pushes, coaches, and inspires them to do better, and truly embodies our Core Values. She is positive, poised, and a big-picture planner. It has been a true honor to watch her grow over the last few years!"

Our Frontline Hero Award recognizes and honors our Frontline associates who stood out in 2022, demonstrated our Core Values, and made lasting contributions to their communities!

Our Home Office Associate of the Year Award celebrates a member of our Home Office team who made an important impact and contribution in 2022. The support Ashley shows to those in our communities and Home Office is incredible. We are very lucky to have her on our Pineapple Team!Our Maintenance Director of the Year Award celebrates an individual with a considerable contribution to their community team. We'd like to congratulate Alex as he earned this award for the second year in a row and thank him for all he does through his tireless contributions to our communities!

The Resident Programs Director of the Year Award is given to an individual who possesses leadership qualities within their community, engagement and involvement, creativity in resident programs, collaboration with other departments, and longevity within their role.This year, we had the pleasure of awarding two of our Resident Programs Directors this award!

Our Sales Presidents Club recognizes Sales Directors who are consistent performers in key categories. Kristy Ruppe Craddock, Senior Vice President of Sales and Marketing, says, "This group of inductees dug deep, were not limited by the goals but instead pushed passed them and challenged themselves and their teams. They are not just bright, shining stars, they are shooting stars! They inspire me beyond any words I could share, and I could not be more proud of them."Our Rising Star Award recognizes an individual who joined Commonwealth Senior Living in 2022, has differentiated themselves, and has proven their leadership capabilities!

Our Resident Care Director of the Year Award recognizes an individual with a tireless contribution to their community team, outstanding clinical knowledge, and a representation of our Core Values. Stephanie Pfingsten, Senior Vice President of Resident Care, notes, "Stephanie has a servant leader heart and is committed to quality-of-care excellence not only at her community but at all CSL communities. She is a tremendous asset to CSL, and we are continually blessed to have her as a part of the resident care team!"Our Regional Support of the Year Award recognizes a regional associate who made a lasting impact in 2022. Michelle Hamilton, Chief Operating Officer, notes, "Amber Foster leads with a humble heart, grace, and poise. We are so lucky to have her and her leadership at Commonwealth and are so excited for her growth."

Congratulations to our award winners, we are so lucky to have you all as part of our Pineapple Family and have the opportunity to recognize the significant contributions you make to support our mission each day. Thank you to each of our community teams for their daily contributions to improve the lives of the residents we serve! If you are interested in improving the lives of seniors and their families alongside this award-winning team, view our available positions today!

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At Commonwealth Senior Living, we flip the organizational chart upside down due to our belief that all home office and regional management positions exist to support the services being provided by our communities, and ultimately, the people providing care to our residents are our most important asset. Our Core Values drive our associates and leaders in every decision they make. They represent the "how" of what we do each day.

After asking each of our associates a series of questions revolving around credibility, respect, fairness, pride, and camaraderie, we found:

• 88% of our associates said they feel the work they do has a special meaning and isn't "just a job."
• 82% of our associates feel like they make a difference.
• 80% said they felt welcome when they joined our Pineapple Family.
• 79% said, "When I look at what we accomplish, I feel a sense of pride."
• 78% said, "I feel good about the ways we contribute to the community."
• 71% of our associates overall said Commonwealth is a great place to work, compared to 57% of employees at typical U.S.-based companies.

Tommy Comer, Chief Human Resources Officer, says, "We are extremely proud of this distinction" and are grateful to each of our associates who have made this possible these past five years.

If you're a dedicated, compassionate, and caring person who wants to make a difference in the lives of seniors and their families at Commonwealth Senior Living, view our available positions.

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Below are stories from nurses at Commonwealth sharing the love they have for their meaningful careers:

We commemorate their daily efforts and those who led the way before them. To each of the nurses who demonstrate their devotion to this career path and to senior living, thank you could never be enough.

If you're a dedicated, compassionate, and caring person who wants to make a difference in the lives of seniors and their families at Commonwealth Senior Living like these members of our Pineapple Team, view our available positions.

In recognition of National Health Center Week, we asked our team to share how fellow associates or professional partners positively impact our residents. Here's what they had to say:

If you're a kind-hearted individual that's interested in joining the healthcare industry, we'd love to hear from you. Come build a career and make a difference in the lives of others at the same time.

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The Annual Commonwealth Cares Golf Classic is the organization's largest fundraiser and helps us set the foundation up for the following year. It is also a great opportunity for partners of Commonwealth Senior Living to see the impact. Each year at the tournament, we ask someone to share their story of how the fund helped them and their family. This year, it was held on October 2nd at the Birdwood Golf Course at the Boar's Head Resort. Jessie Boothe, the Program Director from Commonwealth Senior Living at Cedar Bluff, shared her story. "I am a single mom. My son is 8 years' old, and his name is Ryder. He was diagnosed with what's called Angelman Syndrome ... meaning his development is delayed. He has awful seizures, and that's where Commonwealth Cares helped. There's a safety bed for Ryder that I could not get approved by our insurance for six years. When another co-worker told me about Commonwealth Cares and how they may be able to help, I submitted everything I needed to. Not even a week later, I received an email saying I had been approved and I had a check within two days. I have forever grateful and thankful and blessed to be a part of Commonwealth Cares and Commonwealth Senior Living."

This year's golf classic raised approximately $165,000 for Commonwealth associates. We want to warmly congratulate the team from Simplot, who were our overall winners with the best score of the day.

We would like to thank this year's sponsors, especially our signature sponsors, Essensa & Innovatix, EmpowerMe, Southern Pharmacy, and Invesque. Additional thanks are owed to Fox Rehabilitation, Yardi, Facility 360, Smuckers, Gladys Doxey - glaJon Interiors, Sentrics, ALSCO, Ferguson, Kramer + Marks, NFP, Produce Source Partners, State Cleaning Solutions, Clark Service Equipment, Copy Fax, CRC, Encova, HealthCap (Chelsea Rhone), IX Foundation, Marsh, McDonald Building Company, O'Hagan Meyer, Procurement Partners, Rich Products Corporation, Simplot, T&N Printing, US Foods, Accushield. CarexTech Inc./SMILE, SB Fischer Group, Bevolution, Db3, Keany Produce, MYND VR, American Pest Control, Babylon MicroFarms, Davis, Bowen, & Friedel, Eversound, Hook Law, Paul Ashley, Pineapple Academy, Ally, and Predictive Index (Marty Ramseck).

Earl Parker, President and Chief Executive Officer, explains, "I am a firm believer that our people are our product at CSL. It is all about the teams that are providing care and services to our residents. We know life happens and challenging circumstances arise.  Commonwealth Cares allows us to help in those challenging times and provide a sort of 'safety net.' I think that is very impactful to our entire team and exemplifies our Core Values of CARING about people and doing the RIGHT THING."

Commonwealth Cares has given away close to $800,000 since the organization started in 2016. Many Commonwealth Senior Living associates contribute to the fund via payroll deductions or through community fundraisers. If you are interested in helping us make a difference, click the button below to donate today.

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Below, we've outlined a few best practices that may increase the likelihood of moving you to the next step in working at a senior living community.

Understand the Senior Living Industry

According to Tommy Comer, Commonwealth Senior Living's Chief Human Resource Officer, "Compassion, empathy, and patience are among the most important attributes individuals considering a role in a senior living community should have." He adds, "Being a caregiver, or pursuing any role in senior living, requires the ability to anticipate the needs of others, often with major stresses thrust upon them. Those who can adapt with grace and compassion tend to be wildly successful in virtually all areas of the community.Those individuals are the ones family members want supporting their loved one."

Highlight Relevant Skills

Be sure to include relevant skills, experience, or areas of expertise on your resume and application. If you have previously worked in healthcare or have experience with seniors, be sure to mention that. Experience in customer service and effective communication skills are also excellent transferrable skills for senior living, as you will likely interact with residents and their families frequently.

Apply for an Apprenticeship

Gaining on-the-job experience through an apprenticeship provides invaluable experience and networking opportunities. Our apprenticeship program allows associates to earn while they learn and aligns with our goal of growing a strong healthcare workforce.  

Add a Personal Touch

Tommy says, "Senior living is a personal industry, so career seekers should visit the communities they'd like to work at. Ask for the Executive Director, bring your resume, and make an impression with a personal touch. Those behaviors resonate in senior living, compared to other industries." The best way to stand out and make a connection is to show why a career in senior living is meaningful for you, or why it is your calling.

We wholeheartedly embrace the four pillars of the Commonwealth Difference: We Listen. We Love. We Care. We Serve. and are always happy to welcome individuals interested in furthering that mission.

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Our Engage the Day campaign began in 2023 to encourage our frontline caregivers to authentically engage with our residents because that's who they are. Those who were observed engaging with our residents were given tokens with the goal of receiving 75 or more to be invited to our Resident Programs Conference. Here are this year's winners!This award highlights the individual who knocked it out of the ballpark and went above and beyond in generating great content for their social media accounts. Dale brought to life everything we try and achieve every day with photographs, stories, and original posts. She had the top post of 2023, the most original posts, and the top TikTok. Paula, VP of Resident Programs, says, "These achievements are no small feats and Dale does this with a can-do attitude and fun and engaging stories to show the impact we make on our residents."The Team Evolution Award celebrates a team who works together to make things happen and bring new life to the department, impacting the whole community. This team's efforts brought a new energy you can feel when you enter the community. When resident programs is truly embraced and supported, so many more doors are opened for creativity and quality. Shakeya Gates, Resident Program Director, and Leigh Morehead, Executive Director, led the way by utilizing all the tools available to them, prioritizing resident programs in all areas of the community, and living by each of our Core Values and their own every day.The winner of our individual Evolution Award began a new career path in 2020 and brought a whole new level of calm and compassion to her leadership every day. Paula Harder, VP of Resident Programs, says, "She is one of the most attuned and dedicated associates I have ever encountered. She is an out of the box thinker who does not let obstacles stand in her way of showing our residents a great time." Her Regional Vice President says, "Throughout her time with CSL, she and her team have elevated the resident programs department to one of the finest in the pineapple family. She has an uncanny ability to bring out the best in every resident and does so with such passion and dedication. She is a calm leader and constantly challenges herself and her team to be as wacky as possible and to ensure the community is bringing a smile to our residents' faces every day."The Rising Star Award celebrates an individual who has differentiated themselves and proven their leadership, creativity, within the first 2 years of the Resident Programs Director role. Rebecca had not been in the community long as a Resident Program Assistant when a promotion came along. Her Executive Director says, "She continuously embodies our Core Value, 'We care about people.' Her boundless passion for connecting with our residents and associates is truly unmatched. She always goes above and beyond to make sure no one feels left out and puts the needs of our residents at the center of her world. Her selflessness and dedication inspire all of us to care for others in the same way." Paula Harder says, "She is the epitome of what a true leader is. We so look forward to seeing all of what she does in 2024."

The Service Before Self Award recognizes an individual who not only performs with high standards as a Resident Program Director but who also goes above and beyond every day to give our residents and associates the best life possible. Each year we receive nominations from Executive Directors, Regional Vice Presidents, and the award winner is ultimately chosen by our Senior Leadership Team. This year, we'd like to recognize all five of our nominees, Evon Smith of CSL Kilmarnock, Lindsay Drummond of CSL Eastern Shore, Robert Frazier of CSL Cedar Manor. Kelly was nominated by her Executive Director, team, and residents. Her Executive Director said, "When I read the meaning behind the Service Before Self Award, all I could think about was our Resident Program Director. The definition of service is the action of helping or doing something for someone. I feel strongly that if you look at this definition in the dictionary, you will find a picture of our Resident Program Director. She considers what's best for the community and our residents first - always...She is like a ray of sunshine walking into every room. Her positive energy, caring nature, and loving attitude radiates wherever she goes. If you ask any of our frontline team something they love about her, they say, 'her dedication and genuine care for others.' When you look at our Core Values, she checks every one of those boxes along with our Noble Selling Purpose. She listens, she loves, she cares, and she serves - not only to our residents, but to their families and our associates."The Bernie Cavis 'Shark in a Tree' Excellence in Memory Care Award goes to a community who took a simple concept and turned it into an ongoing creative and engaging event, not just for our residents, but for associates as well. We've seen some of the most fun and engaging photos, videos, and smiles, all centered around this program for Memory Care. Paula Harder says, "There is a lot of talent in this community!"Robert has a long tenure with CSL. He is compassionate and creative, dedicated to standards and doing the right thing. He goes above and beyond in everything he does so his residents, mentees, and team have everything they need. He enjoys coaching and raising up other leaders, His Executive Director says, "Robert is the epitome of selflessness in our community. He welcomed me from the start with open arms and encouragement. He always puts our residents first and always volunteers for any department in times of need. When speaking of our community, there is no better cheerleader or decorator, and he deserves this."Every leader seeks out their right hand person. That go to ride or die who has your back and is always open to watching and learning and taking the reins when needed, while becoming a great leader themselves. The role of the Resident Program Assistant is the right hand to the Resident Program Director. This award is determined by a Resident Program Director's nomination and similar qualifications to the Resident Program Director of the Year Award. These individuals seek out opportunities to learn more in their role in preparation for possible future promotion. Tempest's Resident Program Director says, "She is one of the two best Resident Program Assistants I've had on my team. Her attendance is remarkable. She has a great reputation with our families, and she follows our Core Values with the utmost respect. The love and compassion she has in her heart for our residents is second to none. She is a true leader and will make an exceptional Resident Program Director one day."

The Resident Programs Director of the year possesses leadership qualities within their community, engagement and involvement at their communities, creativity in programming, collaboration with other departments, and longevity within their role. Lindsay came to CSL in 2019 with no experience in senior living but with a big smile and lots of management experience. She is a diligent and detail-oriented individual who has grown into an incredible leader and advocate for her community and team. Her Executive Director says, "Her mission is to touch the residents and families' lives daily. It's a pleasure to watch her with our residents and she is often our community's true center when we are problem solving. I could go on and on, but my Resident Program Director is a solution finder and a joy giver."

If you're interested in improving the lives of seniors and their families alongside this award-winning team, view our available positions today.

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You're the kind of person who plans ahead. You chose a home that fit your budget and helped the kids pay for college. Now is the time to start preparing for your future by choosing a senior living community. But how much will it cost?

The cost of senior living depends on the size apartment or suite you select as well as the amount of support you require. On average, this works out to be between $3,500 - $5,000 per month.

Families pay for senior living in a variety of ways. If you have invested in Long Term Care Insurance, this is the time to reach out to your insurance provider and ask about qualifying for benefits. Many families sell their home and use part of the sale to pay for senior living. Finally, if you served in the military during wartime or had a spouse who served, you may be eligible for senior living benefits from Veterans Aid & Attendance. This benefit combined with social security payments and savings often covers the cost of senior living.

Ultimately, the formula of how senior living is paid works out to be different for every family. But just like any decision you make for the future, it is worth the time and effort to plan ahead, choose the right community, and design a plan that makes sense for you. Deciding to make the move to senior living is a huge step and we want to make sure you have everything you need to make that decision.

To help further understand your full financial picture, take a look at our cost calculator today.

After more than 20 years of helping families navigate their senior living journeys, we know that cost is often one of the biggest questions people have when exploring their options. Planning for senior living is an important financial decision, and understanding how it works can help families feel more confident and prepared.

We believe in open and honest conversations about cost. Our goal is to help families understand their options and identify every available resource so they can make the best decision for their future.

Below are answers to some of the most frequently asked questions about paying for senior living.

What Are My Options for Paying for Senior Living?

Most families use a combination of financial resources to cover the cost of senior living. These may include:

• Retirement income
• Social Security benefits
• Personal savings
• Investment accounts
• Proceeds from selling a home
• Annuities
• Long-term care insurance
• Life insurance policies
• Veterans benefits

Every family's situation is unique, which is why our team at Commonwealth Senior Living works closely with residents and their loved ones to explore all available options and help create a plan that fits their needs.

What Happens If Funds Run Out?

One of the most common questions we hear from families is: “What happens if our funds run out?”

Our goal is always to support residents throughout their senior living journey. If financial circumstances change, our team works closely with families to explore every available option and resource that may help extend their resources. In situations where a transition becomes necessary, we remain committed to helping families navigate the next steps and providing guidance throughout the process.

Families can also use tools like a “How Long Will My Money Last?” calculator to estimate how long their savings may support senior living expenses based on their financial situation.

What’s the Difference Between Medicare and Medicaid?

These two programs are often confused, but they serve very different purposes.

Medicaid

Medicaid is a state and federally funded program designed for individuals with limited income and assets. Eligibility requirements vary by state. In most cases, Medicaid covers long-term care in skilled nursing facilities, typically in shared-room settings.

Medicare

Medicare is a federal health insurance program available to most adults age 65 and older. While it covers many medical services, it does not cover long-term residential senior living, such as Assisted Living or Memory Care.

However, Medicare may cover short-term rehabilitation in a skilled nursing facility for up to 20 days following a qualifying hospital stay of at least three days. You can explore more resources about Medicare here.

How much does senior living cost per month? 

Monthly costs vary depending on several factors, including:

• The community location
• The size and style of the suite
• The level of care needed
• Individual health needs

In general, monthly rates for senior living communities typically range between $4,000 and $6,000, depending on the type of care and services provided. Our team can help families review pricing and determine the best option based on their individual needs.

How Much Do Rates Increase Each Year?

Across the senior living industry, the national average annual rate increase is typically 5–7%.

At Commonwealth Senior Living, annual increases have traditionally averaged between 3–5%, depending on market conditions, geographic location, and operational costs. These adjustments help ensure communities can continue providing high-quality care, enriching Signature Programs, and meaningful experiences for residents.

Are Senior Living Expenses Tax Deductible?

In many cases, portions of Assisted Living and Memory Care expenses may be tax deductible, particularly when related to medical care.

Because every financial situation is different, we recommend speaking with a qualified tax professional to determine what deductions may apply.

Is There a Long-Term Contract?

No. Commonwealth Senior Living offers month-to-month residency agreements, allowing residents the flexibility to stay as long as they wish.

If circumstances change, residents may choose to move with 30 days’ notice, providing peace of mind for families who value flexibility.

What Is a Community Fee?

A community fee is a one-time, non-refundable fee paid when a resident moves into a community. This fee is standard throughout the senior living industry and typically ranges from a few thousand dollars to approximately one month’s rent.

At Commonwealth Senior Living, a portion of the community fee is used to restore and refresh the resident’s suite after move-out so it is ready for the next resident. The remaining portion helps support community-wide enhancements, including Signature Programs, amenities, and shared spaces that residents enjoy every day.

What is Our Promise to Veterans and who qualifies?

At Commonwealth Senior Living, we proudly honor Veterans with Our Promise to Veterans. Guided by the principle, “You served us, now it’s our turn to serve you,” we provide financial and personal support beyond standard benefits. We help Veterans and their spouses coordinate and cover moving expenses up to $2,000 and continue to recognize their service with ongoing celebrations with stars displayed outside of the doors of our honored Veteran residents, pinning ceremonies and patriotic celebrations throughout the year, and military honors and flag presentations. As part of this Signature Program, Veterans also receive ½ off during their one-year anniversary month. This ensures Veterans feel deeply valued, supported, and celebrated from the very start of their senior living journey.

How Long Does Aid & Attendance Take?

The VA Aid & Attendance benefit can help eligible Veterans and their spouses offset the cost of senior living care.

Applying independently can take up to a year, as applications are processed in the order they are received and may require additional documentation.

When families work with Commonwealth Senior Living and our partner, ElderLife Financial Services, the process is typically completed much faster, often within 30 to 45 days. Once approved, benefits can be retroactively applied to the date of move-in, allowing families to recoup eligible expenses.

Click the link below to try our online cost calculator to compare the cost of living at home with the cost of moving into a senior living community near you.

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Pricing is an important part of planning your next chapter. If you’d like help reviewing your cost calculator results or have questions about paying for senior living, our team is here to help.

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Overall, 35.1% of families said that budgeting or covering the cost for care is the greatest challenge. It can be difficult to find out the specific costs of senior living because unlike homes for sale, cars, and other large purchases, the cost of senior living is unique to each individual. It includes not only the cost of the suite itself, but also the care each individual needs. In most cases, the level of care needed can't be determined without an in-person assessment. While it may feel like the true cost is hidden, a more accurate statement is that it's difficult to provide the full financial picture without all the information about an individual's needs. Our pricing calculator allows you to compare your current monthly living costs with the starting rates and fees at one of our communities, including the base rent for the suite you choose as well as the first level of care.

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The second greatest challenge for families was said to be convincing a loved one to move into senior living. We understand starting the conversation about adding additional support may be intimidating, but we want you to know you are not alone. Don't get us wrong, it won't be easy. You may feel guilty over wanting to move your loved one from the home they love and at the same time feel fearful about what may happen to them if you don't. However, going about this conversation in the right way will ensure your loved one will live safely, have a higher quality of life, and you will have peace of mind knowing you did the right thing. Here are a few of our tips for starting this difficult conversation with your loved one:  

• Choose your timing wisely. Pick the right time of day when your loved one is rested and typically open to conversation. Use a soft tone throughout, and be prepared to ask, "What will need to happen for you to be ready?" 
• Create your plan for the conversation. Have notes prepared listing your concerns with the current situation and potential solutions for each concern. Be prepared to address the worst-case scenarios of not making a change. 
• Involve a trusted professional. Sometimes bringing in an unbiased, third party can be helpful. Maybe this is a trusted physician to lead the conversation with you or a pastor to provide support through spiritual advice and counseling. 

The next greatest challenge families are facing is balancing care for a parent with work and home life. Caring for a loved one at home can be extremely challenging. Oftentimes, we become stressed by the situation and don't know where to turn for help or guidance. What caregivers must remember is that their health is ultimately as important as those they are looking after and that we're all human. Setting goals for ourselves is critical to our growth, but it's important to set attainable goals. Don't be afraid to set priorities and celebrate success even if it's for small tasks. Learn more tips for caregivers from our Vice President of Resident Programs here. 

Another one of the challenges families are facing is feeling guilty that their loved one's care needs are beyond what the family can handle. While we may not know the details of your family's unique situation yet, your spiritual leaders, friends, and other family members may. Speak to your pastor, family therapist, or best friend about the way you are feeling. Most likely, that individual has been through a similar experience with their own loved one, or knows someone who has. Getting connected by joining a support group with others who are experiencing similar situations can help tremendously. Contact the community nearest you to find out more about our Support Groups.  

Another 10.5% of families worry that their loved one is not safe in their current environment. While we all aspire for our golden years of retirement to be filled with doing things we love in the comfort of our own homes, there are often physical struggles that get in the way of this. Picture yourself returning from a visit with Mom and Dad. Ask yourself how the visit went. Did they appear happy? How was the condition of the home? You may believe some of the changes you're noticing are a normal part of getting older, but it's important to recognize the differences between normal and abnormal aging. Learn the differences here. 

Maybe you've discovered that Mom and Dad have been having issues managing their affairs independently but would still like to stay at home for as long as possible. This would likely mean making some adjustments to the home, which can vary in cost depending on the amount of work needed, your location, and what type of care you need as well. Here are more tips for home improvement. 

But maybe you're wondering if staying at home is no longer an option. Here are a few of the most common clutter habits and conditions that should be seen as safety concerns:  

• Trip and fall hazards: Clutter on the floor and in walkways is not only a common household safety issue, but potentially the most dangerous for a senior due to health risks from falls. Look for traffic areas where items need to be stepped over or around, especially stairways. 
• High stacking on upper shelves: When items like board games, albums, or serving pieces are stacked above shoulder height, there is a risk of the stack toppling over onto your loved one.  
• Expired food and medication: When items are not routinely purged, it can result in confusion. Beyond the inconvenience of searching for misplaced items, ingesting expired food or medication can be dangerous. Look for food stored past their use by date and expired medications stored alongside current ones. 
• Blocked exits: The space behind doors is a tempting out-of-sight spot for clutter, but it's important to ensure all doors are clear of debris and can open fully in case of an emergency where first responders need to access these entrances. 
• Duplication or excess: When basic household items are hard to locate because of clutter, it's often more convenient to run to the store to pick up a replacement instead of searching for the thing you think you have. With aging seniors, large volumes of duplicated purchases may also be an indicator of cognitive decline affecting memory or impulse control. 
• Learn more signs here. 

Lastly, families are concerned about getting everyone on the same page. It can be difficult to suggest the idea of a move to community living, especially if there are multiple people involved in making that decision. Perhaps you've tried to broach the topic with these family members in the past only to have the dialogue break down in frustration or stalemate. Although it might feel better to leave that stone unturned, avoiding the topic can lead to bigger challenges in the future. Understanding and appreciating everyone's vulnerability around the topic can lead to a more meaningful conversation. When everyone has come to the table, here are some tips on maintaining a productive and meaningful dialogue. 

But don't forget, we are here to help you navigate this journey. Separating a big decision like this into several smaller decisions can make it more manageable. We've partnered with a research firm to help families determine the appropriate level of support for their loved ones. The answer to this may look different for everyone, but our hope is that this assessment and guidance will be helpful in getting families on the same page when necessary and in finding the right fit for them. 

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If you've realized it's time to make the move, click the button below to contact the community nearest you and schedule a visit. 

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By Paula Harder, Vice President of Resident Programs

Caring for loved ones diagnosed with memory loss can be extremely challenging. Oftentimes, we become stressed by the situation and don't know where to turn for help or guidance. What caregivers must remember is that their health is ultimately as important as those they are looking after. That is why we have developed this simple toolkit to help you navigate the caregiving process:

• Set Attainable Goals: We are all human. Setting goals for ourselves is critical to our growth but it is important to set attainable goals. Don't be afraid to set priorities and celebrate success even if it's for small tasks.
• Focus on Clear Communication: Individuals with memory loss process information differently. Being clear and concise with your words and using as many specifics as possible will help to foster greater understanding between you and your loved one.
• Respond to the Feeling Behind the Behavior: All behaviors are meaningful, even the negative ones. Always take a step back to try to see the world through your loved one's perspective instead of the direct behavior.
• Be Flexible: Alzheimer's and other forms of dementia are progressive diseases which means the attitudes or your loved one will change. Adapt to those changes by altering strategies or techniques that don't work anymore.
• Enjoy the Good Times: Participating in activities that you and your loved one enjoyed before their memory loss can help foster positive emotions. Continue those activities as much as possible in order to stimulate socialization and physical activity.
• Reminisce about the Past: Watching home movies, looking though photographs, or chatting about the past also helps stimulate brain function in those with memory loss. Sharing these memories will be beneficial to both you and them.
• Make Time for Yourself: Caregivers often succumb to depression, frustration, and exhaustion because they don't take time out of their day for their own wellbeing. Take at least 30 minutes for yourself to do an activity that you love.
• Educate Yourself about Memory Loss: Reading about Alzheimer's or other forms of dementia and/or participating in support groups helps to foster a greater understanding about the disease for caregivers. Learn as much as you can in order to prepare yourself.
• Don't Forget to Ask for Help: Caring for loved ones with memory loss is overwhelming and you can't do it alone. Ask friends, family members, and others for help with tasks - even if it is as simple as going to the grocery story.

Your health is an important part of the caregiver equation. After all, the care youre able to provide is only as good as your wellbeing. Our community teams are a valuable resource for tips on specific issues. To reach out to the community nearest you, click the button below.

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• Where would Mom or Dad feel most comfortable? Many residents have settled into their community and it feels like home. Additionally, loved ones with Alzheimer's and dementia can become disoriented when changing their familiar environment or routines. A mini holiday in your  home may be a good fit for some people, but a mini celebration in their suite or community could be equally enjoyable for them. Maybe this is the year the holidays are centered less around activities at multiple locationsand focus rather on taking time to enjoy spending quality time together. The holidays are a great time to reminisce, listen to music, and maybe enjoy a cookie or two, regardless of the location.
• How long can Mom or Dad be engaged before getting tired? Growing up, your family may have always gone to pick out a Christmas tree together or gone caroling, but the family of five it used to be, has turned into 25. Take into consideration if Mom or Dad will be able to keep up with the same activities. Focus on a family tradition that everyone can participate in - from Mom or Dad to the grandkids. Even if you aren't able to recreate your memories exactly, you're still making new memories as a family.
• What will the atmosphere in our house be like? In their community, Mom or Dad could return to their suite for a quick nap or relaxation time before dinner or between activities. Once the hustle and bustle of the holiday traditions are over, consider if they'll have a quiet place to themselves if they come to your home.

For some families, celebrating the holidays at their parents' assisted living or memory care neighborhood is a great fit. Our associates are there to help with their physical needs, there are celebrations, and this most likely has become the place Mom or Dad feel most at home.

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As a caregiver, you feel every emotion possible. At times, multiple emotions whirl simultaneously. You are bombarded by decisions and opinions from friends, family, and acquaintances. Complicating the matters is the fact that everyone's opinions are different. The first step in caregiving is to trust yourself. Accept the realization that no answer is right or wrong. You make the best decision with the information you have today. Tomorrow you may change your mind, but you did not make a mistake. Your information changed. You are on a journey of uncharted territory. Others have traveled similar paths, but it was not your path. Others have made similar decisions, but they were not your decisions.

A miner deep in the caverns of the earth where the impenetrable darkness abides, uses a single light to breach the darkness. If the light fails, the darkness overpowers. A single rope brings a sigh of relief. This is known as the lifeline. It is the guide from the deep dark cavern to the surface light. The lifeline leads to a place of familiarity and clarity where the miner can depend on the natural eye to be the guide.

As a caregiver you need to keep your light maintained and operating as its' peak. The light is you. You also, need a lifeline when the single light is not sufficient. What can you do to keep your single light shining? What builds your battery and gives you energy? Is it a hot cup of tea and reading a devotional? Is it talking to a friend on the phone? Is it a swim or a hike? Whatever it may be you must charge your batteries daily. Taking the time for self as a caregiver is a selfless act. It is allowing you to lead and guide those depending on you.

Is your lifeline in place? Have you walked the lifeline regularly to ensure it has not week or broken areas? How tragic for the single light to grow dim, to reach for the lifeline and it is lying on the ground disconnected from to outside world. It is so easy as a caregiver to isolate yourself. After all you do not have time for one more thing in your life. It is easy to believe that you are in this alone and no one understands. It is true others do not understand. You have to connect and share and be honest about what you need. Stay connected to your lifeline. Have a plan be for when plan A (the single light-you) grows weak.

Look at your current needs and ask, if I were removed from the picture, how would the care continue? The lifeline is multiple wires intertwined to make a strong rope. So are the people needed to help you. Build a lifeline of multiple resources assisting in a variety of ways. Accept and welcome even the smallest gestures of kindness.

As a caregiver, it was hard for me to admit that I needed help. After all, this is my responsibility. Soon I realized my help came in many sizes and packages. I found a young boy in my neighborhood. He was only eight-years old. His mother was an immaculate housekeeper, and he acquired her skill at a young age. With his mother's permission, he would visit several times a week. For the price of a grilled cheese and an action figure- my house was spotless. The time it gave me was priceless. My church set a schedule for a day out a month. It only took twelve volunteers giving up one day a year each. They thought it was a small effort, but my day out was priceless. The neighbor that canned applesauce and set aside some for my dad, the pharmacist that brought a case of meal supplements every month, the friend that brought me lunch when I could no longer join at the restaurant. The professional care staff that gave me peace of mind watching my dad respond to them. These were all strands in my lifeline.

Rule number one in caregiving: You are the single light in need of a consistent lifeline. Rule number two in caregiving: Refer back to rule number one. Be open and honest, surrounding yourself with all the small gestures of kindness. Accept the professional services that help you. You will soon realize how much others are willing to do.

Reach out to the community nearest you to learn more about joining one of our support groups.

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Frank and his wife, Claire have been married for 63 years. Frank was a minister and Claire was a school teacher. She retired in 2000 and took up some tutoring work. As the years went on, Frank could see some warning signs that Claire's cognitive ability was changing. The tutoring became too challenging. "It's like our minds are filled with hundreds of sparkling lights, and I could see some of hers' fading, one by one," he explains.

Frank cared for her at home for several years. He'd bring in help from time to time. He had home health help with bringing her to the doctor, and he had people come into help with the house and the yard. But it got to the point where "they were barely existing." Frank goes on, "She took care of me all those years, and now I'm trying to take care of her." He knew she needed more than one person could provide.

The timing was just right as Commonwealth Senior Living was opening their Sweet Memories neighborhood in Charlottesville, just 15 minutes away. The community included independent living and assisted living as well. So Frank was able to have a suite just down the hall from his wife in Sweet Memories. She was one of their first residents in October of 2015.

Being in this atmosphere has been a real plus for the couple. Besides the benefit of no longer worrying about household tasks, Frank has a balance between getting time with his wife and getting time to himself to read and recuperate with the peace of mind knowing that she has a team of caregivers 24 hours per day.

When Frank was caring for Claire on his own, he felt isolated and alone as so many caregivers do. Now, he is able to join the monthly Caregiver Support Group to talk with other spouses going through the same journey. He talks with her caregivers regularly about any changes she's going through. The ups and downs are still just as emotional. But there is a team in place to support them both.

A few months ago, each time Claire saw Frank she would say, "I love you. I love you. I love you" over and over again. Frank believes she was preparing for the time she would no longer be able to say it. She's lost most of her verbal ability now. But she has moments when she speaks just a few words. The other day she looked around at the other women in the room and said to Frank, "Look, but that's it." Frank laughs and shakes his head.

When asked about how they've been able to enjoy such a long and happy marriage, Frank closes his eyes and explains. "Love is a many splendored thing. It changes over time, but stays just as firm. You have to adjust to the changes. Recognize each other's strengths. Lean on each other, and keep an abundance of patience."

He says that their marriage now feels like long distance love. It's still there. It just makes you go deeper in your faith.

His advice is to take care of your plans for senior living far in advance of needing it. Make sure your will, power of attorney and medical directives are all established and documented. He also made sure that his lawyer, accountant and family all stayed in touch with each other. "It feels good knowing that you have a full team looking out for you."

The American Senior Housing Association provides a tremendous amount of helpful information for caregivers and families researching senior living options through their blog, Ageless Advice. The following post came directly from their site and addresses the issue of work/caregiving balance which so many families face.

"Im trying to be a good employee, but taking care of my mom at the same time is making it hard. I feel guilty leaving work for her appointments, but theres no one else to do it. Im stressed and worried that Ill lose my job."

Working daughters make up the bulk of family caregivers, and they're feeling the pressure. According to the Daughters in the Workplace North American Research Report, one in four working daughters:

• Say their career growth has suffered because they're caregivers
• Feel their supervisor is unsympathetic to their caregiver responsibilities
• Believe there's a stigma associated with taking time off to be a caregiver

Whether you're a new family caregiver or a veteran, how can you talk to your employer about being a caregiver so you can get some support with balancing work and caregiving?

Start with HR

Ask your Human Resources department about the company's policies and programs that support caregivers. Some companies have resources to help you find community services, legal or financial assistance, caregiver support groups, counseling or respite care. They may also offer caregiving leave or flexible scheduling. If your company doesn't have any policies in place, they might be open to making some. Download this toolkit to help your employer learn how they can support their working caregivers.

Under the Family Medical Leave Act (FMLA), eligible employees are entitled to unpaid leave for up to 12 weeks per year without losing health benefits or job security so they can care for a spouse, child or parent with a serious health condition. The law doesn't require companies to pay you during time off.

• You can take those 12 weeks all at once or in smaller pieces.
• To qualify, you must have worked for the company for at least 1,250 hours in the past 12 months.
• Companies are required by law to tell you your rights under FMLA, and if you qualify, to offer you leave.
• Employers may not threaten you or make your work life harder because you request a leave.

It's important to note that companies with fewer than 50 employees are exempt from FMLA. And that means unless there are state or city laws in place, they're not required to make accommodations or give you any time off.

The Americans With Disabilities Act (ADA) allows for employees taking time off to care for a disabled parent to receive the same treatment as employees taking time off to care for disabled children. The ADA also offers protection against losing your job or harassment due to taking leave.

Talk to Your Supervisor

You may not feel comfortable sharing personal information with your supervisor, but they can be a great ally for you. Good bosses don't want to lose good employees, and many will work with you to find solutions.

• Make notes about what you want to say and what you hope to get out of your conversation. It will help you stay on track and not leave out important points.
• Be clear and realistic as you explain your caregiving role and how it's impacting your work-life balance.
• Explain what you've been doing to try and juggle work and caregiving. Tell them what's worked and what hasn't.
• Have some ideas about how you might proceed in ways that don't cost the company more money or time. These ideas are to start a longer conversation - there may be more than one way to achieve your goals.
• Be flexible and willing to compromise. If a flexible work schedule isn't possible, perhaps a change in schedule or working from home one or two days a week is.

Look for Additional Support

If your parent needs more care than you can give and you still need to keep your job, it may be time to consider other resources.

• Many senior living communities offer respite care for caregivers who need a break every now and then. Knowing your parent has a safe, caring place to go for a few days can let you focus on a big project or take a work trip.
• If your parent lives out of town or a longer drive across town, consider bringing them closer to you. An assisted living or memory care community near you could provide the help they need while letting you be closer to them - cutting down on your travel time and easing your caregiving stress. Explore senior living options near you.

Being a caregiver is hard, especially when you work full-time. But having honest conversations with your employer can go a long way toward making life a little easier.

Sources:
AARP
The U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission
Elizz.com
Northeast Business Group on Health

As we age, we may experience decreased stability, limited sight, and impaired dexterity, all of which may lead to a dangerous living environment. For seniors living alone, this problematic scenario may become even more difficult as feelings of isolation and depression set in. In fact, studies have shown that seniors experiencing loneliness are more at risk for heart disease, stroke, and even mild cognitive impairment. Layer in those loved ones around you worrying if their family member is safe, happy and engaged, this all lends itself to additional and unhealthy stress and guilt within a family.  All of which, are unwelcomed and unnecessary. As we live longer, we are more likely to need additional support.

It might feel uncomfortable to admit that you or a loved one can no longer safely manage life at home. Senior living is a topic most families do not discuss until the need is imminent. Oftentimes the choice is made by an adult child because they can no longer care for their parent. Or a loved one is being discharged from the hospital and are told they can no longer live alone. In situations like these, the senior themselves might not have the opportunity to choose their community. This creates a difficult decision for the adult children. Is this what mom would want? Will she be happy here? Am I doing the right thing?

Navigating any of these scenarios can be incredibly stressful. We are hear to support you, minimize stress, and want to make the process as simple as possible for you and your loved ones. Commonwealth has been welcoming families home to our communities for nearly 20 years and can help yours too.

To schedule a time to experience one of our communities for yourself, contact the community nearest you.

There's no getting around it. Caring for an aging family member can be difficult and stressful. Their care, health, safety and happiness of your loved one all rests on your shoulders, and sometimes that responsibility can be overwhelming. The last year, in particular, has been incredibly stressful with a dramatic impact on everyone's lives. Everything you know about human connection and touch has been put to the test, but understanding how to cope with these challenges can help you become a better caregiver to your loved one.

While you're taking care of your loved one, it's important to take care of yourself too. The basic principles of self-care still apply and are still available to you, they may just look a little different now. Take time for yourself to still do the things you enjoy like reading, writing in a journal, or gardening. Taking a walk around the block is still one of the best ways to clear your mind, get fresh air and sunshine, help you refocus, and stay energized. It has also been proven effective in reducing anxiety and depression. Enjoying these quiet moments gives us the opportunity to take advantage of the simple things in life we may have taken for granted in the past.

In this free presentation, we will help you learn how to cope with caregiving stress as well as share tips and tools that you can use to make sure you keep yourself healthy and strong. We'll go over points from setting goals to providing resources so you can continue to give your loved one the care they deserve.

1. Evaluate What You Can Do. It's okay that you can't do everything for your loved one! If you're good with money, you can offer financial help, paying bills and managing finances. If you're an organizer, you could organize important documents or arrange for friends and neighbors to bring meals. Once you know what you can do, you'll be able to make a plan that covers the gaps.
2. Explore Different Living Arrangements. Sometimes your loved one might need help that's closer to home. Some families can make it work to move closer, and for others it might make more sense for the loved ones to move closer to them. If either of these options are out of the question, moving into a senior living community or hiring in-home care can provide their needed support.
3. Have a Family Meeting. It's important to get everyone on the same page, whether it's in person or virtually. Once you all understand your loved one's needs and wants, you can work out a plan of action and set a schedule. Once the plan is in place, make sure to keep everyone updated, especially your loved one. Learn more about starting the conversation here.
4. Plan Visits. It is important to actually see your loved one from time to time. Spend quality time with them and find out exactly what they need.
5. Have an Emergency Plan. In case of an accident or other emergency, have a plan in place to get there on short notice. Set up a support system who can step in while you're gone and keep a list of their contact information and roles.
6. Stay Connected. Scheduling calls with doctors, senior living communities, neighbors who check on them, and of course your loved one can help you to get up-to-date information. Distance can be challenging, but these tips and using your support system can make it more manageable.

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"Caring for my dad means a lot to me and our family. He's important to us and our intentions are to make sure he has the best care because he always made sure we were taken care of.

Commonwealth has helped us with all of my father's care needs, and the communication has been great as things change with those needs. I grew accustomed to being with my dad daily during the week at his previous senior living community, but Commonwealth has given me the added peace of mind."

"Mom has been living at Commonwealth Senior Living for a little over two years. My parents' doctor recommended this particular community because of his respect for the head nurse, Jody. Of course, it was hard to move Mom out of her home, but we all knew it was the best as her memory was getting worse, and she found everyday chores like cooking and cleaning up impossibly challenging.

Mom has always been social, so we knew having access to activities and other folks would be great for her. At first, she was confused as to why she had moved there and wasn't that interested in making new friends. This is where the amazing team at Commonwealth comes in. They became not only Mom's caregivers, but her friends. They encouraged her, comforted her, and looked out for her. That helped alleviate my sadness at not having Mom living 'alone.' Mom has a comfortable room with lots of family pictures, three healthy meals, and access to lots of different activities. She's encouraged to participate, but never forced if she'd rather just stay in her room and watch TV, read, or look at photo albums. Anytime something in her room needs to be fixed, it's handled quickly and the room is always neat and tidy.

We're a very close family, but I'm the only one that lives near Mom, so I visit the most - usually five days a week. Over these last couple of years, I've gotten to know some of the staff and other residents pretty well, and love to know Mom is surrounded by such friendly and caring people. Because of the staff's caregiving on Mom's behalf, I'm able to spend my visits laughing, reminiscing, hugging, and just plain relaxing with the best Mom ever! I can add that during the pandemic, we have felt very comfortable that Mom was safe. It was so wonderful that the staff made window visits with a cell phone possible and filled in with lots of hugs that we couldn't give."

"In September of 2021, my mother, Terry, became part of the CSL Charlottesville family. I was thoroughly impressed with the care and professionalism of the entire staff there. My father, 90 years old, tried his best to care for Mom during her first two years of progressive dementia. My wife and I have been Registered Nurses for 30 years and we toured the community with attentive eyes. It was impressive. For days after Mom's move, she was perky, rested, clean, and happy, even in her confused state. Dad was surprised and relieved. He visited her frequently and was amazed by the Memory Care team!

A few weeks later, COVID-19 did what it does. My wife and I worked in the ICU during the first chaotic wave for nine months, so we understand firsthand what it does to staff. The team at CSL Charlottesville were rockstars. We prayed for Mom and the staff daily. We received photos, updates, and calls almost daily from Nathan, Ashley, Rachel, and Aly. My wife and I were with Mom for her last three hours, and my entire family is grateful for the care and compassion she and we received."

Thank you to each caregiver out there for everything you are doing.

If you're a kind-hearted individual that wants to bring joy to and improve the lives of seniors in our communities through caregiving, click here to explore current career opportunities at Commonwealth Senior Living.

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Where You Live Matters provides these tips to manage holiday stress for caregivers:

1. Address the root of any anxiety. Managing the stress of caregiving, holidays, and family members can introduce an additional layer of anxiety. You've likely heard the saying, "You can't control other people, but you can control your reaction." This wisdom certainly applies to the holidays but should be explored year-round.  
2. Manage your expectations. There is always something to be grateful for. Even if the festivities don't meet childhood expectations, keep in mind you're still creating cherished memories.
3. Stay in touch with your family members. While you've been taking care of your loved one daily, it's important to remember your siblings or nieces and nephews may not have had the same opportunity. Take time to communicate with everyone who visits, informing them of any changes that may have occurred since the last holiday season. This will allow them to adjust their expectations accordingly and ensure a smoother experience for everyone involved.
4. Simplify if you're hosting. Hosting a celebration can be overwhelming without caring for a loved one. Remember that family and friends are coming, so you don't have to shoulder all the responsibilities. Ask them to bring the pumpkin pie or salad, allowing you to focus on more manageable tasks and the needs of your loved one.

It's not uncommon to experience conflicting emotions during the holiday season. You are not alone in the struggle to find a balance between caregiving responsibilities and the desire for relaxation. According to AARP, more than 20% of adults in the U.S. are providing unpaid care to a family member. This statistic highlights the significant number of individuals who are dedicating their time and energy to supporting their loved ones at home. This can lead to feelings of guilt and exhaustion, as caregivers often put their own needs aside to prioritize the well-being of others. Remember, "You can't pour from an empty cup." Taking care of yourself isn't selfish; it's necessary for your own well-being and ability to care for others effectively.  

It is important to recognize your need for care and support as a caregiver. If you are interested in joining one of our Caregiver Support Groups, contact the community nearest you.

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Being a caregiver can be a rewarding and challenging role. On one hand, it can be fulfilling to care for a loved one. Many caregivers develop deeper connections with those they are caring for and take comfort in knowing they are improving their quality of life. On the other hand, there will be frustrations to overcome. Witnessing a loved ones health decline, while meeting the physical and mental demands of caregiving can be overwhelming. According to a 2022 survey conducted by the National Alliance for Caregiving and AARP, around 43.5 million U.S. adults provide unpaid care for a family member or friend. It is a stressful responsibility, and without proper support, caregivers can experience burnout.

What Causes Caregiver Burnout and How to Identify It

In a more recent AARP report, surveyors discovered 40% of caregivers consider the emotional stress that comes from balancing caregiving and work to be the most challenging part of their lives. In honor of National Family Caregivers Month, we'd like to share five ways to avoid or manage caregiver burnout:

1. Recognize the signs. Common symptoms of caregiver burnout include depression, anxiety, withdrawal, physical fatigue, and sleep problems. Caregiving is a 24/7 job, making it easy to neglect self-care. It is crucial to identify these signs early on to prevent symptoms from progressing.
2. Find support. You are not alone! Many caregivers experience burnout and oftentimes it can be greatly beneficial to seek guidance through support groups, friends and family, or professional help. Many organizations provide resources to connect caregivers, such as the National Alliance for Caregiving, Family Caregiver Alliance, and the Alzheimers Association. At Commonwealth Senior Living, we also provide support through a monthly Virtual Caregiver Support Group. If you are interested in joining this group or learning more, please contact caregiversupport@commonwealthsl.com. Making connections with others experiencing similar situations can be comforting.

Managing Caregiver Burnout Through Self-Care and Support

1. Take care of yourself. As a caregiver, you may feel that your loved ones needs come before your own. It is essential to take care of yourself not only for your well-being but also for the person you care for. Eating a healthy diet, getting enough sleep, and making time for activities you enjoy are good places to start in establishing a self-care routine.
2. Set boundaries. This may be challenging but necessary to avoid burnout. Saying no can be difficult when you care about someone but be honest about what you can realistically accomplish. Remind yourself, you cannot pour from an empty cup.
3. Seek outside help. Sometimes its impossible to manage everything on your own. Seeking outside support can provide a fresh perspective and expertise. Professionals such as social workers and elder law attorneys can provide guidance on coordinating care, legal issues, and financial planning.

Caregiver burnout is a real risk, but it is not inevitable. Recognizing the signs early on, finding support, taking care of yourself, setting boundaries, and seeking outside help are all strategies to avoid or manage it. If you are a caregiver, please know you are not alone, and taking care of yourself is just as important as taking care of your loved one. By prioritizing your well-being, you can continue to provide care for your loved one without sacrificing your own health and happiness.

If you are interested in joining one of our Caregiver Support Groups, contact the community nearest you.

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Bessie Hudnall

Mrs. Bessie Hudnall, like so many of our residents, grew up on a farm in Virginia. She shared a story from when she was a girl on the farm. At 98 years old, Mrs. Hudnall had quite a journey from farming to owning a grocery store with her husband in Brooklyn. Take a look at the beautiful article by the Free Lance Star about Bessie and her husband, William here. They were happily married for 79 years. 

Sadly, Mr. Hudnall passed away not long after this article was printed, but his legacy will not be forgotten. Bessie tells stories of him often. The community remembers him as the first African American commissioner for the Potomac River Fisheries and the first African American to sit on the Board of Supervisors in Northumberland County. 

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Bette Brown

"Don't sweat the small stuff." That's the advice Bette Brown would like to give the next generation. Miss Brown was a teacher at H.M. Pearson Elementary in Faquier County, Virginia for 33 years. Over all those years, she said there are kids from each class that she'll always remember. Some of them are connected to her on Facebook now. Times have really changed since she got her first computer at the school in the late 70s. But she enjoyed learning and staying up on new technology as the years have gone by. She enjoys time on her computer each day and still teaches a bit. Our residents enjoy her exercise classes each morning. Miss Brown hopes to get back to driving so she can do some volunteering at the local grade school in the future.

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Bill Wyatt

"That's the girl for me!" Mr. Bill Wyatt says the night he saw his wife for the first time was a moment he has never forgotten. Knowing she was the girl for him may be the only of his prophesies that came true, he told us with a chuckle. After 70 years, she's still his bride and he's still quite taken with her. 

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Burlyn Rogers

"It gave me a chance to express myself, but I didn't have to talk to anybody to do it." That's why Burlyn Rogers loved about building airplanes. The first plane he worked on was a B47, a medium sized bomber jet. He tells us that sitting down to a piece of paper and creating a machine is something like magic. It was heaven to him. At 97, he has quite a few stories to tell from building planes to rubbing elbows with people like Elizabeth Taylor. 

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Burt Barnes

Many of our residents' legacies include serving their country and their pictures hang on our Wall of Valor in each community. We include a star above their door number as a reminder of their service, and perhaps, most importantly, we listen to their stories and share them.  

Burt Barnes spent nearly 30 years traveling the world in the Air Force, but there's one very short trip that he remembers most clearly. Mr. Barnes is one of the many residents who keep us laughing at Commonwealth Senior Living at Hampton. 

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Don Gilbert

At 88, Mr. Don Gilbert is our resident gardener at Commonwealth Senior Living at Farnham. You'll see him picking vegetables and tending to his crops every day. He says it keeps him young. 

Don is not the only resident at our community who enjoys the garden. His produce is used in our kitchen to create delicious meals for our residents every day. It ties in perfectly with our farm-to-table dining. With 85% of our produce coming from Virginia farmers, we're proud to enjoy local food at Farnham and all of our communities each day. 

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Eva Coates Hagood

She was a labor and delivery nurse for 41 years, and she felt it was her calling. 

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Frank Stallard

Growing up in the 1930s was not an easy time. Frank Stallard remembers being placed in foster care after his family could no longer care for him, but he carries no bitterness about it. "I'm philosophical about it," he says. "It's just the way it was." 

There's a palpable strength and determination we see in our residents, this group who Tom Brokaw famously coined the Greatest Generation. We cherish their stories and are honored to pass them along. 

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Gunter Buhrdorf

Many of our residents began their lives in other countries. They came here to start a new life or to flee from war-torn countries. Gunter is one of those residents. He was born and raised in Germany during WWII. The war began when he was 14 years old. As he says, "and my youth went out the window!" He had the opportunity to befriend another WWII veteran at Commonwealth Senior Living at Christiansburg several years ago. The story of their friendship ended up making the cover of the Washington Post. It's not every day you meet a soldier from the opposing side of a war you fought in 70 odd years before. 

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James Crumbley

Overcoming fear is something we all must do at different points in our lives, but in some situation, that fear is palpable. James Crumbley joined the Navy as WWII was starting. He had never been out to sea until that point. He was assigned to find submarines and the idea of torpedoes really frightened him. It didn't help that the threat was so real. After all, the area surrounding the Outer Banks, North Carolina was nicknamed "Torpedo Alley" during the war for all the attacks on allied shipping vessels. Nonetheless, Mr. Crumbley was able to overcome that fear and serve four years with the Navy. 

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Jean Warren

"Just a little country girl going all the way to Africa all by myself." That's how Jean Warren explained why she thought people were worried about her going to Nairobi, Kenya at the age of 88. But by her estimation, she couldn't think of any reason not to go. Her husband had passed away and one of her sons worked there as a missionary. She wanted to be with him and said, "If God's going to take care of me, what do I have to be afraid of?" 

Ms. Warren's gumption and faith is a great example of the kind of legacy so many of us hope to leave. Our life experiences aren't always limited to our beautiful state, and these adventures away truly shape who we are and the way we impact the people we meet. 

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Johanna Van Dyke

We've heard advice for happy marriages, having adventures, and funny stories too. Johanna Van Dyke shared stories with us about her eccentric grandfather. 

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Johnny Colville

Growing tobacco has been part of the story of Virginia since colonists settled there in the 1600s. Many of our residents have experience working on tobacco farms. Mr. Colville talks about planting tobacco, walking barefoot through the fields, and the coolness of the barn. Those memories are conjured up like he was there just yesterday. 

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Juanita Melton

She recalls growing up in a simpler time. In 1930, the population of Bland County would have been about 6,000 people. You'd have to use your imagination to keep yourself entertained, and it sounds like Ms. Melton did just that. We are grateful for every one of Ms. Melton's stories. 

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Loreighn Stewart

"I want to be remembered as a happy person," said Ms. Stewart as she giggled into the microphone. And really, what a wonderful and simple wish that is! It's hard not to smile when listening to her talk about teaching Sunday school. Her happiness is contagious. 

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Mervin Franklin

You can just picture the smile on Mervin's face as he describes the day he met his wife, Shirley. He was 85 and wasn't looking for love. He had spent a good part of his life in the Marine Corps and had lots of adventures, but he thought all of that was over. It wasn't until he saw Shirley for the first time that he changed his mind. He'd told us he knew he was going to marry her before he even knew her name. 

While the kindling of these relationships don't happen every day, we've been happy to celebrate several romances in our communities. It's a joy to see people finding love, and it's one of the constants that remain no matter what else may change. 

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Reverend Rowland

"This gnawing on my soul would come and go for years." Reverend Rowland, well-known, retired minister, shared what it felt like to be working in science and be compelled to the religious life. He experienced what so many of us do at some point in our careers. The question comes up, does what we do have meaning? It this what we were meant to do? Reverend Rowland had a successful career with Bristol Meyers, but it was not fulfilling him. Ultimately, the call to serve God led him to ministry.  

We believe having a sense of purpose is critical not only in your work life, but also in the golden years of life. Reverend Rowland can be found leading bible study each week in our community for a group of residents who thoroughly enjoy participating. 

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Ronald Craft

"You give a little. You take a little." Anyone who has been in a relationship for any great length of time might tell you relationships aren't easy. Building a life with another person can have its challenges, and the national statistics of divorce rates don't paint a different picture. Maybe that's why we celebrate those individuals who are able to be successful in their marriages to such a high degree. Perhaps these couples have a secret to share on how they are able to enjoy each other so much after 72 years.  

At 97, Ronald Craft says the key to being married that long is kindness. He says after all these years, he and his wife still think of each other's happiness all the time. He says he'd marry her again if he had the chance, and she told him she'd marry him again too. So this advice of give and take and a long, happy marriage is the legacy he'd like to leave the next generation. 

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Ruth Sisson

She reflected back on a memory of her first year at Radford University. What was her one regret? Well, she wished she had the chance to dance at a sorority party. There was a time when it was fairly common for mothers to make dresses and pajamas out of feed bags.  

Until these bags were made out of paper in the 1960s, these cotton bags could be turned into all kinds of useful household items by the engineering mothers of the time. Take a look at this great mention of the history of feedbags as clothing here. 

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Learning the stories of our residents and joining them in the journey is what gets us up in the morning. We listen, we love, we care, we serve. It's not just what we say, it's what we do. Every day. Learn more about our residents and their stories here. 

While growing up in West Millford, West Virginia, Ruth and Andy became friends in their teenage years. Andy was a senior in high school and was very active in sports. He played on the football team, and Ruth became attracted to him when she was a freshman. They began dating when Andy was 17, and Ruth was 14. Andy graduated and went off to Potomac State Junior College to play football but had always wanted to learn to fly. After taking lessons, Andy entered the U.S. Navy and because a WWII pilot. Ruth was enrolled at the University of West Virginia. It was at that time that she realized that she and Andy had something special together because they both missed each other. Ruth finished college at W.V.U. and began to teach junior high while Andy was still in the service. She only taught for one year, realizing she wanted a different lifestyle. Andy returned from WWII and in June of 1946, they became husband and wife. As of today, they have been married 72 years. Andy and Ruth have two children, one daughter and one son and three grandchildren. They moved to Danville, Virginia in 1956. Andy was in sales and Ruth became a social worker. They eventually became owners of Danville Lumber Company. This provided them with a great life. Andy and Ruth loved to travel together with their favorite places being in the United States. “There are just so many beautiful places here,” says Ruth. Andy and Ruth continue to live a great life at Stratford House in Danville, Virginia. They have been residents of our community for 3 years. When asked if they could pass on some advice to younger couples today Ruth stated, “Just be sure you know each other well.” One thing is for sure, Andy and Ruth really know each other well after 72 years of wonderful marriage.

The two met when Bob was 25 years old, and Anna was 20. She was still living with her parents and her mother had health issues. Her father provided for the family, but her mother was not able to care for the children. Since Anna was the oldest, she took care of all her siblings and some cousins that lived with them. Between caring for all the children and working another job, that didn’t leave much time for Anna to have fun. However, she did have time to date a man who worked with Bob on the USS Battleship New Jersey. The ship was being rebuilt at the Philadelphia Shipyard to go to Vietnam. Apparently, Anna’s parents didn’t care for sailors and didn’t want their daughter to date any. Anna worked as a telephone operator for Bell Telephone of Pennsylvania and was able to have a relationship on “the down low” with her boyfriend by calling him every day while she was at work. On this particular day, fate stepped in and Anna’s boyfriend wasn’t around when she called for him. Bob was off duty and was relaxing and watching TV. The phone rang, and for some inexplicable reason, he answered the phone using a Scottish accent. The hit it off, and she started calling every night to speak with the Scottish man! About a month later, Bob gathered the nerve and asked Anna out. She agreed to meet him at the 69th subway station. She told him she’d be wearing a red coat. Of course, he spotted her easily and thought she was pretty. They shared a slice of pizza and a coke from a street vendor with Bob using the accent the whole date. They kept meeting at the same spot for quite some time, and Bob decided it was time to drop the accent and meet the parents. Obviously, Anna took the charade well and had a good laigh about the whole thing. Right away, Bob’s good demeanor and charm won over Anna’s parents, and they started depending on him to help out around the house with whatever needed to be done. They had him over for dinner once a week as part of the family. Bob and Anna married 2 years later. They have 2 sons and a beagle named Daisy. Anna is one of our wonderful residents, and Bob visits her every day.

Elizabeth and Charlie met in 1941. Elizabeth was 16 years old and was leaving a church meeting in Poquoson when she heard a firetruck siren for the first time in her life. Charlie was 19 at the time and living in Hampton when he and his friends heard the fire trucks, and decided to follow them to see what was happening. As it turns out, Poquoson didn’t have a fire department, and there was a boat accident. So Hampton fire department was called to the scene. Elizabeth and her friends and Charlie and his friends happened to meet at the scene and exchanged names and numbers. Shortly after, Charlie showed up at Elizabeth’s door to ask her to go on a date, which just so happened to be the beginning of the rest of their life. The two have been married 75 years and still counting. Elizabeth fell in love with Charlie’s accent and good looks. Charlie loved that she was so outgoing. They dated for 10 months before getting married. They had 6 children, 15 grandchildren and 9 great grandchildren. While Charlie was away in the Navy, Elizabeth stayed with his parents to learn how to cook all of his favorite meals. Afterwards, Charlie worked the livestock stables for 30 years, working 7 days a week. Elizabeth stayed home with the kids. Their whole life was focused around their family and trying to make them happy. They always made their children and other children feel loved and safe. Charlie and Elizabeth always went to bed at the same time and woke up at the same time, no matter what. Their children say when they hear the song, “Remember When” by Alan Jackson, they think of their parents. Their advice to young couples is to try and agree or at least talk and work it out. Always stick together through thick and thin.

Elmo met Louise in the spring of 1953. She was living right up the street from where he was staying. One afternoon when her sister came into town, Louise came and dragged Elmo down to introduce him to her sister. They married a little over a year later in 1954 and had three children, two boys and a girl. Louise told Elmo every day that she did not know what she would have done if she would not have met him. Elmo says, “I fell in love with her because I guess I was crazy.” “She and I got along really well, and of course she was the prettiest girl I had ever seen.” “Over the length of our marriage, she did get fat two or three times, but that was when she was pregnant with our kids. So I guess that was alright,” he laughs. “She also was very outspoken. As a matter of fact, I believe that she asked me to marry her! She had a good government job, she worked in the personnel management position.” Elmo’s advice to young couples is that marriages take a lot of investment. “When you get married, you can’t just do what you want anymore. You have to give and take, and you have to put work in.” Louise and Elmo used to put a little money aside when they wanted something, and when they had enough, they went and got it together. They never bought anything on credit. “Always pay cash. Young couples should remember that.”

Eugene and Marie have a unique love story. They found each other when Eugene was in the French Navy, and Marie was just going out with her family to a French dance in New York City. They held French dances for the sailors coming into shore, and Eugene just happened to be at this one. They talked for the rest of the night, dancing and smiling the whole time. When they parted ways that night, they kept in touch through letters for three full years. She wrote him nearly every day, and he wrote as much as he could. In 1946, Gene moved to America just after Christmas. So Marie waited to celebrate until he was there. He was all the present that Marie needed that Christmas, and she was all he wanted too. They were married April 12th of the next year, and that’s when they truly started to get to know each other. He took her out of a bad family situation and worked two to three jobs so she could stay home with the kids. They have been with each other for over 70 years now, and they still share that same love with the same kisses. They fell for each other’s personalities from the beginning. The communication that they have held with the other has been vital in their relationship. They always focused on learning more about the other person.

Frank and Betty met while in grade school and continued in the same school through high school. But it wasn’t until Frank returned home after serving two years in the Navy that he decided to reach out to Betty’s mother to see if she was still single. They reunited and married that fall in 1948. Frank says he fell in love with Betty because she was so sweet and was always well dressed. Betty says she fell in love with Frank because he’s polite and a good kisser. Betty’s advice for young couples is to learn new things together. The more you do and experience together, the stronger the bond. These two should know. They have been married 67 years and known each other for 75.

Jean Turnman was 53 years old in 1985 when a man she did not even know began calling her, begging her to go on a date with him. At the time, she had no interest in seeking another love after her first husband had passed, and she had created her own life without a companion. As fate would have it, this man- her future husband, Garver, persisted and on the fourth phone call, she finally agreed to go out with him. Their first date was a trip to Mount Airy, North Carolina during which they enjoyed a dinner followed by riding around town and ended up going to a dance. Afterwards, he drive her home and as Jean recalls, “the light started burning”. After their first date, they became inseparable. Because they had so many common interests, they were able to enjoy the same hobbies, and everyday activities became labors of love for the two of them. Four years later, they wed and were married for 30 years. Garver built the house that they spent their years in and tended to a huge garden that they shared with their neighbors. As Jean tells it, Some men have their golf, and Garver had his garden.” Jean remembers their time together as “heaven on earth” and wished she had met him 30 years earlier. Her advice to young couples is to not fall in love too quickly but to give yourself time.

Ruth was a freshman in college when she met her husband, Herbert Hank Hoover. She was studying to become an elementary school teacher. He admired her hard work and dedication to her studies. Ruth loved the way Herbert would talk about traveling and his dreams to fly everywhere he possibly could. They hit it off almost immediately. It seemed they were the perfect match. According to Ruth, he had the best sense of humor and made her the happiest she had ever been. Before long, they were married at the Stanley Presbyterian Church in North Carolina. He soon made her fall in love with traveling as he was a pilot. They took tons of trips all over the country together. Ruth says, “I loved flying with him. He took me everywhere! It is hard to say that I had a favorite place he took me because as long as I was with him on the trip, every place was perfect. I wish I could tell you I had a favorite place he flew me, but every place was my favorite.” Together, they had a son named “Hank”. When Hank was in the first grade, they lost their beloved Herbert. He was killed while testing an airplane. Ruth says, The time we had together was beautiful. He was such a wonderful and brilliant man. He was so wonderful to me, absolutely outstanding.” We asked Ruth what her advice to young couples today is. She answered, “Be sure you find the right one and love each other. Love will get you through.”

Juanita met her husband of 52 years, Jackie, when she was in the 4th grade. They kept in touch for several years as friends and then dated seriously for two years before they decided to get married at the age of 20. Juanita was a second grade teacher, and Jackie worked as a mail carrier and at the Hosiery Mill. They had a beautiful home in Cana, Virginia surrounded by apple and peach trees that they worked for several years. In their precious 52 years of marriage, some very wonderful memories include the births of their two children, Janie and Jonathan. Juanita and Jackie enjoyed spending time with their parents and going back to their home place and watching their four grandchildren grow and learn. Juanita adored Jackie, and he adored her. Three things Juanita loved about Jackie were his smile, the way he hugged her tight, and that he was a good daddy to their two children. Juanita said when she met Jackie she just knew he was “the one”. Throughout their many years of marriage, they had several values as a couple. A few included being Christian and setting a good example for others. Also working hard for what they had. Juanita’s advice to give to young couples today would be to trust God that he has sent you the right soulmate.

Juanita was in high school when she first saw her husband. She didn’t meet him that day, but she’s never forgotten it either. He was a senior, and she was a freshman. Their school was having a pep rally. She was sitting in the bleachers when the seniors marched in. The person sitting next to her stood up and yelled “hey Whitey!” Jim threw up his hand in acknowledgement. To this day, Juanita has never forgotten that moment. She can still hear the band playing and the smile on his face. Life went on. He graduated and went into the Navy, and Juanita finished high school. She began working in a law office as a secretary. One day, she and her coworkers went to a local diner for lunch, and there in his Navy dress whites sat Jim. One of her coworkers knew him. So naturally, she took them all over to say hello. They sat down and had a great lunch. As they were eating lunch and talking Juanita remembered a dream she had a year prior. In her dream, a man dressed in white stood before her and a voice was saying, “This is the man you will marry.” They enjoyed a conversation and meal and parted ways. Unbeknownst to Juanita, her friend had given Jim her number. He called later that night. They went out that night to the movies and had a wonderful time. He had to return to his Navy ship and base in Florida the following day. He wrote a letter to Juanita while he was out to sea. Time passed and when his time in the Navy was up, he returned home and called. Juanita was elated to hear from him. That Christmas, they were engaged. The man in white would become her husband.

Margaret and Jim met in high school. Margaret was on the cheerleading squad with Jim’s sister, and Jim would bribe his sister to get brief moments alone with Margaret. Jim has been living with cerebral palsy his whole life. When asked what made them fall in love, Margaret says that it was his kindness and his courage. They were traits that won her heart. The two will have been married for 57 years this February. Their advice for young couples: “Stay passionate about your dreams and about each other. Be curious and adventurous, but keep your heart where it belongs.”

On August 28th, Jim and Marge will celebrate 63 years of marriage. They began dating in high school and continued through college where Marge wore Jim’s sweetheart pin from his fraternity, Sigma Chi. They were engaged Christmas of their senior year. But their story began much earlier as they were in the same kindergarten in 1937. Marge says she doesn’t remember Jim, and yet he’s sitting in the same row with her in their class picture. In 7th grade, Marge remembers seeing Jim in study hall and thinking he would be nice to date. By sophomore year, he was walking her home from football games and dances. She was thrilled when they started “going steady”, and in their senior year, they were voted King and Queen at the Sweetheart Dance. They both attended and graduated from Bowling Green State University. From there, Jim spent two years in the Marine Corps, and they were stationed at Cherry Point Air Station in North Carolina. Marge says that Cliff has been the love of her life. They have two sons, one daughter, seven grandchildren and three great grandsons. Their advice for young couples is to always listen to each other and never go to bed mad.

Mary Lowe had just graduated from Meredith College in the late 1940’s when she began teaching 4th grade at an elementary school in Lowgap, North Carolina. While employed there, she lived at a nearby boarding house with the other teachers at the school. Junior Lowe had just returned from the war and happened to see Ms. Mary and a few of her friends as they were walking into a local gas station. When he saw her, he wished to know who she was and asked his friend who replied by telling him it was the local “McKinney girl”. A few days later, Junior went to the boarding house, knocked on the door, and was greeted by the tenant. When asked who he was there to see, he could not remember the name his friend had told him, and he requested to see the “Kennedy girl”. The tenant, of course, had no idea who he was talking about and said their was a McKinney that he could see. Mary made her way to the door, and they spent their first “date” talking through the screen of the boarding house. This was the beginning of 67 years they spent together. When asked why she fell in love, Mary responded by saying that he was a very decisive man that had a great sense of humor. Their son, Dennis, shared stories of his days working with his father. He said that when they would take a break after a short period, Junior would declare, “Let’s do something- even if it’s wrong.” Mary looks back at their time spent as wonderful and feels lucky to have been able to spend such a span of time with her late husband. Her advice to young couples is to “love each other and to work together.”

Laurence met his sweetheart, Rosa in 1939. They went to school together and soon became high school sweethearts. Laurence wanted to make sure he looked nice. So he would press his pants himself on his mama’s old stove. Laurence moved to West Virginia where he began to work, but he and Rosa continued to correspond through letters. It was through those letters that he fell in love with her. They were married in York, South Carolina on September 7th, 1947. He was 18, and she was 17. He jokingly says of that day that she had $50, and he only had $30 but they were in love. A friend of his offered him a job in Williamsburg on a dairy farm. Laurence said he was paid $35/week and that was “big money”. While in Williamsburg, he saved up and bought a house with Rosa in Carroll County, Virginia in 1955. Soon thereafter, a man from Floyd offered him $75 very two weeks to work on his farm. For the next 12 years, he would spend his days on the dairy farm. Rosa worked as a waitress at the infamous (to us Floyd folks) Blue Ridge Restaurant in Floyd, VA. In addition to her waitressing, Rosa also was a nurse at a retirement home in Floyd. When asked what Laurence loved most about Rosa, he said “everything.” Laurence reminisces about Rosie’s good cooking. He tells us that she could make the best pies and biscuits you ever had in your life! Laurence says every night before bed, he tells Rosa he loves her and is sorry for everything he’s ever done wrong. Laurence finishes by says, “If we die tomorrow, we’ll be together in heaven. She’s my sweetheart and always will be.” Their love story us about hard work, dedication and appreciating each other.

The Armstrongs met on a bus trip with Corinth Baptist Church. Melvin’s brother and his wife suggested they meet as they were both widowed. They’ve been together for 34 years, and they say it was love at first sight, an answered prayer for them both. Their advice for young couples is to marry for love. Do so for the good and the bad. Marriage is a union that is sacred and binding, not a convenience. Do so with a lifelong commitment.

Merlin met the woman of his dreams in 1945 when the war was still going on. He knew instantly that he was going to marry her. He explains, “I was out with my friends at a football game, and we had to sneak out through the back gate. As we were sneaking out, I ran into the most gorgeous, red headed woman that I had ever set eyes upon.” “She was just standing next to the gate with a friend. My friend and I began arguing over which one of us was going to talk to the red headed woman. I told him that he was to take the taller one since he was taller than I was and that the red headed woman was mine!” During their courtship, Gloria wrote to Merlin every single day. Because of that, he knew that she was meant to be his. They married less than a year later in August of 1946. Her name was Gloria Joyce Jemison. She told Merlin that she was proud of her name and would never take his last name, and she never did. They were married for 64 years and 18 days. Over those years, they had ten children. Merlin’s advice for young couples is to make sure that they have the right one.

Raymond Frese is one of the sweetest residents you’ll meet. He served in the Airforce and flew over 100 missions to protect our freedom. During this time in the military, he found the love of his life and his wife. He was a military man, so he didn’t meet many people off the base normally unless he went to a military ball. And that is exactly where he met his wife. They had been together for almost 60 years and had a beautiful family. Raymond liked to garden with Edith and help take care of the children. He had a hard time answering what he liked most about her because he said he liked everything about her, including her flaws. There was no one thing he had to cling onto to remember why he was in love with her. It was just her. Though Edith passed away in 1997, Ray still thinks of her often. The one piece of advice he gives to young couples is to always be truthful no matter what. Honesty is the thing that makes the relationship great, even if the honesty hurts.

Ida was in high school in Scottsburg, VA and decided to go to a dance with her sisters and brothers. It was at this dance that they met. Ida was 3 years younger than Red, but she agreed to go out with him. Red lived in Denniston (Alton) with his family, and Ida lived on the other side of the county. Some of her sisters and brothers already knew him. So they were allowed to go out. Back then it was very common for the family to come along when a couple was going for a group date. Everyone would dress in their Sunday clothes to go to the lake. They have many pictures at Buggs Island Lake and Kerr Dam where they went on many dates with most of Ida’s family. Idea and Red had dated for awhile when Red was called to join the Army. At the time, the Korean War was happening and Red enlisted. He made Ida promise that she would not get married while he was gone. He even bought her a ring. She promised that she would do nothing until he returned. He was stationed in Germany and sent many letters and pictures while he was there. He also bought her a beautiful set of China and had it sent home for her. When he returned home, they decided to get married on June 30, 1953. They went to the preacher’s house near the North Carolina/Virginia line and exchanged vows. The preacher’s wife was the witness. The honeymooned in Myrtle Beach, SC and lived happily ever after.

Jean and Richard met in 1955 in Northern Maine. When Richard met Jean, she was dating someone else. Time went by, and the next time Richard saw her he asked her to go bowling. She said yes! Richard was in the air force for many years while Jean was a school teacher. When asked what made them fall in love, Richard said, “I liked her, and I guess she liked me too.” They married a year after they met in 1956 and have been together ever since.

Anita was in her early twenties when she was introduced to the man she would later call her husband. She grew up in Brooklyn, New York and spent a lot of her time on Coney Island going on dates with a man named Robert. Although it was not love at first sight, Anita said, It didn’t take me long to know I was going to marry that man.” Robert was a military man who entered into World War II, in December 1942. He was a kind, gentle and patriotic man. After a couple of months, he married Anita and was shipped out to New Guinea. Together they had three children, one of which was adopted. “We spent a perfect 74 years together, never had a fight,” Anita explained. Anita fell in love with Robert’s dancing. It was her favorite thing about him besides his blonde hair. They danced for over thirty years together. Her nickname for him was “Charlie boy”. Anita knew how to dance but always followed Robert’s steps. They danced all over Brooklyn doing the jitterbug and the hardest dance, the Peabody. Anita and Robert were flawless when they stepped on the dance floor together. Everyone’s eyes were locked on them as they danced the Peabody. To this day, Anita’s favorite thing to do is to reminisce about Robert. She carries pictures of him in her purse and never has a bad word to say about him. Every day, Anita sits by the Wall of Valor to talk to her beloved Robert and lets him know how she loves him and misses him. Robert was 94 years old when he lost his brave battle to cancer this past year. Anita was by his side through the good and bad, no matter what. Anita’s advice for young couples today is “don’t fight, we never fought! The key to a long-lasting love is to be gentle and put your loved one first. I can’t wait until the day I meet him again.”

Tom and June were married in 1955 in New Bedford, MA. They have been married for 62 years. These lovebirds met while working on New Bedford at the Nabisco Corporation. June worked in the office, and Tom was a sales representative. Tom looked at June and thought she had the most beautiful smile and asked her to a movie. That movie led to a six month courtship that had Tom on one knee asking June to marry him. Tom will tell you they had a wonderful and full like, two children and four grandchildren along with two great grandchildren to help fill their life with even more joy! They are truly best friends, and when asked if they had a mantra they lived by, Tom will tell you that they always kissed goodnight and never went to bed mad. They enjoyed vacationing in New Hampshire in a little place called Gorham. Gorham is a beautiful, little town, and they loved it so much they bought a second home there. June was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s this year, and Tom’s love for her still sparkles in his eyes. When June was asked what has kept their marriage so special all these years, she responded by telling us they have a special connection. A love that transcends time even when one might have days when she can’t remember that special vacation place. But she always remembers and can feel the special connection with Tom.

Betty was 17 or 18 years old when she met her husband. He was working on the turn pike surveying and boarding with a good friend of hers whose name was Twilla Lilly. She had told Betty about this man, and one day when in the grocery story with her niece, Betty met Twilla’s son, Carthy. Her future husband, William Jack McCann (Bill) happened to be with him, and Carthy introduced them. After that, Bill began coming to her house. He would come down on Saturdays, and they would go out together. They dated until he joined the Army during the war. Bill was on the list to be drafted, so he went ahead and signed up. He was stationed in Germany for two years. Betty wrote him the whole time he was gone. When he came home, she was working at a store in Beckley. He would pick her up from work often for dates. One night, they went to the restaurant that was next door just to get something to drink. That’s when he pulled a little box out of his pocket. Inside was the ring set. He said, “Do you still want to get married?” She said yes! So after about a month, they ran down to Parisburg to a minister’s home and got married. This July would have been 60 years of marriage for them. He died 10 months ago from congestive heart failure. “He was a handsome, good looking man,” Betty says. “A loving person.” They had two children together. Barry Jack and Marcela Lynn. Barry also passed away recently. Advice that Betty would give to other couples would be, “Stay together, love each other and do for each other. Bill always did things for me that I never expected him to do.”

Bob has a special place in our hearts as he represents the many spouses we spend time with each day. They join us for Family Nights, but theyre also visiting daily and joining in our Caregiver Support Groups. They become part of our family, and we become part of theirs. Please take a moment and listen to Bobs story here.

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Anita is 98 and lost her husband 10 months ago. She loves telling stories about Robert. They danced up into their 90s. She thinks of him often and misses him terribly. We are grateful to hear her stories and share them. Its so important that Anita knows that even though she is morning, she is not alone. We are here, listening and caring for her in every way we can. Please take a moment and listen to Anita's story here.

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Ruth and Andy have been married for over 70 years. Ruth still giggles when she talks about him. Her advice to young couples is to forgive and listen. They are certainly a shining example of a happy marriage. Were all nodding and taking notes. Please take a moment and listen to Ruth and Andy's story here.

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Pastor Purkett has been a deeply loved resident in our Churchland House community since August 2006 and is an inspirational, gentle man with the power to make everyone want to be the best person they can be. We chose Pastor Purkett to deliver our Father's Day prayer this year because of his dedication to his family, faith, and community. His blessing will provide positive guidance to fathers during this difficult time.

This Sunday, we will be having our Father's Day Drive event in front of our community complete with decorations, signs for our fathers from our Home Health partners, music, and each family being able to visit from their cars at a social distance.

Pastor Purkett's prayer is below and we are so excited to share it with fathers everywhere on their special day!

"Our most gracious and eternal Father, You have shown Your power and caring by healing people of all ages and stations of life from physical, mental, and spiritual ailments. Be present now to people who need Your loving touch because of COVID-19. May they feel Your power of healing through the care of doctors and nurses. We're asking that you relieve the anxiety and stress of those that haven't been able to see their loved ones. You said through Your words to caste all our cares upon You. We have seen through the hands of time how the sun rises during the day and the moon during the night because You care for us. Let us pray for leaders responsible for making decisions about the new coronavirus. We pray that they communicate clearly, truthfully, and calmly - with each other and with the public - and that their messages are received and heeded. God, You have delivered us in the past and we know that You are going to do it again. We are so careful to give You Your honor and praise, Amen."

-Pasor Timothy L. Purkett, Sr.

We thank God for our Father -John 3:16

Sarah was born on December 16, 1946 in the small, southern town of Inverness, Mississippi. She was one of two children, born eight years before her baby brother. One of her childhood memories that remains woven in her reflections is her first job as a young child. Raised on a plantation, she can recall working in the cotton fields with her mother and grandmother, but quickly realizing that she would not be a professional cotton picker (she chuckled at the thought). When her grandmother also realized Sarah would not be able to pick the required amount, she demoted her to “water girl.” Sarah reflects fondly on this job as she said she took great pride in bringing water to the workers and became very good at it. Her mother always taught her to “do the best you can do, no matter what your job is.” Another fond memory of hers was sitting on the mourner’s bench during revival at her family’s church on the plantation, Shady Grove Baptist Church, where she was also baptized in a lake that “you had to wade out into the middle!”

When Sarah was in the 7th grade, her “darling mother” and stepfather moved the family to Pascagoula, Mississippi. After completing the 8th grade, they moved again to Moss Point, Mississippi where she graduated second in her high school class of 82 students in 1966. While at Moss Point High School, she stayed busy with the many school activities that she loved and even became Homecoming Queen. After graduating high school, Sarah enrolled in a small business school in New Orleans, and later attended Bates Business School in Pascagoula, Mississippi.

After graduating, Sarah went on to work at Ingalls Shipbuilding in 1968 before enlisting in the Army Reserve where she served three of the five years that she worked as a courier for Ingalls. She recalls that working for Ingalls was only supposed to be a temporary job, but it went on for 15 years! She held numerous positions at the company but holds dear the accomplishment of being selected as the first African American woman courier, a role that had never been filled by just one person before. Her duties were to fly to Norfolk, Virginia every week to take invoices from the Navy in Pascagoula to be processed. Once they were processed, she would bring them back to payroll for the 20 thousand employees of Ingalls to be paid. The position originally requested a man, but no one wanted the full-time position with the stress of flying and meeting Federal Reserve deadlines – Sarah jumped at the opportunity!

Later in 1983, she was hired to work at Chevron’s Oil Refinery, where she was part of the team for 17 years. Although she enjoyed her time at Chevron, she was looking forward to retiring with her daughter, JJ, as she retired from her 20 years of service in the Navy. Sarah has always told JJ, “Even though my accomplishments have been few, my blessings have been overwhelming!” This encompasses her incredibly grateful personality.

Sarah is now part of our “Sweet Memories” family at Commonwealth Senior Living at Churchland House. Her daughter continues to be her greatest fan and showers her “mama” with love every day, whether it’s a window visit or FaceTime. There is no doubt she truly feels blessed and grateful for all the love she is given.

Sarah loves anything sweet, especially chocolate! One of her other favorite things is music. As a team, we learned all we could about her favorite songs to develop a Sweet Melodies playlist which includes lots of Motown, resonating with her early memories. She also enjoys the “cleaning” Life Kit, reconnecting Sarah with the structure she encountered in the Navy. She likes to keep everything very organized, always stopping to straighten or pick anything up that is out of place on her strolls.

The CSL at Churchland House team adores Sarah and her family and are so grateful to be a part of their journey.

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Robin Singleton, an elementary school teacher, has been a friend of the Johnston family since she was young. Stephanie met her through her in-laws, Wendall and Judy Johnston, who were Robin’s lifelong friends and traveling buddies. Pop and Wendall were always inseparable, often meeting at the local store for breakfast and stories. On some mornings, Pop would greet Stephanie at the door in his signature overalls and huge smile with a “Hey darlin!” while Wendall sat on a stool within arms distance of Pop.

Pop, Mary Kay, Pop’s wife, Wendall and Judy often had multiple vacations together per year, and shared endless evenings of card games at each other’s dinner tables, all while raising their children. Stephanie says these were some of her dearest memories that truly define a lifelong friendship they shared throughout the years.

When Wendall passed, Judy decided to come home to Commonwealth Senior Living at Gloucester House where Mary Kay and Pop visited her often. Pop was gifted an immediate family with Robin, Mary Kay’s daughter, who became his biggest purpose in life. He works her into every story, saying “That’s my girl, she’s my world.”

As a Johnston family member, Stephanie’s family would often see Robin, her boyfriend James, Mary Kay and Pop out and about in Gloucester, Virginia. In recent years, Pop began to have some cognitive decline and his “girls” were both ready to care for him. However, on June 17, 2020 their lives would change tremendously.

Mary Kay went into the ER after fainting at home a few days prior but was sent home after she was feeling better. However, on the morning of the 17th, Mary Kay passed away in her chair and was unavailable for Robin’s daily morning call. Due to Mary Kay being Pop’s primary caregiver, you can imagine the change that was presented to Robin immediately. Robin called the Johnston’s promptly to give them the news and it was agreed the next steps were to “Call Stephanie.”

At that time, Robin needed help, a shoulder and simply a person to talk to. Stephanie’s main realization was that she had to make a difference for Robin. Robin was in a complicated situation as she was to start teaching again, was finishing her Masters degree, and was dating a great guy. She hadn’t become a mother yet, and her days were already full. She was faced with stepping into planning her mom’s/best friend’s funeral and becoming a caregiver overnight.

Although she and Pop shared common feelings, she knew she couldn’t do this alone. She brought Pop to her home, but although he is strong and rather independent, she worried for his safety. With this newfound duty, Robin never had time to breathe or grieve and there were moments on the many phone calls with Stephanie that she was overwhelmed saying “I just need a break. I need time to be quiet and just cry for my mom!”

The two immediately began talking about Commonwealth Senior Living at Gloucester House and her options moving forward. She knew their basic financial information and that Pop had been in the military. (One of Pop’s funniest stories is how he was dishonest on his military application for the Navy. He enlisted at 16 years old and had his father sign for him.) The way Pop tells it, “They didn’t figure it out until months later when I was in Italy! I was a strong and hard worker, they liked me and decided to keep me!” This is where the name “Popeye” came from.

After walking through the application process with Stephanie, Robin paired her money with her boyfriend’s and initiated a 30 day respite stay. This allowed her the opportunity to breathe and gather herself with the support of the entire team at Commonwealth Senior Living at Gloucester House being there whenever she needed them. Robin often tells them how they “have gone above and beyond anything she had ever thought possible.”

Through the many hurtles Robin endured during this time, the Gloucester House team worked with her to give a solution that would provide comfort in knowing this was Pop’s home. He has made friends with a group of Veterans and you can usually find him sitting by the nurses’ station with the “guys” playing a game of cards. During the day they pull the comfortable sitting chairs up and converse with one another, preferring this location as they can be the center of attention and laugh with our care staff.

Robin’s boyfriend, James, recently called Stephanie to ask for her help in coordinating a marriage proposal to Robin at Gloucester House. He said “I couldn’t think of a better place, and I want Pop to be a part of it. I imagine you having her in the garden area with Pop and me walking around the corner without her knowing.” Stephanie coordinated with the team and asked Robin to come in for a photo shoot with Pop. James and the team pulled off the wonderful surprise, and Robin said yes!

Thank you so much to Robin and James for sharing your special day with us and most importantly for letting us welcome Pop home to Commonwealth Senior Living at Gloucester House.

We know that many spouses provide care at home for their partners with dementia and Alzheimer's disease. Theirs is a loving and difficult journey which requires significant patience and tenacity. While this is the story of Phil's experience with dementia and Alzheimer's disease, it is also the story of Jean's evolution as a caregiver. From managing it all on her own to bringing in supportive services and ultimately, choosing a team to entrust Phil's care to, Jean was able to become his wife again.

"When I look back, I realize Phil had been showing signs of dementia several years before he was diagnosed. He saw our family doctor and then a neurologist. After testing by the neurologist, they sent him for more testing at the Neuropsychological Services of Virginia. One year later, he went back for follow up testing. As the years went by, he was diagnosed with Alzheimer's disease, continually managed by tweaks and changes in his medication.

My goal was to keep Phil at home, but as the years went by, the situation worsened. He was looking in the cabinets constantly, and I removed everything I thought could harm him, but I often found him gagging on pickling spice or something else you would never think someone would try to eat.

For a long time, I could leave him at home, but when I became uneasy with this, someone from AmeriCare or Right at Home came to stay with him. He didn't want or think he needed help, so I told him they were coming to clean the house. They were there to do whatever was necessary to make him think that's why they were there. Some of them did clean, but their job was to take care of Phil, and many times I would come home to them putting together a puzzle or watching a TV show together.

The years of constant stress from being on guard to keep him from doing something that would hurt himself were very difficult. He behaved like a toddler, putting anything he found on the floor in his mouth. I was afraid he would go on our dock and fall overboard. I sold the riding lawn mower, put alarms on the doors, and tried everything anyone suggested. Nothing worked.

I realized I needed support, so I started going to the Alzheimer's Support Group that was held at Commonwealth Senior Living in Kilmarnock and found it to be very helpful. Everyone was very supportive of each other and the facilitator was extremely helpful. This was the highlight of my month.

This had been going on for 10 years, and I always told the doctor everything that had happened since our last visit. The situation was worsening, and the doctor suggested it would be best for both of us for him to not live at home anymore. Long story short, he became a resident in the Sweet Memories Neighborhood at Commonwealth Senior Living. It is safe unit with nothing that can harm anyone, and they have many activities for the residents such as daily chair exercises and throwing a big beach ball back and forth with each other and the staff instructor while they are sitting in their chairs. They have many, many activities to occupy their time. Their medication is given to them as prescribed by the doctor. They have a private dining room where they eat their meals. There is a wonderful music program that has given me so many special memories. They celebrate every holiday. They have a Family Night Dinner every month, usually with a theme. It would be impossible for me to tell you everything they do for the residents.

The stress was lifted off me. I knew he was in a safe place and receiving good care. I visited him three days a week for a couple of hours each time. Everyone called him by name even when I would take him to the Assisted Living side, all the staff said hello to him by name. I was able to relax and visit Phil in a happy atmosphere and not be constantly monitoring what he was doing.

Everyone who works there, from the moment you come in the door until you leave, is helpful, courteous, and pleasant. I highly recommend Commonwealth Senior Living. It was a lifesaver for me."

The celebration of Phil's life took place in February. It was an absolute privilege to care for Phil, and to have you both as a part of our CSL family. If you are caring for a loved one with dementia and Alzheimer's disease, we want you to know that you are not alone. Our community teams can offer support groups, tips, assessments, and much more. Find the community nearest you for more information: https://www.commonwealthsl.com/our-communities/

Vernon and Earlene met in the 7th grade. He sat behind her in geography class and teased her, saying he was going to dunk her hair in the inkwell of his desk. Later in the 9th grade, they starred in a play together called "Court Case of Cinderella and Prince Charming." Earlene played Cinderella and Vernon played Prince Charming. He became her Prince Charming from then on.

They started dating seriously in the 12th grade and graduated in February of 1945. Vernon was drafted and sent to Georgia for training in April of 1945. Earlene visited Vernon once in Georgia before he was sent to Okinawa for the Invasion of Japan during August of 1945.

Vernon and Earlene wrote each other every day and sent as many photos as they could. Vernon event sent her a doll dressed in Military Khakis so he would always be with her. He carved out a Valentine's note to her in the rubble of a building that had been bombed. He also sent her a grass skirt she proudly wore and mailed him photos of.

Vernon returned to Earlene in December of 1946, after the Atomic Bomb was dropped. Once he returned, he announced he was going to go to college. But Earlene said, "No, this little girl has waited for you for two years, and I am not waiting another four to marry you." He then asked her father for her hand in marriage, and they were married on January 18, 1947.

He was then able to go on to college and graduated from William and Mary as a CPA in 1950. Vernon wanted to join the FBI, but found out he was color blind and was unable. So he worked for Shiver Gas Conversions until 1976, and then started his own business. He and his family made 20 moves before setting in Elizabeth City, NC. He later sold the Bradford Corporation and became a consultant. The couple built a home in Sandbridge called "The Bonney," becoming their permanent home in 1980. Earlene and Vernon spend 62 wonderful years together.

We are so honored to have the opportunity to learn the life stories of residents like Vernon. Understanding the experiences that make each person who they are make it possible for us to grow closer to them while they live in our communities and provide them with a more personalized experience.

To learn more about one of our communities, visit www.commonwealthsl.com/our-communities today to speak with the community nearest you!

Getting to know our residents

Below are some helpful insights from some of our residents at Commonwealth Senior Living at Radford:

Spending time in our communities offers many special experiences, and learning more from our residents is one of the most rewarding.

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Learn more about how Commonwealth Senior Living is engaging residents in activities, social events, and daily excursions with our Center of Excellences Activity Calendar.

"Our team is always seeking new opportunities to improve the lives of our residents and their families," said Earl Parker, President and COO of Commonwealth Senior Living. "The hydroponic farming program we introduced at several of our communities has been a tremendous success. Residents can now select from over 45 varieties of leafy greens, herbs, and microgreens grown in-house which has resulted in consumption of nutrient-rich greens increasing by 35%."

Recognizing the importance of a well-balanced diet for seniors, Commonwealth launched its Farm to Table dining program in 2015 in partnership with Produce Source Partners. That initiative brought fresh, locally grown fruits and vegetables to all of Commonwealth's senior living communities. In 2016, the Farm to Table program was expanded with Today from the Bay, in partnership with Sam Rust Seafood, which introduced seasonal seafood from the Chesapeake Bay including Black Sea Bass, Flounder, Sea Trout, Clams, Oysters, Striped Bass, among other native species. The introduction of Babylon Microfarm's hydroponic farming expands Commonwealth's goal of providing residents with the freshest ingredients possible.

Bob Raymond, Vice-President of Procurement and Dining Services for Commonwealth, said this about the award: "It is a tremendous honor to be recognized by Argentum for our hydroponic farming program. Not only does this program benefit our residents, it has a tremendous environmental impact by reducing upwards of 20,000 gallons of diesel fuel per year from the atmosphere by eliminating the need for regular deliveries from vendors."

Argentum's Best of the Best Awards recognize innovative programs, products, and services that solve a challenge, advance excellence, and improve the future of senior living. This year's honorees were chosen for qualities such as relevance of the challenge; impact of the initiative, both qualitative and quantitative; and plans for growth or scalability.

"The Best of the Best Awards give us all a chance to hear the inspiring stories behind innovations that can make a lasting difference in the health, independence, and quality of life for residents and stronger engagement for those working in the industry," said James Balda, Argentum president and CEO. "We're pleased to be able to celebrate these offerings and the companies who cultivate them."

We are so honored to receive this award and continue to be able to improve the lives of seniors in an additional way.

Commonwealth Senior Living launched its farm-to-table dining program in partnership with Produce Source Partners, winning VALA's Best Practice Award in 2015 and Argentums Best Practice Award in 2020. Produce Source Partners is a group that specializes in the procurement, warehousing, and distribution of fresh, local produce and food service products. For three generations, they have been committed to their customers, and we are honored to join our missions together to provide our residents with the freshest produce available.

None of these accomplishments would have been possible without these amazing organizations. Keep reading to get to know our farmers!

To find out what's on the menu from our farmers, contact the community nearest you today.

Our three signature dining programs below highlight the importance of a healthy diet.

Farm-to-Table Dining

At Commonwealth Senior Living, 85% of the produce our residents enjoy is sourced locally by 33 farms. This is done through a partnership with Produce Source Partners. Local produce results in more nutrient-rich meals, supports the local economy, and produces a smaller carbon footprint. Select communities also feature a Babylon Microfarm inside their dining rooms. Each year these microfarms grow thousands of plants, save hundreds of gallons of water, avoid millions of miles of food transportation, and reduce food waste by hundreds of pounds. In addition to all of these benefits, the hydroponic farming provides our residents with the freshest produce available. And they're even able to help with the harvest when the plants are ready!

Today from the Bay

We're proud to partner with Sam Rust Seafood to support local fishermen and bring fresh, sustainable seafood directly to our residents. These fishermen provide scallops, oysters, shrimp, trout, bass, clams, crab, and flounder from the Chesapeake Bay with an endless supply of nutrients. Healthline says eating fish is a great source of high-quality protein, iodine, and various vitamins and minerals. One of those vitamins is vitamin D, which is a fat-soluble nutrient many people don't always get enough of. Additionally, omega-3 fatty acids help stimulate body and brain function and can ultimately reduce the risk of many diseases. We're proud to incorporate these nutrients into our residents' regular diets.

Fresh Baked Bread

There's always something nostalgic about the smell of fresh baked bread wafting through the dining room. Our fresh baked rolls and biscuits can offer a sense of familiarity to lift your mindset as you taste it.

Below is a sample menu for our spring and summer menu selections.

Contact the community nearest you to visit the community and join us for lunch!

Farm-to-Table Dining

At Commonwealth Senior Living, 85% of the produce our residents enjoy is sourced locally. This is done through a partnership with Produce Source Partners. Local produce results in more nutrient-rich meals, supports the local economy, and produces a smaller carbon footprint. Select communities also feature a Babylon Microfarm inside their dining rooms. Each year these micro-farms grow thousands of plants, save hundreds of gallons of water, avoid millions of miles of food transportation, and reduce food waste by hundreds of pounds. In addition to all of these benefits, the hydroponic farming provides our residents with the freshest produce available. And they're even able to help with the harvest when the plants are ready!

Today from the Bay

We're proud to partner with Sam Rust Seafood to support local fishermen and bring fresh, sustainable seafood directly to our residents. These fishermen provide scallops, oysters, shrimp, trout, bass, clams, crab, and flounder from the Chesapeake Bay with an endless supply of nutrients. Healthline says eating fish is a great source of high-quality protein, iodine, and various vitamins and minerals. One of those vitamins is vitamin D, which is a fat-soluble nutrient many people don't always get enough of. Additionally, omega-3 fatty acids help stimulate body and brain function and can ultimately reduce the risk of many diseases. We're proud to incorporate these nutrients into our residents' regular diets.

Fresh Baked Bread

There's always something nostalgic about the smell of fresh baked bread wafting through the dining room. Our fresh baked rolls and biscuits can offer a sense of familiarity to lift your mindset as you taste it.

Below is a sample menu for our spring and summer menu selections.

Contact the community nearest you to visit the community and join us for lunch!

After launching our Farm-to-Table dining program in partnership with Produce Source Partners, weve continued to deliver high-quality ingredients to our residents every day. Produce Source Partners have been continually committed to their customers for three generations, and we are honored to join them to provide our residents with the freshest produce available. We not only look forward to continuing this partnership but delivering the same high-quality food our residents have come to expect from us and foster this through our farmers:

To find out whats on the menu from our farmers, or to inquire about opportunities within our Dining Services team, contact the community nearest you.

Our three signature dining programs below highlight the importance of a healthy diet.

Farm-to-Table Dining

At Commonwealth Senior Living, 85% of the produce our residents enjoy is sourced locally by 32 farms. This is done through a partnership with Produce Source Partners. Local produce results in more nutrient-rich meals, supports the local economy, and produces a smaller carbon footprint. Select communities also feature a Babylon Microfarm inside their dining rooms. Each year these microfarms grow thousands of plants, save hundreds of gallons of water, avoid millions of miles of food transportation, and reduce food waste by hundreds of pounds. In addition to all of these benefits, the hydroponic farming provides our residents with the freshest produce available. They're even able to help with the harvest when the plants are ready!

Today from the Bay

We're proud to partner with Sam Rust Seafood to support local fishermen and bring fresh, sustainable seafood directly to our residents. These fishermen provide scallops, oysters, shrimp, trout, bass, clams, crab, and flounder from the Chesapeake Bay with an endless supply of nutrients. Healthline says eating fish is a great source of high-quality protein, iodine, and various vitamins and minerals. One of those vitamins is vitamin D, which is a fat-soluble nutrient many people don't always get enough of. Additionally, omega-3 fatty acids help stimulate body and brain function and can ultimately reduce the risk of many diseases. We're proud to incorporate these nutrients into our residents' regular diets.

Fresh Baked Bread

There's always something nostalgic about the smell of fresh baked bread wafting through the dining room. Our fresh baked rolls and biscuits can offer a sense of familiarity to lift your mindset as you taste it.

Below is a sample menu for our spring and summer menu selections.

To join us for lunch or to inquire about opportunities within our Dining Services Team, contact the community nearest you.

Farm-to-Table Dining

At Commonwealth Senior Living, 85% of the produce our residents enjoy is sourced locally by 32 farms. This is done through a partnership with Produce Source Partners. Local produce results in more nutrient-rich meals, supports the local economy, and produces a smaller carbon footprint. Select communities also feature a Babylon Microfarm inside their dining rooms. Each year these microfarms grow thousands of plants, save hundreds of gallons of water, avoid millions of miles of food transportation, and reduce food waste by hundreds of pounds. In addition to all of these benefits, the hydroponic farming provides our residents with the freshest produce available. They're even able to help with the harvest when the plants are ready!

Today from the Bay

We are committed to supporting local communities and ensuring our residents enjoy fresh seafood. We proudly work with local vendors who provide us with high-quality scallops, oysters, shrimp, trout, clams, crab, and flounder. Healthline says eating fish is a great source of high-quality protein, iodine, and various vitamins and minerals. One of those vitamins is vitamin D, which is a fat-soluble nutrient many people don't always get enough of. Additionally, omega-3 fatty acids help stimulate body and brain function and can ultimately reduce the risk of many diseases. We're proud to incorporate these nutrients into our residents' regular diets.

Fresh Baked Bread

There's always something nostalgic about the smell of fresh baked bread wafting through the dining room. Our fresh baked rolls and biscuits can offer a sense of familiarity to lift your mindset as you taste it.

Below is a sample menu for our fall and winter menu selections.

To join us for lunch or to inquire about opportunities within our Dining Services Team, contact the community nearest you.

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Throughout the month of July, we have been celebrating our veterans. We asked our residents to share stories of their experiences during World War II and several of them even hosted their own radio shows, sharing these stories and some of their favorite music at the time.

“I was young during World War II, and all I remember was that my dad was an air raid warden. He had a hat he wore and a flashlight he carried. He went around to make sure there was no one on the streets. He had to walk up and down the streets to make sure there were no lights shining to attract attention. I was very proud of him, but it always scared me when he went out. When the sirens went off, it scared me to know he would have to go out on the street. Then we’d turn all the lights out for the blackout. In the living room we had a big radio that had a face on it. There was a panel with a light in it that glowed. That’s what we used when the sirens would go off. It gave off just enough light that you could see around the room. That would be the place that everyone would look, to see that you were still there! Everything else was dark black. It was something! It was an interesting and scary time for a child.”

Imogene says she has so many fond memories of her childhood during this time. She was only nine years old during WWII when her family moved to Marion, Virginia. She recalls seeing all the soldiers in their uniforms riding through the town in their big jeeps and how everyone in town would stop and stare in admiration. She remembers the courthouse sounding off an alarm for a drill which meant everyone in town would either have to turn off all the lights in their homes or put something over their windows so no light would shine out. The patrol cars and airplanes would ride around and make sure they couldn’t see any light. As a child during those times, it was really frightening because you just never knew. Thankfully, her good memories far outweighed the bad. This photo shows Imogene holding her book of generations in her family tree.”

Burton grew up in tiny rural towns in Wyoming and Nebraska with farming his only interest and church hymns his only exposure to live music. In 1945 after graduating from high school, he was drafted into the army where recruits were told that one our of three would not return from the Japanese beaches. But when Japan surrendered, Burton was sent to sunny Italy. After a freezing winter as a machine gunner in the mountainous border between Italy and Austria, Burton was reassigned to Livorno, Italy where he stood guard day after day in front of a door. He never knew why. As he stood there, he would occasionally hear beautiful music wafting from somewhere in the town. One day he asked a young Italian who knew some English where that music was coming from. The guy replied that it was from the opera house and offered to take him there. So Burton attended his first opera with his new friend as a translator. He was thrilled by the music, pageantry and powerful voices. Burton and his friend attended a variety of productions until he had to return to Nebraska. Burton never saw another opera, but he enjoyed live theater whenever possible and told this story about a music-loving Italian who expanded his horizons.”

Fred was drafted into the Navy at 17 years old and served as a Gunner’s Mate on the Destroyer Escort in the North Atlantic Ocean during the latter part of WWII. His ship was responsible for capturing three German submarines. Fred completed his education after leaving the service when he was 20 and became a mechanical engineer, designing and earning three patents for machinery to be used for manufacturing. Originally born in New Jersey, Fred retired to North Carolina with his beloved wife, Julie. After retiring, he became a master modeler of historic sailing vessels and has completed over 50 models which he has shared with his family and friends.”

Elizabeth is now 100 years old, and says she remembers being 21 during WWII. At the time she was attending Virginia Tech, and recalls the college’s president at the time, Dr. Burruss, gathering everyone in Burress Hall. There were not enough seats for everyone because there were so many military students attending in addition to civilian students. He told them the United States was at war and that all the senior military students would be drafted as lieutenants. At the time there were only 100 female students, so those being drafted were the majority. Elizabeth said she learned what was happening over the radio on Sunday when Pearl Harbor was bombed. Her great uncle was her only relative that served as a lieutenant in the Philippines and was beheaded due to an argument over a boiled egg. She wasn’t married at the time, but she was concerned for all the “fellas” she knew who were drafted during their fall semester. She remembers that everything essential was rationed. From meat, vegetables, and sugar to gas for those that had cars. Elizabeth says she didn’t get many coupons as she wasn’t living at home, but those she did get she gave to her grandmother. In 1943 Elizabeth started working for the government headquarters in New York City. She didn’t remember any particular air raid drills, but that all of the stoplights in New York were painted over, and at night everyone had to use black or dark green window shades to keep the lights from shining out. At the end of the war, she never had a victory garden herself as she was continuing to travel along the east coast, but her family planted one on their farm.”

Sarah Williams was born on April 12, 1926 in Shelby, NC. She lived in North Carolina and Virginia throughout her life, and is a retired kindergarten teacher. During World War II, Ms. Williams worked in Oak Ridge, Tennessee building the atomic bomb. The experience she and other girls had there is documented in the best-selling book, “The Girls of Atomic City: The Untold Story of the Women Who Helped Win World War II” by Denise Kiernan. This is Sarah’s story: “In Manhattan, New York, there were a few people who met to plan, and they invented the formula for the atomic bomb. They then bought all the available land in the mountainous area of Oak Ridge, Tennessee. The locals of the area had no idea what they were doing or why they were buying the land. I’m not sure how it was kept a secret with so many people involved! They advertised the need for girls to help with the war in the paper and in posters at the college I attended. My suitemates saw the advertisement and we all applied. They investigated everyone who wanted to work there to make sure we weren’t spies or that we might tell secrets. We got a call back in about three days informing us we were hired and should come in. So, we went out to Oak Ridge. There was nothing to do there because the town was built almost overnight! They built dormitories without air conditioning. It was so hot in that valley, and it rained almost every day! The streets weren’t paved, just red dirt that turned into mud. Every time we wanted to leave, we’d get on the bus and ride into town. Before we left they would come on the bus and check our name tags and do the same thing when we came back. You weren’t able to just come and go as you wanted to. There were signs in the town saying something to the effect of ‘See nothing, tell nothing.” There were even monitors in the dorms listening for what we said! You were never supposed to say a word about your work. My job at Oak Ridge was working at Y-12. That was one of the buildings housing the machines putting together the formula for the bomb. They had big, wide machines as tall as this room with little windows and knobs on them. In front of each machine, one person was sitting on a high stool turning the knobs. Every hour, the other girls and I would go down the hall, walking down the aisle of machines. We’d check the meters and write down the numbers that the needles were showing. Then we’d go back to the office and call it in. We didn’t know to where, it was just a telephone number to us. The would gather the information, see that the machines were working, how much they were producing and so on. That happened several times a day. When the war was over, they called us into the very large dining hall. Everyone was curious what we were doing there and what we were making as we stood there waiting to find out. We knew the bomb had just been dropped on Hiroshima and then they told us that was what we had been doing, creating that bomb. What an interesting thing! It was such a shock since we had no idea we were doing such an important job. At that time, my husband, Dorman, was in the Navy and waiting to be sent to Japan. But when they dropped the bomb, he was off the hook from that deployment. I never forgot that timing. I had no idea this picture had been taken! Dorman and I went back to Oak Ridge one time, just for a visit and saw all these cards and I said, ‘That’s me!’ I knew because I remember that blouse and a little black purse in my left hand. I needed a white blouse and had gone into Knoxville to buy it. It was such a big surprise to see myself there!”

Cheryl’s father, Bernard F. Gasky, was born in Harvy, Illinois, where he lived with his parents and two brothers, Charles and Raymond. His girlfriend, Judy, lived in Roseland, Illinois, with her parents, three brothers, and two sisters. Bernard was drafted into the Army Airforce and assigned to be a gunner in the bottom of a U.S. plane for a mission. When his plane went down, he became a prisoner of was in Germany for 13 months. During his imprisonment, he was interrogated about his German last name. While he was away, Judy constantly checked the newspapers for something about Bernard, but nothing was ever written. Finally, she received a telegraph telling her he became a prisoner of was after his plane was shot down. Once Bernard was released, he and Judy were married on December 26. Cheryl was born on September 13, 1946 and her brother was born on May 16, 1953. Bernard became part of the Caterpillar Club for his time as a prisoner of war, and he wore the lapel pin symbolizing this with pride.”

Sylvia is 95 years old. Wally, her brother, was examined to be drafted, but in a few days the war had ended, so he didn’t have to go. Her nephews, Mitchell and Connor, served in the military as well. She recalls that they had ration cards which they had to get most of your groceries like butter and sugar, but that they managed.”

“At the beginning of the war, there was the draft for all eligible men. When they were called for service, they weren’t able to choose what they would like to do. My father was too old and not physically able to be drafted at the time. Many of the men who had careers were taken away for the draft. My husband enlisted in the war at the beginning of 1945 even after attending two years of medical school because he didn’t want the draft to catch up to him and not have a choice. He enlisted in the Navy Air Corp and stayed for 27 years. For the first time, women left the home for work in factories, as typists, making books, and helping with anything else the government needed for the war. Everyone wanted to be Rosie the Riveter! Many men objected to this, but most women were excited to join the work force. When the war began, they gave everyone a coupon book. It was six or seven pages of stamps with labels for their purpose like shoes, butter, or meat. Everything was rationed. You could buy two pairs of shoes for the year or a certain amount of meat or bread. Once you used a stamp, they took it away so you couldn’t use it again. Once I left home, my mother would sometimes send more stamps to help us out. There were no new cars during the war, and like most things, gas was rationed. On our way to New York for our honeymoon, the police stopped us for going above the speed limit of 35mph, but didn’t give us a ticket because we were on our honeymoon. While we were in New York, the United States Service Organization was supplying donuts and anything else that would please or entertain the servicemen. We were able to get free tickets to all the shows since my husband was in the service. We were very pleased because we couldn’t have afforded them otherwise. Because of the gas shortage, most of the travel was done by train, and they were always jam packed. We took the train from Chicago, Illinois to San Diego, California, and had to eat and sleep on the crowded train. It wasn’t the pleasant travel it is today. I only know what I saw in the news at the movies about the Battle of the Bulge. It was in the cold of winter in Russia. Some men lost their feet and froze their toes, but they fought on during the difficult war in the forest. The Russians were very persistent fighters and wanted the U.S. to bend to their forces. They even asked a U.S. general to surrender, to which he replied with one word, ‘Nuts.’ The Russians were stunned by this jab. The blackout first began in England. There were shelters for people when the sirens alerted them to German bombers. Some people had to stay overnight there, even with children, until they got the clear sign. Everyone dreaded those sirens. Victory gardens were little plots of land wherever they could to provide vegetables for their families in addition to helping the government. The whole family would help tend the garden, especially the children. On Sundays nights, everyone sat by the radio to listen to Fireside Chats. This was when Roosevelt would talk about the war and what was going on. It was very intense. Men that died in the war weren’t able to be brought home, so now many people go to visit the gravestones and the names of those recognized at the cemetery in Normandy. It’s sad to see how many never made it home. Those mothers who had lost a son at war were known as Gold Star Mothers. They were given gold stars to hang on their front doors, so you were able to recognize who they were. I don’t know too much about the war in the Pacific, but they had the Iwo Jima with the raising of the flag on the hill. They also had the Black Sheep Air Squadron. They called them that because they were just men and boys taken off the street that were made officers and quickly taught to fly. I can’t remember the name of the ships or admirals, but there was a famous fleet that came down the space between the islands and the mainland that ran into a hurricane and almost lost the ship. Fortunately they had a very well trained crew. Mostly I remember the hardships. We couldn’t go to the store and pick out a wedding dress or furniture. There weren’t too many people in the stores anywhere, but we managed. Many began to make their own clothes. Some started to use parachutes for making wedding dresses because you couldn’t buy the white fabric otherwise. I was a teenager at the time. It was a depressive time during school. The teachers were supportive, but we didn’t know where our lives were going or if we’d ever have children. I don’t remember many babies, but most children were taken care of by the elderly because everyone that was young, men or women, were working. I had one boyfriend from high school who was in the coast guard who’s ship was bombed and he was killed. When I came back from my honeymoon, all of my friends were gone, so I had to make a new life. That’s how the war was; it dispersed people.”

Charles’ home town is Ashland, Virginia. He served in the Navy as a 2nd Seaman until he was discharged in 1946. Charles met his wife, Sara, at college in Richmond, Virginia and they have two daughters. His hobbies include fishing and hunting. A few of his favorite songs: “Til Then” ~The Mills Brothers “Put the Blame on Mame” ~Rita Hayworth “When the Moon Comes Over the Mountain” ~Kate Smith

Frank is from Remington, Virginia. He was a reservist in the Army Air Corps and watched for anyone that was trying to harm the U.S. until he was discharged in May of 1944. Frank met his wife, Claire, in LaGrange, Georgia, they got married August 14, 1954, and had two boys and one girl. His hobbies include wood working, especially making canes out of interesting wood he’s found. A few of his favorite songs: “The Way You Look Tonight” ~Frank Sinatra “Dream a Little Dream of Me” ~The Dorsey Brothers “There’ll Be Bluebirds Over” ~Kate Smith

Richard is from Richard, Indiana. His job in the Army was to take care of sick soldiers on the hospital ship until he was discharged in November of 1946. Richard married his wife, Frances Jeanette, on September 3, 1951 and they had two daughters. His hobbies include listening to music and signing. A few of his favorite songs: “Young at Heart” ~Frank Sinatra “Gilda (Part 1)” ~Rita Hayworth “Don’t Sit Under the Apple Tree” ~The Andrews Sisters

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At Commonwealth Senior Living, we appreciate the sacrifices our armed services have made for this country, and we feel it is our duty to show our thanks in return. To learn more about our Promise to Veterans and lifetime rate lock at the community nearest you, click the button below.

our promise to veterans

Seven sons, three branches of military, two wars, over one hundred years of service. One of those sons was my father, the branch was Army, and the war was Vietnam. My passion in honoring our veterans is a personal one.

Growing up, one of my favorite stories was the love story of my parents. My father, just a young man of 20, and my mother 19, had a wedding set for December 30, 1969. Almost too cliche to believe, they met because my father was my mother's milk man! As a young man in high school, he learned early on the important life lesson of earning his own money and saving for the future. One of his first jobs was delivering milk from the local dairy farm, and my mother's family just happened to be one of his customers. Now this is where the story slightly varies given the teller, but I believe somewhere along the line, the two saw each other and took a fancy to the other. From that moment, the two were inseparable. One of my father's favorite sayings was "My children are the milk man's babies!"

Fast forward through their traditional southern courtship, and the wedding date was set.  Just a little over a month prior to his wedding, my father received word he was drafted by the Army for Vietnam.  Like many stories which begin this way, panic and love took over, and my parents moved up their wedding to just days from his enlistment.

They had a weekend as a married couple before my father was gone.  As a new bride and before too long, a soon to be first time mother, my mom was left behind, crippled with fear for my father's safety.  Many times in my life, I have tried to imagine this feeling as a new wife, and those emotions his parents went through as their baby son entered war at such a young age.  Thankfully, my story ends happily, with his safe return to our family.  Not every family gets this privilege.

Often in life, my father would share lessons learned during his time of service, with honor, respect and pride being the ones he spoke of most.  Gary Michael Ruppe, or "Mike" as he was most affectionately known, was a great man, and his service was one of the many wonderful pages in the story of his life.  I am thankful to have had a father like him.

The Ruppe family richly served the armed forces.  Out of the 7 brothers, they collectively served over 100 years in the Army, Navy and Marine Corps in both the Korean and Vietnam wars, holding many ranks of prestige.  Their uncle served in WWII and had a heroic story of receiving a life-threatening injury in the line of fire and living to tell the story.  We are a family of proud, patriotic service, and it is my honor to share this story and passion, while not having served myself.

The Heart Behind Our Veterans Promise

To have the honor of witnessing a military funeral service is a surreal event.  I had never had the opportunity myself until my father's passing in 2014.  I can still feel the emotions of the reverent Taps and presentation of the flag at his service.  I cannot imagine a more respectful and loving way to show reverence to those who served our country.  My father's service was even more special as one of his elder brothers was in uniform and presented the flag to my mother.  It was a very special moment and one I know made my father proud.

Of the 7 brothers, only 3 are still with us, carrying on this legacy.  At my grandparent's homeplace, our family has a memorial to the brothers, at the base of the American flag to show our appreciation of their service.  Every time I see it, it humbles me to know I am a descendent of such brave and selfless men.

So to me, creating a Promise to Veterans was something that pulled at my soul.  From the initial conversations within Commonwealth Senior Living and Hook Law Center, to the formal program rollout, I've felt my father's and uncle's presence many times.  I know it's the right, honorable promise to stand behind, and I do so humbly, with much gratitude and respect. Since joining the Commonwealth Senior Living team in May of 2016, I've been given the opportunity to not only follow my calling in working with seniors but also to make a difference in the lives of our Veterans.

Thinking about our breadth and depth as a company, we knew it was our responsibility to forge the path in creating a program exclusive for our Veterans in securing the best and most affordable care possible in their golden years - it's what they deserve and it's our duty.  This led us to the obvious partner in the Hook Law Center.  While the Hook Law Center and Commonwealth Senior Living have always enjoyed a great working relationship and shared vision in serving seniors, they too come with the most experience, tenure and reputation in the area.  For more than 80 years, HLC has been the pioneer in Elder Law.  Most importantly they share the same level of commitment to honoring our Veterans as we do.  In working with our partners at Hook Law Center, we created our Promise to Veteran's to show our commitment to those who served our country with Honor.

So what is our Promise to Veterans?

At Commonwealth Senior Living, our Promise to Veterans is rooted in one powerful belief: You served us, now it is our turn to serve you.

We are committed to honoring the sacrifices made by Veterans and their spouses by providing meaningful support, guidance, and recognition. The sacrifices our veterans and their spouses have endured bring with them certain benefits which should make life easier in their golden years. In partnership with the Hook Law Center, we have come together to speed up the process in obtaining the Veterans Aid and Attendance benefit (up to 4 times faster on average than applying for benefits without support).

This benefit can extend up to $29,000 per year for a veteran, $34,000 per year for a couple and $18,000 per year for a surviving spouse, depending on the level of care needed. Our Promise to Veterans and their spouses includes the support of Hook Law Center in the filing of this benefit and includes free consultations and preferred pricing for power of attorney, wills, and estate preparation through their office.

We also understand that transitioning into senior living can feel overwhelming. As part of our promise, we arrange and cover moving expenses up to $2,000, easing the physical and emotional burden of relocation. This is more than a benefit. It is a tangible way we stand beside those who once stood for us.

Our commitment continues each day through visible recognition and heartfelt gratitude. From our Wall of Valor, Veteran Stars displayed outside each Veterans' front door, and thanking them with ½ off during their one year annivesary month to pinning ceremonies, patriotic celebrations, and military honors, we ensure that service is not only remembered but celebrated.

If you would like more information about this Promise to Veterans, please reach out to the community nearest to you.

By Kristy Ruppe Craddock, Senior Vice President of Sales & Marketing

At Commonwealth Senior Living, we created Our Promise to Veterans to provide exclusive benefits to veterans and their spouses. One of these benefits is a rate lock for two years, ensuring that the rate on a veterans suite remains the same during this period. We take pride in recognizing and honoring our veterans service, and this commitment is ingrained in all our communities. It is our utmost priority to show the respect and gratitude our veterans deserve.

Veterans Aid & Attendance

This benefit is available to veterans who received an honorable discharge and served at least 90 days of active duty with at least one day during a recognized period of war. Its purpose is to provide financial assistance to the veteran or their spouse to offset expenses associated with medical expenses, such as needing help with activities of daily living like dressing, eating, or bathing. To continue our commitment to serving veterans and their families, we partnered with Hook Law Center, who has over 80 years of experience as a pioneer of Elder Law. Our commitment to our veterans is personal for us, as well as Hook Law Center. Everyone working at their practice has a connection to the military, whether they served themselves, or have a family member that served. By utilizing their legal services, you are able to minimize the liability you might encounter going through the process alone, and also have the ability to create more comprehensive strategies like financial planning.

The process of enrolling typically begins with an application, but there are many more pieces of the puzzle such as complex regulations, legal principles, and tax principles. There are several resources that provide tips for going through the process yourself, however, some of the planning associated with this benefit should involve the assistance of a legal professional. An elder law attorney can assist you in developing a plan that is right for you and your family and continue to work with you throughout your journey.

Maximum Monthly Pension Rates for Aid & Attendance

• Surviving Spouse: $1,558
• Single Veteran: $2,424
• Married Veteran: $2,874
• Married (Both Veterans): $3,845

Just as every individual is unique, each benefit claim is also unique. To learn more about our Promise to Veterans and our two-year Rate Lock, get in touch with the community closest to you today.

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We also wanted to share the recipes for these delicious dishes in case youd like to try making them at home. Download them for yourself below.

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Not a fan of cooking? Let us do the cooking for you! Come by to experience our community and stay for lunch or dinner. Simply fill out the form and which community youre interested in exploring here: https://www.commonwealthsl.com/contact/

With hearty ingredients like kale, apples, cranberries, butternut squash and a simple vinaigrette, there's no reason not to try this perfect salad for fall!

If you'd like to see Chef Andre demonstrate his tricks for making this salad, check out this video: https://wtvr.com/2018/10/18/hearty-and-colorful-autumn-salad/ We're very proud that he's been featured on the local news again!

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If you're interested in more recipes from Chef Andre, download his recipe for Balsamic Glazed Beets.

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Download this month's recipe for Pineapple Teriyaki Glazed Baby Back Ribs to make in your own home today.

If you're interested in more recipes from Chef Andre, download his recipe for pecan bars.

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Enjoy making this delicious Caramel Pumpkin Cake by Donna Easton, Dining Services Director at CSL Front Royal, for yourself this season!

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If you're interested in more ideas from our chefs, download the recipe for Pineapple Teriyaki Glazed Baby Back Ribs.

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If you're interested in more festive recipes from our chefs, download the recipe for Chef Donnas caramel pumpkin cake.

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Would you like to try Chef Andres cooking in person? Email Stephanie for a complimentary lunch or dinner and community experience at stephanie.johnston@commonwealthsl.com.

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If you're interested in more ideas from our chefs, download the recipe for Chef James Sour Cream Pound Cake!

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If you're interested in more ideas from our chefs, download the recipe for Chef Latricias Sopapilla Cheesecake Dessert here!

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If you're interested in more ideas from our chefs, check out the recipe for Chef Laras Cilantro Lime Chicken Lettuce Wraps.

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We kicked things off in January with a visit to Italy! At Commonwealth Senior Living at Front Royal, residents and associates learned about Mount Vesuvius and even made a model of the famous Volcano that erupted in 79 AD that led to the burying and destruction of the Roman cities of Pompeii and Herculaneum. Dining Services Director-extraordinaire Chevonda at Commonwealth Senior Living at the West End treated our residents to a make-your-own pizza party where residents learned about the history of the famous Italian meal.

Travel the World was developed by Bernie Cavis and has quickly become a favorite with residents, family members, and associates. Studies by Dr. Gene Cohen, director of the Center on Aging, Health & Humanities at George Washington University, indicate that the quality of life in seniors can improve through exposure to the arts and humanities. Embracing the fine arts, food, language, literature, and art of other cultures is proven to impact individuals in positive ways by inducing both psychological and physiological healing.

The 2017 tour schedule for Travel the World includes China in February, Ireland in March, France in April, Mexico in May, Greece in June, the United States in July, England in August, Egypt in September, Switzerland in October, Native Cultures in November, and a World Celebration in December. Learn more about our award-winning programs here.

For the past two years Commonwealth Senior Living has taken our residents on an adventure to see the world. Travel the World is a program that takes us on a new adventure every month to experience the sights, sounds, tastes and culture of interesting places around the world. Our travels have allowed us to try out new dance moves native to Ireland, read and share the literary works of an author from China, and taste test the lovely wines of Italy all from the comfort of home.

Many of our residents have done extensive traveling in their lives, and have been able to share their memories, expertise and photos with their community neighbors. For those that have not experienced all the world has to offer, Travel the World brings new and exotic places right into their living room. Learning and trying new things is what makes life interesting and keeps us young at heart. Travel the World offers a continuing opportunity to travel and learn new things, while enjoying the familiarity of our own surroundings.

We are excited for what 2018 will bring. Travel the World will come closer to home with 2018 Road Trip USA. Our Program Professionals are already planning for our destinations which kick off in January in Alaska! Many of our communities have walking groups and are counting their steps as a fun way to track their progress by ticking off miles with each step. The more steps they collect the closer the get to each destination. That's quite a motivation to keep active.

Road Trip 2018 will be taking us to Louisiana, Colorado, California, New York and many other stops along the way. We will all be "Home for Christmas in Virginia" to wrap up our fascinating and adventurous travels. We hope you will join us in 2018. There is plenty of room for everyone, so never stop exploring! Learn more about our Travel the World program here.

Each month, our program professionals will be developing a unique calendar of activities, a menu of popular foods, and outings that focus on a decade in time beginning in January with 1900-1909 and wrapping up 2019 with the present in December.

We will incorporate new and engaging programs that focus on the decade theme for the month while also meeting the eight domains of wellness which help ensure a well-rounded quality of life for all of our residents living in Assisted, Memory Care, and Independent living. These domains include the categories of cognitive, creative, intellectual, nature, outings and spirituality, physical, productive, reflective and contemplative, sensory and social programs.

Imagine all the new things you could learn and experience about the past between 1910 -1920 our decade for February. Maybe revisit the Titanic which sank in 1912 through documentaries and YouTube videos of actual submarine footage that were not easily available to our generation of residents. Did you know the first sewing machine was invented in 1910? What if you could dance the evening away on a yellow brick road in ruby red slippers at a Wizard of Oz themed party, which opened in 1910?

All this and more awaits our family of Commonwealth Senior Living residents in 2019. Where will March take you? Come visit a Commonwealth Senior Living Community and see where we are going during 1920-1929. It's sure to be a great trip!

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By Paula Harder, Vice President of Resident Programs

Since 2016, Commonwealth Senior Living has taken our residents on a yearly virtual joy ride; from country to country, state to state, and decade to decade. As we start a new decade in 2020, we will head out on another adventure; exploring personal, local and world-wide traditions that help define who we are and what traditions have stayed with us over the decades of our lives.

Celebrating the first baby born in the new year. Mom's homemade apple pie recipe. Watching the Macy's Parade and football on Thanksgiving. Family trips to the beach every summer. Dad setting off fireworks in the backyard. Traditions make up a significant part of all of our lives. Join Commonwealth Senior Living in 2020 as we explore the traditions that make us unique while also drawing us together to celebrate diverse food, music, history, art, culture, fun and family.

Our 2020 journey will take us month by month through traditions that draw on our residents and associates life experiences and life stories, while giving us a chance to dig deeper into national and global traditions such as; St. Patrick's Day, Cinco de Mayo, the history behind Valentine's day, and the culturally significant tradition of sharing stories of wisdom with younger generations.

Discover, explore, and experience traditions from across the world and generations, as well as traditions right here in our community. What's your favorite tradition?

Giving our seniors amazing experiences and spreading joy each day is a top priority. That is why we are excited to have partnered with MyndVR in all of our communities. These virtual reality headsets are a research-supported and senior-focused virtual reality tool that allows users to safely experience the visual sensations of being in a physical location while seated in the comfort of their own community. The system includes a wireless headset with sound and a tablet for facilitating the experience. The associate facilitating is able to see what the resident sees and can make adjustments to their experience. The adventure can also be projected on a Smart TV for group activities. The system includes over 180 experiences and adventures in categories such as educational sessions, music, art, travel, nature, pets and adventures like kayaking or skiing.

Earl Parker, our President and CEO, says "Since our founding in 2002, our team has continuously raised the bar for providing our residents with incredible programming that enhances their quality of life. The introduction of virtual reality to Commonwealth Senior Living demonstrates our commitment to introducing research-based programs that will have a positive impact on our residents and their families." The system allows our associates to engage with our residents in a new way. Especially during a time where social interactions are taking place more and more virtually, MyndVR is another way to bring the outside world to our residents.

Frank, one of our residents in our Charlottesville community, says it "feels like you are right in the midst of such beauty", and "you are able to go to different places and parts of the world while feeling the warmness and presence of someone there with you." We are grateful that our communities have access to this extraordinary technology and to continue to give our residents more meaningful experiences each day from the comfort of our communities.

Families around the world have discovered how to use technology to stay connected. At Commonwealth Senior Living, we are proud to be a part of that trend. If you or someone you know would like the opportunity to explore our lifestyle, please reach out to the community nearest you today. We are here for you.

We know that families would do anything to ensure their loved ones are safe and protected, and we feel the same. At Commonwealth Senior Living, we are committed to improving the lives of seniors, their families, and each other every day. Over the last 20 years of service, that improvement has come in many forms: award-winning memory care programming, farm-to-table dining, innovative communications with families, and now we are pleased to present our enhanced cleaning and infection prevention measures designed to circumvent any potential threat. With Commonwealth Assurance, we have the ability to put these safeguards and reassurances in place to provide every family with peace of mind.

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Touchless Living

As the saying goes, the best defense is a good offense. We know that reducing shared surfaces creates less opportunity for any viral threat and allows ease of access for residents, families and associates. In light of this, our team installed state of the art touchless fixtures in early 2021. These upgrades have been implemented at every community and ensure that residents, associates, and visitors alike can enjoy visits in common spaces with peace of mind. These updates include:

• Front Door "Wave to Activate" Access
• Motion Activated Lighting in Common Area Restrooms
• Touchless Faucets, Soap Dispensers, Paper Towel Dispensers, and Automatic Flushing Toilets

Enhanced Cleaning

While our teams have always provided residents with sparkling clean communities, we have increased the frequency of disinfection techniques as well as the method by which our associates are cleaning. Residents enjoy daily cleaning of their suites and weekly laundry as well as new Electrostatic sprayers with Vital Oxide to disinfect all common surfaces twice per day.

Streamlined Screening

At Commonwealth Senior Living, we welcome families and friends to visit their loved ones. In order to the ensure safety for our residents and associates, we require that all visitors are screened before visits. All visitors sign-in through a system called Accushield. This kiosk ensures that all visitors are screened appropriately including all relevant questions, contact information, and a temperature check.

Continued Safeguarding

Since March of 2020, Commonwealth Senior Living has stringently followed CDC guidance and state and local health department directives. This guidance led us to develop a phased opening which is clearly defined here.

To ensure safety, we will continue to:

• Screen residents and associates daily
• Require masks for everyone in the community unless eating of drinking
• Require guests visit by appointment and are screened upon arrival

Satisfaction Guaranteed

We are so confident that residents and families will find Commonwealth Senior Living to be the right fit that we encourage you to give us 60 days. Try out our community, settle in, make friends, and if you are not satisfied, we will refund your fees. Just another example of the Commonwealth Assurance.  Contact the community nearest you for details.

Bringing Joy and Engagement Every Day

At Commonwealth Senior Living, we believe every day is an opportunity to inspire, engage, and bring joy to our residents. Through our Travel the World and Mynd Immersive Signature Programs, our residents can explore new places, revisit cherished memories, and engage in activities that are both meaningful and fun.

The Magic of Mynd Immersive

Imagine being able to revisit the street you played on as a child from the comfort of your own home as an adult. Or picture flying in an airplane, strolling through a vibrant flower garden, or playing with a room full of puppies, all without leaving your suite. This is the magic of Mynd Immersive. Evidence-based and carefully designed, these virtual reality headsets engage residents’ minds and bodies while offering real health benefits, including increased attention, improved motor skills, and enhanced orientation. And, as any resident will tell you, it is incredibly fun. The smiles on their faces say it all!

A Global Adventure Every Month

Our Travel the World Signature Program builds on these immersive experiences by taking residents on monthly journeys to destinations around the globe. Each year features a unique theme — past examples include Road Trip USA and Dream Vacation Destinations. Each month, residents explore a new destination, experiencing the sights, sounds, tastes, and culture it has to offer. From sampling international cuisine to learning about local traditions, every destination is designed to be engaging, educational, and meaningful. Our monthly Resident Programs Calendar ensures that adventure and discovery are part of residents’ daily lives.

In 2026, we are thrilled to celebrate 10 incredible years of Travel the World adventures with our theme: The Ultimate Bucket List Adventure: A Journey of Wellness. This year, we’re focusing on one of the most meaningful goals on everyone’s bucket list: physical well-being. Through movement-based adventures, residents will challenge themselves, support one another, and reach new heights as they climb toward lifelong dreams together. Along the way, we’ll nourish our minds and bodies, soak in the sights, sounds, and flavors of the world, and embrace every moment of this shared journey.

Creating Meaningful Memories with Our Travel the World and Mynd Immersive Signature Programs

Frank, a resident at Commonwealth Senior Living at Charlottesville, experienced this firsthand. Married to his wife Claire for over 50 years, the couple traveled the world together. After her passing, Frank was able to revisit some of their favorite destinations through Mynd Immersive, including the Dallas Arboretum in Dallas, Texas, reliving those treasured memories as if she were right there beside him. Another resident, a former U.S. Air Force pilot, used the technology to relive his fondest memories of flying, a moment his daughter said brought him immeasurable joy.

Honoring Every Individual

Paula Harder, Vice President of Resident Programs & Memory Care, reminds us: “Our culture is all about the individual and making sure we honor who the person was before they came to us and who they are going to continue to be.” Signature Programs like Travel the World and Mynd Immersive help us live out this mission every day. They spark curiosity, encourage conversation, strengthen social connections, and promote cognitive and physical wellness, all while celebrating the unique stories and passions of our residents.

Adventure Awaits

Through this innovative combination of our Travel the World and Mynd Immersive Signature Programs, our residents can explore new countries, revisit beloved places, or even experience extraordinary events like live opera performances, all without leaving the comfort of their suite.

At Commonwealth Senior Living, we are proving that age is never a limit to exploration, discovery, and joy. Come Travel the World with us; the adventure is just beginning!

Step into a world of learning, fun, and connection — schedule your visit today and let your loved one embark on the adventure of a lifetime!

Cooking a meal for the family. Changing the oil of a classic 1965 sports car. Planting and watering a garden full of fresh colorful blooms or vegetables. Holding a baby for the first time. As you read those sentences, what came to mind? You likely recalled memories from your life that made you feel warm, happy, and purposeful. You may have visualized yourself or someone you love doing these familiar things. All it took was reading the words to bring up the memory for you. Memories can also be triggered by familiar sights, sounds, or smells. In this way, memories are created and stored through our senses.

At Commonwealth Senior Living, we know that stimulating the senses can bring back wonderful and engaging memories. For this reason, we incorporate universally familiar "scenes," or Life Stations in all our Sweet Memories Memory Care neighborhoods.

At the kitchen station, you will find bowls and cookbooks that encourage a homemaker to remember those warm and inviting memories of caring for her family. As you continue on through the neighborhood you will come across a workbench with tools. Many of our male residents stop and tinker with the items on the bench. Next, you will find a place to garden and a vanity to put on a little glam. Following these wonderful memories, you can relax in a rocking chair and care for a realistic and weighted baby doll in the nursery Life Station fully equipped with a cradle and storybooks.

Life Stations are effective tools for those living with memory loss. They function as way finders to navigate the memory care space. They stimulate and encourage happy memories and help our associates easily engage with our residents.

You can also create similar spaces if you are caring for someone with memory loss in your home. Engaging in familiar family tasks not only reduces isolation and symptoms of depression but also provides moments of joy and recall that are safe and effective at reducing the side effects of living with memory loss.

We invite you to tour a Sweet Memories community near you and see a Life Station for yourself and how it is used throughout the day to bring joy and familiarity to our residents' lives. Feel free to rock a baby, plant a flower, or put on a fancy hat and smile at yourself in the vanity mirror as you let your memories fill you with joy.

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• Lack of food in the fridge or mostly frozen dinners
• Soiled laundry piled up
• Cleanliness of the home not within their normal comfort zone
• Lack of interest in their previous hobbies

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We truly feel that experiencing virtual dementia is key to providing compassionate, high quality care. Please read more about Heathers experience here.

We received a letter from a family that warmed our hearts and reminded us how important it is to reassure families that they arent on this journey alone. We are with you.

"I am writing this letter to express my husbands and my gratitude for the excellent care provided to my father-in-law. His quality of life was very much enhanced by being in such a caring environment with staff that is equipped and willing to deal with the uncertain behaviors of patients challenged with various forms of Alzheimers disease. In addition to Mr. Youngs loving and outstanding care, I would remiss if I didnt point out that your Resident Care Director went the extra mile by providing the education on the Alzheimers Disease process and helping us to navigate through the various stages. We never felt alone as your staff and these unsung heroes have always made us feel welcome and part of the family. The communications was open, honest and often.

The professionalism of your staff and doctors, your security measures, the concept of family involvement and being on the cutting edge in developing treatment plans; places Commonwealth Memory Care both head and shoulders above all other like facilities. I will certainly share my many fond memories and will highly recommend your facility to anyone in need of such services. Thank you and please thank your staff for all that you do!"

Receiving educational support and knowing that you have a team dedicated to the care of your loved one is essential to navigating the challenges of dementia and Alzheimers. Reach out to the community nearest you to learn more about our support groups.

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Here are some quick tips:

• Focus a family tradition that everyone can participate in
• Keep the group small
• Remember that kids take social ques from adults. If you are acting comfortable with your loved ones questions and behavior, they will too.
• Celebrate the success of the moment.

Do you have questions of your own for the experts? Email us at AskTheExperts@commonwealthsl.com.

Questions to ask yourself when choosing the right time to move Mom or Dad:

• Is Mom or Dad safe at home?
• Are they taking their medications as directed?
• Has their been a fall?
• Do they require 24 care?
• Who will be looking after them after you leave?
• What will delaying the move a few weeks mean in terms of care, logistics, etc?
• Do you feel you have the information you need to make a choice?

If you have questions about a specific scenario, contact us at AskTheExperts@commonwealthsl.com.

Independent Living Plus is designed for individuals who want a worry-free, active and independent lifestyle now, with access to additional assistance when/if needed . . . all without moving apartments or changing communities. These apartments include the following within a flat, monthly rate:

• All utilities included except telephone
• Emergency Call System with complimentary pendant and trained associates on duty 24 hours, 7 days per week, 365 days per year
• Three meals per day from our award-winning Farm to Table dining program
• Medication Management supported by licensed nurse and trained staff
• Daily opportunities to socialize and participate in a variety of activities
• Scheduled transportation and outings
• Weekly housekeeping and linen service

All of this is included in one monthly fee plus the peace of mind in knowing that should your needs change, assisted living services are available for a fee dependent upon the amount of personal assistance required. No more moving boxes or worries about the future.

Learn more about our communities offering Independent Living here.

At Commonwealth Senior Living, assisted living provides the ideal balance of personalized support with dignity, respect and independence. There may be a time when you or a loved one are no longer able to perform daily activities like cooking or cleaning. When the activities of daily life become cumbersome, assisted living provides support to individuals so that they may focus on the hobbies and interests that bring them joy. No two seniors are exactly the same and by addressing each of their needs through caregiving and our signature programming, we are able to create as many of moments of joy as possible each day for our residents.

Another one of the most important aspects to maintaining a healthy lifestyle for seniors is diet. Commonwealth Senior Living partners with local farmers to provide our residents with fresh, locally sourced fruits and vegetables which have proven to have numerous health benefits including lowering risk of heart disease and promoting higher brain activity.

Our team plays such a vital role in the lives of all our residents and were so honored to be able to celebrate these wonderful relationships during National Assisted Living Week. These are a few highlights from the week!

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If you or a loved one are still wondering what level of care might be right for you, take the Roobrik Assessment, a free, anonymous assessment that asks questions about your family’s situation to provide support and valuable information to help guide you in your research.

We are sharing a free, anonymous assessment that asks you questions about your loved one's situation to recommend options that could help based on national research. Our hope is that this short assessment will provide support in starting the conversation. There are more options now than ever  when it comes to senior living, and knowing those options can help you to choose the right fit when the time comes.

Making the decision to move into a senior living community can be one of the most challenging decisions a family will make. If you would like more guidance, our communities' Sales Directors are only a call away. Visit our Communities page to find a community near you.

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The golden years of retirement should be a time of relaxation where one can enjoy doing what they love most in the comfort of their home. The truth is, however, there are often physical struggles that get in the way of this. For instance, one might find it harder to move around the house with ease, have difficulty with bathing, or find it harder to cook a nutritious meal by themselves. "It becomes a challenge because we live in Peter Pan houses, designed for people who never grow old," said Susan Bosak, a social scientist who oversaw a program to boost intergenerational engagement. Aging in Place says an overwhelming amount of seniors plan to stay in their current homes. Read the full article here.

Maybe you've discovered that Mom and Dad have been having these issues but would like to stay at home for as long as possible. This likely means making some adjustments to the home. Fortunately, there is a way to make re-modeling happen in a timely, cost-effective manner. Fixr.com suggests it can take $350 to $9,500 on average to remodel a home for elderly care. This, of course, varies greatly on the amount of work needed and your location.

The re-modeling depends on what type of care you need as well. For instance, if mobility is an issue, you may consider widening doorways or installing ramps. If vision is an issue, installing light sensors that turn on when someone enters the room may be a consideration. It may be as simple as installing "grab rods" costing only $150 on average. It may even be as simple as lowering counter space height from the average 36 inches to 34 inches so they are more accessible to wheelchair users. You may find this is the best option for your parent or loved one who may not necessarily need full-time care in a senior living community.

When it comes to remodeling homes for seniors, there is plenty of research to support you. According to the CDC, 1 in 4 seniors over the age of 65 have fallen while at home each year. Falls are more likely within homes that don't offer physical supports such as non-slip rugs. Similarly, senior remodeling is a growing market within the construction field. The number of contractors certified in remodeling homes for the elderly grows each year as the public realizes the many benefits they have to offer. Kris Lindahl Real Estate created a room-by-room guide beneficial improvements and helpful tips to minimize fall risks and increase accessibility.

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With so many options for support, from remodeling and home health to senior living, it's important to understand the costs, benefits, and lifestyles each of these options offer. After all, the most important thing is to ensure the comfort and safety of those you love.

For recommendations on realtors, repairs, home health, or senior living options in your area, please reach out to the community nearest you.

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5 Tips for Long Term Care Planning

1. Visualize your ideal senior living lifestyle. Finding the right fit for you means asking yourself these questions - Would you prefer a studio or a companion suite? Do you envision gardening, utilizing walking paths, or reading in the library? Would you like to get involved in a cooking club, explore international cultures, and go on excursions? Do you want your future home to be near friends and family? Not only does a move to a senior living community offer the opportunity to continue things you love, but also allows you to spend less time doing the things you don't love. All home maintenance like landscaping and housekeeping is taken care of. Take a look at our checklist as you prepare to visit senior living communities here.
2. Assess your financial picture. Pulling together your finances will help to paint a clear picture of what is available to you. A few things to gather include a monthly and annual income, insurance premiums and other monthly expenses, owned real estate, as well as Veterans Aid & Attendance benefits.
3. Meet with professional advisors. These include professionals from your elder law attorney who helps prepare your legal documents to your physician who will be able to provide input on the appropriate level of care while understanding your preferences. Commonwealth Senior Living has relationships with all these experts. If you need a recommendation, we are happy to provide them.
4. Take the time to plan. Just like any decision you make for the future, it's worth the time and effort to choose the right community and design a plan that makes sense for you. The cost of senior living depends on the size suite you select as the amount of support you require, but ultimately the formula of senior living is different for every family.
5. Think about what life will be like after a move. Settling in, getting to know people (including caregivers) and starting to feel like you're at home can take time. Everyone reacts differently. Where one person may feel relief at not having to maintain a big house alone, another might feel a little lost and miss their home, friends, and belongings. However familiar faces can make living in a new place a lot easier. Consider encouraging your family to visit as often as possible, whether it's in person or virtually!

It's never too early to start, let us help. For more personalized guidance on approaching long term care planning, reach out to the community nearest you today.

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Our simple motto of "Welcome Home" conveys the feeling we want each of our residents and guests to feel when entering one of our communities, and our culture and Core Values help us to do so.  

These were developed by asking our associates, "What does a great day at Commonwealth Senior Living look and feel like?" Out of intensive meetings and discussions with our associates at each community, our Core Values were born. They drive our associates and leaders in every they make and represent the "how" of what we do. 

We are humbled by the loyalty and dedication of our associates that have been with us through the pandemic and longer. We also want to especially thank those who have been with Commonwealth for 20 years or more. From day one, we have been able to grow entirely through acquisitions and expansions. The associates below with 20 years or more either joined our company from the very beginning in 2002 or had already begun their journey in senior living with the previous companies that managed our communities. We are truly grateful for each of these individuals for staying with us through the many changes over the years, and for each member of our Pineapple Family. 

If you are a dedicated, compassionate, and caring person who wants to make a difference in the lived of seniors and their families, we'd love to hear from you.

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1. Loss of Interest in Things They Once Enjoyed

One of the top reasons seniors and their loved ones begin looking into senior living is due to a concern for loneliness. A loss of interest in things they once enjoyed doing can be a sign of depression or a memory or thinking issue.

Understanding the "why" behind this change is a major factor as well. They could be battling physical or health hurdles preventing their engagement, a cognitive decline that impacts their ability to engage, a shrinking social network, or a limiting of contact to peers due to feeling vulnerable about or like a burden to others because of a physical or cognitive decline.

Remembering what they previously enjoyed and cared about can help them stay engaged and able to participate in those activities again within a senior living community or with some help at home.

2. Concern for the Safety of Their Current Environment

Older adults are more susceptible to accidents and injuries than younger adults. A concern that certain care needs are not being met or that their current environment isn't safe is one sign your loved one may need additional support.

Falls are one example of a leading cause of many serious issues and hospitalizations for seniors. Driving can also be riskier for seniors if there are certain health issues at play. As we age, our reflex times slow and our vision declines, so the ability to respond to traffic and other driving disruptions can create more risk. A more severe concern for senior drivers is if they are beginning to get confused, turned around, or lost while driving to familiar locations. If they are living alone but are no longer able to drive, this can lead to isolation as well.

Another concern for their safety might arise if you notice a change in their judgement. Are they making decisions that are out of character such as giving things of great value away or being overly generous? Are they unable to adapt to seasonal changes with their clothing or the thermostat? Have they become overly trusting or distrusting of strangers?

3. Change in Weight or Appearance

While aging is a gradual process, changes associated with illnesses or lifestyle choices are not a normal part of aging. Gaining or losing weight rapidly, for example, can be a sign associated with various lifestyle changes for a senior.

Some symptoms of dehydration can be as mild as light headaches but can also become more serious with confusion and weakness. Are you noticing any changes? One of the first things to check is if your loved one is drinking enough water. Significant changes in weight can be an indicator of malnutrition or dependency on overly processed foods.

Does your loved one still show the same level of interest in their appearance as they did before? This could be an indicator of some physical discomfort or decline. Oral hygiene and incontinence can also be an indicator of further health complications and can further isolate them.

4. Having Difficulty Completing Daily Tasks

Maybe you've noticed a few bills have gone unpaid or your loved one no longer feels comfortable driving to the grocery store. Having difficulty with daily tasks can range anywhere from frustration with using your telephone to struggling to communicate a need for help with instrumental activities of daily living. Ask yourself these questions:

• Can your loved one safely meet all their personal care needs or recognize they need help?
• If they have access to help, are they willing to utilize it?
• Are they having difficulty with activities of daily living, or things we do to care for our body and move around like getting dressed, bathing, or using the bathroom?
• Are they having difficulty with instrumental activities of daily living, or things that support living independently like shopping for groceries, housekeeping, or prepping meals?
• Are they able to manage their medication properly? Can they fill their prescriptions, take them on time, and follow the proper dosage?

Keep in mind that family members acting as this resource for seniors in addition to managing their own family's and personal needs are much more likely to experience caregiver burnout than a paid caregiver.

5. Lack of Interest or Ability in Managing Their Home

Now that the kids have moved away and it's just Mom and Dad living in the big family home, they may be spending most of their time completing tasks like cleaning, landscaping, and prepping for the winter instead of making the most of their retirement years. Some seniors may over purchase or hoard supplies, adding another element of expiration dates to be monitored and clutter that can create trip or fire hazards in their home. Are they able to recognize the need for minor repairs before they become major? Can they maintain their outdoor space or manage the communication and payment of outside services to maintain it? Are they prepared to winterize the home and deal with the threats winter storms pose?

Again, the process of considering senior living can be an emotional roller coaster for the entire family. We are here to help you handle the next steps if these questions and common signs that your loved one may need support have resonated with you.

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• Peace of mind of knowing your loved one has 24-hour care in an environment specifically designed and staffed for their comfort, safety, and optimum well-being at every stage of Alzheimer's disease. 
• Memory Care associates are specially trained in addressing the behavioral issues of dementia with positive attention, physical exercise, social therapies, and interactive activities that engage memory centers and redirect your loved one into their own areas of interest and contentment. 
• Your loved one's nutritional needs and eating habits, medications, and hygiene and appearance are monitored and addressed with kindness and respect. 
• Your loved ones can once again enjoy a positive social lifestyle where independence is encouraged in a safe, enclosed, easy-to-navigate environment in which they can move about freely. 
• Quality Memory Care communities also serve the families of residents. Support may include practical tips for loving engagement with someone with Alzheimer's, family-oriented events, anytime access to your loved one and frequent updates as to their well-being. 
• Many Memory Care communities report positive outcomes including reduced medication, fewer hospital visits, faster healing, better nutrition, and overall contentment, greater social comfort and interaction, more self-direction, and engagement in daily activities.  
• Memory Care offers your loved one the best chances of benefiting from the latest research-based programs that are showing improvements. 

At Commonwealth, we recognize that each one of our residents is unique. This is also true of every Memory Care community. When choosing a community for your loved one, plan on checking out several of these unique communities in your area in person. Here are a few tips for visiting:  

• Talk with the team and residents.  
• Ask to see the latest survey or inspection report.  
• Visit at different times of the day, including mealtimes.  
• Inquire about room availability and consider putting your name on a waiting list even if you're undecided. 
• Use our checklist as a guide and listen to your "gut" instincts. Download it for yourself here.

If you're still unsure if a Memory Care community is the right fit, take a look at these signs your loved one may need additional support or click the button below to take our free, anonymous assessment. We've partnered with a research firm to help families determine the appropriate level of support for their loved ones. The answer to this may look different for everyone, but our hope is that this assessment and guidance will be helpful for families to find the right fit for them. 

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The first step is participating in our Sweet Beginnings Family Orientation. This is an opportunity to meet all of our community leaders and ask questions about the Sweet Memories neighborhood. During this time you'll also learn about the following:  

What is Sweet Memories Memory Care? 
Sweet Memories is a warm, home-like neighborhood, designed specifically for your loved one living with memory loss. It's a safe place, with familiar surroundings that allows all our residents to live comfortably, safely, and joyfully each day. Our compassionate, specially trained caregivers deliver personalized care with calm, familiar routine schedules and engaging programs and activities.  

The Adjustment Period 
As with any transition in life, there will be an adjustment period. Not just for your loved one, but for you as well. Be patient with the process of getting settled in and ask questions when you need to. For individuals with memory loss, the first three weeks after moving into Sweet Memories are typically the most challenging. Your loved one may experience:  

• Increased confusion due to new and unfamiliar surroundings 
• Heightened agitation due to fear and increased confusion 
• Anger and/or symptoms of depression related to the need for memory care 
• Decreased appetite 
• Disruption in normal sleep routine 
• Personality changes 

All of these experiences are normal and expected by the caregiving team. Their job is to assist in managing these experiences and make your loved one as comfortable as possible during this period by engaging them in meaningful and enjoyable activity. While families are always encouraged and welcome to visit and spend as much time with your loved one as you like, it may ease the adjustment period to give them at least three days to settle in before visiting. This is, of course, your decision to make. 

For family members who love someone with memory loss, there is also an adjustment period for you. Moving your loved one into Sweet Memories may have been one of the hardest decisions you ever had to make. Be kind to yourself. It was, most likely, the best decision you've made for them as well. 

Our Person-Centered Care 
This is the heart of all we do to provide your loved one with the very best experiences every day. We understand every person in our community is unique, and person-centered care is our way of honoring them as individuals who bring with them a whole life filled with family, experiences, hobbies, passions, and favorite things. We use all of your loved one's unique "life story" to ensure it continues in their new home. This type of care maintains the integrity and independence of choice in your loved one's life. 

SMILE Technology 
SMILE is a complimentary communication tool which allows families to stay socially connected to their loved one and the Programming team, no matter where they are. You can send messages, upload pictures, music, or videos to be shared with your family member. You can also communicate directly with the Programming team and receive pictures and videos through email or by logging in to your SMILE account. You'll be able to see the specific activities your family member recently enjoyed, what activities are coming up, as well as view the monthly calendar of activities. 

Tips from CSL Eastern Shore by Kristie Annis, Executive Director, and Lindsay Drummond, Program Director: 

1. Set up your loved one's suite similarly to the way they set their own room up at home. Little touches like a family photo on the nightstand, grandchildren's pictures on the wall, or a special blanket on the bed are so important. A resident's suite is one of the most important areas of the neighborhood. For this reason, the more personalized and familiar the suite is, the more comfortable your loved one will be. 
2. Bring pictures of your loved one from the past, small trinkets they will recognize, and memorabilia they're likely to remember. Each suite has a memory box outside the door. This may be used by your loved one to locate their suite more easily. It also serves as a quick reminder for associates of what makes each resident unique so they're able to have rich and meaningful conversations while providing care.  
3. Know that your loved one will be engaged in our award-winning Memory Care Signature Programs. Family members have told us they are reassured to know they will be having fun, especially soon after moving in. Our standard at Commonwealth Senior Living is for our residents to engage in seven or more activities each day. 
4. Know the best times to visit your loved one. While we encourage you to visit whenever and as often as you like. We ask that you keep in mind that meal times are not always the best time to visit. For many individuals with memory loss, having a visitor during a meal is distracting and may interfere with their eating routine. That is true for your loved one as well as anyone sitting with them at their table. Additionally, with sundowning, afternoon or early evening visits are often difficult. Sundowning may occur for some individuals with Alzheimer's disease and cause restlessness, agitation, or confusion that begins or worsens as daylight begins to fade, which can sometimes make visits more challenging. 
5. Label everything. This includes clothing, books, photos, glasses, hearing aids, etc. Whether you do your loved one's laundry or we do it in the neighborhood, it is recommended that all clothing brought to the neighborhood be labeled with your loved one's name. It is very helpful when items are misplaced to be able to return them to our residents.  
6. Know that your loved one is safe and in the best hands. Our Sweet Memories neighborhood is a secure area of our community. This means the door to the neighborhood requires a passcode to enter. This is to always ensure the safety of all our residents. The door is not there to keep your loved one "locked in," but to alert us when they would like to go out, so we may safely accompany them or provide whatever need they are having at the moment. Personal care supplies are also kept in a secure area in our Sweet Memories neighborhood if they are a risk of harm to our residents. 

Some of the biggest shocks for families from Sonja Dotson, Executive Director at CSL Cedar Bluff: 

• Wandering. In our Sweet Memories neighborhood, everyone living with memory loss has the right to experience this challenge in their own way, just as they would in their own home. Due to the nature of memory loss, there are things that you may witness or experience that are impossible to prevent and may be frowned upon by others outside our community. However, they are perfectly normal within a neighborhood of individuals living with memory loss. We try to explain to families that most of us don't life in a home with 15-20 doors, but our residents see our entire community as their home, so at some point or another, they will likely have a visitor enter their room or be a visitor in someone else's room. That visitor may sit down, lie on the bed, use the restroom, or open the closet or a drawer and try on a sweater. This is a common occurrence in a memory care neighborhood and it's perfectly normal. Sonja explains this as "similar to dormitory living or sharing everything with your brothers and sisters. We do advise families not to bring expensive clothing or items they wouldn't want someone else to share." 
• Not being able to keep toothpaste in their room. As mentioned by our Eastern Shore team, personal care supplies are kept in a secure space. If your loved one is able to take care of their own personal hygiene, an associate will get their supplies for them at the appropriate time and give them time to clean up. When they're done, the associate will return the supplies to the secure area.  
• Not wanting to wear socks or shoes. Many individuals will prefer loose-fitting, comfortable clothing and they may not feel like socks fit in that category. Additionally, shoes can sometimes be easily taken off. Try using Velcro or slip-on shoes. 
• Your loved one may make new relationships. You may notice them gravitating to a certain person, holding hands, etc. This happens at times. Sexuality is a normal and natural part of life and is not diminished by memory loss. Everyone seeks the comfort of being with other people, especially when a major life transition has occurred. Most of the time these new relationships are not sexual in nature, but rather an attempt to find comfort with another person. Sonja says their team always communicates with families to keep them updated so they are not surprised by their loved one's behavior when they visit the community. 

At Commonwealth Senior Living we know family is everything. Family Night is an opportunity for families, residents, and associates of Sweet Memories to spend time together and get to know one another in a relaxed and comfortable setting. It's a time for the caregiving team to build relationships with you and your loved one as a part of our family and we'd love for you to join us as well. 

Reach out to the community nearest you to visit us during our next Family Night. 

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So, we asked these associates to share the details of their own personal journey in supporting a loved one needing care. This includes everything from their initial apprehensions, who was impacted during their journey, and their triumphs along the way, to what they wish they had known looking back. Our hope is that sharing these details will help families beginning their journey overcome similar obstacles.  

Today we'd like to share a story from one of our very own associates, Stephanie Johnston, Sales Specialist, on her family's experience with moving her mother-in-law into senior living. 

The Story of "Momma J" 

"Let me tell you a little story about 'Momma J.' My father-in-law, Wendall, and mother-in-law, Judy, were inseparable. She was known to many as 'Miss Jacksonville' in her prime and had the pictures to prove it. For anyone that knew and loved one, she was 'Momma J' to them. In their retirement years, they often socialized with friends and partook in a different restaurant at almost every meal. When you saw one, you saw them both. They loved to enjoy conversations and see familiar faces. During their working years, they were very ingrained in people's lives as Wendal taught at the local high school and Judy ran the food services division.  

The passing of my father-in-law impacted our entire world. When this happened, we were faced with the ultimate decision of what next steps we needed to take to ensure the safety of my mother-in-law, Judy. She had a cognitive impairment and Wendall was her primary source of daily love, dedication, socialization, and care. We quickly realized he was managing her care needs in such a way that we didn't see all the daily needs she required of him. After all, she was the love of his life, and her dignity was of the highest importance to him and our family. 

We pulled together as a family and rotated shifts to ensure Judy was never alone. My husband is one of four brothers who were all raised to value family and their connections with their parents. To say their family is close would be an understatement. When you think of the ideal situation of having four sons, four daughters-in-law, and many grandchildren, the overlapping schedules are still challenging.  

Judy's granddaughter moved in with her for a period while finishing school and working at the local fire department. Even with life as a caregiver, shifts still needed to be considered. Her granddaughter was also building her own life and we knew the importance of ensuring she could continue to grow her relationships and have time to herself. She valued time with her granny. 

Judy moved into Commonwealth Senior Living at Gloucester House and was a proud resident from July of 2019 to July of 2021. During this time, she loved a good meal from Chef Andre, Dining Services Director. She loved life and many things, but Andre always remembered she had one exception, carrots. She enjoyed the special pop-ins from her son, Rodney, when he cooked her favorite food, soft shell crabs.  

Her entire family is centrally located in Gloucester County.  Judy's four sons made her extremely proud by continuing their journey near her.  She lived her life to brag about her sons and their accomplishments.  I believe the success of her sons started at the kitchen table.  That was the one place she was sure they would gather so she could have their full attention. I can only imagine how much her grocery bills were with four growing sons who played sports. She was known to remind everyone about each son and how their families were doing. Her sons, W.L. a retired Hampton Fire Dept Battalion Chief, Rodney, a supervisor at WestRock, Spencer, a NASA Engineer, and A.J. a Master Trooper with the Virginia State Police, have one united opinion and often say, 'We couldn't have asked for a better mom.'  She was also very proud to call her daughters-in-law the daughters she had never had. All her grandchildren live in the Gloucester area and would visit her at her community as well.   

Looking back, I believe moving into a community setting was so valuable to her that we could have decided to make a choice sooner. Her granddaughter knew she wanted to stay in her home, so she did her best to honor those wishes. After the move, Judy was able to obtain physical therapy regularly and participate in programming. These added benefits allowed her to participate in activities she didn't have an interest in previously. My husband often told me, 'She's not an arts and crafts person.' Through dedicated attention and approach, Jazmin, the Program Director at Commonwealth Senior Living at Gloucester House, could pull her out of her shell to join in the fun. I loved coming to work and sharing fun videos of Judy with her sons. She loved to hear about their hunting stories, and she loved her little dog, Trixie.  Another one of Judy's traits was her unmatched humor level. She always made us laugh in the community with her quick comebacks. In the video below you can see her making a 'Sitting in the tree, K.I.S.S.I.N.G. joke!' 

The family was so proud of her second family we called her 'Pineapple Family.' The associates adored her and enjoyed sharing memories of their high school days when she experienced them growing up. It was a pleasure to have peace of mind knowing she was happy, loved, and cared for. She would often tell our associates to simply call her 'Granny' or 'Momma J' as she welcomed them as her own family. 

I was part of the Commonwealth family during our journey. Our company empowered me with regular dementia training and skillset for caregiver support. As a subject matter expert, I counsel, guide, and love families through this daily journey. I was so thankful to find understanding in the process and lean on my company for advice. The experience has only enhanced my ability to care for other families. Being able to reassure new families seeking guidance is valuable when your family can relate to their feelings and experiences. Every family's journey is different and unique, but the impact and true dedication I can offer families through their journey is something I hold dear to my heart. 

The 'Why' behind my decision to be a lifelong member of the Commonwealth Senior Living family is evident. I am reminded every day that the helping hand, advice, and ability to provide a living home is a memory that will live with that family forever. I'm humbled at the ability to be that person for them. One of my favorite moments in the journey is being able to stop and thank the caregiver for their efforts to love and care for them thus far. They often put themselves second, so simply thanking them on behalf of their loved ones as they may not be able to thank them themselves is genuinely life changing. The relief and recognition on their face when they know they have a helping hand is the number one reason for my 'Why.'" 

If this story resonates with you and your own family's journey, we'd love to support you in any way we can. Click the button below to contact the community nearest you today. 

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This journey families take in supporting each other as they age is both emotional and challenging. Being able to experience this from an outside perspective helps us open ourselves to more in-depth conversations within our own families. 

Come join us to watch the film and for a discussion afterward with our Certified Dementia Practitioners. Please feel free to ask any questions you may have. We encourage families to join us together as it may spark valuable conversations. 

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How do you know when its time for help?

Most people want to provide the best outcome and quality of life for their aging loved ones. Unfortunately, there can come a time when it is no longer safe for older adults to live alone. Some of these signs are obvious, but others may take longer to identify. Here are a few indications to watch out for:

• Mobility difficulties (1 in 4 older adults will have a fall each year)
• Mental health or memory concerns (depression is difficult to detect in older adults, whereas forgetfulness is more common)
• Financial concerns (ex. unpaid bills, stacks of unopened mail)
• Driving concerns (older adults can outlive their ability to drive safely)
• Changes in appearance (weight changes, appearing unkempt, odor, or other signs that they aren't practicing good hygiene)
• Disconnecting (are they withdrawing from loved ones? Hoarding?)
• Medication concerns (are they taking their medication as prescribed, or do some appear to be missing or not taken at all?)

If you notice any of these warning signs, it may be time to discuss your concerns with a trained professional. Some people choose to make an appointment with a neurologist for a cognitive assessment. The best person to evaluate the older adult will be their primary care provider. This could be a physician or nurse practitioner. If your loved one does not have a primary care provider, then an adult-gerontology nurse practitioner is a good option.

Whats next?

When the time comes to schedule a cognitive assessment, it can be difficult to know where to start. It is important to begin with someone who knows the aging adult's history, such as their primary care provider. Remember, it can be tough to bring up the topic of leaving home, but it's a crucial conversation to have with your loved ones.

In addition, healthcare professionals are no strangers to these difficult conversations. Knowing how to tackle them is key to achieving the best possible outcome. The primary care provider knows there are many factors that can affect the discussion. These include:

•  The environment (it may be best to converse wherever the patient is most comfortable)
•  Who is present (patients may be particular about which family members are in the room)
•  Available resources (will a social worker or other potential resources be needed?)
•  Situation complexity (there is no one-size-fits-all solution) 

It's also crucial to allow the older adult to have a say, rather than force them into something they don't agree with or aren't ready for. Therefore, try easing into the conversation. The older adult is likely already struggling with losing their independence. Giving them some autonomy will help deliver the best results. 

When it is time for the discussion and assessment, it can be helpful to reframe the concept. Demonstrate how leaving home can actually help preserve their independence, instead of taking it  away. Another factor to be aware of is the fact that older adults often fear being a burden on their loved ones. Remind your  loved one that accepting help will decrease everyone's stress levels. 

Once the assessment is complete, it's appropriate to listen to your loved one and validate their concerns. If the conversation was open and engaging, you might determine that everyone shared  

the same thoughts. However, your loved one may or may not agree that it is time to leave home at this point. And it's okay if they are still hesitant.  The positive side is there are other options available, and it's important to address them all. 

Research your options

Making the best decision for your loved one can be challenging, so it's critical to educate yourself on all available options. Before considering the specific factors, here are the most common living situations for older adults:

• Stay in their current home or downsize (with home health or a move-in family member)
• Move to an assisted living community
• Move to a long-term care facility
• Move in with a family member

The goal is to make a group decision that everyone aligns with. If your loved one wants to remain in their own home, is it even a possibility? Discuss safety and financial considerations, as well as home health versus a live-in family member. If there is no one who can move in with the older adult, can they move into someone else's home? This can be a completely doable solution for some, and unrealistic for others.

Therefore, an alternative is looking into an assisted living or long-term care facility. This is the decision  older adults often struggle the most with, but it doesn't have to be a negative experience. 

Since many older adults view assisted living or long term care as "giving up," what if you changed this outlook? Many of these communities have so much to offer such as fostering independence, social activities, a sense of community, and more. Your loved one may enjoy having their own space where they won't have to cook, clean, or maintain the lawn. While they may still have a say in their appointments, what if someone else managed their medications? These points give your loved one more time to do what they enjoy with less to stress over.
Remember to give your loved one some control in this decision by allowing them to voice their preferences. Tour the communities together so they can share their opinion.  After all, this is their life-they should be allowed to make the most of it.

Final Thoughts

Growing older is scary for many, as its met with so much uncertainty. Whether your loved one is suffering from a debilitating physical illness, cognitive decline, or loss of function, any of these can lead to feelings of helplessness, guilt, and even depression. They have been the caregiver for their entire lives, so shifting to needing one can be hard to accept. Remember to provide them with love, kindness, and reassurance that growing older is not about losing themselves-it's about preserving their independence for as long as possible so they can have the best quality of life.

To discuss your familys plan for the future with a community leader, contact the community nearest you.

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by Krystle Maynard

Krystle Maynard is a registered nurse with many specialties. She is the creator of Innovative RN solutions, which focuses on healthcare content writing. Krystle lives with her husband, children, and loves to travel (mostly to beaches) and concerts. If you would like to connect, you can reach her on LinkedIn.

Our memory care experts, Paula Harder and Bernie Cavis answer questions about celebrating the holidays and creating a safe and loving environment for those with dementia and Alzheimers disease.

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Here are a few quick tips:

• Keep it simple. Loud, busy parties may be overwhelming
• Focus on scents, textures and flavors. A family cookie recipe, the sweater she wore every year, Christmas carols he or she liked to sing
• Dont ask your loved one if they remember certain things. This can be frustrating and saddening for someone struggling with dementia and Alzheimers disease.
• Take it moment by moment. Remember the time you have with your loved one is special.

To learn more about Memory Care at our communities and how were celebrating the holidays, contact the community nearest you.

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You might have noticed that Mom or Dad have slowed down, had a hard time following the conversation or had bruises from falls or bumps they hadnt told you about. Many times, it is the family members who are visiting from out of town who notice the changes the most. When gradual decline isnt as recognizable on a daily basis, larger gaps between visits reveal more profound change. So for many out of town visitors, seeing how Mom or Dad are doing can be a bit of a surprise.

It may be evident that a loved one needs help around the house or even more significant support, but this is not always a comfortable conversation to have with them. After all, for decades the roles were reversed. Parents gave advice. They prepared their children for the next chapter, pointed out issues, and helped guide the kids into what they believed would be the best for them. So how do you even broach this conversation?

Before the conversation, do your homework.

• Create a list of your concerns foryour aging parent Are you worried, for example, that their home is no longer a safe environment for them? Or that the mistakes they keep making with their medication will have a dangerous outcome next time around? Write down all your concerns.
• Educate yourself As you learn more about senior care options, you'll get ideas about what will fit your parent best. Admitting just how much help your loved one needs isn't easy, and you may find yourself downplaying just how serious their need for help really is. But be as objective as you can.
• Learn how important environment is for seniors. Where you live influences how well you live as you grow older - meaning location and environment have an effect on everything from physical safety to mental health to longevity. The more you learn about this, the better prepared you'll be.

Take a look at our tips for getting everyone to the table to discuss senior living here.

While we know this can be a difficult situation, please know you are not alone. There are more organizations available to help you through this journey than ever before. For many families, it feels simplest to pick up the phone and give us a call. Click the button below to find the community nearest you.

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For many families with aging parents, these visits unveiled issues that they weren't aware of. This can stir up a lot of feelings. You may wonder, what is happening when we aren't here? Is she safe? What should I do? The guilt that you aren't able to care for a loved one yourself as well as the fear and sadness that they aren't doing as well as you'd hoped can be staggering. But it's best to start preparing a plan for a senior living community that you both would feel comfortable with now rather than being forced to make a choice once it is an emergency.

Here are some tips for discussing your concerns with your loved one:

• Remind Mom or Dad that you love them and are worried about their well-being.
• Ask what he/she would need to happen for them to decide it was time to move.
• Discuss his/her concerns about senior living and what he/she would like to see in a community.

This guide provides more direction on how to prepare for the conversation. There are more options in senior living than there ever have been. From high rise condominiums in major metropolitan areas to quiet villas in the country, there are simply more offerings and styles of living for seniors (as well as levels of care) than have ever existed before. It's very important to know what options are available in order to choose the right fit when the time comes. Talking with loved ones about their options is the best first step to finding the lifestyle they deserve.

If you have realized over the holiday season that a loved one might need more care, let us help you get started. Please reach out to the community nearest you for more personalized guidance on approaching this conversation today.

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Summer can be a time of fun in the sun, but its important to stay safe and follow safety precautions. This is especially true for seniors due to their increased risk of heat-related health issues. As we age, our bodies become less able to effectively regulate temperature, making seniors more vulnerable to heat stroke, dehydration, and heat exhaustion. Experts at the Center for Disease Control say certain medications and common chronic health conditions among older adults can increase these risks. The combination of the summer heat waves and the added desire for visits outside with family and friends can make for a dangerous situation for seniors.

Why Summer Safety Tips for Seniors Are So Important

To help seniors navigate the summer safely, weve compiled the following 10 tips:

1. Stay hydrated. During warmer weather months, its especially crucial for seniors to stay hydrated. Drinking water and low-sugar fruit juices throughout the day can replenish lost vitamins and fluids due to perspiration.
2. Wear sunscreen and eye protection. Seniors face an increased risk of melanoma, making it important to use plenty of sunscreen. Eye protection should also be considered, as direct sunlight can cause damage.
3. Protect your head with wide-brimmed hats. some of the first areas where skin cancers develop are on the ears, neck, and top of the head. As we age, the hair follicles begin to thin which removes the natural barrier to direct sunlight. Wearing wide-brimmed hats will protect all of these problem areas.
4. Wear appropriate attire. Loose-fitting clothing made out of natural fibers such as cotton allows the skin to breathe and cool itself naturally. Synthetic or tight-fitting clothing restricts that breathing process and continues to increase the body's temperature.
5. Avoid mid-day hours. The hours between 11:00 a.m. and 4:00 p.m. are when the sun is most intense. Older adults should avoid strenuous activities outside during this time period in order to minimize heatstroke or other heat related illnesses.
6. Monitor the heat index. The heat index is the calculation of moisture or humidity in the air as it relates to the evaporation process caused by the sun. A high heat index can limit the body's ability to perspire and cool itself. Monitoring both the temperature and the heat index will help protect seniors from heat exhaustion.
7. Exercise with low intensity. Maintaining an active and healthy lifestyle is important or adults ages 65 or better, but the summer months create challenges to exercising outdoors. Seniors should limit their exercise activities to air-conditioned spaces. If exercise is conducted outside, it should be a low-intensity activity such as light gardening or walking near areas where they can quickly seek water and shelter if needed.
8. Apply bug spray. Mosquitoes and ticks can carry a variety of diseases which are harder for the immune system to fight in older adults. Wearing bug spray can help protect seniors from unwanted illnesses.
9. Inform neighbors, friends, and family. It may seem inconvenient, but seniors should inform someone if they decide to undertake outdoor activities during the summer. Having someone check in on them will provide a safety net in case anything happens and will provide a certain level of comfort to loved ones.
10. Know the signs. Seniors should know the signs of heatstroke which can take the form of muscle cramps, headaches, nausea, and dizziness. Experiencing any of these signs should alert seniors that they need to seek shelter in an air-conditioned environment and rehydrate.

By keeping these tips in mind, seniors can enjoy a healthy, active summer. Stay safe!

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Hurricanes are severe tropical storms that produce torrential rains, storm surges, and tornadoes. The typical season for these storms lasts from June through November. There are five categories with wind speeds ranging from 74 mph to 155 mph. Are you prepared for this season?

Our Plan

Each year, as we monitor the track of a hurricane, our community teams are hard at work taking the necessary steps to ensure they are prepared for the upcoming storm by implementing their Hurricane Readiness Plan. We are focused on ensuring appropriate staffing levels, availability of medications, availability of emergency food and water supplies, confirming that generators are ready in case of power outages, and if absolutely necessary, evacuation plans are secured. As we are assured our communities are prepared, we are also concerned for the population outside our four walls

Here are 7 tips for hurricane preparation:

1. Prepare early.
2. Clear outdoor areas of potential projectiles.
3. Secure personal documents in a water-tight container.
4. Create a kit of emergency supplies and keep vehicle gas tanks above half full.
5. Know your evacuation routes.
6. Prepare your pets.
7. Safety first!

Full hurricane Prep checklist

If a hurricane is expected in or around where you live, use the National Hurrivane Centre Website for monitoring. Remember, a warning means a hurricane is possible with 24-36 hours and watch means a hurricane will hit land within 24 hours.

Our communities actively prepare when a hurricane is on the way. If you have questions on hurricane preparedness or are ready to consider making the move to senior living before a storm hits, contact the community nearest you.

As we prepare for the holiday season, we're thinking about families, those who we serve and those who we haven't met yet. We know this time of year can be challenging in many ways. It can bring a unique kind of stress for those caring for a loved one with Alzheimer's and memory loss. We want to create a special, meaningful holiday for every generation involved, but that can sometimes be difficult for those whose memories and cognition are fading.

Coming into town and visiting aging parents may occasionally present surprises. Here are three vital things you should look out for on your upcoming visits:

• Groceries (especially perishables): Are they out of date? Are the cabinets and refrigerator stocked appropriately?
• Condition of the House: Is it clean? Is it cluttered or unsafe to move about? Has it been appropriately winterized? Are the bills and appointments being properly managed? Are heaps of soiled laundry piled up?
• Health of Your Loved One: How is your loved one's hygiene? How about their temperament? Do they seem lonely? Does your loved one seem confused and disconnected from the family conversation?

Here are a few tips from our memory care experts on celebrating the holidays and creating a safe and loving environment for those with dementia and Alzheimer's disease:

• Keep it simple. Loud, busy parties may be overwhelming.
• Focus on scents, textures, and flavors. A family cookie recipe, the sweater she wore every year, Christmas carols he or she liked to sing.
• Don't ask your loved one if they remember certain things. This can be frustrating and saddening for someone struggling with dementia and Alzheimer's disease.
• Take it moment by moment. Remember that the time you have with your loved one is special.

Making the decision to move into a senior living community can be one of the most challenging decisions that an individual and their family will ever make. But keep in mind that you're not alone. Our mission is to improve the lives of seniors, their families, and each other. That means we are a resource if you have questions about senior living or senior care, even if you aren't ready to consider a move yet. Our complimentary tool is designed to help families determine the appropriate level of support for their loved one. Click the button below to take the assessment today.

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When taking all these feelings into consideration, there is also the question of "Should we go visit Mom or Dad at their community or bring them home for the day?" Every family's situation is unique, but it may help to ask yourself:

• Where would Mom or Dad feel most comfortable?
• How long can Mom or Dad be engaged before getting tired?
• What will the atmosphere in our house be like?
• Will I have a quiet place for Mom or Dad to rest?

For some families, celebrating the holidays at their parent's assisted living or memory care neighborhood is a great fit. The associates are there to help with their physical needs, there are celebrations, and this has most likely become the place that Mom or Dad feel most at home.

Whether you are celebrating the holidays at home or in a community, here are a few tips to maintaining your family traditions:

• Less is more. Youre still celebrating the joy of the season even if your visit is only 15 minutes.
• Keep your favorite traditions, but in small doses. Spread them out, one at a time, over several days or visits. Keep the number of people visiting or participating to a minimum.
• Plan ahead for the time your loved one will be with you. Keeping in mind clothing needs, rest areas, quiet areas, transportation needs, restroom needs and medications. Have a back-up plan and be okay with changes at the last minute
• Coach other family members ahead of time on what to expect and how to make the most of the moments you will have together.
• Remember to enjoy the holidays yourself as well. If you feel stress so will your loved ones.

To find out more about celebrating the holidays at our communities and what we have planned this year, contact the community nearest you!

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By Paula Harder
Vice President of Resident Programs

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But what if you don't have children or other family to make responsible for those decisions? Typically, the court appoints a guardian, most likely someone you don't know, to make health and financial choices for you. This can be a lengthy process of weeks or months where a person could remain in the hospital or be moved to a skilled nursing facility that is covered by Medicaid. If a nearby facility can't accommodate another person, this may mean moving away from your hometown and community.

Our best advice for fulfilling your dreams for your retirement years, where and how you would like, is to have a plan for all situations. The backbone of this plan always begins with savings. For perspective, to have the same balance at 65 years old, someone starting to save for retirement 40 will need to save over three times as much each month as someone who started saving at 25 years old. Having a plan helps. Now is the time to take the next step in choosing a senior living community for when more support is needed.

Hook Law Center gives these tips for taking the reins of your retirement:

• Retirement Planning: Today, many employers offer retirement plans with matching contributions instead of pensions. Take advantage of this opportunity by investing in this savings plan as well as an IRA, 401k, or Thrift Savings Plan.
• Saving Early: The earlier you begin saving, the more interest is compounded. Starting to save later in the game may change your plan for how many years you had planned to work and the percentage you had planned to contribute each month.
• Living within Your Means: Establish a budget that allows you to accumulate savings for retirement each month. Doing this encourages living on a reduced budget and helps you realize your retirement goals more quickly.
• Consulting a Financial Advisor: Your advisor will help you develop a plan to reach your retirement objectives through answering questions like what age you want to retire, the number of years your retirement should last, and the amount of income you anticipate receiving from other sources like Social Security or rental properties.

But how much does senior living cost? How much should you save? It varies greatly by region and level of care. Generally, assisted living costs between $3,000 and $6,000 per month. Comparatively, home care costs between $3,600 and $6,600 per month in addition to costs of daily living like rent, utilities, and home maintenance.

View our pricing calculator to compare the cost of living at home with the cost of moving into a senior living community to begin creating your plan today.

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As we age, we begin to lose body heat faster than younger adults. Hypothermia, which can begin to occur when the body temperature gets below 95F for seniors, can cause health problems like a heart attack, kidney problems, or liver damage. This means even being in a very cold house without power can lead to hypothermia.

The National Institute on Aging gives these tips for staying warm inside:

• Make sure your house isn't losing heat through windows, closing and filling any open gaps. Keep your blinds and curtains closed as well.
• Dress warmly on colder days even in the house. Be sure to wear socks, slippers, and a hat.
• Continue maintaining a healthy diet.
• Ask family and friends to check on you during the cold weather. 

As you prepare for the next winter storm at home, take a look at the questions Walt, our Vice President of Maintenance, suggests asking yourself:

• Do you have a generator? If so, is it full of fuel? If not, make sure to refill while the roads are safe.
• Do you have salt to treat your walkways?
• If not, do you have a shovel to clear the driveway?
• Do you have fresh batteries for flashlights and radios?
• Do you have enough emergency water and food?
• Do you have an alternative heat source should you lose power?
• Is your vehicle full of fuel should you need to evacuate to another area?

This is not an all-inclusive list to winterizing your home as every home is different but keep these questions in mind and any other yearly steps you know you need to take to have a safe, warm winter. And remember it's always better to be over prepared.

At Commonwealth Senior Living, we're never closed, no matter the weather. When winter storms are on the radar, we have a team of individuals across four states making sure our communities are fully prepared. This means warm, healthy, farm-to-table meals are prepared and served daily, activities go on (rain or shine!), friends are nearby, and caregivers are on site 24/7 to help with any needs. Families take comfort knowing their loved ones are enjoying a day filled with exercise, art classes, and other activities regardless of the winter conditions outside.

Families living at home typically aren't able to have the same resources provided by our communities. The cold weather, freezing pipes, and slippery sidewalks that make the winter so difficult for all of us, have no effect on our residents due to our amazing teams' proactivity.

To learn more about our plans for managing winter storms, contact a community nearest you.

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Determining Whats Best for Mom and Dad

Before jumping in, you'll want to start by having a chat with your mom and dad about their goals. Have they appointed a specific power of attorney in your family to assist them with life decisions as they age? Is their estate plan up to date? Remember, since it is their home, you'll want to make sure they are included in all home selling discussions to make sure their wishes are being honored.

The next step is for everyone to get on the same page about the plan. During this chat, you'll want to accomplish the following:

• Create a timeline for the sale
• Determine their desired asking price
• Determine what updates must be made
• Determine how involved your parents want or are able to be in the selling process
• Think about how you will stay organized and on schedule throughout the move for a flawless transition.

Organizing Home Paperwork

A more tedious part of this preparation project can be gathering all the documents needed to sell the home. Depending on the state you live in, these policies can vary. It's a good idea to have your parents there as you search for the necessary documents in case you have any questions and to make sure they are all accounted for. As you gather these documents, you'll want to make sure you have the following:

• The Original Sales Contract
• Mortgage Statements and Payoff Amount
• Homeowner's Insurance Records
• Homeowner's Association Documents

Do the extra research and work with a real estate agent if necessary to organize all the proper paperwork to avoid any potential issues during the sale.

Understanding the Legal Side of Selling Your Parents Home

Make sure to consult an attorney about any estate, power of attorney, or probate-related documents tied to the home. Selling your parents home may require additional legal steps—especially if one or both are incapacitated or deceased. Having the right legal support in place early on can prevent future delays.

Finding the Right Real Estate Agent

A great real estate agent will help guide you through the selling process and provide support when you need it the most. It is also a great way to ease the stress you may feel when it comes to selling their as they will be able to assist you with any roadblocks you may face along the way and advocate for the best outcome. As you look for the perfect real estate agent for your family, here are a few tips:

• Ask around. Maybe your neighbor or close family friend has a recommendation.
• Read their reviews to get a better feel of their reputation and overall experience.
• Analyze their statistics in the prospective area.

Overall, having an on-hand expert is a great way to speed up the sale process and ensure all parties have a clear understanding of the big picture.

Coordinating Home Services

Once your real estate agent guides your family through the plan for the sale, you'll want to consider planning for home services to come in before your home goes on the market

This includes having a pre-listing home inspection to check everything out. While this isn't mandatory, it mitigates the risk for surprises that the buyers home inspector may find. A home inspector will be able to identify any issues with items like wiring, roofing, the home's structure, or other outdated items that could potentially affect the final sale going through. Taking the extra step to touch up paint, spruce up the flooring, or update your appliances can make a huge difference in the sale of your home as well.

Additional services to consider are landscapers and cleaners. Have the cleaners deep clean the home including the carpet and windows to ensure the home is ready to be shown and prepared for photos for listing sites.

Financing the Move

Now it's time to narrow down the potential moving date and navigate the specific financials of the move. Moving expenses like rental cars, storage units, moving supplies, and the movers themselves can get pricy. There are several options for financing the moves like using cash on hand, taking out a personal loan, or using a personal line of credit. Depending on the situation, you may find certain options that lend more time for repayment more ideal for your family as well.

Cleaning Out the Home

You just heard from your realtor and the home is officially off the market. Congratulations! Now it's time to officially start cleaning clearing out the home. This is a task you and your parents will want to do together to ensure you and your family keep the items that mean the most to you. To help make this an easy process, consider taking inventory of all the items in their home. From there, discuss what to keep, toss, store, or donate. If there are an abundance of items, here are a few options:

• Lots of items to keep that won't fit in their new space: rent a storage unit
• Lots of items to toss: rent a dumpster
• Lots of items that are still in great condition, but they don't need them: save money for the move by selling some items in a yard sale or donate them to a local thrift store or charity.

Preparing for the Next Family

The move out date is now approaching and it's time to prepare the home for it's next family. As the deal closes, you'll want to finish up home improvements, gather warranty manuals for appliances in your home if the buyer needs help using them or needs to replace them. You can even go as far as listing out the neighborhood information such as the garbage schedule, recurring neighborhood events throughout the year, or local recommendations like lawn services, restaurants, and grocery stores. The new homeowners will very much appreciate this extra effort!

Taking these various steps is a great way to make sure your family's moving process is as smooth as possible. Click the button below to speak with a community leader about the next steps in planning for your move.

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This freedom can feel empowering, but there isn't as much advice out there about retiring single. This is why we've outlined our tips below detailing how you can plan for and make the most of your golden years without a partner.

1. Create Specific Financial Goals

If you only have a single stream of revenue, it can be more difficult to save for retirement compared to when you're saving with a spouse. For this reason, it's important to create specific goals to help you achieve financial freedom come time for retirement. 

To start, you might want to set a goal to rid yourself of any debts you've accrued over the years. You may also make the goal to build your credit, or save for a house. So long as you're saving consistently each month, you're sure to reach your goals in the long term.

2. Nourish Your Relationships

One of the major difficulties that singles can run into is feeling isolated. This is why it's important to nourish your relationships and cultivate a strong support system of loved ones in retirement.

To connect socially with others, you may want to:

• Join a community
• Attend local events
• Reach out to old friends or family members
• Practice active listening
• Cultivate a strong sense of empathy for others
• Move into a senior living community

When you make it a priority to be there for others, they're going to want to be there for you. By putting yourself out there and making yourself available, it's going to be a matter of time before you find yourself surrounded by loved ones.

3. Think About Investing in Long Term Care Insurance

Oftentimes seniors need to rely on others to take care of them during retirement. If you don't have a spouse to help care for you, it could be a good idea to invest in long-term care insurance. If you think this option is right for you, then it's a good idea to plan ahead by investing earlier. The younger and healthier you are, the more likely you are to receive a more affordable policy.

If you're worried about your long term care, it's also a good idea to scope out senior living communities that you think would be a good fit for you.

4. Adopt a Pet

It's no secret that owning a pet is a great way to reduce feelings of anxiety and depression. Having a furry friend around also helps keep you active and give some structure to your day. You might even make it a point to give your pet a daily walk so that you have an excuse to get a breath of fresh air.

Closing Thoughts

Retiring alone can be one of the most fulfilling experiences of your life. To make the most of your golden years, you just need to be proactive about taking care of yourself mentally, financially and physically. 

And remember, one of the best ways to enjoy retirement is with a community that cares about you. If you're interested in making the most of your golden years, visit one of our communities nearest to you!

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Keep for less than a year. Keep your ATM, bank deposit, and credit card receipts until you reconcile them with your monthly statements. Once reconciled, shred the paper documents or securely trash electronic files unless you need them to support your tax return. Keep insurance policies and investment statements until new ones arrive. 

Keep for a year or longer. Hold on to loan documents until the loan is paid off. That will often be for more than a year. If you own a car, hold on to the title until you sell it. If you have investments in stocks, bonds, and mutual funds, keep the purchase confirmations until you sell so you can establish your cost basis and holding period.

Keep for seven years. If you fail to report all your gross income on your tax returns, the government has six years to collect the tax or start legal proceedings. To be on the safe side, keep all tax records for at least seven years.

Keep forever. Records such as birth and death certificates, marriage licenses, divorce decrees, Social Security cards, and military discharge papers should be kept indefinitely. Also hold on to any defined-benefit plan documents, estate-planning documents, life insurance and long-term care policies, and an inventory of what's inside your bank safe deposit box.

Now that you have your records retention timeline, let's talk about how to maintain or help someone maintain the organization. "It can be daunting to sort through piles on our desk and determine what can be discarded vs what may be needed in the future," writes Jen Ryan Galantowicz, National Director at Mom's House. Galantowicz draws from her experience working in senior living and suggests enlisting the help of a trusted friend or family member to sort, file, shred, or scan your documents. Having someone you trust knows the location of key documents in the event you're unable to locate them or unavailable in a time of need can also be beneficial. Another piece of advice is to review names of companies or people you expect to receive mail from that may be of importance.

Create a System for Sorting Mail. Stacks of mail that pile up daily may disrupt your organization efforts and cause confusion. Create a system for incoming mail like:

• Needs to be sorted
• Appears to need immediate attention
• Possible "junk"
• Outgoing mail 

Keep a Calendar in a Visible Location to keep your social calendar, appointments, and other important dates organized and top of mind. Use it to write down reminders for yourself. They can be anything from loved ones' birthdays to reminders to re-order prescription medications and mail or pay a bill with their due dates. 

To help those living with Alzheimer's disease and other forms of dementia stay organized, ask what level of involvement they are comfortable with and what method they feel may be most beneficial to them. Happy organizing! 

Read more about preparing for an organized move here or contact the community nearest you by clicking the button below.

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As you age, your mental strength is tested daily. Keeping your mind healthy can directly impact your overall well-being. According to the American Psychological Association, one in four older adults will experience depression, anxiety, or dementia, so exercising your body as well as your mind to reduce those struggles is vital. Here are a few practices that you can put to good use!

Socialize

Loneliness can creep in unexpectedly. This, along with isolation and distance from others, can be signs of depression. This is not uncommon for seniors as many of their family members and friends may have moved away over the years. Talking to an online therapist and learning different coping strategies is a great first step to becoming more comfortable with socialization again.

Staying in touch with family is another simple tip. Schedule time to take the grandkids to a movie and ice cream or invite everyone over for dinner. If your family doesn't live close by, you can also try video chatting through different platforms like FaceTime, Zoom, or GoogleMeet. The same goes for long-distance friendships as well!

It can be nerve-wracking to make new connections and hard to maintain friendships, but there are so many simple ways to connect. If you're looking to make new friends, try going to community events. Make it a habit to do activities with your new friends by grabbing some lunch together or playing card games.

Exercise

You've probably been told how important exercise is throughout your life. Making sure to include some movement in your daily routine is even more important as you age. Your joints and bones aren't as strong as they were before. Not only does exercise keep us physically healthy, but it also shows great benefits to our mental health.

While exercising, your body releases endorphins, which are mood-boosting chemicals, and increases the flow of both blood and oxygen to your brain. These endorphins make you feel good and increase cognitive function at the same time. Whether you choose to do some stretching exercises or enjoy nearby walking trails, getting your heart rate up to release the mood-boosting endorphins will leave you feeling great.

Simulate Your Brain

Our brains benefit from staying active through activities like doing puzzles, playing chess with friends, or completing crosswords. Not only are these brain-stimulating activities good for our mental health, but they also help slow cognitive decline.

Brain games can help strengthen your thinking skills, reaction time, short-term memory, and processing speed according to Harvard Health Publishing. They keep your mind engaged and help you use your problem-solving skills to find a solution. Some of the most accessible brain games are right at your fingertips. Reading and writing, playing games like Sudoku on your phone, or completing a puzzle have all been proven to enhance mental health and function.

Additionally, reading stimulates your brain and allows you to learn new things at the same time. You can read about a specific topic of interest, maybe even a love story. You could even learn a new skill like how to play an instrument, learn a new language, or how to crochet. Trying new hobbies can help you stay focused, enjoy the lifestyle you deserve, and positively impact cognitive function along the way. Now you can enjoy playing these brain games and hobbies all while knowing you'll reap their mental health benefits.

Get Plenty of Sleep

Getting less than seven to nine hours of sleep each night increases the chance of cognitive decline, falls, or other accidents at home. To set yourself up for a good night's sleep, try these few simple changes:

• Follow a regular sleep schedule. Set a time each night you'd like to be asleep and create a nighttime routine that will allow you to be in bed and fall asleep before your desired time.
• Engage in relaxing activities. Try turning down the lights, taking a relaxing bath or shower, reading a book, or listening to soft music.
• Set your thermostat to a comfortable temperature. Having a consistent temperature that is too cool or too warm can be dangerous, not to mention unconducive for great sleep.
• Avoid screen time close to bedtime. The light given off by televisions or your phone can sometimes make it even harder to fall asleep.

According to the National Institute on Aging, there are many ways you can set up a safe space to sleep as you age including:

• Keeping a lamp near your bed to turn on if you have to get up during the night.
• Making sure the floor is clear of objects that could become tripping hazards in the middle of the night.

Adopt a Pet

Who doesn't love a furry friend? Having a pet as a senior comes with so many benefits. Not only is a pet a built-in companion, but they can also help seniors stay active, boost their immune systems, and help manage depression, loneliness, and anxiety, according to the CDC.

Before moving forward with adopting a pet, be sure you know how to and are ready to take care of them. Don't be afraid to ask for help in caring for them, hire a dog walker, or find a mobile grooming service. If you have trouble walking, a dog might not be for you. Instead, a cat might be a better choice. You should also want to consider your pet's age when adopting it. Young kittens and puppies have high energy, but older cats and dogs may be demanding to take care of as well. Find a pet at the right age for you so you can take care of them properly.

After working your whole life, it's now time to enjoy yourself. By consistently putting some of these practices into play in your everyday life you'll be able to reap the many benefits of taking care of your mental well-being.

Take a look at our signature programs and other stimulating activities our Center of Excellence has on the calendar this month.

Many seniors have spent their lives taking care of others and haven't had the time to practice self-care activities for themselves. When we think of self-care today, it's easy to think only of facials and massages at a spa. While both activities can contribute to a relaxed mood for a short period of time, the importance for seniors to begin and establish a self-care routine for long-term benefits cannot be overstated. Creating a routine that is right for you not only results in positive health outcomes like lowered stress and anxiety but increases overall quality of life. Here are some self-care ideas to incorporate into your everyday routine as we head into summer:

Stay Hydrated

Seniors are vulnerable to becoming dehydrated due to body composition, decreased kidney function, and simply having less water in their bodies than they're used to, according to the Cleveland Clinic.

The general rule of thumb is to drink eight glasses of water per day. Our Hydration Stations located in each lobby at Commonwealth Senior Living have infused water with different fruits mixed in each day, offering a refreshing flavor. It's also important to make sure, as the weather gets warmer, to drink water while relaxing or being active outdoors.

Tip: Make infused water and place it in the refrigerator each evening for even more flavor the next day!

Incorporate Healthy Foods into Your Diet

While it is easy to grab a bag of chips or a cookie, we recommend satisfying your sweet tooth by giving your body the nutrients and long-lasting energy it's looking for. Incorporating fruits into your diet will curb sweet cravings and vegetables can be great heart-healthy snacks as well. At Commonwealth, we're proud to serve our residents fruits and vegetables as a part of our Farm-to-Table dining. Here are some quick snacks you can keep in the refrigerator or cupboard:

Socialize

Prioritize the time you spend around others. A study from the American Psychology Association found that "maintaining interpersonal connections and creating a new routine socially is beneficial, especially for those who live alone." For you, this may look like joining a new club or setting aside Sunday nights to have dinner with your friends or family. This aspect of self-care looks different for everyone but is very important to maintain in an everyday routine.

Exercise

Incorporating any type of physical activity into your daily routine is ideal for your overall mood, keeping your mind sharp, and allowing your body to stay healthy. No matter your interests, there are many ways to stay active both indoors and outdoors during the summer: 

Spend Time Outside

Spending time in nature is a fantastic way to practice self-care. Whether you are at a nearby park listening to the breeze in the trees around you or taking a stroll through your neighborhood, the overall health benefits are endless.

Tip: Finding a walking club in your area can be a great way to combine interacting socially with others and spending time in nature.

Get Involved in Your Community

Volunteering is a great way to help others, build a network of people in your area, and is an excellent practice of self-care. Researchers at the Mayo Clinic Health System say, "[volunteering] reduces stress and increases positive, relaxed feelings by releasing dopamine."

Tip: Find ways to get involved at your church, YMCA near you, soup kitchen, or other local organization. 

Wear Sunscreen

While we know sunscreen is important to wear while lounging by the pool, we should also incorporate it into our daily skincare routine. Many seniors may not think of the harmful UV rays lingering each day, but the truth is, it's important to wear sunscreen whether planning to be inside a car or outside taking a walk. Some medications may make your skin especially sensitive to the sun and make it easier to get a sunburn. Be sure to ask your doctor if there are any extra steps you can take to keep your skin healthy.

Each of these tips can be incorporated into daily life outside of the summer months - even wearing sunscreen. What's most important is building a self-care routine that gives you the support you need. By prioritizing your health, connecting with others, and making time for yourself, you'll be able to enjoy the benefits of improved mental and physical health. At Commonwealth Senior Living, we offer our residents this healthy balance with lifestyles and support to meet them where they are.

To find out more about the balance we incorporate into everyday life, or to see what self-care looks like at Commonwealth, contact the community nearest you today.

As we age, it's natural for social circles to become smaller. Retirement, relocation, or the loss of loved ones can make staying connected more challenging. This can sometimes lead to feelings of loneliness. Loneliness is not only an emotional experience; it can affect physical and mental health. In fact, isolation is one of the top reasons seniors and families begin exploring senior living options, because they want a solution that supports connection, engagement, and overall well-being. Many families discover that senior living reduces loneliness by creating daily opportunities for meaningful interaction and shared experiences.

Understanding Isolation and Its Impact

Loneliness

Social isolation happens when someone feels disconnected from others. Social isolation and loneliness can have serious effects on a person's physical, mental, and emotional health. The AARP Foundation identifies several signs that a senior may be experiencing isolation:

• A loss of interest in hobbies, activities, or daily routines
• Neglecting personal care and hygiene
• Changes in eating habits and nutrition
• A home that is cluttered or in disrepair

When Isolation Leads to Depression

Depression is not a normal part of aging, yet it can develop when loneliness goes unaddressed. In older adults, depression often appears differently than it does in younger individuals. It may show up through physical symptoms or subtle cognitive changes rather than expressed sadness. A few of these physical symptoms include:

• Insomnia or the inability to stay asleep at night.
• Weight fluctuations due to overeating or appetite loss.
• Increased sensitivities to headaches and other pains.
• Fatigue from decreased energy levels.
• Constricted blood vessels, raising the risk of cardiovascular disease and heart attacks.
• Weakened immune system for diseases like the common cold and more serious illnesses.
• Cognitive changes such as trouble remembering or making decisions.

Recognizing these signs early matters. Depression is not a normal part of aging, and no one should navigate it alone. With meaningful social engagement, supportive relationships, and the right level of care, quality of life can improve dramatically.

The Power of Social Connection

Research from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention shows that strong social connections are associated with lower rates of depression, better cognitive health, improved cardiovascular outcomes, and even longer life expectancy. 

Connection provides more than companionship. It provides belonging. It reminds us that we are seen, valued, and needed.

Simple steps can help seniors stay engaged:

• Schedule regular coffee or meal dates with friends
• Take walks in places where conversations can naturally happen
• Join a hobby group, volunteer organization, or faith community
• Participate in local events or lifelong learning opportunities
• Explore the benefits of a senior living community

Even small, consistent interactions can have a powerful impact on emotional well-being.

Ways Seniors Can Stay Connected 

There are many ways for seniors to maintain social connections and enrich their lives:

• Schedule regular coffee or tea dates with friends or neighbors
• Invite a friend or family member to share a meal at home
• Take a daily walk in the neighborhood or at a local park
• Join group activities such as hobby clubs, volunteering opportunities, or faith-based programs
• Participate in community events, classes, or resident-led activities in a senior living community

Even small actions, like a weekly phone call or shared hobby, can have a significant impact on emotional well-being.

How Senior Living Reduces Loneliness & Creates Connection

At Commonwealth Senior Living, connection is not an afterthought. It is the foundation of everything we do. We see every day how senior living reduces loneliness by bringing people together around shared meals, shared interests, and shared purpose.

Our communities are intentionally designed to foster friendship and engagement. Residents share meals together. They participate in fitness classes that strengthen both body and relationships. They gather for book clubs, Signature Programs, educational events, and resident-led activities that celebrate individual passions.

Here, neighbors become friends. Friends become chosen family.

Senior living offers a supportive environment where residents can maintain independence without the responsibilities of managing a home. It opens the door to new interests, new experiences, and renewed confidence. For many, it marks the beginning of a vibrant new chapter filled with joy and daily connection.

If you have noticed signs of loneliness or withdrawal in someone you love, know that you are not alone. For more than 20 years, Commonwealth Senior Living has guided families through this journey with compassion and expertise. Our dedicated teams are committed to helping residents thrive at every stage of life.

Connection changes everything. It restores hope. It strengthens health. It brings meaning to each day.

We invite you to explore the community nearest you and discover how we help seniors live fully, surrounded by people who care.

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Your recent holiday gatherings provided a wonderful opportunity for reconnection and making lasting memories. After being apart for months, you may have also gained valuable insight into how well your aging loved ones independent lifestyle is working day-to-day. Light household clutter is common enough, but how do you know if clutter is starting to indicate a larger problem?

Ensuring Seniors Stay Safe at Home with Regular Check-Ins

One of the best ways to help your loved one remain safe at home is to conduct regular, informal wellness checks. These don't need to be formal inspections—just take note of any major changes in their space, energy level, or hygiene habits. These subtle signs often offer the first indication that support may be needed.

As organizers, we are trained to assess the function in a space. Many people assume that we are primarily looking for aesthetic fixes, however household safety is always our primary objective. We are especially in tune to safety when we provide organizing assessments for seniors, as these clients can have mobility and safety challenges that may amplify minor factors. Decades and decades spent in the same house can lead to a build up of possessions. If clutter and excess is not routinely managed, a home can quickly become dangerous for someone who doesn't see, move, or discern like they used to.

Here are ten of the most common clutter habits and conditions that we flag as safety concerns:

1. Trip and fall hazards: Clutter on the floor and in walkways is not only the most common household safety issue that we see related to clutter, but potentially the most dangerous for a senior because of the health risks from falls. As clutter on the floor that began as a stack against a wall grows, it may begin to creep or fall into pathways. Look for traffic areas where items need to be stepped over or around. Any items stored on stairs are especially dangerous because a stumble on the stairs is likely to be more severe.
2. High stacking on upper shelves: When items like board games, albums, or serving pieces are stacked and above shoulder height, there is a risk of the stack toppling over onto your loved one when disturbed. Deep spaces or areas with poor lighting are particularly dangerous. Many years ago, one of my clients told me a story of attempting to retrieve a serving platter for Thanksgiving from a deep upper cabinet in her kitchen. When she pulled out the platter she wanted, another ceramic platter suddenly came tumbling out and landed "like a guillotine" on her foot. She had to be rushed to the ER on Thanksgiving morning!
3. Obstructed cleaning and dusting: Cluttered surfaces are harder to clean than clear surfaces. In order to wipe down shelves or counters, all items must be removed and then replaced. When the volume of clutter builds up, these routine tasks become overwhelming. Build up of dust and dander can lead to poor indoor air quality. Look for signs of deferred or limited housekeeping- such as crumbs building up around grocery items that are stored on the counter- especially if housekeeping has declined noticeably since your last visit. Also notice whether items are building up in areas that were previously maintained clear.
4. Expired food and medication: When items are not routinely examined for usefulness and purged, the resulting build up can cause confusion. Beyond the inconvenience of searching for misplaced items, ingesting expired food or medication can be dangerous. Look for canned goods and condiments that are stored past their use by date and expired medications that are stored alongside current ones.
5. Overloading electrical sockets or excessive use of extension cords: We typically see this happen when stacked clutter in one part of a room obscures wall outlets. The remaining outlets that are clear become overloaded as they perform double-duty. Sockets taxed beyond their current rating can be a major fire hazard. If too many appliances get power from one socket, it can overheat and catch fire. Extension cords that run along the floor can pose a trip hazard.
6. Covered registers: All heating and air equipment needs to remain clear of debris for proper air flow and air quality. Floor registers, in particular, can easily become blocked by clutter. Check that air filters show signs of being replaced regularly and all registers and vents are free to circulate clean, filtered air.
7. Blocked exits: The space behind doors is a tempting out-of-sight spot for stashing clutter. Ensure that all doors are clear of debris and can swing or slide open to their full range. I've been in homes where all but the main entrance were unintentionally barricaded by the volume of stacked clutter. In case of an emergency, any major pathways or entrances may need to be used by an occupant or first responder. These travel areas must remain clear.
8. Dense stacking of combustible material: Look for stacks of magazines, newspapers, cardboard, or file boxes that could become a fire hazard.
9. Items being stored on cooking surface or inside oven: Once, on a call with a prospect, the caller explained to me that although her sister was alarmed by the clutter in her kitchen, she felt the space was still functional because she had "the one burner" that she kept clear for cooking. Even non-flammable items can become dangerous if left too close to a cooking source. Any heating surface or heating element must remain clear of debris at all times, even when not in use.
10. Duplication/excess: We have a saying in professional organizing that "clutter begets clutter." When basic household items are hard to locate because of clutter, it's often more convenient to run to the store and pick up a replacement instead of searching for the thing you think you have. This problem is very common, even in light to moderately cluttered environments. With aging seniors, large volumes of duplicated purchases may also be an indicator of cognitive decline affecting memory or impulse control.

Creating a Safer Living Environment to Stay Safe at Home

While clutter can often sneak up over time, taking proactive steps like downsizing unused items, installing brighter lighting, and reworking storage systems can make a big difference. Helping your loved one stay safe at home may also include bringing in a professional organizer or occupational therapist to assess high-risk areas.

When you have the opportunity to visit your family members in their daily environment, use these indicators to assess safety conditions. Sudden or noticeable changes in housekeeping habits can often be the initial clues that a house is becoming a burden. If you notice signs that maintaining a household may be starting to overwhelm your parent, it might be the right time to spark a family discussion about safer options for senior living.

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By: Mindy Godding
She is a Certified Professional Organizer and co-founder of Abundance Organizing, an A+ Accredited organizing and senior move management firm with three locations across central and eastern Virginia.

Caring for a loved one with memory loss can be a complex and emotional experience. It’s a journey filled with unique challenges and unexpected moments of joy. Paula Harder, Vice President of Resident Programs and Memory Care at Commonwealth Senior Living, has spent over 35 years helping families navigate their caregiving journeys and has put together her insights in what she calls "The 10 Commandments for Caring for Someone with Memory Loss." These reminders and strategies are designed to help caregivers manage their responsibilities more effectively and create a supportive and loving environment for their loved ones.

1.  Expressions (Behaviors) are Communication

When someone with memory loss shows repetitive behaviors, they’re often trying to communicate a need. For instance, if you see them pacing often, they might just be looking for a restroom.

To address these behaviors, start by identifying any immediate unmet needs such as hunger, pain, thirst, or exhaustion. By attending to these basic needs, you can often alleviate the behaviors causing concern.

Always keep a checklist of common needs and observe any patterns in behavior. This proactive approach can help you meet their needs before they become a problem.

2. Situational Awareness is Your Superhero 6th Sense

Always be mindful of both your environment and the individual you are caring for. This vigilance helps prevent accidents and ensures interactions are as safe as possible.

For example, if you ask your loved one to sit down, make sure a chair is available and close by. Being aware of your surroundings can prevent many potential mishaps.

Always do a quick scan of the room and remove any potential hazards like loose rugs or objects on the floor. Make sure the space is safe before involving your loved one in any activities.

3. Your Loved One is Perfectly Normal, We Are Not

It’s important to remember your loved one is reacting normally to their situation. The responsibility lies with us to adjust our perspectives and approaches accordingly. For example, assisting with personal care tasks like showering can be uncomfortable for anyone, not just those with memory loss.

Try to put yourself in their shoes and imagine how disorienting and stressful these situations can be. This empathy can guide you in making more compassionate and effective caregiving decisions.

Always explain what you are doing and why. This simple step can make a world of difference in how your loved one perceives and reacts to your actions. 

4. We Cause 90% of Expressions in Memory Loss

Caregivers significantly influence the behaviors and reactions of individuals with memory loss. Your actions and interactions can either soothe or enhance their symptoms. For example, a sense of withdrawal in your loved one might stem from no longer engaging in activities they used to enjoy.

Take time to observe what your loved one may be missing and find ways to reintroduce those joys into their life. Keep a journal of your loved one's reactions to different activities and interactions. Use this information to tailor your approach and provide the best possible care. 

5. No Means No, and No Is Not an Option

If your loved one says no to something, respect their decision. Understanding their reasons for resistance can help you find alternative solutions that meet their needs without causing distress.

Instead of saying no outright, offer alternatives that align with their desires. For example, if they want to go swimming in the middle of December, suggest taking a relaxing bath instead. This redirection can meet their needs while keeping them safe.

Always have a list of alternative activities ready. This preparation allows you to quickly and smoothly redirect their attention when necessary.

6. Stop, Challenge, and Choose

When faced with challenging situations, take a moment to stop and reflect on what’s happening. This pause allows you to consider the best way to address the issue at hand.

Ask yourself questions like, "What is my loved one trying to communicate?" and "How can I best support them right now?" This thoughtful approach can lead to better outcomes for both you and your loved one.

Make it a habit to stop, challenge, and choose your responses. This practice will become second nature and can significantly improve your caregiving effectiveness.

7. Mind the “Dementia Box”

The concept of the "dementia box" involves considering both conventional and creative solutions to manage behaviors. While medical interventions are sometimes necessary, exploring a range of options through trial and error can often yield better results.

For example, if your loved one is pacing, instead of immediately resorting to medication, consider if they might need more physical activity or if their environment could be more stimulating.

Keep an open mind and be willing to experiment with different approaches. Flexibility and creativity are your best tools in memory care.

8. One Face, One Voice

When interacting with someone with memory loss, it’s crucial to simplify communication. Ensure only one person is speaking and engaging with them at a time. This focus helps reduce confusion and makes it easier for them to understand and respond.

If you need assistance, have the second person stand behind you. This way, your loved one only sees one face and hears one voice, making the interaction smoother.

Always speak clearly and use simple language. These small adjustments can significantly improve communication and reduce stress for your loved one.

9. If You've Met One Person with Memory Loss, You've Met One Person with Memory Loss

There is no one-size-fits-all solution in memory care. Each person is unique, and what works for one individual may not work for another. Personalizing your approach is key to effective caregiving. Take time to learn about your loved one’s history, preferences, and triggers. This knowledge will guide you in providing tailored care that truly meets their needs. 

When advising other caregivers, emphasize the importance of individual responses and personalized care plans.

10. Attitude and Language Are Everything

Your attitude and language play a significant role in how your loved one responds to you. Before interacting with them, take a moment to check in with your own emotions. A calm and positive demeanor can make a world of difference.

Use clear, direct, and positive language. For example, instead of saying, "Don’t do that," try saying, "Let's do this instead." This approach helps keep interactions positive and constructive.

Practice mindfulness and take breaks when needed. Your emotional well-being directly impacts your ability to provide compassionate care.

Caring for a loved one with memory loss can be a challenging yet deeply rewarding experience. By following these 10 Commandments for Memory Care, you can create a supportive, compassionate, and effective caregiving environment. Remember, each day is a new opportunity to connect, understand, and love. 

If you’re looking for additional caregiving support, we’d love for you to join our Virtual Caregiver Support Group. We meet via Zoom every third Monday of the month at noon, where Paula Harder leads engaging discussions on how to assist our loved ones who need memory care support.

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When a parent, partner, or loved one is diagnosed with dementia, it's important to find a physician who provides appropriate treatment recommendations and understands the importance of supporting both you as the caregiver and the person living with dementia. Our Director of Clinical Services, Archie McAlexander, suggests following "first do no harm" and "start low, go slow" for families who are seeking treatment options.

Here is a list of the most commonly prescribed medications used when treating dementia and its associated behaviors. This is not an all-inclusive list.

Amyloid-Targeting:
Leqembi (lecanemab) - infusion that is given over 1 hour every 2 weeks.

• Thought to work by targeting harmful amyloid proteins in the brain, commonly seen in Alzheimer's dementia, and by reducing any existing brain plaque.
• One of the newest medications that have been approved by the FDA in the treatment of certain types of Alzheimer's dementia which include mild cognitive impairment due to Alzheimer's disease or other forms of dementia.
• Only utilized after further testing reveals amyloid brain plaque. Those tests include cerebrospinal fluid (CSF) test, amyloid positron emission tomography (PET) scan (a PET scan produces detailed 3-D images of the inside of the body, in this case, the brain), or completing a blood-based biomarker test. Medication will not be recommended until one of these 3 tests is completed.

Cholinesterase Inhibitors:
These medications support communication between nerve cells in the brain. With Alzheimer's, communication between brain cells is slow, meaning the synapses in our brain are not appropriately "firing," which causes a slowing in processing information. When an individual first begins to take these medications, there is potential to see an overall increase in cognitive function. These medications are prescribed to assist in maintaining certain aspects of what can be lost with dementia. One misconception about these medications is that once they "stop working" they should be discontinued. If that is something being discussed with you as the caregiver, please ensure you are asking more questions to understand the physician's reasoning as there is documented proof that when these medications are stopped, significant, rapid decline can occur.

The medications within this group include:

• Aricept (Donepezil): tablet
• Exelon (Rivastigmine): tablet or patch
• Razadyne (Galamantine): tablets

Glutamate Regulators:
This medication is used to assist the brain in processing information and maintaining the ability to perform simple tasks. It can be used alone or in combination with Aricept, Exelon, or Razadyne. It is typically added to the current treatment regimen when an individual is experiencing symptoms of moderate to severe dementia. A similar misconception with this medication type, as with the cholinesterase inhibitor, is if it "stops working" it should be discontinued. Again, if that is something being discussed with you, as the caregiver, please ensure you are asking more questions to understand the physician's reasoning as there is documented proof that when these medications are stopped, a significant, rapid decline can occur.

The medication within this group is: Namenda (Memantine)

Cholinesterase Inhibitor + Glutamate Regulator:
Due to the noted success of combo therapy in the treatment of dementia, the FDA approved the combo medication, Namzaric, which is a combination of Donepezil and Memantine. This medication is an extended-release formulation meaning it is utilized once daily in the treatment of moderate to severe dementia.

Treating Non-Cognitive Symptoms in Dementia:
Dementia can affect more than just your memory or thinking. A person living with dementia may be impacted by behavioral and psychological symptoms are known to accompany dementia which include, but are not limited to, insomnia (sleep disturbance), agitation, hallucinations, and delusions. While there are medications that can assist in treating non-cognitive symptoms, it is important as the caregiver, we try to understand the potential cause of the symptom or the behavioral expression and attempt to address it prior to adding medications.

Some medications you may see utilized to assist in treating non-cognitive symptoms have not received FDA approval for those living with dementia but were observed during studies to benefit those experiencing similar symptoms. These medications are required to carry a safety warning that the medication has been associated with an increased risk of death in older adults with dementia-related psychosis. The "off-label" medications do offer benefits, but it's important that the benefits and risks are discussed prior to being prescribed.

The only 2 medications that have full FDA approval for use in those living with dementia experiencing specific non-cognitive symptoms include:

1. Belsomra - used to treat insomnia/sleep disturbances.
2. Rexulti - used in treatment of agitation and aggression (known to assist in mood/emotion stabilization)

The following medications are used "off-label" for treatment of non-cognitive symptoms associated with dementia:

• Olanzapine (Abilify): antipsychotic medication, treats behavioral expressions, especially agitation and aggression.
• Quetiapine (Seroquel): antipsychotic medication, treats behavioral expressions, especially agitation and aggression.
• Risperidone (Risperidal): antipsychotic medication, treats behavioral expressions, especially agitation and aggression.
• Lorazepam (Ativan): antianxiety medication, treats anxiety and restlessness.
• Alprazolam (Xanax): antianxiety medication, treats anxiety and restlessness.
• Valproic Acid (Depakote): treats behavioral expressions, especially agitation and aggression.
• Sertraline (Zoloft): antidepressant medication, can help with treating behavioral expressions (like agitation and aggression) or assist in stabilizing a person's mood /emotions.
• Escitalopram (Lexapro): antidepressant medication, can help with treating behavioral expressions (like agitation and aggression) or assist in stabilizing a person's mood /emotions.
• Duloxetine (Cymbalta): antidepressant medication, can help with treating behavioral expressions (like agitation and aggression) or assist in stabilizing a person's mood /emotions.
• Citalopram (Celexa): antidepressant medication, can help with treating behavioral expressions (like agitation and aggression) or assist in stabilizing a person's mood /emotions.
• Trazadone: antidepressant medication, used to assist in the treatment of behavioral expressions and can be used to assist in treating sleep disturbances (as it does assist in shutting down the brain, which allows a resident to sleep.)
• Mirtazapine (Remeron): antidepressant medication, utilized for triple effects, treats behavioral expressions, assists in treating sleep disturbances, and can be utilized to assist as an appetite stimulant (as one of the side effects is the medication can help you feel hungrier, which is beneficial for a person living with dementia whose appetite begins to decrease.)
• Melatonin: treats insomnia/sleep disturbances, naturally produced within our body but can be taken as a supplement to assist in falling/staying asleep. Melatonin is not recommended by most neurologists for those living with dementia due to significant side effects of increased somnolence (wanting to sleep), mood changes, and having the opposite effect (depending on how the medicine is broken down)

At Commonwealth Senior Living, our Resident Care Directors complete comprehensive assessments to determine the best options to provide personalized support. As a reminder, don't be afraid to ask questions and advocate for what is best for you or your loved one.

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By Archie McAlexander
Director of Clinical Services

This October, we are once again celebrating Long-Term Care Planning Month! One of the main goals of the month is to encourage individuals to start thinking about their long-term plans and take action. During this month, various resources and tools are available to help seniors plan and make informed decisions. By preparing in advance, seniors can feel more in control of their future and make arrangements that align with their personal preferences.

What is long-term care?

Long-term care includes personal, social, and medical services and support. It aims to help people live as independently as possible when they can no longer perform activities of daily living such as cooking, cleaning, or managing finances.

Why do I need to plan for long-term care? 

Oftentimes seniors find themselves blindsided by the need for additional care. Planning ahead of time will ensure you are able to find a senior living community that meets your needs and preferences. It's never too late to start planning, and doing so eases the burden on our loved ones.

What are some long-term care planning options?

There are several ways seniors can finance long-term care. Families who qualify can take advantage of the U.S. Department of Veterans' Aid and Attendance Program, explore Long-Term Care Insurance policies, and more. To ensure you understand all your available options, we recommend discussing plans with experienced professionals, like our partners at ElderLife Financial.

Long-Term Planning Month serves as a reminder for seniors to take proactive steps toward securing a comfortable and meaningful future. It is important for seniors to use the resources and tools available during this month to make informed decisions that align with their personal goals and wishes. By doing so, they can have peace of mind knowing that their long-term plans are in place and their loved ones are aware of their wishes.

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Making the decision to transition a loved one with memory loss to a senior living community can bring both relief and anxiety. Questions may arise like "What should I bring?" "Who will be there to welcome us?" "Will my father be unhappy?" "Will my wife long to go back home with me?" At Commonwealth Senior Living, we strive to make the first day in our Sweet Memories Memory neighborhood as seamless as possible. We provide answers well in advance through our Sweet Beginnings Family Orientation, but we are here to shed light on the first 24 hours in a Memory Care neighborhood to ease any of your concerns.

First, keep in mind this experience will evoke emotions. Just like moving to a new home, even if you felt happy and excited, you might have also felt a sense of attachment to the place you left behind and the memories you created there. The first 24 hours of a transition to a Memory Care neighborhood may bring similar feelings. However, there is also room for joy in this experience. Your loved one has found a place where they can connect with people who share common interests and face similar challenges. This can provide a sense of reassurance for someone living with memory loss.

On the first day, you can expect to receive a wealth of new information, some of which may be unfamiliar or forgotten. It is highly recommended to come prepared with any lingering questions you may have. Consider taking notes or even recording the information provided to you, as it can be more challenging to retain new information on a day filled with emotional challenges.

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Before your loved one arrives at the community, consider contacting the resident programs department to create a personalized plan for their first day. Engaging in enjoyable activities with new friends and neighbors may help them feel more at ease, rather than being directly involved in the physical process of moving their belongings.

Similar to any moving day, there will be items to organize and arrange. You may also inquire about enjoying a meal with your loved one while you are moving into the community. It's amazing how quickly a meal can get missed when you are busy!

During your loved ones first day, expect visits from individuals representing different departments. They will ask questions about their preferences, favorite foods, and whether you have brought any medications or items that need to be secured. These routine assessments aim to ensure your loved one feels comfortable, safe, and at home.

Allocate some time to relax and spend quality moments with your loved one once all the hard work is completed. Simply cherish each others company. Take a leisurely stroll and unwind in the serene outdoor courtyard or explore the neighborhood to become acquainted with the surroundings. Seniors living with memory loss often rely on their surroundings for cues. By maintaining a positive and supportive attitude, you can have a significant impact on their own sense of calmness and positivity.

If youre short on time for your visit, thats alright! Ask associates if they are available to engage with your loved one while you plan to leave the community. Its often best to avoid making a big fuss about your departure, as this can cause more distress for someone with memory loss. Instead, a simple hug and a walk to an activity or meal, or to the nearest associate who can assist them can provide a low-key distraction while you leave for the day. Once youre gone, let the community take over. Make sure to plan something nice for yourself, as its likely been a long day.

Dont be surprised if your loved one has an emotional first day. Rest assured, our associates are skilled at providing the necessary support and guidance to help them adjust and feel cared for during this difficult transition. They may reach out to you, especially if they still have a cell phone, expressing feelings of upset, anger, frustration, or sadness. It is important to remember these emotions are a natural part of the process, even though they may be painful. With time, these emotions will gradually subside. Any guilt or anger directed towards you is not a reflection of you personally. Rather, it is a response to the unfamiliarity of their new situation.

Despite all the possibilities mentioned, it is also likely your loved one will experience immediate happiness and contentment. They may love the new view from their windows, eagerly look forward to meeting new people, and engage in activities every day, all without the burden of home maintenance, meal planning, and other daily responsibilities.

As time passes, stay involved in your loved ones care. Visit regularly, participate in activities together, and communicate with associates about any concerns or suggestions you may have. Our goal is to create a warm and welcoming community for all our residents. Your involvement will not only benefit your loved one but also contribute to our collective efforts toward providing exceptional care.

If you are considering a move to a Commonwealth Senior Living Sweet Memories neighborhood for someone you love, please ask us about the Sweet Beginnings Family Orientation and Handbook. This will answer many of the questions you may have and help you get started on the right foot from the very first day.

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By Paula Harder
Vice President of Resident Programs

What makes a living space senior-friendly? Safety and accessibility are among the top considerations when updating a living space for yourself or an aging loved one. It is also important to think about your comfort and convenience. This process may include tasks such as removing tripping hazards, reorganizing clutter, and even budgeting for a few home improvement projects.

Safety Upgrades

Home safety upgrades are important because they can prevent potential injuries and promote a more independent lifestyle. Our recommended updates are simple and inexpensive, making them feasible for most seniors to manage on their own.

One suggestion from Brent Holbert, Commonwealth Senior Living's Vice President of Construction and Maintenance, is to hang grab bars on walls around your home, especially in spaces like the kitchen and bathrooms.

Another is to place non-slip mats in bathrooms and showers for additional safety. Be sure to secure them to the floor with double-sided tape to avoid slipping.

You'll also want to make sure all areas of your home are well-lit. Adequate lighting in spaces like stairs, hallways, and outdoor paths is a must, especially for those with vision loss.

Additionally, ensure any electrical cords are tucked away out of reach, and place your most used items at an easy-to-reach height. This prevents seniors from reaching too high or too low.

Accessibility Upgrades

Similar to safety considerations, accessibility upgrades can help seniors feel more confident about navigating their homes independently. These upgrades tend to be more unique to an individual's current situation, or future needs.

Traditional rounded doorknobs can be difficult for seniors to use at home because of their small size and smooth surfaces. Brent recommends replacing them with lever-style handles which are easier to grasp and turn.  This upgrade is especially helpful for seniors with arthritis or limited hand strength.

If possible, consider widening doorways to accommodate assistive devices like wheelchairs or walkers. This can help those with mobility challenges move around your home more easily.

Enhance bathroom safety by installing a step-in shower. Although this is a more time-consuming and expensive investment, it can eliminate the need to step over a high barrier and help prevent falls.

These upgrades may extend the time you or your loved one can stay in the home where so many precious memories have been made, but sometimes safety concerns mean staying at home is no longer an option. With over 20 years of service to families in search of senior living options, Commonwealth Senior Living is committed to providing personalized solutions that will give you peace of mind. Our goal is to improve the lives of seniors, their families, and each other. This starts with giving families as much information as possible to assist in making the right choices for them. That's why we partnered with the decision-making experts at Roobrik to offer an anonymous online assessment for families. This simple, conversational assessment asks questions covering the current situation, concerns, care needs, and what kinds of things are important. It takes just 4-5 minutes and provides value insights outlining potential needs and support options that may be appropriate.

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Paula Harder, Vice President of Resident Programs, gave a presentation to the congregation of First United Methodist Church in Richlands about the signs and symptoms of Alzheimers disease. Jim Talbert from the Richlands News-Press attended the presentation and wrote a nice article about his experience.

"Everybody's experience is different was the message Paula Harder presented at a seminar on recognizing the signs of Alzheimer's April 19. Harder said dementia is only genetic when it is the early onset type. She said the brain becomes blocked in the same way cars would be blocked if tunnels collapsed. Daily habits and work life change when the disease first starts. Alzheimer's is the most common form of dementia which is not a disease but a word that covers all symptoms. "Different types of dementia require different types of treatment,' she said." Read his full article here.

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In the film we watch as his wife, Kim Campbell redirects him when he gets frustrated. His adult children play music with him and prompt him with lyrics when he forgets. The documentary shows both a glimpse into the outstanding talent of this American icon as well as the very familiar love and struggles that all of our families face. It is hard to see a loved one changing before you.

Commonwealth Senior Living is privileged to work with PCH Films to screen this poignant documentary across 22 locations in Virginia. We believe that sharing Mr. Campbell's story and the story of his family will help chip away at the taboo of talking about of Alzheimer's disease. Each of our screenings will be followed by question and answer sessions with our memory care experts. Please join us for this powerful, cinematic experience. Admission is free, but seating is limited. Please call to reserve your space. Screening details are below:

Have you found yourself wondering if your parents are safe living at home? It may be time to consider additional support. Are they able to keep up with the house? Or are you concerned about a change in their weight or appearance? Have they lost interest in things they once enjoyed? These are all reasons to pause and reflect, as they may be signs your loved one is no longer safe, or happy, living at home. 

A visit with your parents after several months away can give you a snapshot of how well they are able to function while living independently. If you notice signs that maintaining a household may be starting to overwhelm them, it might be the right time to spark a family discussion about safer options. 

In our upcoming free presentation, you'll learn the signs for concern and what support options are available to you.

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We understand starting the conversation about adding support may be intimidating, but we want you to know you are not alone. Remember that you have an army of supporters and people like us who are available to assist you on your journey. Don't get us wrong, it will not be easy. You may feel guilty over wanting to move your loved one from the home they love and at the same time feel fearful about what may happen to them if you don't. However, going about this conversation in the right way will ensure your loved one will live safely, have a higher quality of life, and you will have peace of mind knowing you did the right thing. 

In our free upcoming presentation, we'll discuss things to consider during this step, how to frame the conversation, manage expectations, and honor your loved one's feelings to ensure the best outcome for your family.  

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While we now have the science to back it up, at Commonwealth Senior Living, we have known for a long time that music can be transformative for a person with Alzheimer's or dementia.  That's why we love our Sweet Melodies program, which is one of our signature programs in which our Program Directors get to know what songs trigger happy memories or positive response from our Sweet Memories residents.  After the six-week long process, each resident has a personalized playlist with songs that create a strong, positive emotional response. This is a great resource for both families and our team to connect to each resident on a personal level. For those who have lost verbal skills, Sweet Melodies ignites a spark within the resident and resonates deeply within them.  For more information about our Sweet Melodies program, visit one of our communities or email us at AskTheExperts@CommonwealthSL.com.

*Berglund, Christopher. "Why Do the Songs from Your Past Evoke Such Vivid Memories?" Psychology Today, Sussex Publishers, 11 Dec. 2013.

Love may look and feel a bit different for those with loved ones struggling with dementia and Alzheimer's disease. Everyone shows their love in different ways. One of our family members began writing about his wife's journey with Alzheimer's a few years ago where he imagines the world through her eyes. He has been gracious enough to share his writing with us and allow us to share. He has a unique insight into what she's experiencing and how he's able to bring her joy.

"Chocolate covered cherries, with the exception of Outer Banks Fudge, has always been my favorite candy. I often found myself checking the store shelves in October and November until the candy was available at the store. Jim has kept some here at Commonwealth for me.

This morning, he came and fed me breakfast like normal. Then we spent about an hour in the serenity room. He held me the whole time. Jim walked with me back to the common area next to the dining room to find me a comfortable seat for the morning. After I sat down, Jim went to my room and came back with some chocolate cherries for me.

As I was eating the first one, Hannah, the Activities Director, walked in the room and looked at me with a surprised look on her face and asked with an astonished tone, 'Patricia, are you eating chocolate in the morning?' I just smiled at her and nodded yes as Jim gave me a second piece of candy. By now Hannah was thoroughly entertained by my eating candy. Hannah followed up her first question with, 'Has Jim always fed you chocolate in the morning?' This time I answered, 'No.'

The next question was 'When did you train him to do that?' I just started laughing. Hannah then came to my chair laughing with me and giving me a hug. Then she asked, 'Do you think I should train my boyfriend to give me chocolate in the morning?' and 'Could you help me with that?' By now all three of us were laughing together. I enjoy treats like chocolate covered cherries. I also enjoy laughing. I don't think I laugh enough."

Being able to create a moment like this is so wonderful. Jim knows her love for candy and Hannah knows how to make her giggle. These moments are created by families working together with our team to help us created a person-centered program. Knowing that she loves these candies gives us the opportunity to bring her joy is she's having a hard day.

What is a Personalized Care Plan?

Every person is unique. This means every person struggling with dementia has a different experience as well, and different types of dementia require different types of care. Our Sweet Memories program provides person-centered care to ensure each resident enjoys the most appropriate support possible. It all begins with their life story. By first building a sound relationship with our resident, our associates really get to know each person in our care. We talk with residents and their families and earn each residents life story. We consider their medical, mental, emotional, spiritual, and intellectual needs, as well as their habits and preferences. With this knowledge in our hearts, we form friendships and provide truly personalized care and attention.

Let Us Become the Caregivers

While you're taking care of your loved one, it's important to take care of yourself too. Take time for yourself to do the things you enjoy like reading, writing in a journal, or gardening. Having our team handle logistics of daily life like medication management and meal times makes it possible to focus on being a husbands, wives, sons, and daughters instead of caregivers.

To join a support group near you, designed to foster support, assistance, and education to help manage the stresses associated with being a caregiver, reach out to the community nearest you today.

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Were honored to announce that memorycare.com named our very own Commonwealth Senior Living at Leigh Hall one of the best Memory Care Communities in Norfolk for 2021.

CSL Leigh Hall offers cozy and comfortable private suites and companion suites that open out to secure, outdoor gardens and courtyards. Its award-winning Sweet Memories program is designed to meet the unique care needs of residents with Alzheimer's, dementia and other types of memory impairments. A team of 24-hour care staff helps seniors get dressed, take a bath or enjoy a nutritious meal in the family-style dining area. The Sweet Memories program also rekindles the memories of loved ones who have lost their verbal skills by playing familiar genres of music that family members have chosen. Residents' cognitive and physical skills are improved through various types of scheduled activities such as exercise classes, trivia games, and walking clubs. Leigh Hall's SMILE program allows seniors and their families to stay connected by sharing photos and memorable stories every day.

Our residents say associates are attentive to needs and keep families informed. One reviewer wrote, "One of the best places I found. It is Clean, sunny everyone there is nice and helpful to your needs with your loved one. The staff is wonderful they keep you inform on what you need to know."

The dedicated team provides support and assistance from helping with activities of daily living, such as getting dressed, taking a bath, or enjoying a healthy meal, to simply sharing a smile. Residents enjoy privacy, dignity, and maintenance-free living whether its in their independent living villas, assisted living suites, or our award-winning Sweet Memories Neighborhood.

Learn more about CSL at Leigh Hall here.

Were honored to announce that memorycare.com named our very own Commonwealth Senior Living at Hampton one of the best Memory Care Communities in Hampton.

At Commonwealth Senior Living at Hampton, residents living with Alzheimer's and related dementias receive award-winning care through the Sweet Memories program, which tailors services around their distinct needs. Program components include guiding seniors through the move-in process, learning their life stories to understand their mental, emotional and intellectual needs, and crafting resident-centered plans to address personal habits and preferences. The specially trained team is certified in virtual dementia tour training, so they know how to address the cognitive challenges facing their residents. Available 24/7, caregivers help with the activities of daily living and encourage involvement in daily programs including Expressions, which uses arts to stimulate memories; Special Touch, a multisensory program that helps reinforce the natural circadian rhythm; and Sweet Melodies, which uses nostalgic music to stir happy memories. Smile Technology keeps residents and loved ones connected.

Our residents love the caring team, meals, and activities. One reviewer says, "Exceptional, professional, caring and positive staff. I never worry about the quality of care my Dad receives. Excellent meals and very engaging activities program. I can finally sleep at night because i am not worried about my Dad. I highly recommend this community."

Learn more about CSL at Hampton here.

Were honored to announce that memorycare.com named our very own Commonwealth Senior Living at Front Royal one of the best Memory Care Communities in Front Royal and Warrenton, Virginia.

Nestled in the foothills of the Blue Ridge Mountains near the South Fork Shenandoah River, Shenandoah Senior Living's Cherish memory care program provides care for seniors with Alzheimer's, dementia and other forms of memory loss. Professional staff is available around the clock to assist residents with their daily personal needs. Numerous life-enriching activities, such as reading groups, knitting and arts and crafts, keep seniors engaged. Morning walks and gardening allow residents to enjoy the fresh air, or they can admire the lush landscaping from two indoor sunrooms. The community arranges parties, events and live entertainment for fun and social engagement. Residents are regularly invited to go on scenic drives and group outings to an array of attractions, parks and museums.

The communitys reviews often praise the caring staff, beautiful community and stunning views, with one reviewer saying, "This place is lovely. It is clean and homey. The view from the dining room is spectacular! The staff is kind and helpful."

Learn more about CSL at Front Royal here.

Were honored to announce that memorycare.com named our very own Commonwealth Senior Living at Willow Grove one of the best Memory Care Communities in Doylestown and Philadelphia, Pennsylvania.

Located just off Highway 276 and about 40 minutes north of Philadelphia, Commonwealth Senior Living at Willow Grove is just minutes away from the hospitals, parks and shopping centers of Willow Grove. This community offers its memory care residents a specially designed care program known as Sweet Memories. Caregivers learn about the habits, preferences and emotional needs of each memory care resident by interviewing family members, after which a personal care plan is developed based on the knowledge gathered in the interviews. The care team captures the daily life of each memory care resident in photos and shares them with family members. The campus comes with a wide variety of amenities, such as a full-service hair salon and barbershop, a media library, a dining room, a sunroom, and outdoor courtyards with lakeside walking paths.

Family members love the team here. One son writes, "My mom has been here for over a year. She has been genuinely happy. The staff knows her by name and always seems to know where she is when I pop in. I have been there all hours of the day and have never seen any challenges."

Learn more about CSL at Willow Grove here.

Dementia is an overall term covering a wide range of medical conditions including Alzheimer's disease which accounts for almost 80% of diagnoses. These conditions are caused by abnormal brain changes which lead to a decline in cognitive abilities and affect behaviors and feelings. Here are a few important things to know. 

• The Alzheimer's Association says there are three stages of progression: Early-stage, middle-stage, and late-stage. In the first stage, individuals have difficulties coming up with the right word or name, performing tasks in social settings, or with planning and organizing. In the second stage, individuals may become forgetful of events, feel moody or withdrawn, or experience large changes in sleeping patterns. During late-stage, individuals may lose awareness of recent experience or their surroundings, have difficulty communicating, and become vulnerable to infections like pneumonia. 
• There are over 6 million Americans living with Alzheimer's and other dementias and 55 million people worldwide. 
• In 2020, COVID-19 contributed to a 17% increase in deaths related to Alzheimer's disease and other dementias. 
• Over 11 million Americans provide unpaid care for people with Alzheimer's or other dementias. 

At Commonwealth Senior Living, we understand memory care is a journey for the entire family and are committed to providing expert training for not only our own team, but also comprehensive support to the families who entrust us with the care of their loved one. Our Sweet Memories program is specifically designed to deliver the highest quality of care, support, and engagement to our residents living with Alzheimer's disease and other forms of dementia. Part of that support is through ongoing education on what your loved one is experiencing daily.  

On the Longest Day, we strive to show those battling Alzheimer's or other dementias and their loved ones that they are not alone. We are grateful to be a part of a team that supports each of these individuals in any way possible. On this day, the Alzheimer's Association encourages individuals to choose an activity they are passionate about to create a fundraiser for the cause we are all mutually passionate about. One of the ways we have shown our passion on the Longest Day is through the Walk to End Alzheimer's. Here are a few highlights:

If you'd like to explore a career in senior living and support this cause daily, we'd love to hear from you. View our available career opportunities today.

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Commonwealth Memory Care at Chesapeake was named Best Memory Care in Norfolk and Hampton, Virginia.

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Commonwealth Senior Living at Cedar Manor was named Best Memory Care in Norfolk, Virginia.

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Commonwealth Senior Living at Front Royal was named Best Memory Care in Warrenton, Front Royal, and Winchester, Virginia.

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Commonwealth Senior Living at Hagerstown was named Best Memory Care in Chambersburg, Pennsylvania.

Commonwealth Senior Living at Hampton was named Best Memory Care in Hampton, Virginia again this year.

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